Sometimes what makes her happy is not what her son is going to do or what to do, but what they do with all their heart and seriousness, and what they like.
She feels that she likes a thing, and she learns, exercises and improves from the heart, which is a very remarkable achievement.
A person's success does not depend on how high social achievements he has and how much value he creates. It's about whether he can do it well in life, and whether he has a healthy interest that he can strive for throughout his life.
If this is what she considers to be a success, she will congratulate them.
This is the new realization she gained through transmigration.
This is also the reason why Sanwang still supports him to go into the water after he has a cramp.
Seeing that Lin Lan gave him a chance, Dawang's dark eyes became clearer and more compelling, "I will definitely succeed!"
Lin Lan smiled, "Then parents will wait and see. Come on, son!"
She patted Dawang on the shoulder to encourage him.
After dinner, everyone should be busy, then wash up and go to the kang. When the children are settled, Lin Lan goes to the kang and tells Han Qingsong about Dawang.
However, Han Qingsong had no objection. Lin Lan had always been in charge of family affairs and money, as long as she agreed with him, he would have no objection.
He is a traditional man, firmly adhering to the traditional idea of men leading outside and women leading inside. Just like in the army, he has a clear division of labor to perform his duties.
Even in the conflicts between mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and sister-in-law, as long as there is no major accident involved, or Lin Lan does not take the initiative to request, he generally does not interfere.
Even now that the children are all in school, he never asks a question.
Sometimes Lin Lan can't help but quietly sigh, is Han Qingsong cool or is she responsible enough to trust her
Judging from his view of the child, it is not wrong to say that he is a mean father. At most, he sets rules, drills, and gets beaten up for making mistakes. Other aspects of life, study, mental health, and emotional exchanges are basically non-existent.
But judging from his contribution to the family, he is extremely responsible, working hard to make money, earning work points, doing housework, and providing better living conditions for the family as much as possible, and never interfering with her power as head of the family.
Lin Lan felt that he should love children in his heart, but he was just not good at expressing it, otherwise he wouldn't have to be whipped for Sanwang.
Perhaps this is the fatherhood of the moment, with little expression of emotion.
Fortunately, in terms of married life, she has transformed him almost. He will be concerned about her thoughts and attitudes, unlike other men who get together and ignore his daughter-in-law like other men.
Han Qingsong fanned Lin Lan with a fan in his hand. He didn't hear her voice for a while, so he looked at her, "What are you thinking?"
Lin Lan smiled, "It's nothing."
She whispered in her heart, but would not let him know. From the moment she accepted Han Qingsong, she never complained about him, but tried to discover his strengths and reform his weaknesses. Only when Xiaowang had a fever, she said a word of complaint in a hurry and immediately apologized. She hadn't said anything since then.
After all, Han Qingsong has done her best compared to the men around her. She doesn't demand too much from each other, just like she doesn't demand too much from her children.
Life is all about being happy. If you ask too much, you will complain too much, and you will inevitably be unhappy.
She raised her arms and tapped her fingers lightly on his chest, "You won't be going over there for a few days."
Han Qingsong touched her shoulder, "There's nothing to discuss after getting engaged."
After returning from Han Qinghua, he would come to Han Qingsong almost every day and invite him to talk with the four brothers. The first two times, Han Qingsong went there because they wanted to discuss Han Jinyu's dowry. After the discussion was settled, Han Qinghua came to him again. He didn't go there every time.
Now that Han Jinyu is engaged, and Han Qinghua goes back to the farm, Lin Lan is also relieved.
Although Han Qinghua looks normal now, she still doesn't trust him so easily out of intuition. Maybe it was because she was suspicious. She didn't like Mrs. Han's family and didn't want to have anything to do with them.
After all, Han Qinghua beat Sanwang at the beginning, and he beat him too. He even got his money back, asked him to write an IOU, and sent him to re-education through labor. Even if he rehabilitated, wouldn't he have any resentment in his heart? She is not afraid to speculate on Han Qinghua with the greatest malice, which is responsible for herself and her children.
Even Big Brother Han doesn't want to be involved too much, let alone Han Qinghua, it's not uncommon for her to reform herself!
Han Qingsong gently pulled her to his chest.
Lin Lan leaned over and kissed him. She suddenly realized that his skin was actually good, because the sports skin was very elastic and had no wrinkles. It was estimated that it had a lot to do with his expressionless face all day long.
Look, at his age, he didn't even have a smile line. Lin Lan poked his cheek with his finger and laughed to himself.
She treated him like this, and he understood it as her invitation.
He hugged her sideways, kissing from his fingertips little by little, and finally the hot kiss was printed on the artery on the side of her neck, which was her sensitive part, and every time he gently sucked she would soften into him Favorite gesture.
Tonight, he found that his daughter-in-law was very gentle, so gentle that he couldn't bear to look at her frowning.
But her gentleness like water caused even bigger ripples in his heart, and his steely heart also turned into softness around his fingers.
…
After Han Qinghua left, Lin Lan suddenly felt much more relaxed, feeling that the sky was extraordinarily blue, and the child was extraordinarily cute, even Han Jinyu was not so annoying.
Autumn vacation is coming.
Three summers are not busy with one autumn, and the autumn harvest spans the longest. At this time, sorghum is harvested, and then mung beans, soybeans, and millet are harvested, and so on, whatever is ripe is harvested. Until the Mid-Autumn Festival, I will break corn, harvest sweet potatoes and dry them, store sweet potatoes in cellar, wait for the autumn rain to fall after a layer of cool, and then plough the land and plant wheat. It is already late September.
Busy, but harvest, tired, but happy, this is the true portrayal of the members.
The children are also happy, because the autumn vacation is so long, the wheat vacation is ten days, but the autumn vacation is more than a month.
At this time, the education system was relatively chaotic, especially the primary schools in the villages, which were arranged according to the busy farming season. The wheat harvest and autumn harvest must be on vacation, but the winter vacation is short, and it is only released on the 25th or 6th day of the twelfth lunar month, so that the excessively long autumn vacation can be made up.
As soon as the children were on vacation, Lin Lan set out to help Dawang improve his academic performance.
She also found that Dawang has a point. Either he doesn't do it, and once he decides what to do, he will do it perfectly.
For example, everyone thought that in order to level up, he would give up his distracting thoughts and concentrate on his studies, but they didn't!
While racing against time to study, he did morning exercises, earned work points, went swimming in the river, found turtles, and stuck with them without delay. In addition to studying, he did not fall behind in the things he should have done before. Definitely not the kind of nerd who doesn't care about anything once he learns and just learns by himself.
Naturally, this moved Lin Lan even more, and she tried her best to help her son.
She found that Dawang seemed to have the ability to do both. For example, when he went to pick up cotton, he was able to endorse while picking up cotton. Anyway, he had a small book in his pocket, so he could take it out and take a look at it at any time. In addition, I found Zhigui with my younger brothers, and I did not delay his endorsement. In order to check on him, Erwang and Mai Sui have made great progress, and Sanwang and Xiaowang also know a lot of words.
Lin Lan quietly went to Han Qingping and borrowed all the elementary school textbooks and teachers' lecture notes from him. Their notes were all ready-made.
Han Qingping said: "Lin Lan, you can't understand it even if you borrow it from Dawang. Why don't you let him come to me every day, and I will give him counseling."
Lin Lan smiled, "Don't show it to him, I'll take a look first."
Where can I help you with the power of my counseling. It would take at least half a year for Han Qingping to mentor him, but Lin Lan wanted to help Dawang make rapid progress in a month, so naturally he didn't have that time.
Han Qingping was even more surprised, "You see?"
Lin Lan nodded, "Yes, I see, I have also made great progress following the children's reading. Didn't the teacher also see it during the propaganda?"
Lin Lan's propaganda is all about planning and writing scripts by herself. Although she deliberately wrote some typos and pinyin, I have to say that it is really amazing.
This Han Qingping and several teachers are also obvious to all.
The math teacher took the initiative to arrange and lend it to Lin Lan.
Han Qingping also sorted it out and said to Lin Lan, "Lin Lan, if there is anything you don't understand, just come and ask us, and I'll be waiting for you at any time."
For those who love to learn, teachers are always extra respectful.
After borrowing it, Lin Lan spent a few days, day and night, finding time to flip through the book, read through all the textbooks and notes from grades one to five at this time, and learn all the knowledge points.
Reading through is only the easiest first step. The most important thing is that she needs to mobilize all her knowledge reserves and formulate a study plan that is unique to Dawang's level and learning characteristics.
After studying for three or four days day and night like this, Lin Lan will have dark circles under her eyes.
After dinner that day, the children went to Chi Gui, Lin Lan was flipping through the book in the yard and taking notes, and Han Qingsong helped her chop the sack of abalone.
Han Qingsong: "Take a break, reading at night is tiring."
Lin Lan dealt with him humbly, without lifting her eyes from the book, her left hand continued to write hard.
Han Qingsong: "..." My daughter-in-law ignored him recently. She read at eleven o'clock at night and fell asleep when she was so tired.
He took her book away and didn't speak, just stared at her. Although not tough, he is firm, and there is such a little grievance in his eyes.
Lin Lan: "..." Why are you like Xiaowang
She leaned over and kissed the corner of his lips, telling him not to make trouble, she had to read it earlier and list the knowledge points.
"Good, don't make trouble." She smiled and reached out to touch his head.
Han Qingsong: "..." He directly picked her up with one arm, preventing her from reading.
Lin Lan just giggled, "Third brother... let go, let me down." She is not a child, how could she like Sanwang and Xiaowang's gameplay, how naive!
He let go of his hand and let Lin Lan climb onto his back and carry her.
Lin Lan hooked his shoulders, kissed his ears, smiled softly, and said softly, "...Tonight... um, okay, let me down and watch for a while."
Han Qingsong: "..." I'm afraid you will get tired from reading! Of course, that's not bad either.
The two were tired and crooked, the children rushed back from the outside, and Lin Lan quickly slid off Han Qingsong's back.
"Mother, it's amazing, my eldest brother caught a snake!" Sanwang and Xiaowang rushed in, Sanwang was excited, Xiaowang was frightened, Maisui and Erwang came in later, Dawang last.
Lin Lan quickly picked up the lantern and took a photo, "I'll take a look."
Dawang showed Lin Lan the dead snake.
Sanwang excitedly said, "Father and mother, listen to me."
He whispered to the two of them, "Let's go with Brother Haotian and Sister Gu Mi to find the tortoise. The flashlight was out of power, so we touched it with our hands. Sister Gu Mi accidentally touched it. The slippery ice-cold thing, she was so frightened that she shouted 'snake!' The snake was so startled that it jumped up her arm! My brother was so fast, he caught the snake in a swish, and then like this Whoosh whoosh…”
He took a hemp rope from the ground and put it on his fingers, "The snake will burp."
Although he knew that the snakes here are non-venomous and do not bite, Lin Lan was still a little nervous when he heard what he said.
Dawang: "It's alright. Snake meat is delicious, right?" He heard that during the difficult years, not to mention snakes, mice and frogs were eaten, only toads were somewhat poisonous, and most people did not eat them.
Mai Sui was a little scared, "Is this... edible?"
Lin Lan smiled and said, "Yes, snake meat is delicious. I'll make it for you tomorrow."
She said to Han Qingsong, "Third brother, peel off the skin. The snake meat is a bit fishy. I don't think it should make the pot bigger. I will cook it in a casserole tomorrow."
Han Qingsong: "..." He didn't say he wouldn't, but nodded: "You leave it alone, I'll take a look."
Sanwang is so excited that he can't wait to make meat now.
Seeing that the children were surrounded by the snake, Lin Lan forced them to wash up and go to bed on the kang, lest Han Qingsong peel off the skin and scare them.
Erwang looked for the recipe, but he didn't find out how to make snake meat, so he had to go to the kang with regret.
Han Qingsong studied it for a while, and finished it neatly.
Wash it, then chop it, sprinkle it with salt, and pickle it with peppercorns, onion, and ginger.
He asked Lin Lan for the time, first put the snakes and seasonings in a casserole, threw in a handful of red dates and poured a pot of water. Then go to the yard wall and build a simple stove. First, use soft grass to set it on fire, then throw corncob and other hard grass into it and bury a few pieces of charcoal. Finally, sit the casserole on the brick stove and bring it to a boil. At this time, when the grass is burnt, the charcoal fire begins to burn. As long as there is a charcoal fire in the ventilation, it will not be extinguished, but it will not be too large.
Lin Lan was reading on the kang, and when he heard he was busy, he couldn't help but come down and take a look, "Third brother, why are you stewing?"
Han Qingsong: "I'll cook this thing for you."
Lin Lan is usually more reluctant to deal with mollusks such as earthworms and centipedes, and has an inexplicable sense of fear. Hearing him being so considerate, she happily hooked his neck and kissed him, "The third brother is great."
Although Han Qingsong was reserved and serious, he couldn't stand her teasing at all. When she gave him a wink, he thought it was hinting at something, let alone such a clear kiss.
He washed his hands, used green onion leaves to get rid of the smell, then went to take a shower, and when he came back to the kang, he put Lin Lan in his arms.
Lin Lan yawned while reading a book, "Third brother, will the stew be done overnight?"
Han Qingsong: "No." It was just right to simmer until midnight.
Lin Lan began to look forward to it again, "It's about an hour, and it will be fragrant and delicious in an hour and a half."
When she was longing for the delicious snake meat casserole, she had become the delicacy in his eyes.
She has really left him in the cold these days, making him crooked when he sees the textbook, he pulled it out and threw it directly on the windowsill, and pressed her into her arms and kissed her, making him dizzy.
He liked that her snow-white skin glowed the pink of rose petals when he kissed her, and her eyes were as soft and charming as the spring water in March.
"Blow the lamp..." Her voice was so soft and weak that his heart froze.
"… No."
…
When the exercise before going to bed is done, the snake casserole will be almost cooked.
The delicious aroma floated all over the garden, spiraling into the sky, not to mention so tempting.
Lin Lan: "..." Can I still sleep here
Han Qingsong patted her, "Aren't you sleepy?"
Don't be tired, do it again. How could Lin Lan not know his subtext! Forget it!
"Third brother, it smells so good. Are you hungry?" Lin Lan supported his chest and looked out the window.
Han Qingsong: "It's okay, I just ate half full."
Lin Lan: ... It's not allowed to talk nonsense seriously.
Han Qingsong saw that she was drooling with gluttony, but she didn't want to move because of her languid appearance, so he got up and said, "The time is just right, I'll make it up for you."
Using a rag, he carried the casserole into the house.
Lin Lan had already washed her clothes, put on her shorts and vest, and climbed onto the kang to eat supper.
Han Qingsong put the casserole on the small kang table, lifted the lid, and suddenly a richer and more delicious taste wafted out.
Lin Lan couldn't help but wow, "It's delicious! Bring a piece of cake to make bubbles."
Han Qingsong went to get her cakes, bowls and chopsticks, and a spoon, handed her the chopsticks, blew another spoonful of soup, and handed it to her mouth.
Lin Lan took a sip of the soup, "Wow wow! It's delicious!" The original earthy smell of the snake meat has been dissolved by the onion ginger and other seasonings. Now it is only delicious, and I can't wait to swallow it with my tongue.
She first put a piece of snake meat for Han Qingsong, and then ate it by herself. The snake meat was delicate and tender, similar to chicken, but more tender! It's delicious!
She asked Han Qingsong to eat quickly, and Han Qingsong drank the soup from her bowl.
Lin Lan gave him another piece of meat, "Take chopsticks and eat together."
At this time, Sanwang, who was originally a gecko in Dongjian, suddenly turned over and straddled Dawang with one leg. He hugged his big brother like an octopus, and his mouth was still choking, "It's so fragrant, so fragrant! Little Er, come again. A big pig's hoof!" He opened his mouth and gnawed at Da Wang's shoulder.
Dawang was woken up by the bite, and he kicked Sanwang on the wall!
San Wang made a sound and touched his head, "This big pig's hoof is so fierce... It's not delicious..."
Dawang:…
He smelled a delicious and sweet smell that he had never smelled before!
What's this
Then he heard Xijian Lin Lan muttering, and asked Han Qingsong to eat quickly, "It's really delicious, third brother, do you think I should let the eldest son grab another one, or leave some for them? Really? It's delicious."
Dawang grinned involuntarily, and then slapped Sanwang on the back.
Lin Lan was enjoying her meal, wondering whether she should continue to eat, when she heard the voices of children from the east.
Sanwang: "Mother, you're stealing food behind our backs!" He jumped down and didn't care about putting on his shoes, he took a handful of chopsticks from the stove and rushed to the west.
Soon Erwang, Maisui, and Dawang also came together.
Lin Lan: "Haha, you guys are too greedy, you woke up greedy after sleeping so soundly, you can see how delicious your father's cooking is!" She gave Han Qingsong another piece.
Several children ate deliciously, only Xiaowang slept soundly and didn't know anything.
Lin Lan hurriedly brought out a bowl for Xiaowangsheng, "You guys slow down, this is snake meat, not chicken, it's not that delicious." Save me some!
Sanwang said to Dawang, "Brother, we won't find turtles in the future, let's go catch snakes."
Dawang: "We don't have many snakes here, so it's hard to find them."
Erwang: "I know there are many cemeteries."
Mai Sui: "Ah! Don't go, scary!"
Lin Lan also said: "Don't go to the cemetery." Of course, the snakes in the cemetery are also snakes, and it's not that the deceased has changed. It's just that there are grave bags in the cemetery, and there are empty tombs inside, so it's easy for snakes to settle in. However, it is still necessary to avoid it.
Dawang: "Don't go."
Sanwang: "There are also snake holes by the river. They hibernate when it's cold, so it's easy to catch them."
The next day, there were secret rumors that Lin Lan's family got up in the middle of the night to stew meat again. They haven't eaten meat for so many days, and they've slept to death and woke up greedy! Some people even went out to find the taste, and finally it was determined that Lin Lan's family woke up in the middle of the night to eat meat!
I'm so greedy!
They are divided into their own households, and they can't help but eat stewed meat at night. How greedy is this! Can't wait all night! As expected of the iron hat greedy wife!
Of course, Lin Lan didn't know that there was another wave of fame unintentionally, and the hat of this greedy wife couldn't be taken off.
Xiaowang got up in the morning, rubbed his sleepy eyes, and said blankly, "The home is so fragrant."
Sanwang grabbed his hand and complained, "Brother Xiaowang, you are too cruel. Last night you got up and ate all the snake meat that my father cooked. Tell me, is it delicious?"
Xiaowang looked shocked: "I ate it?" Isn't it a dream? I clearly dreamed that my eldest brother and the others got up and ate snake meat, did I really eat it
Lin Lan was about to die laughing.
A pot of snake meat was very efficient for Lin Lan, and within a few days, he came up with an effective review guide, listing all the key knowledge points, such as associations, inductions, and mind maps, and eighteen weapons were used.
Dawang and a few looked at that unique review guide, and their eyes were falling out!
The knowledge points are connected with each other, turning the originally scattered pearls into exquisite handicrafts.
Lin Lan said with satisfaction, "If you have memorized and practiced all of the above, you will be able to get fifty percent with your eyes closed."
She is still very confident.
There are a lot of knowledge points in it, and it is not so easy to memorize and practice. It is impossible without a little perseverance.
Mai Sui and Erwang are even more treasured, "Mother, where did you learn such a good method?"
They have to learn too.
Lin Lan: "It's just for those who read books. It's the same as cooking. It's no big deal. If you can stew braised pork, you can stew chicken, duck, and fish."
Sanwang laughed and said, "Mother, if you know a sewing machine, you can sew a quilt."
"Hey, you kid." Lin Lan pinched Sanwang's ear.
Sanwang immediately rolled aside with Xiaowang as a shield.
Xiaowang didn't know about studying, but he knew that his mother was very tired these days, so he said, "Let's go to Niezhi and make up for my mother."
A few children rallied again.
Lin Lan left Dawang to speak.
Dawang is young, has an active brain, and has a great memory, so there should be no problem with basic rote memorization.
For the rest, she first let him learn the learning methods of deduction, induction, analogy, summary, classification and other learning methods through popular examples, and quickly mastered inferences from one case, so as to achieve a comprehensive understanding.
After this, his comprehension and memory also improved by leaps and bounds.
It seems that from this day onwards, Dawang suddenly realized, taking the mixed questions she gave, and doing it quickly.
This not only shocked Mai Sui and Er Wang, but even Han Qingping and the math teacher who came to visit and care about Da Wang were too shocked to speak.
Han Qingping was very concerned about Dawang, but Dawang didn't go to him for counseling, he remembered it, and took time to come to Lin Lan's house for a walk, asking how he had learned, and if he had any problems to answer.
As a result, Dawang said no, he reviewed it by himself.
Han Qingping just took a look and found Dawang's review guide. After looking at it, Han Qingping exclaimed again and again, "It's amazing, it's amazing!"
Seeing how he was dancing, Dawang didn't show it on his face, but he was very proud in his heart.
Damn, it's not ordinary!
Soon Han Qingping also brought in the math teacher and Huo Yuan to conduct some random checks on Dawang. They were first surprised by Dawang's rapid progress, and then shocked by Lin Lan's learning method.
They can understand Dawang's progress. After all, children are naughty. They didn't like poor academic performance before. Once they calm down and learn, they will naturally make great progress.
In the eyes of the teacher, the knowledge of the first and second grades is too simple.
But Lin Lan is different.
Lin Lan has given birth to five children!
In their prejudiced perception that after giving birth to a child, it becomes more and more stupid, Lin Lan is simply shedding, fetus, changing, and bones!
She never went to school, only read the literacy class, even if she followed the children to read books, she couldn't be so good all of a sudden.
Lin Lan smiled and said, "The teachers are too flattering on me. These are all the teachers' notes, so I'll just look at them. If I have any ideas, just write them down. It's nothing special."
She didn't use professional terms to mark those methods, she just used them. In fact, the teachers did too, but they were not as comprehensive and proficient as her.
However, the children testified to her that the mother was really good. She read the elementary school textbooks for a few days, and she said it perfectly.
They think the mother is a learning genius!
As a result, the impression is given to the children that "studying is really a very simple thing. My mother has read all the things in elementary school after reading for a few days." Go back: That's because you don't work hard and are too stupid!
Lin Lan repeatedly emphasized that the teacher's notes on lesson preparation were well done, covering everything, and she only needed to pick the key points. So even though Lin Lan was more powerful than the teacher, it didn't cause any problems. Instead, he gave a few teachers a big face, showing that their lesson preparation notes were in place.
The teachers were also very satisfied. They didn't think Lin Lan was weird. Instead, they praised her for being motivated, diligent, and active. This time, Lin Lan's reputation has become more hardworking, smart, and eager to learn since the publicity.
Everyone in the village muttered: My greedy wife is a genius!
Of course, I am lazy and greedy, and I can't take off the iron hat, especially after eating meat in the middle of the night.
…
In this way, I went to sleep with a smile every day, and woke up the next day with a smile to say good morning to my family. The happy time every day always passed very quickly because I was carefree.
The summer heat has subsided, the knowledge has fallen asleep, the autumn wind has risen, the crops are yellow, and the persimmons are red.
In the blink of an eye, on August 15th, Shanzui Village Primary School will start the upgrade exam!
Before going to school, Lin Lan specially encouraged Dawang, who had lost a lot of weight, "Fifty points is very simple, mother believes that the eldest son can do it."
Sanwang glanced at the hen that had stopped laying eggs, sucked in his saliva, and shouted, "Mother, if the eldest brother passes the test, he will kill the chicken to celebrate!"
"Must be killed!" Lin Lan said with a smile.
Watching the children go to school, she felt up and down, and she caught up with the parents who sent their children to the college entrance examination in the previous life.
Eldest son, you must do it! The old mother is optimistic about you!