That's right, I don't even have a daughter now, so I'm dreaming of a daughter, and I've even considered my daughter's future marriage in advance.
"Actually, as long as a man can treat women well, he can marry even if he has no money." Mother Su said again.
"Mom, just treat me as a material thing. I want a daughter. If the other party has no money, it's really not good." Sudan Hong expressed her opinion.
Zhen Miaohong had said it since she came here, not only Zhen Miaohong, but also her mother had told her in her previous life.
What a woman wants all her life is to be nice to her by a man, but she is defeated by this desire to be nice to her.
why? Because the heart is the most unpredictable thing. It is true and sincere at this moment, but it can change in the next moment.
Of course, not every woman who marries a man who treats her well will have a bad life in the end, it's just that they have a better life. They really find a man who is willing to stay the same for the rest of their lives, but there are not many such men.
So be on the safe side, then you have to find someone who is more materialistic, someone who will change your mind and let your daughter run the business by herself.
But if she finds a poor boy who is good to her, and finally changes his mind, what can he get? All the suffering in front was in vain.
Mother Su went on to say that when they got married in the past, they often got married without even a new pair of shoes.
"Mom, your previous generation didn't have an easy life, but the society is different now. Today's society is different from the previous society, and the requirements are naturally different." Sudan Hong said.
It was impossible to ask for it before, because there really was no such condition. If there was a condition, then most women would ask for it.
As long as the man treats the woman sincerely, it is nothing to ask him for these demands, he will work hard, if he just wants to fool around, then he will dislike you for asking for this request and that. In the final analysis, a woman What are you asking for? Isn't what the picture is about a guarantee of life after marriage
Birds have to build nests before laying eggs, let alone humans.
It's far away, but Sudan Hong's attitude is like this, Su's mother doesn't care about her, she really doesn't care about her granddaughter as a grandma, let alone she doesn't have a granddaughter right now.
"After the new year, your sister-in-law will let the two older ones go to work." Su's mother said.
"Where to fight?" Sudan Hong asked with raised eyebrows.
Her eldest brother has three sons, but all three of them can't read. She asked about the exam, and they all got 20 or 30 points. She doesn't want to study anymore.
"They said they were going to the south," said Mother Su.
"If you want to work part-time, our place is very good. Why do you need to travel so far?" Sudan Hong said.
"I heard that there are more opportunities there, and the salary is higher. I heard that if you do well in one month, you will have to raise more than 200 yuan in the next year." Su's mother said.
"So much?" Sudan Hong was taken aback.
"Yeah, our side is pretty good, but it's still not as good as over there." Su Mu said, "It's really developed over there. Those families in our village will build buildings next year, and over there last year The salary is more than one hundred and eighty, which is almost twice that of our side!"
Sudan Hong was really surprised. She didn't know this yet, but she felt that her family's salary was not low.
It will rise to 160 together after the next year.
This was raised all at once, and the salary was nearly doubled, because things have been extremely expensive in the past year, so the salary must be raised, and everyone outside has also raised it.
I thought the wages here were rising fast, but I didn't expect that the wages in the south are so high now.
"This year, many people will go to the south to work." Su's mother said.
Especially those young people in the village, many of them have already dropped out of school and plan to go to the south to work and earn money.
Where can I find a salary of more than two hundred yuan a month
The matter of high wages in the south has caused quite a stir in the nearby area. It is true that many people want to go to the south to work.
But those are all studying, especially those half-grown boys and girls who have gone to junior high school. Once this year is over, they will all go.
Sudan Hong also gave her elder nephew and second nephew 200 yuan each, and told them that if they can’t work in the south, they should come back. There is plenty of work for them at home. Don’t do bad things outside, and don’t fight with others. What’s the matter? When you are away from home, you can bear it as much as you can.
I don't know if they can listen to it, but it's quite a long way from them to the south by train.
These two and a half children are really worried about changing to Sudan Red, but her elder brother and sister-in-law are very relieved. There is no other order, and it is true that the monthly money must be sent back on time.
When the two brothers went out, they gave twenty yuan...
How would this make the two brothers live? That's why Sudan Red gave them another 200 yuan each.
The wages in the south are so high, the consumption level must be higher than theirs, this is relative.
The two brothers have four hundred yuan by their side, so they won't be reduced to the point where they can't even return home.
As an aunt, she can do almost like this, and the rest is up to the two brothers themselves.
This year, Ji Jianyun raised everyone's salary to 160 yuan, which was naturally a big surprise for everyone.
Although compared with the south, this salary is not too much, but it is not too little for a whole area on their side.
None of the workers under Ji Jianyun left their jobs, why
Because working in the orchard is close to home, I can take care of everything at home immediately, and because there is still land at home to work, I can also help, and I can eat what is produced at home.
But what about going out to work? The things at home must be out of control, and if you work outside, don't rent a house, don't you eat
These are all consumption. If it is reduced, the salary will not be much higher than here, and I can't go home twice a year.
So, no resignation.
What should I do is still doing what I should do, and I didn't mention the things about the salary at all.
However, there is still an example.
For example, Aunt Li Tang, when she met Sudan Red, she expressed it openly and secretly, the salary in the south is so high now, why is it only more than 100 here
Sudan Hong said: "If my uncle and Jianhe Jianchuan are willing to resign and go to the south to find a job, then I am willing to let them go."
Aunt Li Tang was obviously dissatisfied: "Dan Hong, don't think that you can work on the mountain alone."
"I didn't think so. I've said it all. If you can persuade my aunt to resign, then I can settle their wages at any time." Sudan Hong said.