Meng Li said some more words to coax Yue Xiaowei, and then drove away the unhappiness in Yue Xiaowei's heart.
Then he took Yue Xiaowei to play ball for a while. This time Meng Li didn't abuse Yue Xiaowei so hard.
If you want Yue Xiaowei to have a sense of accomplishment, you can't keep undermining other people's self-confidence.
Slowly let Yue Xiaowei know the beauty and happiness of family life, so that he will not be so nostalgic about the outside world.
In fact, a child who is only fourteen years old has not yet fully formed his outlook on life, so he is very malleable at this time.
Of course, it depends on who guides the child.
In the plot, Yue Xiaowei became like that because he was guided by outsiders.
After playing badminton, Meng Li tricked Yue Xiaowei into doing his homework.
Yue Xiaowei was originally reluctant, but seeing Meng Li's eager eyes, Yue Xiaowei felt that doing homework was not too tiring.
I was jumping around playing ball just now, so I might as well sit down and rest for a while.
The two discussed the topic together, and Meng Li tried his best to give Yue Xiaowei a positive look.
Children like Yue Xiaowei are actually problem children in school, and the teachers will definitely not like them.
If she were a teacher, she wouldn't like it either. She doesn't abide by the rules and regulations all day long, and she also likes to form a team to play against the teacher.
Good students will not like Yue Xiaowei, because Yue Xiaowei was a bad student in his school days.
The main people in Yue Xiaowei's current life circle are classmates, teachers, and parents.
It is normal not to receive affirmation from classmates and teachers, so these praises and affirmations should be given by parents.
People who receive more praise and affirmation will become more confident.
You will also gradually become interested in things that are praised.
In the days that followed, Yue Xiaowei, who was wearing school uniform, was always ridiculed by his buddies, who looked at Yue Xiaowei like a traitor.
Yue Xiaowei felt miserable because his mother had put away all the clothes at home, and he had nothing else to wear without his school uniform.
And everything happens for a reason, if his mother puts away his clothes for no reason, he can still make a scene.
Now that the situation is in trouble, Yue Xiaowei has nothing to do.
The teacher saw Yue Xiaowei wearing his school uniform obediently and thought that Yue Xiaowei wanted to change his past and become a good student.
This is equivalent to the prodigal son turning back. He actually praised Yue Xiaowei by name in front of the whole class.
School uniforms are inspected frequently, and they often have to go to the teacher's office and get scolded. When the teacher sees them, he thinks of Yue Xiaowei, who used to be with them.
If we can't compare with those who are far away, then we will compare with those who are close.
Look at Yue Xiaowei, he wears school uniform.
How nice people are now.
I don't ask you to get good grades immediately, but your most basic behavior must be standardized and you must abide by the school's regulations.
Hope this will stimulate these rebellious students.
Well, those boys initially felt that Yue Xiaowei was the traitor among them and the first to surrender.
Now I still feel that Yue Xiaowei is so despicable.
Even the teacher praised him.
Did you do it deliberately to please the teacher
After leaving school, Yue Xiaowei was so out of place walking with them, and no one was hanging around with him.
Yue Xiaowei was thin-skinned and embarrassed to follow them all the time.
I can only go home obediently every day.
For several days in a row, Yue Xiaowei actually felt that it would be good to go home early every day, go home to eat, and then go out to do some exercise after eating, and then do the questions.
Several times he got a few questions right, and his mother was very happy to praise him.
If he did something wrong, his mother would not roar like a lion in the east of the river like before.
Anyway, Yue Xiaowei was not under much pressure.
Yue Xiaowei doesn't feel bored or depressed on days like this.
Even during class, Yue Xiaowei was willing to listen carefully for a while.
After listening to the class, you will be able to do the questions.
This is how Yue Xiaowei understands it.
He himself didn't realize that doing the questions could already bring him a sense of accomplishment.
But when Yue Xiaowei wore the school uniform for the second week, those people couldn't bear it anymore. They had a common eldest brother outside.
They all joined a so-called gang. The fact that Yue Xiaowei was no longer on the same front as them made them very angry. Then a week passed and Yue Xiaowei showed no sign of correction.
They decided to go to their eldest brother to complain.
Then Yue Xiaowei was dragged into a heart-to-heart talk by the so-called eldest brother.
The eldest brother lied for a while, which was said to be serious and heartbreaking. In the end, Yue Xiaowei actually felt that what he did was not very authentic.
From a moral perspective, he was the first to appear out of place.
This estrangement seems to have arisen because of him. If he didn't leave first every day, didn't take the initiative to participate in any activities, and didn't share weal and woe, then they would still be as good as before.
At this time, Yue Xiaowei's will was still very weak and he was easily influenced by others.
On the other hand, it is because Yue Xiaowei admires this 'big brother' and feels that he is very popular outside, so what he says should make sense.
Then Yue Xiaowei, who had been obedient for a few days, came home and asked Meng Li for some clothes.
Meng Li was picking shrimp threads with a toothpick. Hearing this, he looked at Yue Xiaowei:
"Why do you think you need clothes again?"
Yue Xiaowei looked at Meng Li's disappointed eyes, clenched his fists in his school uniform, and said dullly:
"You don't have to worry about it."
Meng Li said:
"Have you forgotten the bet between us?"
Yue Xiaowei stared at Meng Li, pursed his lips into a straight line, and said nothing.
But his eyes were firm, without any flinching, and his desire was very persistent.
Meng Li withdrew his gaze, lowered his head and continued picking shrimp lines, saying:
"If you can't keep your word, then not only will I look down on you, but others will look down on you as well."
Yue Xiaowei gritted his teeth and said with all his heart:
"I don't need anyone to look up to me."
Meng Li said meaningfully.
said:
"If my guess is correct, your classmates should have asked you not to wear the school uniform."
"You were ostracized by them, right?"
"Son, I respect your right to make friends and don't interfere with your relationship. I respect you and your classmates."
"Perhaps you regard them as brothers in your heart. I didn't question your relationship before, but now I wonder if they really regard you as brothers?"
Yue Xiaowei's heart trembled. Although he didn't understand why his mother knew everything about him, he still said:
"Of course we are good brothers."
Meng Li looked sideways at Yue Xiaowei and said:
"A true brother, at the very least, should respect your choice and not want you to be someone who goes back on your word."
"And, good brothers and good friends, the best state should be to grow and make progress together."
Yue Xiaowei pursed his lips tightly and stood there in a daze, watching Meng Li talk about him in an understated manner. His voice was soft and there was no hysteria, but it put a stone on his heart for no reason. My heart is heavy and sour.
Viewed from the side, the fine lines at the corners of her eyes are already obvious.
This period of time made him think she was very young.