In the first few days, Li Qianqian made a dozen or twenty phone calls every day. Since the last time she talked with Dong Mingxia, she learned that Fan Jianming was in the war-torn country T and had no way of receiving a signal, so she never made any more calls. Over the phone, but insist on sending text messages every day.
The content of the text message is normal, just like life notes. When something is okay, you can edit your day’s experience, or work and life for a certain period of time, and your feelings about life into a text message and send it to Fan Jianming.
Li Qianqian's literary literacy is quite high, and her emotions are quite rich. In the past, she didn't pay attention to Fan Jianming. Now, if she really wants to impress Fan Jianming, she still has many ways.
In addition to literary talent, she also knows how to fan affection. The most written information is the daily life of her grandmother and father, which brings out that she is like a good wife and mother.
Of course, it was Zhou Yaping's words that reminded her that at this moment, Fan Jianming, who is abroad, cares about and can't let go of her grandmother and father the most.
Li Qianqian believes that writing these things can move Fan Jianming far more than those prose poems about love and love.
Fan Jianming also saw countless unanswered calls from Li Qianqian, and these short messages made Fan Jianming refreshed.
At this moment, he really felt the warmth of home, and he was rushing from the lines of Li Qianqian's text messages.
"What are you looking at, so focused?" Elena asked.
"It's nothing, the text messages from my fiancée are all family trivialities."
"She's pretty, right? Is there a picture of her?"
"No one now, all I have are pictures of her in the past."
"Can I appreciate it?"
"of course."
Fan Jianming clicked on the past photos, which contained more pictures of Li Qianqian and Fang Yadan. Of course, there were also separate photos of them, and the number of them was equal.
This was collected before he went to work abroad. At that time, in his heart, Li Qianqian and Fang Yadan were both goddesses of the same level. If he could get any of them, he would be satisfied in his life.
Even at that time, in his opinion, if it is for vanity, to go out to make pens, it is the best choice to marry Fang Yadan.
But if he wants to live, he prefers Li Qianqian's restrained and reserved.
in case
It wasn't that the two of them had changed too much later, they were still the same as they were at the beginning. If Fan Jianming chooses one of the two, it is really hard for him to choose.
After Elena clicked on those photos, she suddenly smiled and said, "No wonder you are so confident now, when you were a kid, you were particularly inferior? Life is really interesting. Between inferiority and self-confidence, there is actually only one step away."
Fan Jianming looked at Elena with a surprised look: "Where do you see that I used to have a low self-esteem?"
"Obviously, if you were as confident as you are now, and you have handled your fiancee a long time ago, how could you still keep the photos of her school days?"
I go, this judgment is too classic.
Unlike girls who like to think carefully, pretend to be reserved, and want to catch, boys prefer straightforward expressions.
Just as Elena had judged, if Fan Jianming had enough self-confidence back then, whether it was Fang Yadan or Li Qianqian, he would have handled the other party a long time ago.
In that case, do I still need to store other people’s photos in my mobile phone?
Elena judged from these photos that Fan Jianming had a crush on his fiancée at the beginning, and he didn't even have the courage to express it, which shows that he was too inferior at the beginning.
After watching for a while, Elena asked again: "These two girls were your secret crush back then, right now, who do you marry?"
"you guess!"
"I'm not a wizard, how can I guess? But I can talk about my judgment and opinion."
"OK, I am listening respectfully."
Ailena pointed to Li Qianqian's photo and said: "From what I know about you, or what you know about you in the East, your favorite in your heart is her."
"why?"
"She seems to have the kind of compliment to women in your Eastern culture. It is graceful, kind, restrained and even self-depressing. She is most suitable for having children with you and doing housework, right?"
It seems that Elena not only understands the Eastern culture very well, but also understands the tastes of Eastern men towards women.
Fan Jianming nodded: "As expected of the stationmaster, she is indeed my fiancee."
Elena shook her head again, and pointed to Fang Yadan’s photo and said, “In fact, this is a manifestation of your lack of confidence. If you are in the West, I believe all boys
, Will choose this girl. "
Fan Jianming asked puzzledly: "Why?"
"Because she looks more beautiful and looks very proud. If you marry her, she will definitely help you in your career. In our West, many successful families like to hold parties (family gatherings). She is most suitable to be the hostess of a party. Especially in the occasions of diplomacy and public relations, she will definitely add points to you." Elena smiled disdainfully: "Of course, your eastern culture may not tolerate her, but only I feel that as a girl, she is too arrogant and even a little arrogant."
Regarding Fang Yadan's evaluation, especially the evaluation of a girl of the type Yadan from the East, Elena can be said to have hit the nail on the head.
However, Fan Jianming couldn't look back, so Elena didn't take Yadan's evaluation to his heart. Instead, he looked at Li Qianqian's photo and asked, "What about her?"
"Let’s tell you this, if you are a gentleman, she is like your servant, if you are a rich man, she is like your servant. Maybe your education, and your culture Educated, you must choose her, or her first choice, but she will not bring any help to your career. Sometimes, it will become a burden for you."
Fan Jianming took a sip in his heart: More than negative, it's almost cumbersome!
Now Fan Jianmin's attitude towards Li Qianqian is that it is a bone in his hand, and it feels like a piece of meat when he throws it away.
Elena lightly patted Fan Jianming on the cheek, and smiled at Fang Yadan's photo and said, "If I were you, I would marry this girl. As for your current fiancée, I will only treat him as a sunny person."
"That's the opposite? Even if your judgment is correct, shouldn't you marry a restrained and low-key girl as your wife? Wouldn't it be better to be a Qingren if she is a little more arrogant?"
Elena shook her head and said: "This again involves the difference between Eastern and Western cultures. To put it bluntly, don't you worry that this ostentatious girl will give you a cuckold? In fact, make no mistake, even if she has A man will also take good care of the family and you. Once this introverted girl is out of the wall, she can desperate everything, whether it is you or the child, she can abandon it."
(End of this chapter)