Raising Babies in the 70s

Chapter 30: dislike

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Commissar Liu was in a panic all day, and his mind was frequently distracted at work. When he returned home, he secretly asked the little boy Liu Yue to inquire about the situation, "How is your mother?"

Liu Yue said happily: "Okay!"

Commissar Liu asked again, "Did she say anything about me?"

"No." Liu Yue denied it.

Commissar Liu: "..."

"Dad, I'm going to feed the chickens, don't bother me!" Liu Yue was not interested in talking to his father, and happily went to his newly built small chicken coop to watch the chickens.

He also wants to draw a chicken observation diary and show it to Aunt Qin.

No matter how much you kiss your father, there is no chicken kiss.

In the past, his little daughter-in-law would lazily take the child at home every day. When she came home, the mother and son were still warm and thoughtful to him. Two days before the house split, the little daughter-in-law even tried to please him.

Only at this time, the little daughter-in-law will work hard for a few days, and let Liu Kai live a few days of comfort and satisfaction.

Of course, after a few days, she would go back to her old ways.

Commissar Liu is also used to it, although he said too much before, saying that if she doesn't change, she will definitely divorce this time... He admitted that he said too much that day, but it was not his intention.

As long as the little daughter-in-law admits her mistake, things will turn around.

Who knew things would not turn over so easily.

It's only been a few days now, and the mother and son have been ignoring him, which has never happened before.

Commissar Liu also discovered that the young daughter-in-law secretly learned to read and write behind his back, and heard her muttering: "A tiger on the mountain, a deer in the forest, and a pig by the roadside..."

While reading, I was still writing and drawing in the palm of my hand.

In the past, Political Commissar Liu had personally taught his wife how to read, but she was so stupid that she fished for three days and posted on the net for two days. There is a way.

Now she actually studies in private

Is this the sun coming out from the west

"Xiaohua, you want to learn to read again, let me teach you."

Comrade Li Qinghua, like her son, flatly rejected the man's words, "I don't want you to teach, you can't teach well."

Commissar Liu's eyes widened: "What did you say?"

—How dare she despise him? ! !

Li Qinghua disliked him very much, and never wanted Political Commissar Liu to teach her to read again. When she first moved to the family home, although she made a lot of jokes, Li Qinghua also studied humbly and did not want to be an illiterate woman who could not read.

However, her memory is not good. When her husband taught her, it was like teaching a stupid cow. After a while, he said, "Why did you forget?", "What did you teach you last time, and you don't remember?" "No I've seen you so stupid." "Looks like I was teaching for nothing yesterday"...

As time passed, Li Qinghua also felt that she was really not good enough to study and would be illiterate for the rest of her life, so she simply gave up.

When I was with Xiao Qin a few days ago, Xiao Qin said that she was going to be an announcer, read tongue twisters every day, told stories to the children, and read prose aloud... Li Qinghua listened to her telling stories to her son, and she was also fascinated by it. Xiao Qin's voice is really nice.

She also taught the three children to read and write. Li Qinghua listened to it and found that she seemed to remember a lot.

So she asked Xiao Qin to teach herself how to read. Now that she has the burden of divorce on her back, Li Qinghua also wants to read a few words. When she was in the village, she always envied the scorekeepers in the commune, and even more envied those who teach in the classroom. of.

Knowing a few words makes it easier to find a job.

Xiao Qin taught her a few simple and fluent tongue twisters, and Li Qinghua recited and recited them beside her. Hey, she found that she had memorized them all.

Not to mention, Xiao Qin also gave her a dictionary to teach her pinyin and radicals, and how to look it up in the dictionary. Li Qinghua didn't understand anything, and her memory was not good. She always asked Qin Rou a lot of questions. He also taught her tirelessly, never showing any words of impatience.

Li Qinghua asked her: "Don't you despise me for being stupid, don't you despise me for being stupid?"

"How come? Sister Huahua, you obviously learn quickly." Qin Rou has taught a lot of young children, and she has long been used to these little guys learning and forgetting, learning and forgetting, what I told them yesterday, today I forgot, if I promised the teacher today, tomorrow it will fly away like a blown cowhide.

So as a teacher, you can't be too serious. Being too serious is torturing yourself. She always has a little more patience, knowing that she has to teach them over and over again.

For Qin Rou, it is much easier to teach older children like Li Qinghua than to teach three or four-year-old children.

At least Comrade Qinghua's attitude is correct, she is not lazy, and she is serious about her studies. As long as she has this attitude, Qin Rou, who is a kindergarten teacher, will feel very relieved.

If all kindergarten children were like Comrade Qinghua, then she would be willing to be a kindergarten teacher.

"Sister-in-law Huahua, you have learned quickly, don't be too eager to learn, let's take it step by step."

Qin Rou, who coaxed all the children, hurled encouragement and praise at Li Qinghua as if she didn't want money, making her dizzy.

Coupled with the fact that Li Qinghua found that she had indeed made rapid progress, Qin Rou also presented a copy of "Story Collection" that she had copied by herself. It was Qin Rou's ten short stories written silently, using the simplest words and sentences. Completely copying, Qin Rou asked her to tell stories to her son Liu Yue every night, and if she came across an unfamiliar word, she would look it up in the dictionary by herself.

Li Qinghua held a dictionary and stumbled to read the story. She realized, eh? ? She, who is illiterate, can really understand this short story of two hundred words.

She can read text!

—It turned out that it wasn't that I was too stupid, but that Political Commissar Liu didn't teach well.

Otherwise, if Xiao Qin taught her, she would be able to learn it, and Liu Kai taught her, she would not be able to learn it.

It must be that Commissar Liu's level is low.

"You can't compare to Xiao Qin at all." Li Qinghua looked at Commissar Liu with disgust.

In the past, she thought that Political Commissar Liu was heavenly. In their small village, it was not easy to have such an educated person like Liu Kai. Li Qinghua was very satisfied after marrying such a husband.

She can be said to be the best woman married in their village.

But her life was not as happy as she imagined. Although she had no worries about food and clothing, her husband picked on her every day and brought her to this family home. Li Qinghua made a lot of jokes, and she was indeed inferior to other military wives. It is not as good as Huang Xinying.

— No matter how hard you chase, you can’t catch up.

Living lazily every day, it is said to be comfortable, but it is actually meaningless, just like the bums who wandered around in the village before.

Li Qinghua really wanted to change her previous life.

She is ready for a divorce.

Li Qinghua is not like Qin Rou who can take the test of announcer, her level of education is not enough to be a teacher, even to be a nurse, she is afraid of needles, but she recently found out that the nearby Haiken Farm needs to recruit some female drivers , she gave the newspaper a name.

It may also be because of her recent "success in studies", Li Qinghua has gained a little confidence, thinking that if she is lucky, passes the training assessment, and is selected as a female driver, then she will also be a working person.

As a driver, Li Qinghua did not require a high level of education, and Li Qinghua wanted to get the job. When they applied for the job, they disliked her for being thin and thin, and didn't want her to apply, but she cheekily said that she would give it a chance.

She has been lazy in the family courtyard for several years. She has no other skills, but the thick-skinned one is the strongest. In the end, she signed up for the name, but she didn't tell her husband.

It doesn't matter if you don't pass the exam, just treat it as learning more skills, and when you get divorced in the future, you might have to drive a tractor in the village.

Yes, Li Qinghua has already thought about it.

"Let's just leave."

Although she gave birth to a child, she is only twenty-five years old now. She is about the same age as Xiao Qin's husband, and is not very old. Even if she remarries in the future, she can easily remarry.

The small abacus in Li Qinghua's heart was crackling.

She even considered remarrying.

Li Qinghua didn't get along with the locals here before, but she followed Qin Rou to chat with the aunts in a few villages these days. She found that she was in the family courtyard, and her personal conditions were indeed not good, but if she was in the nearby ten miles and eight villages It is also a sweet pastry, more than enough to match a Tujia man here, or marry a male educated youth.

She looks delicate and cute, and it is impossible to tell that she has given birth to a child. If she remarries a local farm boy in the future, there will be a jackfruit tree in his house. Although the house is not as beautiful as the family courtyard, she still lives in it before. in the village.

The female educated youth who went to the countryside disliked the uneducated local men here, but Li Qinghua didn't dislike them at all. She thought it was good to be uneducated, and she had had enough of a husband who was too educated.

There is no culture, and everyone should not dislike anyone.

"Li Qinghua, what is your attitude? Are you really going to divorce me? If you divorce, you have to go back to your hometown."

"Whoever said that I want to go back to my hometown, I can remarry on the island. There are so many unmarried men here, and I don't dislike a second marriage." What's more, the family here also has thorn trees.

When Political Commissar Liu heard this, he immediately became furious. What did this woman say? She said she was going to remarry? She fell in love with another man

"Did some wild man outside come to hook you up?"

"I'm telling you, he's breaking a military marriage and he's going to jail!"

"As long as I don't agree to divorce, don't even think about divorcing me!!"

Li Qinghua stared at him: "Why are you so fierce, you didn't want to get divorced first, what's wrong with me finding a way out for myself."

"I can't live without a divorce? Of course I have to remarry, and I have to find another man to warm my bed!!"

Li Qinghua chuckled. This is why she likes the island. People in her hometown used to be conservative, and there were very few divorces. For a woman, asking her to divorce is tantamount to killing her. You will still be pointed at, but it is different here. There are several couples next door to Zhang Tuan and the others.

So Li Qinghua didn't regard divorce as a rare thing anymore.

As a lazy person, she is also a very optimistic lazy person, she is easy to be satisfied, she can eat whatever she has every day, and she doesn't pick her mouth. It would be nice to leave this man and find a strong man!

Think for the good in everything.

"You still talk about remarrying, how dare you say remarrying?! Let me tell you, Li Qinghua, as long as I don't die, you don't want to remarry!"

"You already like other women, why don't you allow me to remarry? Sure enough, Xiao Qin is right. You just eat from the bowl and watch the pot. If you can't marry someone you like, you still don't let me go."

"You stupid woman, who do I like?"

"You like Huang Xinying and talk about her every day, but she is already married."

"Fart!" Commissar Liu felt that one day he would be pissed to death by this little woman in front of him.

"If I like other women, how can I tolerate a slacker like you jumping in front of me?!!!"

"Don't you just despise me, let me tell you, I despise you now too!"

"Divorce means divorce. I want to remarry. I want to marry a twenty-five-year-old like Xiao Qin. Her husband is wonderful. He can also make steamed buns. The big steamed buns he makes are delicious!" Li Qinghua said. , suddenly it was as if some valve was opened, and the next words jumped out one after another like beans.

"Look at you, you don't even go into the kitchen, what's the point of marrying a man like you."

"Xiao Qin's husband is young and good-looking. He graduated from a military academy. At a young age...he can make fences and accompany Xiao Qin to the movies..."

"Fortunately, you are still an educated person. You don't even have the ability to teach people how to read. If you go to school to be a teacher, someone like you must be misleading people!"