"You can't have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of guarding against others?" Qiao Nan smiled: "Sister, what a coincidence, I think so too. Okay, dad, you and sister go out to watch TV. It's rare for my sister to Boil the bath water for me, don't let it go to waste."
"Yes, Nannan, you take a shower first, and Dad and I will go out and sit down. Dad bought a lot of vegetables and is going to make them spicy. You will definitely like them." Qiao Zijin took the initiative to withdraw from the bathroom.
His daughter wanted to take a bath, so of course Qiao Dongliang had no reason to stay, so he stepped out faster than Qiao Zijin.
In the army, I developed a habit of bathing quickly. Within ten minutes, Qiao Nan washed herself from beginning to end.
Looking at myself in the mirror with wet hair, my eyes seemed to be covered with a layer of mist, and there were water drops on my eyelashes.
Qiao Nan wiped her face with a towel. Whether Qiao Zijin really got better when he came back this time had nothing to do with her.
People like Qiao Zijin cannot be relatives, let alone friends, they can only be ordinary strangers.
"Dad, what do you mean by the story Nannan told us just now?" Qiao Zijin sat down, looked at the TV absentmindedly, and then glanced at the bathroom door, feeling very uneasy. It's impossible for Qiao Nan to ask such a question casually for no reason. There must be some intention.
Qiao Zijin thought about this intention for a long time, but couldn't figure it out, so he could only ask Qiao Dongliang for help.
Qiao Dongliang brought out the cut watermelon: "What's the point? Isn't it just something she heard about?"
"So Nannan just said it casually?" She didn't believe it.
"Otherwise, how uncomfortable can it be?" Qiao Dongliang gave Qiao Zijin a piece of watermelon. Qiao Zijin frowned in disgust and ate a piece of watermelon. She would rather not eat it. She likes to hold half a watermelon by herself. The feeling of eating it with a spoon.
Thinking that Qiao Dongliang knew so clearly about Qiao Nan's preferences, but could not even remember such a small habit of his own, Qiao Zijin narrowed his eyes and said nothing.
"What's wrong with you?" Qiao Zijin stopped talking, and Qiao Dongliang stopped watching TV to see Qiao Zijin: "Why do I feel that you are acting weird again like before? Nannan also I didn’t say anything. Where did you get so many problems? Are you too petty? Don’t worry, as long as you really change, Nannan will feel it and will forgive you. Nannan is soft-hearted, and everyone is We are a family, don’t think too much and put so much burden on yourself. If you think too much, it may be easier to misinterpret Nan Nan’s meaning. You just think too much. "
What's wrong with being a simple person? If Zijin hadn't liked to think too much and do too much, he and Nannan wouldn't have ended up like this.
"Dad, I just want to ask a question to see where you are taking your words. When Nan Nan comes out later, you must not say this in front of Nan Nan. Nan Nan hasn't forgiven me yet. What do you want to do? By the way, once Nannan thinks of the past, my reconciliation with Nannan will have to be postponed for a long time." Qiao Zijin was so nervous that he didn't even eat the watermelon.
Qiao Dongliang put the watermelon back into Qiao Zijin's hand: "I am your father, how can I not know this? It is when Nannan is not here that I have to persuade you more to avoid you being in Nannan Nan Nan is also confused in front of him. Zi Jin, you have done something wrong before, you have to really know your mistake and really want to change it. Zi Jin, you are not trying to coax me and Nan Nan, are you? "
Qiao Zijin sneered while eating watermelon: "Coaxing you? Dad, to be honest, don't even think about what you have now. If you are not my biological father, what can I gain by coaxing you?" Benefits? Nan Nan is younger than me and will be a sophomore in high school next semester. You have blocked all the escape routes for me and my mother. I will get no benefits from pleasing you, but I will gain from pleasing Nan Nan? "
Qiao Dongliang thought about it, and it was right. There was nothing the Qiao family wanted now. Apart from a small old yard, they really couldn't even afford more money.
In this way, even if Qiao Zijin can please Qiao Dongliang, Qiao Dongliang can't give Qiao Zijin anything.
Without the benefits, coaxing would cease to exist.
"Don't be angry. You know, you have no right to be angry. Who gave you so many criminal records?" Qiao Dongliang threw the watermelon rind into the trash can: "Your mother and I only have two children, you and Nan Nan." . You know my situation best, because I have no brothers or sisters. In the past few years, there have been some problems at home, and I can’t even find anyone to help. You are different from Nan Nan. You will encounter difficulties. If the relationship between sisters Normally, you can ask Nan Nan to help you, and Nan Nan can ask you to help her. You know, it is difficult to survive alone in this society. When your mother and I are gone, you two sisters will become each other's only support. It’s like this now…”
Nannan was so good at reading, and Zijin finally got eighth place in the exam, but he got it by cheating and plagiarizing from others.
Even though grades are not everything, good grades do not mean that there will be a good job and high income in the future, but Qiao Dongliang always feels that Qiao Nan's future will be much brighter than Qiao Zijin's.
To be selfish, there is no support for each other.
At that time, it was Nannan who was helping Zijin, the elder sister, and Zijin, the elder sister, could only benefit from her younger sister. What's more, Nan Nan is now with Zhai Sheng.
Whether relying on men or on her own, Nannan's future is definitely more than one or two times better than Zijin's.
Qiao Dongliang knew very well that he persuaded Qiao Zijin in this way to allow Qiao Zijin to leave a way out for him and to save some face for Qiao Zijin.
If he had said it directly, it would be easier for Zi Jin to beg Nan Nan in the future. Even if Zi Jin's temper changed, he would definitely lose his temper and make everything stalemate again.
As a parent, even if you have good intentions, you still have to consider the mood of your children, so as not to make things worse with more persuasion. As a father, Qiao Dongliang is also tired when he has to do this.
No wonder the old people always say that children are the debts owed by their parents in their previous lives, which they have to pay back in this life.
At least in his previous life, he must have owed Zijin a lot, so he had to work so hard in this life.
Qiao Zijin could not feel Qiao Dongliang's kindness at all. All she could feel was that her father looked down on her.
Before the holiday, she went to the home of her new classmate, who was also the eldest daughter in the family.
She once heard with her own ears that the parents of new classmates always tell new classmates: You are the eldest brother in the family and the sister of all the younger brothers and sisters. You must study hard, work hard to find a good job, and take good care of your younger brothers and sisters.