It is said that husband and wife are like birds in the same forest, and they fly apart when disaster strikes.
He was in a car accident and the man who hit him ran away again. He was sent to the hospital and needed a lot of money for surgery. Although Lao Ding did not abandon him at that time, what was the difference between Lao Ding's behavior and abandoning him at that time? Isn't it equally chilling
When he thought that he was short of money and sent to the operating room, his wife would just sit on the floor, cry and pat her thighs, saying that she had no money, which made Qiao Dongliang feel cold and even chilled.
What's the difference between Ding Jiayi's approach and leaving directly
No, there is still a difference.
If Ding Jiayi left with Zijin, at least how he died in the hospital would not be visible to Ding Jiayi. And if Ding Jiayi stayed in the hospital that day, she would only cry, shout and make trouble, at least she could watch him die.
Thinking of these more than ten years, even if Ding Jiayi did not give him a son and they were both daughters, he had never treated Ding Jiayi badly. As long as he didn't put any money he earned at home, he would give it to Ding Jiayi for safekeeping.
Is Ding Jiayi worthy of him
After living in the hospital for more than half a month, I saw how considerate and kind the Zhou family's sister-in-law was to Zhou Bing. Then I saw that every time Ding Jiayi came to the hospital to take care of her, she didn't even have a smile on her face. She always looked at him with resentment in her eyes. , complaining that he cannot make money, complaining that he is not good enough to Zijin, and complaining that he is partial to Nannan.
Qiao Dongliang said that he was tired.
It's really meaningless to do this as a couple.
Looking at how other couples get along with each other, and then looking at himself, Qiao Dongliang had such an idea for the first time.
It's just that Qiao Dongliang still has traditional Chinese ideas. Unless he really can't survive, he usually won't say the word divorce.
Secondly, Qiao Dongliang is also worried that he wants to divorce Ding Jiayi for these reasons. Will his two daughters, especially the younger daughter, not understand or be unwilling
When Qiao Dongliang was at work, he would sometimes hear about a couple in the factory who was so quarreling that they wanted to get divorced. However, the children at home were making trouble and even skipped school, and they refused to let their parents divorce.
Qiao Dongliang was not afraid of anything else but that he would break Qiao Nan's heart and force Qiao Nan's good child to be like that.
So after saying one word, Qiao Dongliang stopped talking.
"Dad, no matter what ideas you have, as long as you are happy, I will support you." After thinking about it, Qiao Nan looked at Qiao Dongliang steadily.
"Nan Nan, do you know what you are talking about, or do you really understand what I am talking about?"
"I know." Qiao Nan took a deep breath and said with certainty.
Although she no longer has any feelings for her mother, her mother is still her mother. She can't erase this flesh and blood relationship. After all, she owes her mother the gift of giving birth and raising her.
So after returning from rebirth, apart from Qiao Nan's determination to complete her studies, Qiao Nan never interfered in the affairs between Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi.
In their previous life, Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi often had quarrels, but their life as a couple was just daily necessities, bickering and quarreling, which is very common in every household. Until the day she was hit by a car and died, at least her father had never argued with her mother to the point of divorce.
Qiao Nan can't encourage her parents to divorce just because she doesn't like Ding Jiayi. This is something Qiao Nan can't do.
However, if Qiao Dongliang has such thoughts, Qiao Nan is not really only sixteen years old, and she still has longing and feelings for Ding Jiayi, her mother, and feels that no matter how partial her mother is to him, it is better for her biological mother.
What if my father and mother divorce and find a stepmother for me
In her previous life, Qiao Nan really felt from the bottom of her heart that she would rather be bullied by her mother than see her parents divorce.
In this life, Qiao Nan's heart has become much calmer.
Her father doesn't want to divorce her mother, and she will never speak out, or even induce her father to have such an idea. But if her father has such an idea, she will definitely support her father in doing so.
"Nan Nan, you..." Qiao Dongliang showed a smile that was uglier than crying. It seemed that Nan Nan didn't talk much at ordinary times, but Nan Nan actually remembered the things that Lao Ding did.
Having seen so many children, this was the first time that Qiao Dongliang saw a child who understood that his parents wanted a divorce, did not cry or make a fuss, and supported them so simply.
"Dad, don't think too much. The reason why I agreed is different from what you think. Dad, you are living the life, so whether it is good or bad, bitter or sweet, you know, my sister and I don't know. You If you want to think that your life is going well, I won’t say anything. Did you see that I said nothing before? But Dad, you have such thoughts now, and I hope you can live a more comfortable life. At least I don’t want myself to be You are wronging yourself for your own reasons. Dad, I am also afraid of being wronged. I don’t need you to take care of this family for me."
Qiao Nan had heard enough. Parents had to endure the excuse of not getting divorced for the sake of their children.
In her previous life, every time her mother used this excuse, it meant that no matter how excessive her mother made her demands, she had to agree.
Qiao Dongliang wants to leave, but Qiao Nan has no objection. Qiao Dongliang still wants to live together with Ding Jiayi, and Qiao Nan will not object.
Qiao Nan really didn't want to live her own life and have to bear the burden of two other people's lifelong marriages.
Really, what she was afraid of was not that her father and mother would be wronged, but she was really afraid that she would be wronged again.
No, no need!
"Dad, you have to think clearly about whether you want to leave me or not. I just want to say one thing, you don't need to consider me at all if you want to leave me." In order not to affect Qiao Dongliang's judgment, Qiao Nan even said, "For me, it's better for you to leave than for me to leave." It's better not to leave." I endured this sentence.
"Nan Nan, you have really suffered a lot of grievances. You have such a mother. It's really..." The calmer Qiao Nan is and the more she cleans up the relationship, the more deeply Qiao Dongliang can understand Qiao Nan's disappointment in Ding Jiayi. With despair.
How weak is Nan Nan's affection for Lao Ding to be able to look at the issue of whether he and Lao Ding should divorce so calmly and rationally.
Doing evil, really doing evil.
"I just owed it to my mother for several lifetimes, so I came to pay off the debt, but I have paid back enough." Her mother gave her a life, and she has spent her entire life to pay back the debt. She's fucked.
She was hit by a car and died. It is estimated that her body organs can still be used, but her mother and Qiao Zijin were looking forward to her kidneys.
There is an ancient myth that Nezha cuts off the bones to return to his father, and cuts off the flesh to return to his mother.
She gave her life back to her mother and her kidneys to Qiao Zijin. No matter how much she owed, it should be enough.
"Dad, I don't complain, life is how we live it. No matter how bad my mother's temper is, as long as I live up to my expectations, and my back is straight and my ears are weak, I can live a good life."