Li Qianqian's attitude towards Fan Jianming is by no means a simple compromise, and as a woman, she has figured out many problems.
Let me talk about being jealous.
Being jealous is not a woman's patent, and being angry by a green man is earth-shattering.
The reason why Li Qianqian looked down on this point was mainly because she was soberly aware that apart from the so-called feelings, there is also a mutual understanding and tolerance between real couples.
As far as Li Qianqian herself is concerned, she has a proud look and appearance, but she has suffered from shyness in her pocket, a poor family, and a single-parent family. Apart from the pride of her appearance and appearance, the rest is inferiority and life. doubt.
Because of Fan Jianming's appearance, she has everything she didn't have in the past.
And all this is not just a matter of money.
More importantly, Fan Jianming's huge wealth has won her respect, established self-confidence, and satisfied all kinds of vanities.
Of course she wanted to hold Fan Jianming tightly, just like holding everything she had.
But she had to carefully consider, besides her beauty and body, what else does Fan Jianming need?
Because of Fan Jianming's status change, all kinds of women will appear around him.
In Li Qianqian's view, the importance of those women to Fan Jianming may be as important as Fan Jianming's wealth to him.
Fan Jianming can tolerate everything that happens between her and Zhang Guodong. Why can't she tolerate Fan Jianming's relationship with other women?
With this kind of gratitude, Li Qianqian gradually changed her attitude towards the women around Fan Jianming.
Let's talk about dignity.
Li Qianqian feels more and more that if the chastity of a wife represents the dignity of a husband, then the status of a husband in society is the dignity of a wife.
She felt that Fan Jianming lived a chic life, lived freely, and lived well, which is her greatest dignity as a wife.
Especially Mrs. Davis's actions made her deeply touched.
Mrs. Davis knew that Davis had a wife in Africa
, There is even the current illegitimate girl Leah.
No matter how hate she is in her heart, on the surface, she still tries her best to protect her husband, and she is still doing her best to be a wife.
Leah’s mother’s death was not her fault.
Regardless of the purpose, she has been paying attention to Leah's growth for so many years, so why is it not for Davis's sake?
After all, their son has a congenital disease, and Mrs. Davis is also the day to prevent the tragedy from happening. She can give Davis another biological daughter.
Apart from other things, as a wife, she can do this, which is admirable.
Not only are few women who appear next to Fan Jianming greedy for his money, but they are even willing to pay for him selflessly, including Dong Mingxia and Wu Wenli.
As for Fang Yadan, Li Qianqian just thinks that her brain lacks strings and is easily impulsive, and it does not constitute a fatal threat to herself.
Because Li Qianqian knew very well that in Fan Jianming's mind, these people couldn't replace herself at all.
If it's just going to the public toilet, why do I have to be reluctant, and even turn my face with Fan Jianming, damaging his public image?
If his character is broken, how can his dignity come from?
Even if it includes Melanie or Leah, Li Qianqian knows that they can't replace them.
Because she knew that Fan Jianming might only like Shangguan Youran.
Li Qianqian has not that self-confidence, she definitely beats Melanie and Liya in Fan Jianming's eyes, but she knows that they can't replace Shangguan Youran in Fan Jianming's heart.
That being the case, unless Shangguan appeared leisurely, Fan Jianming would never make any choice between Li Qianqian and other women.
So Li Qianqian slowly accepted the fact that Fan Jianming could have more women.
Before going abroad this time, she also told herself that as long as the status of her wife was not shaken, she could endure everything.
However, Chen Lingling's accident made Li Qianqian feel that life was too fragile.
She even thought of
, If God really made arrangements, it would be no pity for her to lose her position as a wife.
Li Qianqian knows very well that Fan Jianming is by no means a ruthless person. Even if it is the day when the divorce is necessary, Fan Jianming will arrange the rest of her life well.
There is another important point.
That is the inner alchemy.
Because through such a long time of operation and cultivation, Li Qianqian has not regarded the short life and the feelings of life shorter than life as much as he used to.
She now prefers to discover the mystery of life.
To put it bluntly, what Li Qianqian wants most now is to be able to open the eyes of the sky and cultivate to become an immortal.
Before, she really wanted to get pregnant with Fan Jianming's child earlier, but now, she is more, but she is wondering if she can cultivate into an immortal!
A person who is preparing to cultivate will usually look down on everything in the world.
Because of this, Li Qianqian appeared more and more majestic in front of everyone.
This is why, knowing that she stayed will not only burden Fan Jianming, but even lose her life with Fan Jianming, but she still has no hesitation.
In addition to the reason why as a wife, she must stay with her husband, but also because she has looked down on life and everything, so there is nothing to let go.
Of course, she is still a human being, and she hasn’t really been able to let go of everything. She just tried hard to do that. If Shangguan Youran appears, Fan Jianming will divorce her because of Shangguan You, I’m afraid she will not be so calm. .
Unless she thoroughly figured it out and took the initiative to vacate the position of this wife, the situation would be different.
Fan Jianming was rather ashamed of Li Qianqian's performance.
The two kissed for a long time, and Fan Jianming said, "My wife, thank you for your grandeur and generosity, but I can swear to you..."
Li Qianqian interrupted him with a smile: "Don't swear to me now. One day you will find Shangguan Youran. If you can swear to me in front of her, I will only love me in this life, and I will believe that what you said is true."
(End of this chapter)