On the first day of their relationship, Luo Han discovered that the first hurdle that she and her immortal boyfriend needed to solve was the difference in their views on love.
Her boyfriend is beautiful in appearance, better than snow in white clothes, smart and motivated, modest and polite, he is good everywhere, except in some thoughts... a little conservative.
Luo Han tried to use a gentle tone and explained: "I'm not saying that your thoughts are wrong... I'm very moved that you are so serious about our feelings. However, this kind of thing really doesn't develop like this, it's too fast."
How can there be a confession on the first day, and the wedding will be prepared on the second day.
Go crazy.
Ling Qingxiao still looked at her silently, that look made Luo Han feel guilty. Luo Han couldn't take it anymore, and quickly explained: "Don't feel guilty or blame yourself, everyone thinks differently, it's normal to have misunderstandings. There's still a generation gap every three years, not only a thousand years apart between us. , there are cultural differences in the middle, and it is normal to have different understandings of marriage and love.”
Ling Qingxiao was not comforted, he raised his eyebrows and asked, "Is this what you want to tell me?"
"No, it's not." Luo Han's tone gradually weakened, and he said tentatively, "I mean, let's try to get along with lovers first, and slowly get along. If it suits, we will naturally go to talk about marriage in the end. Marry this step."
After Luo Han finished speaking, he couldn't help but add: "We are all still young, there is no need to plan this matter so early."
Ling Qingxiao understood Luo Han's words, but couldn't understand. This is too different from his cognition. In his opinion, there is no difference between lovers and husband and wife, love and marriage.
This should have been one thing, but now Luo Han wanted to divide it into two things. To be honest, Ling Qingxiao had a bad feeling in her heart.
He suppressed the uneasiness in his heart, and still gently agreed to all her requests: "Okay, as you say. You don't have to be nervous, you can do whatever you like."
Luo Han let out a long sigh of relief. When Ling Qingxiao saw this, her heart sank again.
The two of them stopped on the corridor to talk, and now that their differences are resolved, the two continue to walk forward. The remaining half of the road was inexplicably dull, and soon the yard arrived. Ling Qingxiao sent Luo Han to the door and said, "You can rest in peace. If you have anything, send me a letter immediately."
"Okay." Luo Han nodded, she pushed the door into the room, and found that Ling Qingxiao was still looking at her. Luo Han put his fingers on the edge of the door, unconsciously rubbing the carvings, and suddenly stopped Ling Qingxiao and asked, "Aren't you too happy?"
Ling Qingxiao said without hesitation, "No."
"That's right." Luo Han sighed and said, "Are you in a hurry to go back? If not, I want to talk to you."
Luo Han took the initiative to say that Ling Qingxiao would not refuse. When the two of them entered the room, Luo Han took the lead to sit on the low slump, and moved in deliberately, beckoning to Ling Qingxiao: "Come here."
Ling Qingxiao was sitting opposite Luo Han in her clothes. Luo Han looked at it and choked, in fact, she wanted Ling Qingxiao to sit here... Luo Han comforted herself, today is mainly for talking, it doesn't matter where you sit. She moved silently and quietly sat back in place.
Thinking of Ling Qingxiao's growing environment, Luo Han could probably understand why he had such a misunderstanding. Ling Qingxiao didn't grow up in a safe, loving environment, he didn't see a stable relationship pattern, and his parents set a terrible example. Therefore, in Ling Qingxiao's concept, family equals responsibility, and husband and wife equals contract. He did not realize that the first premise of husband and wife's existence should be love.
Therefore, yesterday they confirmed their relationship, and Ling Qingxiao would take it for granted that this was a marriage contract.
Luo Han tried to explain: "Actually, what I meant yesterday was that we should get along as a couple first, and then let things take their course. Relationships are different from cultivation. This cannot be quantified into specific values, but must be gradual. Generally speaking , Men and women who have good feelings will be naturally attracted, and then test each other's feelings, slowly approach, and wait until the end to confess. After confirming their feelings, it is not easy to get married. Love and marriage are really two things. "
After Luo Han finished speaking, he asked, "Do you understand?"
"I can understand." Ling Qingxiao said, "You can continue."
Luo Han thought he understood for the time being, and continued: "After confirming a relationship, only when the relationship is deep enough will you consider marriage. The difference between love and marriage... Well, for example, it's enough for two people to be happy in love. You don’t need to think about anything, but marriage is different, you need to take care of the families and parents of both parties, ensure that the two people’s living habits and life concepts are consistent, and they must have a stable emotional and material foundation.”
After Luo Han finished speaking, Ling Qingxiao nodded lightly and said, "These things don't exist for us. First, you have no father or mother, and my parents will not have any influence on my marriage. What you said is the first There is no problem with the point; second, we have traveled together many times, and I have not noticed any incompatibility in our habits. If there is, I can change it for you, you don't need to make any adjustments; third... Zhongshan does not What a big force, but to ensure that my wife and children live a carefree and safe life, there is no problem in thinking about it."
Luo Han choked. Her original intention was to give Ling Qingxiao a popular science for normal couples, or the relationship between husband and wife, but she never expected to be trapped by him. Luo Han hesitated for a while before saying: "This only means that the external conditions for marriage are met, but it does not mean that the two are definitely suitable for marriage. Marriage is a bondage, a restraint, and a willingness to violate oneself for the sake of another person. It is a biological instinct. Before marriage, you must know enough about another person to fall in love with the other person, but you must know enough about yourself to get married. I think the relationship between the two of us is not enough to conclude a marriage contract. We might as well start with love and gradually understand each other. , slowly enter the other person's life, and let the rest of the things take its course."
Ling Qingxiao nodded slowly: "I understand."
Luo Han doubted: "Do you really understand?"
Ling Qingxiao naturally understood. The understanding here did not mean that he understood the big truth in Luo Han's words, but that he realized that Luo Han's rejection was because his feelings were not deep enough.
She didn't like him enough.
Ling Qingxiao originally thought it was okay, she didn't love him that much, so he would double supply her. As long as the two are together, and live together day and night, the relationship will gradually accumulate. It doesn't matter if she can't accumulate it, as long as she's there, it's fine.
But Luo Han didn't think so. For her, a marriage without love is a shackle. If she knew there was a cage ahead, she would have refused from the start.
Ling Qingxiao stepped back and said, "Okay."
The one who has nothing, dare not take any risk.
Luo Han was originally discussing the concept of feelings, and when he heard Ling Qingxiao's words, he inexplicably felt a sense of confusion as his wife tolerated her cheating husband. What's worse, she is the cheating scumbag...
Luo Han was confused, she paused for a while, and asked tentatively, "Then let's cultivate our relationship first?"
"it is good."
Luo Han tried hard to get rid of the strange sense of sight in her mind. She quickly recalled the series, movies, and books she had watched in her previous life, and said with confidence: "Generally speaking, cultivating feelings should start small, for example, the first step is to hold hands. , yet hugs, kisses, and, um…”
Luo Han was stuck, she quickly thought about the elegant and written substitute for going to bed, but she thought for a long time without success. Ling Qingxiao looked at her quietly and asked, "What else?"
Luo Han held back for a long time, but was still embarrassed to say, "I still have to go to bed." She pursed her lips, shook her head and said, "No, just these three steps."
Ling Qingxiao is a very persistent and patient person. When he was a child, many of his classmates could not learn the formation method. If he fails the first time, he will do it again. If he fails today, then tomorrow, if he fails tomorrow, he still has days and nights.
He is not a qualified gambler, but he is a very patient hunter. The most he lacks is time, he can wait.
Originally, confession and marriage were closely linked here, but now Ling Qingxiao has added an extra layer in the middle. According to Luo Han, it is called "love". The standard is divided into three stages: holding hands, hugging, and kissing.
Or four. Ling Qingxiao is really strange, where did she learn these bold ideas
Places like the Demon Realm and the Demon Realm really need to be visited less often. The atmosphere is not good, and it is easy to bring bad children.
Luo Han didn't know that Ling Qingxiao immediately made a new schedule for her. Seeing that Ling Qingxiao didn't speak, she felt that she had spoken to him.
Luo Han immediately thought happily about what can be done between lovers. After thinking for a long time, all that came to her mind were some flashy activities. Luo Han only needs to ask Ling Qingxiao for help: "Do you know what kind of couple's guide is there in the Six Realms, such as the 100 things couples have to do?"
Ling Qingxiao thought about it and asked sincerely, "What is that?"
Also, how could there be such a thing in the fairyland. Luo Han really couldn't think of what those little lovers were doing, so he had to stand up and call a servant from the demon world, and asked, "Is your business here prosperous?"
The waiter of the demon world was stumped by this question. He was puzzled and asked, "Fairy, I am illiterate. I don't know what script you are talking about. Do you want to read the script?"
Luo Han sighed, stuffed him with a magic crystal, and instructed: "Go to the biggest bookstore outside, and ask for the book that sells the most, for couples. Don't be constrained by the form, buy it and bring it to me. The magic crystal you put down is yours."
The demon waiter was overjoyed, and hurriedly said good things and ran away. After Luo Han returned to the room, Ling Qingxiao asked, "Why do you remember reading the script?"
"It's not that I want to read it." Luo Han corrected, "It's that I want to use words as inspiration to find out what we can do in private. We can't read books to cultivate, right?"
Ling Qingxiao nodded lightly when she heard the words: "Yes."
"No no no." Luo Han quickly declined, "No need. I think it's better to do something easy."
After getting the money, the demon waiter moved quickly, and soon he came back, and handed the book in his hand to Luo Han with a look of credit: "Fairy, this is a small comparison of the five book markets in the city, carefully selected out. Guaranteed to your satisfaction."
Luo Han didn't think much, took the things, and said casually, "Okay, thank you."
The demon waiter left with great gratitude, and before leaving, he specially said: "Fairy, if you have to run errands next time, you must call me. The little one works in this area, your name is A small five, and the little one is here."
Luo Han responded. She took the book back to the house, sat on the couch, and said while flipping the book: "The devil world is really different from the fairy world. Even the book is so thick. I thought a small book was enough."
She opened the book door as she spoke, saw the first page unsuspectingly, and slammed the book shut with her backhand. When Ling Qingxiao saw it, she reached out to take the book: "What's wrong?"
Luo Han quickly pressed the booklet with his elbow and shook his head vigorously: "It's okay, it's just an ordinary booklet of talented and beautiful women."
Ling Qingxiao held her hand on the spine of the book, and Luo Han pressed the other side with both hands, almost putting the weight of her entire body on top. Ling Qingxiao looked at it and raised her eyebrows slightly: "Is it really okay?"
"It's okay!" Luo Han shook her head into a rattle. She was afraid that Ling Qingxiao would not believe it, so she deliberately said, "I won't lie to you. If you don't believe it, I will read it to you."
Ling Qingxiao flicked her fingers on the spine of the book, and suddenly let go of her hand, sat back to her original position, and said, "Okay."
Luo Han bit the bullet and opened the book, stared at the top, and read slowly: "Couples should trust each other, respect each other, guard against arrogance and avoid impatience, and proceed step by step. Sometimes you can enhance your relationship through small things, such as traveling together in unfamiliar places. , watch the sunrise and sunset together, read and draw together, together... um... "
Luo Han couldn't edit it anymore, it was too difficult, she just asked the waiter to buy the best-selling book in the devil world, but he bought this book back? In this book, it's true that couples do things together, but it's all in various poses!
Luo Han was extremely embarrassed, Ling Qingxiao waited patiently for a while, and asked, "What else?"
Luo Han bit his head and said, "Also, just turned the page."
She even wanted to read the next page, Ling Qingxiao couldn't bear it anymore, and reached out to get the book in her hand. After Luo Han knew that the book had left her hand, she would not want to see it again. She refused to let go. Ling Qingxiao took two strokes but did not pull it out, her eyebrows raised, "You still don't let go?"
Luo Han tried to struggle: "It's really just a Mandarin excerpt..."
If Ling Qingxiao grabbed it, how could he not be able to pull it out? He was afraid of hurting Luo Han, so he simply stood up and walked to the other side to see what was inside. Luo Han was frightened and instinctively held the book in his arms. Ling Qingxiao never dropped the chain at serious moments, he looked at Luo Han's pitiful eyes, and still mercilessly confiscated her book.
Ling Qingxiao looks like some strict master at the moment, Luo Han's arrogance is fading, but she suddenly thinks that Ling Qingxiao is not her master, he is her boyfriend.
She immediately became tough, her strength was not loose at all, and she even threatened: "I have grown up, why do you care what books I read. I'll be angry if you do this again, I'm really angry... "
Luo Han didn't finish his threatening words, and the book in his hand was taken away. Luo Han burst into tears, but it was completely useless, this person had no heart.
After Ling Qingxiao got the things, she casually flipped through two pages, her eyebrows jumping. Seeing that the situation was not good, Luo Han jumped up and hugged Ling Qingxiao's waist, and hurriedly said, "You can't throw it away! Books are the inheritance of culture, and wisdom is condensed on every piece of paper. How can books be thrown away?"
Ling Qingxiao heard this kind of sophistry for the first time, and was very angry: "Do you still have reason?"
"I don't care." Luo Han hugged his waist, not letting go, "I won't let it go anyway. If you throw this book, then throw me too."
For someone like Ling Qingxiao who doesn't eat hard or soft, he has to rely on thick skin. Ling Qingxiao was hugged by her, and she was reluctant to pick it up and leave. In the end, she had no choice but to say, "Sit down first."
In the past, it was just a virtual drag, but now he hugged it firmly, Luo Han found that Ling Qingxiao's waist was really thin. She grabbed Ling Qingxiao's hand, forcibly pulled him to the ground, and said, "If you are worried, we can read it together. Just in time, we have finished reading books together."
Ling Qingxiao didn't speak. In this case, if he didn't speak, he agreed. Luo Han quickly moved to his side and sat down, holding his hand and flipping through the book: "Now it's time to read the second one."
The atlas is opened, and the vivid fragrance is blowing in the face, and there are just the right scene descriptions on the edge. The Mozu really deserves to be professional in doing this. The pictures are lustrous and not obscene, beautiful but not vulgar, and the scenes are detailed and novel. The protagonist does not reveal the key parts throughout the whole process, but it is full of reverie space and has a long aftertaste.
Luo Han sighed after reading it, and then reached out and turned to the next page. Ling Qingxiao's fingers were pressed against the pages of the book and remained motionless for a long time. Luo Han couldn't move, looked up at him, saw his cold face, and said, "I don't think it's good for you to be like this."
"This is the love between lovers." Luo Han said, "You have to adapt to your new identity, don't call yourself my elder."
This sentence successfully made Ling Qingxiao shut up. Luo Han turned to a new page, and was surprised that there was no one on it. Luo Han didn't understand and asked, "Why is there no one inside?"
Ling Qingxiao didn't know whether to explain or not, so he could only hesitate: "Maybe it's in the details."
Luo Han looked at it again and suddenly realized. She looked at Ling Qingxiao, her eyes changed suddenly: "You actually understand it at a glance?"
Ling Qingxiao was silent, and after a while, she said decisively, "I don't."
"You know what I'm going to ask, you just say no." Luo Han snorted and turned the page forcefully, "Only the state officials are allowed to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light the lamps, hehe."
Ling Qingxiao rubbed his brows and felt a real headache.
In fact, Ling Qingxiao didn't want to watch this kind of thing at all, but Luo Han watched it with relish. He was afraid that there would be some bad pictures in it, so he could only glance at it. About halfway through, the pictures in the album became more and more curious, and it was obvious that there was nothing to draw, so I could only start making up.
Ling Qingxiao swept across one of them, couldn't hold back, and said in a low voice, "Full of nonsense."
The two of them were sitting close, and Luo Han heard it, and immediately turned around and asked, "What nonsense?"
Ling Qingxiao didn't expect that she would hear it, and looked a little embarrassed, and said, "This picture... is not very rigorous. This posture is obviously wrong."
Luo Han was shocked. It took a long time for her to regain her senses. Looking at Ling Qingxiao, she didn't know what to say: "You really are..."
Luo Han held back for a long time before trying to come up with an adjective: "Scholarly rigorous."
It's too rigorous. This is the first time Luo Han has seen someone do a force analysis on the action map since he was so old. Probably the only time.
However, after Ling Qingxiao said it, when she watched it later, she couldn't help but think about the operability, which seriously affected her viewing experience. The second half was not as good as the front, and Luo Han quickly turned to the last page. Seeing this, Ling Qingxiao breathed a sigh of relief, and was about to take the book away: "Okay, after reading it, you should take it easy."
Seeing that Ling Qingxiao was about to put the book in his storage space, Luo Han quickly stopped his hand and said, "What are you doing with me so out of touch, just leave it with me."
Ling Qingxiao was unmoved. Luo Han found that it was useless to say harsh words to Ling Qingxiao, such as hunger strike and anger. His heart was iron, and he would not be threatened at all. Luo Han could only change his strategy, and suddenly became aggrieved, pitiful: "Can't you trust me? I have a lot of things with you, but you never let me collect them for you."
This is really nonsense and makes no sense. Ling Qingxiao patiently said, "No. If you want, I will leave my storage space for you."
Before Luo Han could speak, Ling Qingxiao refused, "This book is not good."
Luo Han was at a loss for words, and had a little doubt about the stories of the tenderness of the iron man, the tempering of steel to the softness of the fingers. Can you really warm an iceberg? Ling Qingxiao is more than an iceberg, this is a glacier made of iron.
Seeing that Ling Qingxiao was about to withdraw his hands, Luo Han's heart swayed, and he stood up half straight, stretched his arms around his neck, and asked, "Is the book more important or me?"
Ling Qingxiao felt the gap between lovers and friends. Friends, lovers, and husbands and wives, maybe it should be divided into three categories, at least he has not seen similar situations in any couples around him.
Ling Qingxiao's upper body was completely stiff, his arms were still on the table, but Luo Han was wrapped around his neck, he couldn't move, he could only say stiffly, "Don't change the subject, it's not a thing at all."
"Then you think I'm being unreasonable?"
Ling Qingxiao raised her eyebrows in surprise, what and what? Ling Qingxiao tried to reason with Luo Han: "Calm down, your words have no logic at all."
"You still think I have no logic." Luo Han said quietly, "Then who do you think has logic?"
Ling Qingxiao gave up, he shouldn't be rude to Luo Han, as long as she wanted to, the dead could be told to live by her. Ling Qingxiao sighed slightly and asked, "What do you want?"
"Look at me taking the initiative to hug you, but you are indifferent. Is the book more important or me? You don't want to care about me for a book?"
Ling Qingxiao's fingers were tense. In fact, he knew what Luo Han wanted to do, but feelings were more domineering than Gu poison, and no matter how clear his reason was, he still couldn't resist.
Ling Qingxiao raised her hand slowly and put it on Luo Han's waist. Luo Han's waist is slender, soft and delicate, completely different from his body. Xianjie's clothes are all wide, and when he tightened his arms, he pressed the clothes out of layers of folds, making it even more apparent that the waist was too thin to hold.
Ling Qingxiao was stunned, and the book on the desk disappeared. Luo Han put the book into his storage space, let go of his hand contentedly, sat back in his place, and said, "Okay, I've finished what I have to say today, so let's go here."
The implication is that Ling Qingxiao can go back.
Ling Qingxiao came back to his senses, and the five flavors were mixed.
He didn't expect that he would also have a day that makes his mind faint.