"Silly." Qiao Nan rolled her eyes: "You don't know what our country's policy is right now. This child officially becomes mine. If Brother Zhai and I have a child, we will have no birthright. Unless Two children can be born at similar times and are said to be twins.”
"What about adoption?" It's impossible to prevent his own brother from having a child, of course, but Zhai Hua is really thinking about how to do it. Hello everyone, "Let's face the child first." It will be yours and Zhai Sheng's, and you will adopt the child to me after he has legal status."
Once the child is "adopted" to her, can Qiao Nan and Zhai Sheng continue to have babies
"Adoption is also like adoption. The question is, are you sure that your situation will meet the conditions for adoption?" Qiao Nan said that she is not a law student and is not familiar with various laws at this time. .
Anyway, in her last life, she used this idea and finally gave up on the child who had her own flesh and blood. She was just preparing to adopt a child to keep by her side. Finally, she casually checked the adoption conditions. As soon as she found that she was not suitable at all, she closed the website and never returned. Keep reading.
"I can't remember clearly, but there seems to be one of the laws about adoption that the adopting family must be able to ensure that the child has a complete family." In other words, Zhai Hua does not have the conditions for adoption if he does not have a man.
Zhai Hua scratched his hair with a headache: "Is there a third way?"
Doesn't she just want a child? Why is it so difficult? Because Mao lacks a man, no matter how she tries, it won't work!
"The third method is a more expensive method, and you have to check this technology. I just heard about it. You should know that there is a technology called in vitro fertilization in the world. The production of in vitro fertilization , that is, in vitro fertilization, where the Mi Qingzi and the egg are combined to form a fertilized egg, which is then placed in the mother's body and implanted successfully. Even if the surrogacy is successful, the baby will be born normally after ten months of pregnancy."
"Yeah." Zhai Hua really didn't understand these technical issues.
Just seeing Qiao Nan talking so seriously and doing all the tricks, Zhai Hua felt that it was quite mysterious, but also very reliable: "Then what?" Until now, everything about in vitro fertilization, test tube babies, and surrogate mothers seemed to be all over the place. It has nothing to do with her situation.
"The reason why a woman can give birth is because the uterus in her body can ovulate. After a certain period of time, this function degrades. So, now that you are still young, you can still ovulate normally. Find a regular technical department, which must be specialized in this. Let them remove the live eggs from your body and store them in a freezer. In this way, you can safely and slowly find the man you like. When you do find it, you will be too old to have children. Yes, as long as you can get your man to masturbate, find a surrogate mother, and do IVF surrogacy, maybe it will work."
Qiao Nan opened her mouth and came up with one method after another: "But you have to know that among these three methods, especially the last one, it costs money."
Zhai Hua was dumbfounded when he heard this: "Nan Nan, how can you understand such a high-tech and complicated thing and know it so clearly?!"
You know, before this, she had never heard of such a method: "The third method you mentioned, do we have those technologies in our country?"
"Our country doesn't have it, so you have to go to other countries to check." Qiao Nan pursed her lips tightly, and her eyes were full of sorrow.
Why does she know so clearly? She is not crazy because of her ****, so she can only try her best to think of ways, to check information, and to work hard to have a child of her own.
These three methods have one thing in common, that is money, money, money!
Qiao Nan has no money. If this child does arrive, Qiao Nan will be unable to even give the child a legal citizen status.
In the end, Qiao Nan had to give up this plan.
"The fourth way is to have the status of a legal citizen, but China does not allow it, then you can only go abroad and apply for a green card for your child. Go to a foreign sperm bank to queue up. But your surname is Zhai, and you are a soldier. I I think the Zhai family would not allow a Chinese descendant in their family."
Once a green card is obtained, the child’s nationality will no longer be Chinese.
Considering the temper of the Zhai family, Qiao Nan didn't think this path would work.
"The fifth way is that you are not thirty yet, and your peak fertility period should be nearly ten years away. Otherwise, you should calm down your career, put aside the army first, and put your unlimited All your energy is devoted to the great cause of blind dates. During this period, work hard to get to know and find the father of your child who you like and want to be with for the rest of your life. The father has the child, are you still worried that the child will not come? "
If the first three methods are completely shared by Qiao Nan's "experience", then the last two methods are somewhat meant to encourage Zhai Hua.
No matter what, Zhai Hua is not yet thirty, and her ability to give birth has not deteriorated. Unlike her who is tragically approaching forty, even if she has a dozen, two, three, four or five ideas in her mind, not even one of them is feasible. No.
Qiao Nan made it clear, but Zhai Hua was confused: "I, let me think about it carefully, do I need to check a lot of information?"
"necessary."
"Okay, then, let me give it a try." Five ways, five... Qiao Nan has provided herself with five ways. There must be one way that will work!
Zhai Hua gritted her teeth, feeling that no matter how hard these five methods were, she still had to decide on one and then implement it.
Perhaps Zhai Hua was determined to kill Zhai Hua, but Qiao Nan said she wanted to kill Zhai Hua. In fact, she didn't choose any clothes at all. She just chose a camel-colored woolen coat and stopped.
Zhai Hua, on the other hand, seemed to be stimulated. He looked at the clothes that he thought were suitable for Qiao Nan's age, so he asked Qiao Nan to take off all the clothes according to Qiao Nan's size and let Qiao Nan try on them all.
Seeing how well Qiao Nan put it on, she paid for it without saying a word. It was as satisfying as buying clothes for your own daughter.
What left Qiao Nan speechless the most was that the clothes Zhai Hua asked her to try on were all very pink and tender colors.
Qiao Nan is good-looking, has a good temperament, and is young. When she wears these clothes, she feels like she is sixteen or seventeen years old.
In addition, due to the breakup with Wei De, some people actually mistakenly identified Zhai Hua and Qiao Nan as mother and daughter.
"Sister Zhai Hua, that's enough!" Looking at the bags of clothes on the floor, Qiao Nan wanted to cry. She hadn't bought as many clothes in her two lifetimes as she did today.