"I'll definitely come tomorrow!" Ji Yulan was a thoughtful person, she didn't take her toffee, she just looked at her and said to her.
Sudan Hong stuffed the toffee into her hand and smiled: "So you can trust me?"
"Sister-in-law wants to introduce someone to me, so it's natural!" Ji Yulan said.
If it's not good, then she definitely won't come forward to introduce it.
"Since you trust me, call me sister-in-law, and I'll also tell you that the one I want to introduce to you is Xu Heshan, from Dawa Village. Now he has passed his driver's license test and often helps drive. He also does other jobs. He is a hard worker. Yes, I heard that his family is separated when they get married, so if you agree with him, after you get married, you can separate and live alone, and Xu Heshan's salary in the next year will also increase to 40 yuan Money, I will bring it up again in the future. This is his ability to support the family, and the rest of the family is personal. So far, I think it is good, and Jianyun also thinks it is good, so I will help to look at it Let's go home."
Sudan Red told her so.
Ji Yulan blushed a little, that meant she was married, and that meant she became the master of her own family, which sounds very good.
"But..." Ji Yulan hesitated.
"But what?" Sudan Hong asked her.
"My dad followed up with the family's request, three hundred yuan as a bride price." Ji Yulan pursed her lips and bit her lips.
"So much?" Sudan Hong said without concealing her surprise.
Ji Yulan nodded with a pale face.
Three hundred yuan, that's a lot, usually, dozens of yuan, hundreds of yuan more, that's a lot, but her family is clinking poor, so she only expects her little dowry to make the family happy. Relaxed.
Sudan Red did not speak.
The betrothal price is indeed high, you know that Li Zhi married Ji Yunyun is quite a lot, but it is only about seventy yuan.
But Ji's father and Ji's mother must confiscate all the money and exchange it for supplies, and they also gave a lot of dowry.
Looking at people like Ji Yulan, she definitely won't have half a penny for the dowry. With so much money, this is not marrying a daughter, this is obviously selling her daughter!
"I don't like to talk about other people's family affairs, but if you want a bride price of three hundred yuan, then you have to show me some attitude." Sudan Hong looked at her and said, "You can't just let the man marry a wife The whole family is bankrupt, and you will have to bear the life of your daughter-in-law's natal family in the future, right?"
"Sister-in-law, you don't need to worry about these things. As I said earlier, the water poured out by the married daughter, the three hundred yuan dowry, almost sold me out, and at most I will come back to see it during the Chinese New Year. Others, then There is no more, and there is no reason to bring things from the in-law's family back to subsidize the mother's family." Ji Yulan said.
"Okay, I understand." Sudan Hong nodded in agreement.
In the morning she met Ji Yulan, and in the afternoon she met a cousin and niece of Aunt Yang's family.
This girl is called Li Xiaoyu, who is also a girl from a poor family. She looks similar to Ji Yulan, but her eyebrows and eyes are a little more delicate than Ji Yulan's. What beauty comes from.
Sudan Hong believed that Li Xiaoyu had heard from Aunt Yang before coming here, so she didn't hesitate and went straight to the point.
Like Ji Yulan, Li Xiaoyu is also a young girl. How can such a girl have no idea about her own marriage
It's just similar to Ji Yulan, and her family's situation is not optimistic, but Li Xiaoyu is obviously not as straightforward as Ji Yulan, and the dowry required there is also a lot, two hundred yuan, one hundred yuan less than Ji Yulan, but Sudan Hong smiled He smiled, gave her some white rabbit toffee and left.
Aunt Yang looked at it, and sighed: "You girl, my old lady told you that you can take care of yourself when you get married, and what are you still thinking about your mother's family?"
Li Xiaoyu still couldn't recover, and said in a daze: "Old aunt, sister-in-law, what does she mean by that?"
"Don't think about it, go back, take this catty of pork back and make dumplings for your nephew." Aunt Yang handed her a piece of pork tied with straw.
The pork was sent to her by Ji Jianyun.
Li Xiaoyu felt that she was doing pretty well, but she didn't understand.
"It's not that you're bad, it's just that it's not suitable." Aunt Yang said with a smile.
When the people left, Aunt Yang's smile also faded away, thanks to her boasting in front of Dan Hong, but she didn't expect this cousin and niece to be taught like this.
It is a good thing to think about your natal family, but is a dowry of two hundred yuan a trivial matter? If this is not enough, you will marry a group of people from your natal family in the future, and your natal family has an elder brother!
There is no such a happy life.
Aunt Yang thought so, so she came to look for Sudan Hong. Sudan Hong smiled and said, "I made a lot of wontons. It's the way in the south. Auntie, you can take some back to taste later."
"That's fine." Aunt Yang smiled, and said again: "Don't worry about Xiaoyu, Danhong, Yulan is good, and she can take good care of her husband's family."
"Hmm." Sudan Hong nodded without being polite.
She was indeed dissatisfied with Li Xiaoyu, but it didn't mean that she was bad, it was just that Li Xiaoyu was not the kind of woman she was looking for, she was looking for the kind of woman who could keep her husband's family safe, not the kind who had two hearts.
It's not that she doesn't show filial piety to her natal family, but show her attitude, you live a good life, and your natal family can be filial to one or two, which is considered filial piety.
Because they generally have a tradition of patriarchalism in their natal family. Daughters are at a disadvantage in their mother's house since they were young. If they can grow up with food and study for two or three years, it will be considered heavenly. More , have never been to school, such as Ji Yulan, who has not attended school for a year.
But boys are different, they can read whatever they want, unless they really don't want to read, otherwise they will basically give it to them.
So it can't be blamed that daughters are seldom filial. They are all married and run their own small family wholeheartedly. On the side of the mother's family, it is natural that the elder brother or younger brother who took advantage of it since childhood will take care of it. Otherwise, what is the use of them
Ji Yulan obviously has this in mind. She has two younger brothers under her, who are not too young. She has been working in her mother's house for so many years without being married, is it enough? The betrothal gift is still three hundred yuan, and the husband's family has been wiped out, so what do you think of her
Li Xiaoyu also has an older brother, and a younger brother who is eighteen years old, but she doesn't have that awareness, so Sudan Hong doesn't want to keep the matchmaker.
When Ji Jianyun came back, Sudan Hong told him about it.
Ji Jianyun smiled: "Alright then, I'll ask Xu Heshan to come over and meet her."
"Su Zhumao, why don't you ask my mother to take a look?" Sudan Hong said.
Su Zhumao is from her village and originally wanted to introduce Li Xiaoyu, but now she has changed her mind and won't introduce her.
"Okay, let's ask Mom during the Chinese New Year, but if Xu Heshan and Ji Yulan marry, we have to lend him the dowry money first." Ji Jianyun said.
"Lend him four hundred yuan, let him settle down for the other one hundred yuan, and then let him pay it back slowly." Sudan Hong said directly.