Fan Jianming explained: "What you said is pretty good. In this society, money is a measure of all values, and at the same time it is enough to prove a person's ability. Those who talk about money and tacky are just pretending. I never I doubt the importance of money to people, but how to make money is too particular."
Huang Yaowu smiled and said: "Compared to talking about the relationship between my parents, I would rather listen to you talk about making money business."
"We will have the opportunity to communicate in the future, but what I want to say today is that as a man, I gave my wife to other men before. Thirteen years later, which man in the world do you think still has courage, or say Is it willing to welcome his wife back again?"
This sentence hit Huang Yaowu's sore spot, making him silent.
"I'm not condemning your father, nor do I mean to provoke your father-son relationship. It's still a matter of fact. You and I are both men. If we encounter this kind of thing, it is impossible to accept the woman who has left us for more than ten years. Come back to us, in that case, why do you force your father?"
Well, why is this guy still talking for my father?
Fan Jianming spoke ill of Huang Hanbin, and Huang Yaowu was ear-piercing.
But I felt particularly awkward to hear him telling himself that he should understand his father.
Fan Jianming went on to say: "You see the current situation is that your mother and my father have not really divorced, and your father simply cannot accept your current mother. If you let your mother stay in the Fan Group, I believe your father Still think about it, after all, he uses your mother as a cash machine."
"If you let your mother leave the Fan Group and the Fan Family now, I don't want to predict how prosperous your career will be in the future, but how do you live this thing in front of you?"
"Although your father was defrauded of a huge sum of money, he was not penniless, but he was used to living a luxurious life, and he didn’t even need to worry. A large amount of money could be transferred to his card. You let him and you and Do you think it is possible for your mother to start from scratch, especially if he doesn't love your mother at all?"
Huang Yaowuming knew that Fan Jianming was telling the truth, but he insisted: "People will change. Maybe at first the two parties will not adapt, but after getting along for a long time, I believe they will get back together."
"What you said is very good. This possibility is not unavailable, and it is also our hope of being children. But the crux of the problem lies in your father, a man who feels he has been green for thirteen years, how do you let him accept you? mother?"
"That's our business, and it doesn't seem to need you to care. Although you have repeatedly stated that our conversation today has nothing to do with the grievances between the two families, but the grievances between you and my family are there. You should say that you are completely good for our family. Do you believe it?"
It seems that Huang Yaowu is still very sensible. He has not been urged by Fan Jianming. At a critical moment, he clearly realizes that even if he and Fan Jianming are not enemies, they are definitely not friends.
No matter from which point of view, Fan Jianming has no reason to hope that their family is good.
Fan Jianming nodded: "You have reached the point. I never said from beginning to end that I hope your family is well!"
Huang Yaowu was stunned for a moment, and thought: You have been pretending to be forced for a long time, are you ready to start the face-slapped mode now?
Huang Yaowu had a sullen face, did not speak, and waited for Fan Jianming to continue.
If he said too much, Huang Yaowu was going to turn his face on the spot.
Fan Jianming went on to say: "I came to talk to you today, hoping that you face the reality. Of course, the purpose is for the good of our own family. After all, your mother and my father are legal couples. Even if we go to the court to go to court, we will not lose. Reason!"
Huang Yaowu said coldly: "Then I would like to ask, what reality do you want me to face?"
"First, in a strict sense, your mother is just your father’s ex-wife, and your mother now has a stable family and job. You let your mother give up all this for your own benefit. Your mother says you have a responsibility. , I think it’s totally irresponsible for you to do this. When you still don’t have the ability to let your mother lead a happy life, why do you make your mother give up her current happiness?"
Huang Yaowu was speechless for a while.
"Secondly, your father obviously did not treat your mother as his wife. To put it a bit ugly, he has always used your mother as a tool. I can even be sure that even if Yu Jiaojiao deceived your father, let Yu Jiaojiao and your mother are in front of your father. I believe your father's choice must be Yu Jiaojiao, not your mother!"
Huang Yaowu was speechless, because he knew very well that Fan Jianming's judgment was absolutely correct.
Fan Jianming went on to say: "From this point of view, you have to push a mother who your father doesn’t like, and push it to your father again. For your father, even if you don’t understand him, it’s even worse. Not filial."
Chen Lingling missed the opportunity to touch Huang Yaowu's knee, which meant to tell him that Fan Jianming was right.
Fan Jianming continued: "Your current father is a fire pit
, You think that bringing your mother and father together is your greatest filial piety and the greatest happiness in your family, but you didn't realize that you were simply pushing your mother into the fire pit. For your mother, I am afraid that you are not only not filial, but also a bit rebellious, right? "
Chen Lingling touched Huang Yaowu's knee again.
The reason why Chen Lingling didn't respond before was because he felt that Fan Jianming's words were foreshadowing, and these two sentences seemed to be the focus of the discussion tonight, so she cooperated appropriately.
For Fan Jianming's words, Huang Yaowu was originally difficult to refute. With Chen Lingling's continuous hints, Huang Yaowu felt that Fan Jianming's words were reasonable, so he didn't say anything.
Huang Yaowu always thought that Fan Jianming would overwhelm him in the communication tonight. In that case, Huang Yaowu was ready to rebound anytime and anywhere.
However, unexpectedly, Fan Jian was obviously very low-key and kind.
If you insist that Huang Yaowu is at a disadvantage, it is also because of the content of the conversation between the two. Fan Jianming is justified and has not shown the slightest hypocrisy, making Huang Yaowu unable to fight back.
Fan Jianming had already seen that Huang Yaowu was beginning to waver, so he did not relax, and then said: "If it is possible, I hope you can consider my suggestion."
Huang Yaowu asked: "What advice?"
"Just like when we were young, we hated parental control. Parents have controlled us for a lifetime. It is also very difficult to accept our constraints. The reason why your mother gave up everything she likes for you, you should understand her. It was all for you, and made a sacrifice that she could hardly bear."
"Instead of letting her live willingly but in agony, why don't you let them decide their own life?"
"If your parents are willing to come together, but they are bearing the outside world. To put it bluntly, they are bearing the pressure of our holiday. In that case, I appreciate everything you said to your mother today. Even if you are begging for food, you should take it. Let your parents leave, to find the happiness you need."
"But the actual situation is not like this." Fan Jianming said: "For my father and your mother, you are now hitting mandarin ducks. For your mother and your father, you just forcibly twisted two unsweet melons. Together, it can be said that the three parties are not pleased. It is because of your own ideas that are simple, stubborn, and even not accepted by your own parents. Put the three elderly people in two families into a situation where life is not as good as death. Is this filial piety or loyalty?"
(End of this chapter)