What Fang's father said was plausible, and it was a talk about life's experience or the way of doing business, so Fang Yadan couldn't refute it.
As the saying goes, the two powers take advantage of each other, and the two powers take the lesser of harm.
A person's life will experience many turning points, and choices need to be made.
In fact, many successes and failures do not necessarily have a higher IQ or EQ than the loser. It is often just a difference in one thought and made the wrong decision when choosing.
In other words, the so-called winners, as opposed to losers, often just make the right choice every time they face a decision.
And to weigh whether your choice is correct, just see if you choose to maximize your benefits when you are pursuing benefits, or if you choose to minimize the loss when you are facing a crisis.
Those who fail will refute, isn't this nonsense?
Who will not think of maximizing when facing benefits? In the face of crisis, fools know to minimize losses!
In fact, this is just talking. When you are faced with a decision, most people will make wrong judgments. This is why the rich and successful people are often a minority.
For example, when faced with benefits, you have different choices. Do you maximize your benefits regardless of all risks, or to prevent risks, rather than give up greater benefits and just stop?
Another example is when you are facing a crisis, are you trying to minimize the loss, or just give up and start anew?
Before making a decision, it is often difficult to make correct judgments. The same people face the same things. If the timing is wrong, the same choices you make will often result in a world of difference.
Therefore, when faced with choices, successful people will not rely on impulse or gambler's psychology, like betting on fate, they will inevitably make comparisons, and finally make choices that are relatively beneficial to them.
After weighing various pros and cons, Fang's father decided to let Fang Yadan go to see Qin Tian. For this reason, he could even make Fang Yadan abandon everything, no matter how honesty and loyalty he was.
The first is the issue of interests.
For Fang Yadan, the biggest benefit of her cooperation with Fan Jianming is only to stay in the economic benefit, at best, it is the problem of making more and less, or not making money.
And the same benefits, Fang Yadan can also be obtained through cooperation with Qin Tian.
In addition, the cooperation between her and Qin Tian might give her a happy marriage. At least this, Fan Jianming could not give her.
Correct
For Fang's father and Fang Yadan, who are not short of money, how much money is made is just a matter of adding a few zeros to the family property, and Fang Yadan now urgently needs to solve a personal lifelong matter.
For Fang Yadan, Qin Tian should be Fang Yadan's best choice no matter what.
Based on the principle of mutual benefit, Fang Yadan's choice of cooperation with Qin Tian is undoubtedly correct between Qin Tian and Fan Jianming.
As for the mutual understanding and the goodwill between each other, as long as you start to cooperate, everything is possible!
Starting from the principle that the two powers are the lesser one, see who she does not cooperate with, the loss will be greater.
Without cooperating with Qin Tian, on Fan Jianming's side, apart from the benefits from her own shares, she has no other benefits, but she may lose a happy marriage.
Without cooperating with Fan Jianming, in Qin Tian's side, in addition to the benefits from her own shares, she may also hit Qin Tian instantly, achieving a perfect combination of male talent and female appearance.
Of course, maybe Fan Jianming will say that she is treachery, or even that she violates business ethics, so what can we do?
The loss of image or reputation caused by this kind of verbal criticism is almost negligible compared with a happy marriage.
From this point of view, her cooperation with Qin Tian is also the best choice.
Fang's father really made a decision in an instant based on this consideration. Between Fan Jianming and Qin Tian, he encouraged Fang Yadan to cooperate with Qin Tian.
Fang Yadan also understood what his father meant, but he was still a little hesitant: "Dad, anyway, Fan Jianming is my classmate, and he found me first and showed his hole cards at the same time. It doesn't matter if you give up cooperation with him, but letting me cooperate with his only opponent is not justified by reason or reason!"
Father Fang said: "Yadan, my child, when will you truly mature? In the face of interests, there is no reason at all. In terms of reason, you should not be involved in interests. In the same sentence, no matter who you are with Cooperation, you can get what you want, but why don't you want to get more, but for some reason, go for less?"
Fang Yadan looked a little irritable: "What you just said is correct, and I know it is for my good, but at this time, I really..."
Seeing her very embarrassed, Father Fang sighed: "Why don't you go and meet Qin Tian first. You haven't figured out his true purpose. You only have to meet and communicate well. After his true purpose, you can be more cautious
Make a decision. "
Fang Yadan thinks about it, too, now hesitating for a long time here, if he sees Qin Tian later, he won't talk about that piece of land at all, he just wants to confuse me, am I not here to worry?
When Fang Yadan turned and was about to leave, Fang's father stopped her again: "My child, I shouldn't have said this to you, but no one except me can say this to you. I have said it, you Qian Don't be angry."
Fang Yadan knew that this choice was even related to the direction of her life, so his father was so solemn. I am afraid that he will say something very ugly, but it is an unpleasant piece of advice.
Fang Yadan believes that even if people all over the world are liars, and there is only one person who will never deceive her, this person is only her father.
"Dad, tell me, I'm listening carefully."
"You always think that you are very smart, and you like to play some clever things in front of people. Even if you are competitive with Li Qianqian, I won't talk about him. Some time ago, you swayed between Zhang Guodong and Lin Hongtao. Uncertain, right and left. When playing with them, do you have a sense of accomplishment?"
Fang Yadan blushed when he heard this, and asked embarrassedly: "Dad, what do you want to say?"
"I am your father. If you let you be played by others, I certainly hope you are playing with others. Playable people, who do you score, for those who have no status, just look at your beauty and money. Man, is it fun to play with them?"
"Like Lin Hongtao and Zhang Guodong, one is a college student who has not graduated, and the other is a family with snobs. They are played by you, not because they are stupid, their intelligence is not enough, but their IQ, completely Our Fang family’s property is deceived, so how do you play is handy."
"Fan Jianming and Qin Tian don’t understand. They are both men with successful careers. Our wealth is not in their eyes. The beautiful women around them are not necessarily worse than you. If you are true I think I'm quite smart, why not play with these two men?"
I'm going, this is really my real father!
It's not my father, I can't say such a thing flatly.
"Dad, what do you mean--"
"Why do you only think that if you cooperate with Fan Jianming, you must reject Qin Tian, and if you cooperate with Qin Tian, you must offend Fan Jianming? Why don't you give full play to your ingenuity and get what you want from Fan Jianming , And at the same time, can you get what he can give you from Qin Tian?"
(End of this chapter)