Li Qianqian never seemed to be able to figure out whether she was in the curse.
Of course, whether it is right is particularly important for a girl, but it is not the only important thing. What is more important than this is whether there is a real relationship between two people?
If there is no emotion as the basis, everything is empty talk.
Fan Jianming explained: "Qianqian, don’t try. I believe you are in a good position. You will not use your innocence to joke with me. I just want to tell you that the biggest obstacle between you and me is not money and Some kind of past experience, but the feelings between each other."
"Emotions can be cultivated."
"Yes, but it depends on what basis it is based on. Just like now, I believe you have developed feelings for me, in fact, I have also developed feelings for you, but have you seriously considered that such feelings are not what you need? , It's not my need."
Li Qianqian blinked her eyes, completely unaware of Fan Jianming's meaning.
Fan Jianming went on to explain: "Abandon the lack of financial conditions. As far as feelings are concerned, what you need most now is a man who loves you with all his heart. He should care for you meticulously and be able to tolerate your small temper. Little temper, even some kind of deceit. And at any time, he can be full of understanding and tolerance towards you, even when you are arrogant, he will make you happy and make you laugh, right?"
More than Li Qianqian, women all over the world are like this.
Fan Jianming went on to say: "And me? I don't need a mature woman like you to be a wife. What I need is a more sunny and carefree. She may not understand this or that, but she knows that In this world, besides her father, I am the most important man in her life."
Li Qianqian narrowed her mouth, and when she was about to speak, Fan Jianming immediately stopped her: "Don't be eager to make a statement. You can close your eyes and feel, who is the first man that appeared in your mind?"
No need to close your eyes, as soon as Fan Jianming's words were over, Zhang Guodong's shadow appeared in her mind.
The reason why Fan Jianming said this is because he concluded that Zhang Guodong would be the first thing Li Qianqian thought of, but he did not say anything.
"Qianqian, I don't care who you think of, but that person will definitely not be me. This proves that, at least in your mind, I am not the best candidate for your husband."
"What about you? You closed your eyes and thought of it first
Who will it be, Shangguan Youran? "
Fan Jianming shook his head: "No, I don’t know in the future, but at least so far, I can’t close my eyes. The first woman I think of is you. But I still want to reiterate that I don’t think of you now, but Li Qianqian, a carefree and sunny high school student back then."
"The problem is that none of us can go back to the past."
"So I appreciate the words you said in the afternoon even more. While I was away, you and I will think about it. Do you think this is good? Let's change roles and try to get in touch."
"Change a role?"
"Not bad." Fan Jianming said: "We forget the marriage certificate. If possible, after I return to China, we will go to the divorce, and then continue to contact like a pair of brothers and sisters of the opposite sex."
Li Qianqian couldn't understand what he meant, so she could only look at Fan Jianming without saying a word.
"You see, our understanding of each other now only remains in the memory of the past. Today, the real you and me, in fact, we don’t understand, because the marriage certificate restricts our freedom. We feel that we are legal couples, so we always act in front of each other according to the feeling of a husband or wife. That is totally wrong."
"You mean, let's start again?"
"Yes. This has at least two advantages: First, we can act completely according to our own will, and there is no need to consider the other's feelings and suffer from gains and losses, so as to artificially hide our true side. That is undoubtedly deceit."
Li Qianqian nodded.
"Secondly, we all leave room for the other party. If the other party has a better choice, we will silently bless the other party. After a period of re-acquaintance and further understanding, we really feel that the other party is an indispensable other in our life. Halfway, we will reunite again when that happens. In that case, for you and me, there will be no regrets or regrets."
Li is such a reason, but Li Qianqian is still a little worried about the economy. Anyway, as long as she holds the marriage certificate tightly, it belongs to Fan Jianming's property, which will eventually be half of hers.
Fan Jianming is very clear that what Li Qianqian is most worried about is the damage to the vested economic interests, so she said: "There is one thing you can rest assured that even if we get a divorce certificate, your position as the chief financial officer of Fan Group will remain the same, as long as you are willing. , Not only you can still live in Minshan Xiaoyanglou, but also
Move your father to live. As I said, we should be brothers and sisters of the opposite sex. And if you have any needs in your life, I am referring to the issue of money. You don't have to worry about it. I will give you as much as you want. "
Li Qianqian smiled awkwardly: "If we really go through the divorce procedures, do you think I will ask you for money?"
"If it's your business, I won't treat you badly in terms of money." Fan Jianming sighed long: "Look at our current situation. You are waiting for me at home every day, but I don't want to go back. Because I am not prepared to sleep in a quilt with you. And you are alone in the vacant room, for a long time, it will inevitably affect your emotions, the misunderstanding between us will become deeper and deeper, and the distance between us will also be Farther and farther away. Instead of doing this, we might as well let go temporarily and observe each other from a distance. When we are destined in the future and come together again, we will cherish each other."
Li Qianqian really didn't expect that Fan Jianming could say so, just this eloquence would have completely conquered Li Qianqian.
And she deliberated it carefully, and if she wanted to truly be able to combine with Fan Jianming, she could only take his approach, and the two would get to know each other again.
Otherwise, even if you wait for the wedding on New Year's Day, that kind of marriage will survive in name only.
"Jianming, I agree with you. Otherwise, we will go through the divorce procedures tomorrow, and then you can leave, okay?"
Seeing Li Qianqian figured it out and promised to go through the procedures tomorrow, Fan Jianming was finally relieved and immediately smiled: "That won't work."
"why?"
"Because I really have to go abroad this time, I can't delay it for a moment. More importantly, my grandmother and my father still need someone to take care of them. After all, you are still my legal wife. During this time, you have to join in as a daughter-in-law. It is your responsibility to take care of them with your grandchildren and daughter-in-law, and I feel more at ease."
"What do you mean?" Li Qianqian smiled rarely at first sight: "You are exploiting, you treat me as a free nanny!"
"Who said it was exploitation? I gave you this car, so you have to give me something in return, right?"
Li Qianqian gave him a white glance: "Well, just do as you said, but as soon as you come back, we will immediately get a divorce certificate, don't you want to exploit me for a lifetime!"
"This is okay, girl, let's drive!"
"Humph!"
Li Qianqian started the car, more proficient than before, and drove directly to the provincial capital.
(End of this chapter)