When the children in the family reach an age, they go directly to a matchmaker to help them look after each other.
Or, if you like someone's child, you can go to the door yourself, or ask a matchmaker to come to the door.
Until both families have reached an agreement, arrangements will be made for the children to meet.
As long as there are no major problems, the marriage is settled.
As for whether two people like each other and understand each other, that is not within the scope of parents' consideration at all.
What do you like and dislike
Are you ashamed to say it
What the elders in the family value is that the two of them can live a good life in the future.
After all, our ancestors have come this way for generations, and of course our children will also follow this path.
Although Grandma Chen loves Su Ruanruan, she keeps her thoughts and knowledge here. Naturally, she wants to help Su Ruanruan find a good boy, instead of telling Su Ruanruan that she supports Su Ruanruan's free love. Get her a grandson-in-law.
Grandma Chen is already a very enlightened parent if she can say what she just said.
If it were someone else, he might have directly informed Su Ruanruan that the two families had already discussed it and were just waiting for Xiao Chengjin's parents to come back to get engaged. How could he ask Su Ruanruan what he was thinking.
After thinking about it, Su Ruanruan was a little bit dumbfounded.
She had thought before that she didn't want to be clear with Xiao Chengjin, and she didn't want Xiao Chengjin to confess to her.
It's only been a few days, and we're already talking about marriage.
Things were developing too fast, and Su Ruanruan felt that she couldn't accept it.
But looking up at Grandma Chen, Grandma Chen had an expectant look on her face, obviously still waiting for her answer.
Su Ruanruan knew that if she had to refuse today, Grandma Chen would also listen to her.
But that doesn't seem necessary.
Su Ruanruan pursed her lips and said what she was most worried about, "But grandma, when I get married, won't you be the only one left in the family? I don't trust you! I can't bear to leave you!"
As she spoke, Su Ruanruan hugged Grandma Chen's arm, almost crying with sadness.
Grandma Chen waited for a long time without seeing Su Ruanruan's answer, and thought that Su Ruanruan was really not interested in Xiao Chengjin.
Unexpectedly, after waiting for such a long time, Su Ruanruan was thinking about this.
Grandma Chen wanted to laugh, but she was very moved, "You girl! It seems you are really stupid! Can you stay with me forever?"
Su Ruanruan pouted, why couldn't she
But before she could say this, Grandma Chen said again, "Even if you really want to stay with me for the rest of your life, I don't dare to let you stay with me for the rest of your life. If you really don't want to marry, then it's the same as using a knife to cut me out." What's the difference between my heart and my heart? I didn't raise you so big just to have you stay at home with me and provide for me until the end of my life. I just hope that my softness can find someone to marry, and in the future Give birth to a few children, and they will be harmonious and beautiful."
"Besides, the engagement is now, and you are still young! Why do you have to wait until eighteen or nineteen to get married! You really want to get married now, and I still don't agree!"
Su Ruanruan blushed at Grandma Chen's last words. She blinked, but tears slid down her cheeks.
"Milk, I will listen to you."
Hearing Su Ruanruan's buzzing voice, Grandma Chen knew that Su Ruanruan was crying.
"You're so old! You're still crying! It's okay! Don't cry! Milk will definitely live a long time. If you give birth to a child in the future, Milk will have to take care of your baby!"
(End of chapter)