The blogger said that in the second stage, Qi Cong's overall behavior pattern and inner emotional environment can be said to be extremely disordered and sensitive as he separates from his parents and leaves the stable environment of the family. At this time, he has lost memory, has some cognitive impairments, and has extremely low psychological maturity, just like an ignorant child who was suddenly thrown into a complex society.
During this period, Qi Cong needed to return to a stable and safe environment immediately, and he needed a parent he trusted to guide him gently and patiently to gradually get acquainted with this completely unfamiliar world to him.
But what did Jiang Zhaoyan, the only one who could play the role of a parent, do? He started to start a business with Qi Cong.
He put Qi Cong in a turbulent and high-pressure environment for a long time, let Qi Cong go to contact with all kinds of unknown people, talk about business, intrigue, let Qi Cong face the most complex and sophisticated side of the world, let Qi Cong Surrounded by all kinds of negative emotions for a long time.
The worst thing is that he also frequently asked Qi Cong to use the money left by those "broken parents" to Qi Cong, and asked Qi Cong to "fake and betray" with his parents in exchange for benefits and help.
A patient who has classified his parents as "threat" and "distrust" and actively flees from his parents, but is induced by the only "parent" he trusts to frequently take the money he wants to escape from the object and use his emotions to get rid of the other person's hand. Li defrauding profits, this kind of behavior against the inner will, will undoubtedly increase the patient's psychological burden and make the patient self-doubt.
The blogger's analysis seemed to be angry here, and the tone became more and more severe.
He said sadly that Qi Cong is a patient with amnesia, and his inner uneasiness needs to be resolved by establishing a positive connection with the outside world, but Jiang Zhaoyan's various behaviors are all contrary to this. He mercilessly put Qi Cong into a completely negative environment. In this environment, Qi Cong not only would not establish a positive connection with the outside world, but would also have a mistaken belief that the whole world was so bad and harmonious. perception of oppression.
A patient with a very low level of psychological maturity and a fragile and incomplete protective barrier in his heart, what will he do after producing such a wrong cognition? Escape, lose trust in all things in the outside world, unwilling to open up to anyone in the outside world, and become more dependent on "parents" and more eager for the care and protection of "parents".
That's why Qi Cong wanted to be with Jiang Zhaoyan no matter what, that's why Qi Cong was obedient to Jiang Zhaoyan. He was seeking care and protection from Jiang Zhaoyan in this way. He needed a sense of security!
But Jiang Zhaoyan didn't even give this.
What did Jiang Zhaoyan do to Qi Cong, who was extremely insecure? Unbridled scolding, venting negative emotions on Qi Cong for a long time, squeezing Qi Cong's labor force, allowing her family to oppress Qi Cong, and... When Qi Cong was gradually pushed into a desperate situation, she cruelly blocked Qi Cong from seeking help and advice from others. The road to safety.
The blogger marked the sentence "Jiang Zhaoyan blocked Qi Cong's way of seeking help and security from others", indicating that this is the point.
He posted a few screenshots of the video, one of Tian Wu, a former employee of Yanhuang, mentioned that Jiang Zhaoyan was in charge of Qi Cong's friends and dress, and when Jiang Zhaoyan and Qi Cong met in the elevator room of the Dingli Hotel, Jiang Zhaoyan scolded Qi Cong for "wearing clothes" What is it?" screen.
He then wrote two words below: social isolation, personality denial.
Social isolation is well understood. It means preventing Qi Cong from establishing normal, healthy and stable friendship and love relationships with others, keeping Qi Cong isolated in a vacuum and oppressive environment, and not allowing Qi Cong to accept others from others. Opportunities for emotional comfort and security.
Personality denial, this is more complicated. The blogger said that either Jiang Zhaoyan reprimanded Qi Cong's dress, or denied Qi Cong's personality. He hopes that everyone will notice Jiang Zhaoyan's behavior, which reveals his daily control over Qi Cong's thoughts and life, as well as his habitual negative criticism.
Judging from the evaluation of Yan Huang's staff and Yan Huang's development in recent years, Qi Cong's own ability is undoubtedly excellent. But what does such an excellent person look like in front of the public, or what does he look like in front of Jiang Zhaoyan? Cowardly, timid, bullying, not confident.
A person with excellent ability has such a character, is it contradictory? Very contradictory. Strange? Not surprisingly. Qi Cong is a patient with incomplete psychological protection barrier, sensitive and extremely insecure. When he has been denied by his trusted "parents" for a long time, it is inevitable that his character will become like this.
And it was Jiang Zhaoyan's two actions that blocked Qi Cong's possibility of asking others for help.
Social isolation left Qi Cong with no one to turn to for help.
Personality denial makes Qi Cong lose his self-confidence and self-confidence. When he is hurt, he always thinks that he is doing something wrong, and he does not dare or even never think that he can ask others for help when he is hurt.
When the blogger analyzed this, there was a hint of regret in his tone.
He said that Qi Cong had the opportunity to get rid of the abnormal dependence on Jiang Zhaoyan during this period and get back on the right track. At this time, Qi Cong's inner protective barrier could be broken at any time because he was unable to obtain emotional comfort from Jiang Zhaoyan, and because he had been in a high-pressure environment for a long time.
As long as there is a person who has good intentions towards Qi Cong at this time and gives Qi Cong the emotional comfort and sense of security he wants, then Qi Cong can be freed from the isolated island of Jiang Zhaoyan.
As long as someone can successfully establish a trust relationship with Qi Cong other than Jiang Zhaoyan at this time, and change the situation that Qi Cong relies on trust and only relies on trust in Jiang Zhaoyan, everything will turn around.
But unfortunately, no.
In Qi Cong's social desert, there was no one who had good intentions for him, and no one found out what was wrong with him in time and helped him. Qi Cong also failed to overcome the influence of Jiang Zhaoyan's personality denial on him, so he mustered up the courage to ask others for help.
He was isolated and helpless, unable to self-pacify and self-resolve. He could only run into walls in the negative emotional cage built by Jiang Zhaoyan and Jiang's family, and continued to fall. In the end, he entered the third stage of the disease course, the collapse period.
At this point, the second stage of analysis is completed. The blogger concluded that Jiang Zhaoyan has an inescapable responsibility for Qi Cong's condition worsening at this stage. It was Jiang Zhaoyan's series of conscious or unconscious acts of oppression, devaluation, and control based on utilization and interests, which pushed Qi Cong into a desperate situation little by little.
Finally, the last stage.
At this point, the blogger's tone was no longer harsh, but turned into indifference, a contemptuous, condemning, and disdainful indifference.
He wrote: If the deterioration of Qi Cong's condition in the second stage is also affected by other factors besides Jiang Zhaoyan, such as the environment, family pressure, and the patient's own personality, then Qi Cong's condition in the third stage deteriorates and finally seeks death. , then it is 100% Jiang Zhaoyan's responsibility.
At this stage, Qi Cong was fortunate to have a brief respite after Jiang Zhaoyan stripped him of his position. He left Jiang Zhaoyan's side, the environment that was completely controlled by Jiang Zhaoyan, and his over-reliance on Jiang Zhaoyan was slightly weakened by Jiang Zhaoyan's deprivation of his survival tools. He didn't go to Jiang Zhaoyan again, but just stayed in his own lair, in the lair he thought represented safety.
If Jiang Zhaoyan could just disappear into Qi Cong's life, then Qi Cong's inner world, which was on the verge of collapse and riddled with holes, might still be eased, and Qi Cong's abnormal dependence on Jiang Zhaoyan might be further weakened, which is more ideal. Maybe he will try to get in touch with other means of survival after bandaging the wound in the lair and start a new life.
But unfortunately, Jiang Zhaoyan didn't give Qi Cong this chance. After depriving Qi Cong of his job, he was still unwilling to let him go.
The blogger posted a few more pictures, all of which were surveillance footage of Jiang Zhaoyan's frequent visits to harass Qi Cong.
The blogger wrote under the screenshot: As you can see in the picture, when Jiang Zhaoyan showed signs of leaving this deformed dependency relationship on Qi Cong, he kept coming to the door, and constantly strengthened and consolidated the relationship between him and Qi Cong in a rude way. It's an emotional connection that means control, showing his authority in front of Qi Cong. Here I have to stress again that Qi Cong is a patient, a patient whose inner world may collapse at any time.
Then the blogger posted a screenshot of Jiang Zhaoyan throwing away Qi Cong's personal belongings.
Blogger: This is Jiang Zhaoyan's last denial of Qi Cong's personality before Qi Cong's suicide, and it is also the worst and most serious one. He regarded Qi Cong's trust, dedication and feelings as garbage. After taking it away, he threw it into the trash can in front of Qi Cong, and gave Qi Cong a signal that your home is not safe, it can't help you stop the harm .
At this point, the last source of security in Qi Cong's heart was brutally crushed and crushed, and he was completely and unobstructedly abandoned in the desert of malice and harm.
The blogger's analysis stops here.
At the last point, he wrote why he felt that Jiang Zhaoyan should be put in prison.
He wrote: In analyzing Qi Cong's case, I assumed countless times that if Jiang Zhaoyan could not do that, then Qi Cong might get better. But unfortunately, there is no if in this world, and Jiang Zhaoyan seems to have never planned to let Qi Cong go. When the rescue that should represent kindness and hope is distorted and tainted by interests, when the disease becomes a tool for those who are interested in extorting and kidnapping the patient's family, when the patient's request for help becomes a bargaining chip for the cold-blooded to control and bully the other party, when some people become the patient's way of survival The biggest obstacle, then I think, is the prison, which is the best place for these sinners to spend the rest of their lives.
In the end, the blogger sent a blessing to Qi Cong. He wished that Qi Cong would never have an intersection with Jiang Zhaoyan from now on.
Blog post ends.
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All the netizens who were carried away by melon eating and public opinion, after reading this blog post, invariably quieted down.
This kind of stillness is not calm, but a kind of silence, with anger, the mood is a little bit pressed down by something, and then stuffy, I don't know how to express the stillness.
The reading volume of long blog posts has been increasing, but the comment area seems a little deserted. Some people couldn't help cursing Jiang Zhaoyan, some sighed with sympathy, and some were discussing some details in the blog post... Then this silence was broken after two comments appeared.
Righteous Keyboard: I'm in a bad mood after reading it. The blogger is right, Jiang Zhaoyan really never intended to let Qi Cong go, even if he was already engaged to someone else. Do you still remember the previous news that Yan Huang sponsored "Qinggu Biography"? Here, let me break the news for you. After Jiang Zhaoyan basically finalized the cooperation with the "Qinggu Biography" crew, he instructed the crew to "take good care" of Qi Cong, because Qi Cong was not in good health.
The keyboard of justice: After that, Jiang Zhaoyan also put his fiancé An Xia and Ye into the art director team of the crew. He obviously wanted to continue to control Qi Cong's life, and he was badly preparing to bring his fiancé with him. I reasonably suspect that Jiang Zhaoyan was the one who provoked everyone to boycott Qi Cong, bought marketing accounts and smeared Qi Cong, and tried to prevent Qi Cong from debuting. He has capital, motivation, and bad enough.