Raising Babies in the 70s

Chapter 82: courage

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Lu Yan's parents have already returned to their hometown in Lu Province. Although they are only two-year-old children, Jiaozi and Zhou Zhou are already going to kindergarten. The first class is for two- and three-year-old children.

The daughters of Wang Yuanzheng and Xue Xiaohui are studying in the small class of one or two years old. In other words, Xue Xiaohui took her daughter to work. Because it is a kindergarten, there are several childcare sisters in the small class who can help take care of the children and raise them well.

Nowadays, quite a lot of people bring their children to work, because those who have jobs are mostly state-owned enterprises and state-owned factories. In addition, most people like to have more children and more blessings, so it is not a good idea to bring children to work. Being ostracized, sometimes colleagues are often eager to help take care of the children.

The current environment for raising children is simpler than it will be in the future. Many factories and units have family homes and supporting schools for the children of employees. It is convenient for children to go to school, and when they return home, they can play with the children of their parents and colleagues. , Whether it’s hide-and-seek, jumping rope, taking pictures... There are many little friends, so parents basically don’t have to worry about them, just let them play with other children.

Under the influence of Big Cousin Xixi, the Zhou Zhou brothers yearned for the kindergarten very much.

"Mom, I'm going to kindergarten!!"

"Go to Kindergarten Kindergarten!!"

"Okay, okay, I'll take you to the kindergarten." Qin Rou really didn't expect that the children in their family didn't have the slightest phobia of kindergarten, and couldn't wait to go to the kindergarten to meet their friends.

On the day of sending the two children to the kindergarten, Qin Rou got up early in the morning, made a simple breakfast of egg noodles and milk for the two cubs, and changed them into clothes with the pattern of little whales, blue tops, and white shorts , with a small whale spraying water on its chest.

Both brothers loved the outfit.

After breakfast, the two children carried the mini schoolbag made by their mother on their backs. This mini green schoolbag was really stitched by Qin Rou. Because there is no sewing machine at home, the old mother can only sew it by herself.

When she was sewing, Qin Rou was quite touched, all she could think about was: the thread in the hands of the loving mother, the clothes on the body of the wanderer...

Of course, she was moved here and there, but only herself was touched.

This little green schoolbag looks okay on the surface, but the wiring inside... is inside anyway, so you can't see it from the outside.

"Okay, I'll take you to the kindergarten, and you have to take the car from the family courtyard."

"Mom will take you there by bike."

The children are going to kindergarten. The most important thing in going to kindergarten is not to learn all kinds of knowledge in advance, but to learn interpersonal communication in kindergarten.

Yes, there are social activities among the little ones too.

Otherwise, how could there be such an everlasting game of playing house, because the cubs always like to imitate the adults.

Zhouzhou and Jiaozi each held a copy of Baby Shark in their arms. Seeing this, Qin Rou coaxed, "Leave the books at home. Let's go to kindergarten with our schoolbags on our backs."

Both Zhouzhou and Jiaozi shook their heads.

"Hold it!"

The two cubs love this and cuddle and watch it every day.

Qin Rou sighed in her heart. Of course, she can read it at any time at home, but when she arrives at school, she must be prepared to sacrifice this book.

As a kindergarten teacher, I really like children to wear simple and clean clothes to school. Don’t be too special, it is easy to cause disputes and disputes, such as who tore that precious little skirt, what toy? …

Whether it is kindergarten or elementary school, especially elementary school, some children like to run around and crawl around. Some go to school dressed up early in the morning, and when they go back, they become little girls and boys who collect rags.

You don't know how these little cubs made themselves like this.

Fortunately, this book is not expensive, so if you want to take it to school, you can take it to school.

"Mom will give you two new ones, and you take the new ones to school." There are not many other things at home, and there are many such little shark picture books.

Zhouzhou and Jiaozi nodded.

Qin Rou led the two children out and arrived at the gate of the family courtyard. The school bus hadn't arrived yet, so she asked the little brother on guard to look over Zhou Zhou and the dumplings, and went home to get a manuscript.

Zhouzhou, Jiaozi, and the guy standing guard are already old buddies, but they don't sing today.

"Uncle, you look like a carving."

Not only adults will molested the little buddies standing guard, but even the children are the same. The little buddies standing guard who are often hugged by the children are already used to it.

When Qin Rou came back, she found that her two children were surrounded by several adults, still talking about something, Xiao Jiaozi was holding the book in her arms, and her brother Zhou Zhou was staring at him.

When they saw their mother arrived, they hurried to their mother to be petted like a wronged baby whale.

"What's wrong?"

Dumpling said: "Mom, he grabbed the books!!!"

Zhou Zhou said: "Don't give it to him!"

He turned around and pointed at a three or four-year-old boy in green clothes. Next to this man stood a short-haired woman in her fifties, who was his grandmother.

Qin Rou understood at a glance that this was about to be robbed by other children. Some children were spoiled by their families and had a bad temper, so they liked to rob other children's toys and things. Tell their parents that they would not take this As a matter of fact, I still feel that my child is smart, not bullied, and will take the initiative to bully others, which is better than being bullied.

Compared with such children, Qin Rou hates parents who indulge such children.

When the woman saw Qin Rou, she immediately raised her voice, and accused her head and face: "This is your child? How did you educate a young mother? This child was taught to be so stingy, you two Two books for one child, so what if I give one to my family to read?"

The short-haired woman named Xue Guixiang took her little grandson Zhuang Zhuang to kindergarten. Her son's family had three granddaughters, and only one grandson, Jin Bao, was so spoiled that she wished to give all the good things to her precious only grandson.

In her opinion, what does the little grandson think of taking someone else's book? He reads it whenever he wants. Everyone worked together, and Zhuang Zhuang didn't take it away.

With the little brother on guard, Xue Guixiang would not directly attack the two children. Now that she met the parents of the two children and saw that she was a young and beautiful woman, it could be regarded as having a seizure.

Dumpling grabbed Qin Rou's hand, firmly but aggrieved: "Mom, he robbed books!!"

"Mine! Mine!"

Qin Rou kissed his little face, and then kissed her elder brother Zhouzhou next to her, "The book belongs to our dumpling, don't let others grab it, only dumpling has the right to decide whether to show it to others."

"Zhouzhou is also doing very well, please help my brother."

When Xue Guixiang saw what she said, she immediately became angry: "You girl, you have raised your child to be so petty, and you won't be an iron cock when you grow up."

"They go to kindergarten in the school. Children aged three or four know that Kong Rong makes pears. Don't your children know? Won't you share it with others?"

"You'd better let them learn to be humble quickly."

Qin Rou was really about to be laughed at by her. She put her arms around the shoulders of the two children: "Zhouzhou, Jiaozi, let's not learn Kong Rong to make pears today. We must learn to know the law first. We can't steal other people's things, nor can we If you are robbed by others, you must protect your own things.”

"Some people were not taught when they were young, and they were pampered by adults. They didn't have the right concept of right and wrong. When they were young, they robbed other people's things. When they grew up, they didn't want to rob other people's things. They didn't want to rob the country or society.

"What nonsense are you talking about?"

Xue Guixiang's face turned livid at what she said.

"Mom, he is a reform-through-labour prisoner, he wants to be shot, he robs me!! He is a bad person!! The teacher said that if you meet a bad person, you should tell the police uncle!!" A thin and small boy stood beside a woman with shoulder-length hair, pointing Said loudly.

The woman with shoulder-length hair was embarrassed, but she didn't stop her son from speaking.

In the past, Zhuang Zhuang had already robbed a lot of his son's things. Her son was cowardly, like her, and was as easy to bully as her. Crying in front of her, she can only coax him, let him play for others, and dare not blame the other party.

She didn't expect that her son, who used to be cowardly and cried at her, would suddenly speak so loudly today.

It turned out that he thought so in his young heart.

She suddenly felt that her son was more courageous than her.

Sun Zhiqiu, a woman with shoulder-length hair, bit her lips. She took the initiative to walk up to Qin Rou and said, "Comrade, you did the right thing. This child often robs other people's things. He has robbed my child several times. If you If you don't stop him, your child will be robbed and cried in the future."

After some words were spoken, they became more and more agile, and all the past things were accumulated together, and at this moment it all exploded, and Sun Zhiqiu blurted out without thinking: "If you don't learn well at a young age, how can you be great when you grow up. "

"As a parent, you don't care about him, and you want others to be humble. Why doesn't he know how to be humble?? He will bully the weak since he was a child, and he doesn't care about his parents, nor does he care about his grandma, and let him out to harm other people's children... "

Qin Rou was stunned for a moment, she found that this shoulder-length woman with short hair and an oval face was more resentful than her. She was still watching and didn't speak at first, but now she was in a hurry, and talked more about pouring beans than her.