"Mengyan, what is the most important thing between lovers?" Zhao Ying asked without returning to her. Zuilu Academy
"The most important thing between lovers? Is it love for each other?" Chen Mengyan asked.
"No, falling in love with each other is just a short-term love. After the love, conflicts will come." Zhao Ying shook her head and said: "The most important thing between lovers is mutual trust! You didn't trust Yang Ming first, then you It created an opportunity for Yang Ming to cheat."
"..." Chen Mengyan was silent. Yes, what Zhao Ying said did make sense. If he hadn't distrusted Yang Ming in the first place, Yang Ming wouldn't be unhappy. Even if Yang Ming went on a trip and talked to him on the phone every day, it would be impossible for him to find a girl with Zhang Bin!
Seeing that Chen Mengyan stopped talking, Zhao Ying continued: "Mengyan, something has happened. What you are thinking about now is not how to face it, but how to escape, or in other words, how to find a way to get rid of the women around Yang Ming. Drive him away so you can have him all to yourself, right?"
"I..." Chen Mengyan was a little embarrassed when Zhao Ying revealed her thoughts.
"Haha, originally, your thoughts are correct. After all, people are selfish. Not only you, I also think that I will be the only one I love in the future, but some things do not happen according to our ideas. "Zhao Ying continued: "For example, the girl named Lin Zhiyun, if she forgives Yang Ming and accepts Yang Ming, you should be happy for her. After all, this is the mistake Yang Ming made. He has You have to make up for this obligation! If you blindly stop him and don’t want him to do this, I think even if you get Yang Ming, you may not be happy if you become his only one!"
"Why?" Chen Mengyan asked curiously.
"First of all, Yang Ming will be resentful of what you did. Even if he doesn't say it on the surface, he will definitely have a grudge against you in his heart. With Zuilu Academy like this, you will ostensibly possess Yang Ming alone, but no one will I can guarantee that Yang Ming will love you more deeply in this way. I even dare to say that you are not as much as if he divided his love for you on average. Moreover, this situation will probably not last long. Between the two of you, The relationship will be completely broken." Zhao Ying said: "If you forgive Yang Ming's mistakes and actively help him make up for it, he will feel guilty about you, and at this time, he will treat you better!"
"But. The love that originally belonged to me is now divided into several parts. I'm still a little uncomfortable..." Chen Mengyan hesitated. But it was obvious that she had listened to Zhao Ying's words.
"How many parts should it be divided into? Is this just a way of saying it in a novel?" Zhao Ying said with a smile: "To give a simple example, you have a father, a mother, a grandpa, a grandma, and a grandpa, do you have a conflict of love with them? Do you think you have a conflict with your father? Love for the earth. Did it go to your grandfather? Or did you share your love for grandma to your mother?"
"This..." Chen Mengyan was stunned, as if she had figured something out.
"Haha, for another example, if you have a sister, can you say that after you have a sister, you will share the love you have for your parents with your sister?" Zhao Ying said with a smile: "This is not a conflict, you are You’re making trouble for yourself.”
"That's true." Chen Mengyan nodded and agreed with Zhao Ying's statement.
"And these are not the main ones. Lin Zhiyun is not the key to the problem. The key to the problem now is that girl named Lan Ling!" Zhao Ying said: "Yang Ming was poisoned by her earth heart. And you also know that if Yang Ming The consequences of leaving her! If you force Yang Ming to leave Lan Ling, it is tantamount to forcing him to die! Chen Mengyan, why do you always get into trouble, can't you see such simple cause and effect? Even if Yang Ming does it for you , if you want to leave Lan Ling, you should try your best to stop him! When Yang Ming thinks that the heart Gu is dead, what's the use of fighting for it? Yang Ming's people are gone, what else do you want? ?”
Zhao Ying's words hit Chen Mengyan's heart like a heavy hammer. Yes, how could she let Yang Ming leave Lan Ling? It would be the same as letting him die!
"I won't say anything else. You are a smart child and you should know how to make trade-offs, right?" Zhao Ying patted Chen Mengyan on the shoulder and said: "If you like him and love him, then you should be tolerant! Love is not selfish, love should be tolerant! This is the true meaning of love! Selfish love will never last long. Only by having a heart that tolerates each other can two people grow old together, right?"
"Thank you, Sister Ying, I will consider it carefully..." Chen Mengyan nodded thoughtfully and said, "My mood is much better now. Zuilu Academy"
"That's good, okay, it's almost time. Go to class quickly, I have to go to class too." Zhao Ying said.
"Well, Sister Ying, can you give me your mobile phone number? If I have any unhappy things, I will talk to you." Chen Mengyan asked.
"Okay, please remember my mobile phone number," said Ying.
"I took note of it." Chen Mengyan took out her mobile phone and entered the number. When I saw the mobile phone Yang Ming bought for me, I couldn't help but feel a little sad, thinking of the past.
After Chen Mengyan left, Zhao Ying also let out a long sigh of relief and leaned on the bench, feeling a little at a loss. He finally came to Songjiang Engineering University and became a student. In this way, the status gap with him was gone. However, new troubles came again. What Zhao Ying was thinking at the beginning was to see if she could replace Chen Mengyan. After all, she and Chen Mengyan had similar starting points.
At first, Zhao Ying chatted with Chen Mengyan with the purpose of getting some information about Yang Ming from her, but she didn't expect that Chen Mengyan would tell her such a complicated situation!
Now I am facing not only Chen Mengyan, but Chen Mengyan, Lan Ling, and Lin Zhiyun! First, Lan Ling and Zhao Ying said it was impossible to defeat her! Even if she could, Zhao Ying would not do such stupid things!
She is a very sensible person who knows how to advance and retreat. Since Lan Ling and Yang Ming are inseparable, there is no need to do any useless work. As for Lin Zhiyun, based on Zhao Ying's understanding of Yang Ming's character, Yang Ming would never leave her alone!
Therefore, it seems that Zhao Ying is trying to persuade Chen Mengyan, but it is better to say that she is trying to persuade herself to keep herself normal. Now that something has happened, we need to change our strategy.
To be honest, Zhao Ying wanted to give up for a while, but when she thought about how much effort she had put in to become Yang Ming's classmate, Zhao Ying didn't want her efforts to be in vain!
However, now it seems that Chen Mengyan's experience is not good either, so Zhao Ying has to reconsider. Although she said that love is tolerant, Zhao Ying's heart was bleeding. This Yang Ming is really too carefree!
We can only take things one step at a time. Zhao Ying knew that the relationship between Chen Mengyan and Yang Ming was still unclear, so it was not a wise choice for her to get involved.
Although Chen Mengyan's situation is not good, she is Yang Ming's real girlfriend no matter what. Even if she has no choice but to accept Lin Zhiyun and Lan Ling, she will never accept herself again!
So Zhao Ying decided to wait and see first, and calmly consider her relationship with Yang Ming. Is it worth it for her to have no hesitation
It is true that the several times Yang Ming sacrificed his life for protection had such a huge impact on Zhao Ying's soul that Zhao Ying was sure that she had fallen in love with him! But the key question still depends on what Yang Ming means.
Zhao Ying regretted it now. If she hadn't worried so much that night, would she and Yang Ming be together now
It seems that sometimes, people really can't worry too much. Otherwise, as the saying goes, if a person is shameless, he is invincible!
Zhao Ying shook her head and went to class.
Yang Ming also returned to school. The first thing he did when he returned to school was to call Zhao Ying. Unfortunately, Zhao Ying's mobile phone number was out of service!
In fact, after Zhao Ying was admitted to graduate school, she changed her mobile phone card. After all, she was now a student and ready to start over. But Yang Ming didn't know.
Yang Ming hung up the phone and thought to himself, is Zhao Ying really a graduate student here? So why not connect with yourself? Yang Ming decided to pay a visit to Zhao Ying's residence in person at night.
Back in the dormitory, Yang Ming opened his laptop again and studied the homework Fang Tian left for him. But unfortunately, except for the gambling instruction CD yesterday, the other CDs are very esoteric and difficult to understand. For example, Yang Ming couldn't understand many of the professional terms in the CD he was watching now about first aid for injuries.
There was no other way. Yang Ming could only look at it for a while, then stop, search for relevant information on the Internet, then look at it for a while, and then continue searching. This was repeated until Zhang Bin and Tian Donghua came back, and Yang Ming watched tenth of the progress of the disc.