Wu Wenli smiled: "I'm afraid of you, am I such an unreliable lord?"
"What do you mean, did she go out?"
"No," Wu Wenli said with a smile: "I was entrusted by your wife to come to make peace with you, and there is no one with you. How can you make your wife nervous every day?"
Fan Jianming turned over and kissed Wu Wenli for a while, but to be cautious, he pulled Wu Wenli up from her sex, stood by the bed and asked, "What did she tell you?"
"She said that she dismissed three new employees today. It feels like you feel unhappy. She also thinks talking to you is a bit too much, but if you just bow your head, you won’t be able to save face. Although she didn’t let me come forward directly, I think She meant it, so I told her that I came up to talk to her, but she didn't say a word."
Fan Jianming sighed: "Actually, I didn't say anything, but when the three employees left, they said something that made me unbearable at the door. With my past temper, I brought them back directly. I had already considered her feelings, so I first came to the office to communicate with her about this matter. I didn't expect me to say something she was stunned, and there was no way to communicate."
Wu Wenli smiled and said: "It seems that you still don't know you well, do you know a woman, since when can she truly fall in love with you?"
Fan Jianming blinked. He hadn't considered this issue yet, and he had no way of knowing it.
Wu Wenli smiled and said: "Women's true feelings towards men usually have four stages, each stage has a completely different form of expression, but it has distinct characteristics."
"Oh?"
"The first stage can be called the review stage, that is, when interacting with men, out of a strong sense of self-protection, women will deliberately converge their various habits and observe quietly, just like when recruiting. Like an interviewer, you will feel that she is extremely cold and difficult to approach."
As the saying goes, the light will not turn on if you don't pick it up, and you won't know what you don't say.
Fan Jianming had never thought about this problem in the past, and always felt that women were unfathomable. Hearing what Wu Wenli said, she suddenly felt that women's minds were actually very simple.
At the first meeting, the woman's only thought was to protect herself.
Wu Wenli went on to say: "The second stage can be called the probing stage, and most of them are advancing instead of retreating. Judging from the current situation, your wife's attitude towards you is in the second stage."
"Is it wrong?" Fan Jianming asked: "I and her have both obtained the certificate. Although we have not yet completed the room or held a wedding, I have given her everything she wants, and she has long been anxious. I want to show my loyalty to me, what else are you testing at this time?"
Wu Wenli shook her head and said: "This is the biggest difference between men and women, especially in terms of feelings. Men like to cut the mess with a sharp knife, while women are different. We prefer the long flow of water."
Fan Jianming was taken aback for a moment, but nodded immediately.
It's true that men always use reserved, or even false and serious words when evaluating women. In the final analysis, this is not a woman's pretentiousness, but a character.
In terms of emotion, women like to chew slowly, just like when they eat, but in the eyes of men who like to eat meat and drink, they are just doing it.
Because of this misunderstanding, people in the world do not know how many beautiful marriages have been missed.
Wu Wenli continued: "In the eyes of others, you are already a happy couple. It can be said that you are a talented woman, but I know that you have not even done that kind of thing, so it is very clear that Li Qianqian at this time has no absolutes for you, right? In other words, she doesn't understand your true temperament at all, so she must test you."
"The method of temptation is the same as that of all women, which is to advance as retreat. So when you communicate with her, you will always feel that every word she says is quite offensive to you. And she is exactly what Through this attack on you, you can judge your endurance and endurance to her. The stronger your endurance and endurance, the deeper your love for her!"
"Especially when she is about to hand over her life to you, this kind of temptation will become more frequent, and her attacks on you will become stronger and stronger. And you must figure out that this is not her alone, almost All women are like this."
gosh!
What else to say?
No wonder she feels that she is talking more and more aggressively, more and more arrogant and unreasonable?
Think about it.
Fan Jianming and Li Qianqian had hugged each other a long time ago for various reasons, but they never had a chance to do that kind of thing.
Now, the external contradictions have basically been resolved. Whether it is Zhang Guodong or Qin Tian, they are no longer an obstacle between Fan Jianming and Li Qianqian.
For internal problems, Li Qianqian's body is also clean. It is no exaggeration to say that both of them are looking forward to the round room tonight.
At this
In this case, Li Qianqian overplayed a little bit and spoke more aggressively, so that she could make a final test to see how important her position in Fan Jianming's mind is. I am afraid it is really natural.
Wu Wenli added: "After entering the second stage, as far as the woman is concerned, she has basically recognized the man she is facing, and what is left is to hope that the man will give her more love. From the woman's point of view, The best way for a man to show his love for himself is tolerance and patience."
Fan Jianming shook his head dumbfoundedly: "Even if it is a temptation, she should have a separate occasion or topic, right? I just talked to her about work, which is related to the success of the branch and the Minshan project. What a big deal!"
Wu Wenli smiled and said: "There is one thing you haven't figured out, or you men haven't done it. In fact, it is the same for any woman. Your own relationship matters more than anything! Take your wife as an example, you love her now. The degree is far more important than the success of the branch and Minshan project!"
Fan Jianming was a little dumb.
Wu Wenli went on to say: "In the second stage I'm talking about, women don’t pick topics and occasions. From our women’s perspective, the more important things that affect a man’s career, the more it reflects a man’s true attitude towards himself. ."
"That's why, many men will say that their wives do not support them in their careers. The specific performance is the primary and secondary part. They clearly see that their careers are at a critical stage, but their wives are always suspicious and stubborn."
“In fact, it’s not that women don’t know the importance of their careers to men, and even their desire to succeed in their men is more urgent than their own men themselves, but women want to understand clearly what their men value more than their careers. ?"
Fan Jianming sighed for a long time: "I understand what you mean, but I don't understand it. It's understandable that you women are jealous of other women, but why should you be jealous of men's career?"
"Let’s say we are men. We will only be jealous of men and never be jealous of women’s career! If Li Qianqian will devote herself to this project and cannot take care of her family in the future, I won’t say a word to her. of."
Wu Wenli smiled slightly: "This is the difference between men and women, or else, how can there be men and women in this world?"
(End of this chapter)