In fact, she can understand her mother-in-law's reluctance to get in touch with her more.
Think back when Dan Hong was still ignorant, didn't she just not want to associate with Su's mother
Why do not want to come and go? That's of course holding back, if you're too familiar, it's hard to make a move, but if you're not familiar, then if her daughter provokes her, she will probably not keep any affection after cleaning up!
They are all made to be mothers-in-law. Didn't she also have the same thoughts at the beginning
But for this situation, what else can Ji's mother say? She has done what she should do, and if her daughter doesn't live up to her expectations, then she can't care about it. After all, she is already married, so she will naturally account for Li Zhi, the son-in-law.
I haven't seen him for a while, and Li Zhi has lost a lot of weight. This is someone else's son. After seeing it from his mother-in-law, can he feel happy
Not to mention the mother-in-law, if her son works outside to earn money to support the family, and her daughter-in-law takes care of him like this at home, she will not agree.
Li Zhi comforted her: "Mom, don't worry, I'm fine, and I've lived like this before."
Ji's mother naturally wanted to keep him for lunch, and the lunch was also very rich, which made him eat a lot, and Li Zhi was really satisfied.
Although his daughter-in-law was indeed ignorant and a little too arrogant, she was still within his range, and because of his mother-in-law's attitude towards him, he had to be more patient with her daughter.
Li Zhi didn't leave until three o'clock in the afternoon. During this period, Sudan Hong brought another pot of soup, which was fish head tofu soup. Li Zhi drank the thick white fish head tofu soup to his heart's content.
Of course not only Li Zhi drank it, but Ji's father, Ji's mother, and Yan'er Ren Renqiqi all drank it together.
When he went back, Ji's mother brought him a basket of strawberries, and nothing else.
As for Sudan Hong, she didn't say anything. To Li Zhi, she felt that he was really a rare good man who could take care of both the family and the outside world. Now that he was a relative, if he came, she would not be stingy with him.
For example, the fish head soup in the afternoon, she boiled it specially and brought it up, because before Li Zhi went up the mountain, he also brought a pack of white rabbit milk candy for Ren Renqiqi.
Li Zhi knows how to be a man and is polite, so she will naturally go back and won't make him suffer.
But it would be impossible for him to bring too many things home, even if there were extra dried dates at home, she would not take out any of them.
If you take it back, you don't need to think about who's stomach it's in. She's not that cheap, so it's not bad to give Ji Yunyun something to eat.
So I boiled fish head soup, put red dates, wolfberry and Qingbuliang and stewed it. It is nourishing and delicious. Let Li Zhi finish drinking it and go home. Don't expect anything else.
Even in the end her mother-in-law wanted to take more things, but she was too embarrassed to take them, so she pretended not to see them.
If she wasn't there, why would Li Zhi still be able to carry another basket of eggs back home, but if she was here, then it would be gone.
"Mom, I'm going to make a meal of wontons tonight, are you used to eating with Dad?" Sudan Hong asked.
"I'm used to it." Ji Mu said.
"That's fine, I'll have wontons tonight, don't cook, I'll ask Jianyun to bring it up when it's done," Sudan Hong said.
"Okay." Ji Mu nodded with a smile.
Although it's a bit regretful that the daughter-in-law didn't speak up just now, can this be blamed on the daughter-in-law
Those from the old family, the second family, and the fourth family did not have a good relationship with her, but they have become more sensible in recent years, so the third family is not stingy with her sisters-in-law. when.
For example, last year, when the fourth family came back, she gave a large bag of dried dates to the fourth family to take to Jiangshui City. You can put some of them in the soup, which is very nourishing.
There is also the elder family and the second family, because the two families have been filial a lot in recent years, so the third family is very generous to the two families, and they don't like to care about those, such as Xiaodong, and the sisters Xiaozhen and Xiaoyu , from time to time, they would come over to eat with their third aunt, did she care about it
Never, ever has a few little ones rave about every meal.
This time the strawberries were ripe, and the small ones could be eaten from time to time. In Jiangshui City, Sudan Hong asked her second brother to send a box of strawberries to Jianwen Lili. A box weighed ten catties.
That is to let them eat by themselves, or let them have a relationship. Lili even called back and chatted with her third sister-in-law for a long time.
Compared with before, the relationship is really much better now.
Ji's mother has also seen it over the years. The old three's temper is easy to touch and easy to talk to. As long as she gives well and she can see other people's kindness and return, then she will not be stingy. The second family and the fourth family are all good examples.
But if she gives well and doesn't get kindness once and twice, then don't think about having a third time.
How is her daughter doing? Taking her kindness for granted several times over and over again, not caring about her affection, smearing her whenever she gets the chance, saying she is not good, is no different from a white-eyed wolf.
So now, her daughter really shouldn't try to get anything from her.
Mother Ji knows it well, but can she blame the third daughter-in-law? No wonder, if it was her, she would never buy into this kind of aunt.
And the third daughter-in-law is really filial to her.
I ate wontons at night, and the whole family was very satisfied. The wontons are all thin-skinned and filled with big fillings, and Sudan Red is willing to eat the meat, which is very delicious.
After eating the wontons, Qiqi yelled to eat toffee, Ji Jianyun said: "I'll give you one tomorrow, but I can't do it now, I'm going to bed soon, after eating tooth decay, do you want to become a toothless little old man?"
Qi Qi immediately stopped shouting, he saw some old grandpas with leaking teeth in the village.
"Two tomorrow!" He made another condition.
"Okay." Ji Jianyun nodded happily.
Qiqi was satisfied, stopped making trouble, and went to paint with his brother and sister.
"Li Zhi's life is hard." Ji Jianyun said after eating and drinking enough, lying on the imperial concubine couch bought by his daughter-in-law to enjoy, and said with a relaxed breath.
The good imperial concubine's couch was pressed down by his rough man who was about 1.9 meters high, and a part of his two long legs with thick and thick foot hair were still leaking out.
Probably because he felt that he was too happy. His wife did not eat any of the three meals a day, and raised him to be really fat and strong.
He is 1.9 meters tall. He went to weigh it yesterday, and it was about 160 catties. He felt that he was neither fat nor thin, just right.
And the reason why he looks so good is because of who, not because of his wife
But having said that: "Daughter-in-law, I didn't seem to be so tall before?"
When he was a soldier, he was still around 1.85 meters, but in the past two or three years, he has grown by almost five centimeters, soaring to nearly 1.9 meters!
"The high point is good. I feel safe after seeing the high point." Sudan Hong said truthfully.