Raising Babies in the 70s

Chapter 52: It's over

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"I don't care about it anymore, planting flowers and vegetables."

Zhang Chengbei filled up the previous pits, and decided to give up messing with the yard at home in the future, and scattered the seeds he bought in the corners at will.

With these two prodigal wives, where can they grow flowers.

He admitted his failure.

After Huang Xinying heard that he would no longer mess with the yard, she decided to have a good celebration at home today, "Yichao, let's have a good meal tonight!"

"Okay, do you want Dad to cook?"

Huang Xinying: "?"

Zhang Yichao: "My wife said that I want Lao Zhang to cook."

Huang Xinying: "Who is your wife?"

"Liu Yue!"

Zhang Chengbei: "... what are you guys playing?"

Huang Xinying: "He played house with other children today, he will be the father and Liu Yue will be the mother."

Zhang Chengbei: "..."

Outrageous, outrageous!

After the children dispersed, everything returned to calm. Lu Yan didn't come back at night, and Qin Rou was lying on the bed, holding the photo album and flipping through the men's photos. Today's house wine had quite an impact on her.

Xiaopangdun and Lu Yan are uncles and nephews, and Xiaopangdun is a socially obsessed person who is good at making friends, isn't he still a bit of Neptune gene

Qin Rou thinks that Lu Yan's popularity is quite good.

She rubbed her stomach, thinking about the possibility that the combination of the two of them would give birth to two Neptune Pippi Shrimp, who are naturally socially obsessed.

Qin Rou: "..."

This idea is really wild.

Am I stacking buffs

Qin Rou persuaded herself not to think about these weird things. In case it really might affect the baby in her belly, the baby in her belly is three or four months old, and their hearing system has already been preliminarily formed to be able to perceive the surrounding environment. For movement and stillness, prenatal education must be done well.

—When the child's father comes back, it is even more necessary to create a harmonious family atmosphere.

It is estimated that things during the day have affected her, or that the pregnant woman has some sleep problems. Qin Rou had a dream at night. She dreamed that she and the miniature version of Lu Yan were playing with other children in a big yard. In the house wine, Lu Yan played the father and she played the mother. Both parents worked hard, and then she gave birth to a pair of Pipi shrimp.

It's real Pipi shrimp.

Their children are two live Pippi shrimps.

Dreaming here, Qin Rou was startled awake, thinking what kind of weird dream this was.

At the same time, she was also slightly jealous. She found that the children in the compound played together when they were young, and they were really childhood sweethearts. They pretended to be a family wine, and you were my father and I was my mother. Would Lu Yan also play with other girls? Play house wine

After the jealousy was over, Qin Rou also felt that she was quite baffled. It was fine for people to be jealous of her ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend, but she was so narrow-minded that she even cared about whether her husband had a drink with others when she was young.

It is probably because of what happened to Tan Rou before that she couldn't help but care about his childhood.

The children's family wine can reflect some things. When her sister Qin Mian came to pick up the child, Qin Rou asked about some things that happened to Chen Jingyi, and Qin Mian recalled that some time ago, the people around did say no. Gossip less.

"It is said that Jing Yi is not like the Chen family, I suspect that it is not his own..." Elder sister Qin Mian is also a beauty, and a beautiful person will always attract the attention of many men. At that time, the Chen family was in trouble, and some gossips would gossip.

"Sister, let your brother-in-law take Jing Yi with you more in the future, let them get along with their father and son more, they are the real father and son."

Qin Mian was taken aback: "Should men also take care of children?"

"Of course men have to take care of their children too!!!" Qin Rou thought to herself, it is necessary to increase the communication between parents and children.

"But he can't take care of children."

"Nothing is born naturally. Sister, look, Juanjuan can help take care of the child at such a young age, why can't brother-in-law?"

"You are Jing Yi's real parents. You should give him more verbal recognition and encouragement, and tell him that he is the child of his parents. You like him very much and care about him." Qin Rouxin wanted to give the child enough safety feel.

Parent-child interaction when a child is young will affect the child's formation of an attachment relationship. Give him enough loving responses to let him trust his parents, believe in love, and establish a secure attachment relationship between parents and children, rather than avoiding and anxious.

"He's been a lot more lively recently." He's going to be jealous.

Qin Rou told her sister that Jing Yi and Xia Mingxi ran into Lin Yaoyang in the kindergarten, but her sister Qin Mian laughed.

"Okay, let his father spend more time with him when he goes back."

Chief of Staff Lin didn't go home to the hospital for a few days. Before he went back, he received a concerned call from his mother, asking if his wife, Zhou Menglan, had compromised, and if she agreed to have a second child, she was ready to go to the island.

Chief of Staff Lin thought that both he and Zhou Menglan had jobs before and had little experience in taking care of children. Before that, his mother had been complaining to him that Zhou Menglan didn't have children at home. Zhou Menglan probably couldn't stand her son Lin Yaoyang anymore.

Chief of Staff Lin doesn't care if he has a second child or not. Anyway, he won't take care of the child. For a man, the woman in the family will bring up the child, so he doesn't have to worry about anything.

At most, it was to persuade the fight, lest the daughter-in-law would quarrel with his own mother. Chief of Staff Lin also had a headache thinking that his mother would come to the island with him.

Same headache as before.

Chief of Staff Lin walked into the courtyard door of his house, opened the door and entered the house. It is estimated that Zhou Menglan's mother and son are at home.

Originally, Chief of Staff Lin thought that when he returned home, he would hear his son Lin Yaoyang crying for his grandma again, but he never imagined that Zhou Menglan would bring the child to cook dumplings, and the mother and son would live happily ever after.

"Mom, shall we plant flowers in the yard?"

"OK."

When Zhou Menglan saw Chief of Staff Lin, the smile on her face chatting with the children hadn't receded. Zhou Menglan thought that she should have joined the army sooner because the days of coming to the family home were so happy.

There is no bad mother-in-law, and there is a very good kindergarten. Now the children are taken care of during the day, and she takes care of the children herself at night. The relationship between mother and child is much closer than before.

Chief of Staff Lin: "...you are?"

"Dad, you are back." Lin Yaoyang was very happy to see his father, and called him out.

"I'm making dumplings with my mother!"

Lin Yaoyang was very excited at this time, he suddenly discovered the benefits of the family home, there are many children playing together.

Although grandma is good to him, he prefers to play with other children his age.

Having fun with Sissy!

Chief of Staff Lin: "...do you want his grandma to come over?"

"No need." Zhou Menglan smiled, "It's very convenient for the child to go to kindergarten now, he had a great time in the kindergarten, and the family home here can also send the child to the kindergarten, which is very convenient and worry-free, and will not delay the two of us going to work. "

"Let's be like this from now on."

Chief of Staff Lin was stunned: "...will it be like this from now on?"

"Well, don't let your mother come over."

After a few seconds, Chief of Staff Lin came back to his senses, "That's good, so I won't bother her old man."

"that is."

Chief of Staff Lin thought that it would be good for his mother not to come, so as to prevent their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law from quarreling.

Zhou Menglan was in a particularly good mood at this meeting, "These sisters-in-law in the family courtyard are very nice people, and I saw Lao Lu's wife."

"Just the daughter-in-law of Chief of Staff Lu you mentioned, Lu Yan."

"Old Lu's wife is really young. She is only nineteen or twenty years old. How could he marry such a young wife?"

"This time it's really thanks to Lao Lu and his wife."

"Next time, let's invite Lao Lu and his wife to our house for dinner."

Chief of Staff Lin was taken aback by his wife Zhou Menglan's crackling words, Lao Lu? ? Old Lu's wife? ? Lu Yan? ! !

Didn't you just talk about the child and his grandma? How did Lao Lu and his wife get involved

Also invite Lao Lu? Lu Yan? Come over for dinner? ?

Chief of Staff Lin: "..."

Something was not quite right, Chief of Staff Lin suddenly realized something belatedly.

He did mention Lu Yan to his wife several times before, because Lu Yan is really good at coming, and he does things very well. He is very popular in the detachment and has excellent skills. Chief of Staff Lin was a little unconvinced at first, but later he also felt that this young man was really good.

He did learn a lot from him, but—

In the chat with his wife, in order to save his own face, Chief of Staff Lin always called him Lao Lu, saying that he is rich in experience, very experienced, like a good old senior... even if his wife misunderstood him as a He was older, and he didn't explain much.

Cough, after all, Zhou Menglan wasn't here before, how did she know what kind of old Lu this old Lu was

Chief of Staff Lin even made a few nonsense before, saying that old Comrade Lu ignored his family and devoted himself to work, so he got married only last year.

Chief of Staff Lin: "..."

Now his wife met Lao Lu and his wife

It's over.

Sure enough, people can't spread rumors casually, and he didn't expect his wife to agree to join the army. Now...

Chief of Staff Lin covered his face. What he said at the beginning was like water that was spilled, and he couldn't take it back.

"When will I invite Lao Lu to come to my house for a meal? I think his family is very good."

"...Well, let's talk about it, old Lu, Comrade Lu Yan, he has been very busy recently."

"His wife is pregnant, so he has to come back and have a look. His daughter-in-law, Xiao Qin, was born so beautiful. This old Comrade Lu must have a good way of doing things. Otherwise, it would be impossible to marry such a beautiful Xiao Qin."

"Xiao Qin is also working hard. She still has two nephews with her. Fortunately, these two nephews are very sensible. She takes care of the children very well. If I didn't meet her, I really don't know how to take care of the children."

"Now our child is playing well with the two of his family. The kindergarten here is very close, which is really convenient."

"Would you like to tell Comrade Lu that if you marry such a beautiful daughter-in-law, you must love her and take care of her. This man is married and has a family, so he should care more about his wife."

"To be honest, I admire Xiao Qin. Her men don't come home very often, and she takes care of the family so well. I should learn from her."

The more Zhou Menglan thought about it, the more she admired Qin Rou. Thinking of the old Lu that Chief of Staff Lin said, she felt that it was not easy for this beautiful little Qin. Why did he marry a man who was so much older than her? What about people

Chief of Staff Lin's scalp was numb: "... Let's talk about this matter later, I'm also busy recently."

"You men, when you are busy, you don't care about your family."