The grievances between Chu Xiaoxiao and Teacher Mei can be traced back to the beginning of school.
At that time, Chu Xiaoxiao had just entered kindergarten and met all kinds of children and was exposed to a wider world. Before, she could only play with her father and others at home, but now she has countless new playmates, and everyone's hair and eye colors are different, making people so happy that they don't want to go home.
Since there are kindergarten classes, children naturally have to be managed. Teacher Mei has a stricter personality in the class. Although she is kind and cute, she always has a strong face, as if others owe her money. Chu Xiaoxiao can see the emotional color of others, and initially just walked around each other.
At first, the well water did not make the river water. The cause of the incident was that Chu Xiaoxiao corrected the teacher's grammar in class. She felt that something was wrong. In fact, it doesn't hurt to choose which side of this little grammar. It was a controversial thing, but the two of them disagreed, so they took over Liangzi.
From that day on, Chu Xiaoxiao discovered that Teacher Mei's mood changed, and the other party became disgusted and repelled him, and she also fought back as quickly as possible, and would never fall behind. Chu Xiaoxiao quickly established a good relationship with the classmates through his own small abilities. The other little ones had natural convincing power to her, and it didn't take long for her to establish her status as a kindergarten school bully.
Teachers who want to manage a class undoubtedly need a variety of skills, one of which is holding the leader. Teacher Mei tried to hold Chu Xiaoxiao many times, but it always attracted a great response from the other party. Sometimes children can only be stunned by a cold face, but Chu Xiaoxiao doesn't take this trick, she will immediately rebound the other party's cold words.
Because of Chu Xiaoxiao's special status in the class, her disdain or neglect of Teacher Mei is fatal, and even other children have the same attitude to see Teacher Mei, they don't think each other is worthy of respect. Children have a unique sense of smell, they will sniff each other secretly, sniff out what the same kind hates, and swarm away.
Mr. Mei was supposed to be a shepherd, but now the whole litter of sheep followed the leader. They ran and jumped as they wanted, without any scruples.
Before the holiday, the kindergarten found out about the special situation in the class, and asked Xiao Bi to come to the school to discuss it in detail. After the two sides understood the entanglement, they took the lead in letting Chu Xiaoxiao and Teacher Mei shake hands and make peace. Xiao Bi told the school about the special characteristics of her youngest daughter, and hoped that they could adjust the way of education a little so that it might have better results.
Chu Xiaoxiao and Teacher Mei held hands at that time to ensure that the past would be over, and the new semester would be a new beginning.
The new semester is indeed a new beginning. Chu Xiaoxiao is a promising child. She achieved the goal that Chu Xiaoyi had not achieved in the past, and made her teacher cry alive.
In the office, Teacher Mei let out a hoarse cry and sobbed: "She did it on purpose, she did it on purpose! I just picked up the pen when she suddenly did it!"
"Okay, okay, Xiaomei, wipe your face first, you can hear it outside in a while..."
"Just hear it! It's the same last time. I didn't do anything, so I'm going to be scolded! I've thought about it, I'll quit if it's a big deal, can't I just hide from her!?"
Chu Xiaoyi, who was passing through the corridor, couldn't help feeling extremely embarrassed when he heard the sound in the room. Although the teachers had closed the door, the high voices still pierced through the wall. It was obvious that their sister had brought a serious psychological shadow to the teachers. This kindergarten provides good salary, and it is estimated that the other party is also forced to lose his golden job.
Chu Xiaoyi didn't stay in the corridor for too long, so he raised his legs to find his sister. He saw Chu Xiaoxiao in the classroom. Sitting alone in the room, she was calmly reading a book, making him both angry and funny.
Chu Xiaoyi teased: "Look at your ability? Otherwise, will you act for me?"
He felt that Chu Xiaoxiao was inferior to reading books here, so don't delay her attacking the Oscar statuette.
When Chu Xiaoxiao saw him come to Xing Shi to ask the guilt, she immediately showed a trace of resentment on her little face, and said, "Then will you go to kindergarten for me?"
Chu Xiaoyi: "..."
Chu Xiaoyi: Look at her sharp teeth and sharp mouth, but she is much stronger than the teacher, and she is not crying every day.
As the former king of trouble, Chu Xiaoyi patiently asked the new king of trouble: "Why do you do such a thing? Don't you always shake hands with the teacher to make peace?"
Chu Xiaoyi didn't take the parents too seriously, and simply took the time to chat with his sister. He was also called a parent countless times back then, so he knew that there was also a root cause for students and teachers to fight. There are so many teachers and students in the school, how could they be able to pinch them
Xiao Bi has told Chu Xiaoyi the summary of his previous relationship. He remembered that the two had already reconciled, so why did the incident happen again
Chu Xiaoxiao: "I didn't shake hands and make peace."
Chu Xiaoyi: "Nonsense, Mom told me that you and the teacher promised each other last semester, and the new semester will start from scratch."
Chu Xiaoxiao said displeased: "She didn't make peace with me, and I don't want to make peace with her."
Chu Xiaoxiao did agree to this at the time, but she came back and found that the teacher hated her even more, so she naturally and reasonably increased the intensity of the counterattack. Since the teacher broke her promise first, she should not follow the rules.
Chu Xiaoyi asked curiously, "Where did she not make peace?"
Chu Xiaoxiao muttered: "She doesn't like me, and I don't like her either."
When Chu Xiaoxiao first met Teacher Mei, the other party was a little bit resistant; when she corrected the problem, the other party was disgusted and rejected; at the beginning of the new semester, the other party turned into disgust. Chu Xiaoxiao was extremely sensitive to emotions, and no one could try to deceive her. Even if Teacher Mei had a smile on her face, she knew that the other party was annoying her.
Chu Xiaoyi didn't know whether to laugh or cry at her child's angry answer: "How do you know she doesn't like you?"
Chu Xiaoxiao: "I just know."
Hearing her decisive tone, Chu Xiaoyi suddenly recalled the scene when he just arrived home. He was sure he didn't express any dissatisfaction at the time, but the little thing still sensed his emotions and accused him of hypocrisy. Children may really live by intuition, they have their own keen sense of smell, and they resist the presence of their own discomfort.
Chu Xiaoyi squatted down, he looked at his sister, and said with a good temper: "But you said I hate you at the beginning? Isn't our relationship good now?"
Chu Xiaoyi is convinced that people are animals that can change, and the first impression doesn't mean anything.
When Chu Xiaoxiao heard the words, she glanced at him inexplicably and blurted out, "Is there any?"
Her face was full of doubts, and she looked at him in surprise, as if she was looking at the 18-line paste (?) who was trying to bind up.
Chu Xiaoyi: "..."
Chu Xiaoyi immediately started self-hypnosis, and said decisively: "Yes, of course! I know you just don't say it, you actually think so in your heart!"
Chu Xiaoyi: My sister is just not good at expressing like her father, but she definitely has her own in her heart!
Chu Xiaoxiao hesitated: "...you're happy?"
Chu Xiaoyi didn't want to dwell on the question of "is there me in my sister's heart", and instead persuaded: "Because of this, the teacher doesn't seem to like you now, maybe if you communicate with her well, she will like you. Yes, like us?"
Chu Xiaoyi didn't know how to deal with her at the beginning, but after they communicated, didn't they become harmonious
Chu Xiaoxiao showed the calmness of a boss. She said the lines like the hero of an idol drama: "You are my family, she has nothing to do with me, and I don't need her to like it."
Chu Xiaoyi: "..." So domineering? It's a pity you don't play the president
Chu Xiaoyi tentatively said: "...So you still admit in disguise that we have a good relationship?"
Chu Xiaoxiao stared at him in disbelief: "Why do you keep thinking about this!"
She thought for a moment in agony, and finally gave in and muttered, "Okay, since you helped me brush my raincoat..."
Chu Xiaoxiao: The cheap brother can at least brush the raincoat. He is not worthless.
After Chu Xiaoyi communicated with her sister, she found that she had a small circle in her heart. Because he is one of the family members, she divides herself in circles, and even if there are some criticisms, she is very tolerant. However, Teacher Mei is not in Chu Xiaoxiao's circle, so she doesn't care about each other.
This kind of thinking logic is the opposite of many people in the real society. Most people are polite, understanding and tolerant towards strangers, but they are not very tolerant towards acquaintances, and they easily show their bad side. Chu Xiaoxiao is considerate and tolerant to acquaintances in the circle, but has no feeling for the evaluation of strangers outside the circle.
She's not going against you at all, but a wordless contempt that's even more irritating.
Logically, Chu Xiaoyi doesn't really need to say anything more. He only needs to take Chu Xiaoxiao to apologize to the teacher, and the two sides will go down the process in a fake fashion, and the matter will be over. Teacher Mei will not win in the hands of Chu Xiaoxiao, she may be defeated again and again, and then leave unbearably, no one knows the future direction.
However, Chu Xiaoyi was unwilling to fool the past at this moment, and always felt that it was wrong to do so. Now that Chu Xiaoxiao noticed that the other party didn't like her, she successfully squeezed out a person. What about after that? Does she always use this mode to crowd people
Chu Xiaoyi simply regarded his sister as an adult, and said calmly: "Xiao Xiao, although Teacher Mei is your teacher, you must also know that a teacher is only a job for Teacher Mei, and she doesn't necessarily like you. "
"As long as she performs her duties well, then she has done nothing wrong. She may not be targeting you, or she may not like children, but this is her job, and she will do it if she doesn't like it." Chu Xiaoyi Hearing from my sister, Mrs. Mei was a little bit conflicted when she first met her, but the disgust became deeper and deeper, so she speculated that the other party might not like children.
Chu Xiaoxiao asked back, "Then can't she choose a job she likes?"
Chu Xiaoyi couldn't help laughing: "Your requirements are a bit too high. The reality is very complicated. It's not easy for many people to have jobs. Everyone's job is to make money, not to apply for interest classes. How can they all like it?"
Chu Xiaoxiao fell into silence when she heard the words. She seemed to be persuaded by her brother and felt that the other party's words made sense. If you just look at Teacher Mei's work, there is nothing too bad about her except for one grammatical error. Chu Xiaoxiao just doesn't like the attitude of the other party, she doesn't like the feeling of being established by others.
Chu Xiaoyi followed suit: "Xiao Xiao will feel that the teacher hates you more and more, because she is worried about losing her job and accidentally throws this emotion on you. If she really leaves for this, will you feel better? "
Chu Xiaoyi knew very well that the kindergarten would not dare to treat Chu Xiaoxiao, but the principal and director would evaluate Teacher Mei and judge whether she was suitable to continue to stay. After school started, it was easy to understand that Teacher Mei hated her sister even more. It was nothing more than being criticized by the leaders, so she would naturally feel angry.
Chu Xiaoyi doesn't care whether Teacher Mei goes or stays, but he hopes that Xiaoxiao can understand the reason and the reason for the "two-faced faction" in society. She can hate people who are different from the inside and outside, but she also needs to know the reason for the existence of the inside and outside.
Chu Xiaoxiao thought for a long time and said, "But this is just your assumption, maybe she doesn't think so at all."
Chu Xiaoyi: "Then let's talk to her again, shall we? If you still can't understand each other after talking to her this time, this matter is completely over. You can do whatever you want in school in the future. It doesn't matter how many times I'm called, my mother won't tell you about you."
Chu Xiaoxiao blinked, she felt that the proposal was not bad, and replied, "Okay."
Chu Xiaoyi breathed a sigh of relief. He had to talk to Teacher Mei in advance, and said, "Then I'll ask Teacher Mei to come over later, okay?"
Chu Xiaoxiao picked up the book again, she nodded and no longer had any opinion.
Chu Xiaoyi was about to leave when she suddenly heard her say, "Will everyone be like this when they grow up? Choose a job you don't like and do things you don't want to do?"
Chu Xiaoxiao understood what her brother was saying, but she still felt inexplicably sad, that person was not so tired and tired, she suddenly didn't want to grow up.
Chu Xiaoyi froze in place, he quickly walked back, shook his head firmly: "Xiao Xiao, no, it's not like this."
"Like or dislike is a very imaginary thing. The job you like may not support you, but the job you don't like at all will consume you. More importantly, you have to learn to adjust yourself and find the right balance." He noticed the lowness of the little thing, so he simply touched her little head and spoke earnestly.
Seeing her puzzled face, Chu Xiaoyi simply used himself as an example and said with a wry smile: "For example, I want to be a singer, but I can't support myself by singing. I still have to act, shoot commercials, and participate in events. I like the fields that I like, and use these to support the things I like. During this period, I may also start to like jobs that I have no interest in before, such as acting... "
Chu Xiaoyi had times when he was unwilling in the past, but he wanted to sing on stage. The problem was that there was no platform for him. Making music is a business that burns money. If he didn't rely on other businesses to attract money, he wouldn't be able to make an album. However, he has now learned to adjust his mentality and can also pass on the experience to his sister.
"Therefore, liking or disliking will also change. You can only go on with full motivation if you always adjust your state and let your liking outweigh your dislikes. Teacher Mei just lacks this ability, so she will accidentally affect Xiao Xiao, but Xiao Xiao can be better than her in the future. After you learn to adjust your attitude freely, you can do the work you don't like, and you can do the work you like better."
Chu Xiaoyi didn't know how much she could understand, but at this moment, he was still in awe, and only hoped that she would fall less in the future.
He used to think that liking was the most important thing, so he ran away from home rebelliously, and now he still believes so, but he still knows more. The adult world is cruel and realistic. You can't just roar like it and generate electricity for love, but you have to do your best for your choice.
Chu Xiaoxiao listened with a vague understanding, she felt the mood of the cheap brother, unexpectedly no longer sad, but relaxed. She still couldn't fully understand these words, but through Chu Xiaoyi's emotional color, she touched the power he wanted to pass on to her, and regained her spirits.
Chu Xiaoxiao opened her mouth, she seemed to want to say something, but she hesitated.
Chu Xiaoyi looked at her patiently, waiting for her sister's response.
Chu Xiaoxiao gathered courage under his eyes and said frankly: "Brother, I understand your mood..."
Chu Xiaoyi thought she wanted to show her true feelings, so she nodded gently and expectantly: "Well..."
Chu Xiaoxiao sincerely suggested: "...but I think your acting is more reliable than singing." After all, his TV series are okay, what exactly is the Spring Festival Gala performance
Chu Xiaoyi: "?" I've been lyrical with you for a long time, you just want to tell me this
Chu Xiaoxiao: "I mean it, I think..."
Chu Xiaoyi covered the little thing's mouth, smiled and threatened: "No, you don't think so, shut up. Your brother and I are people with music dreams, and none of you want to stop me."
Chu Xiaoyi: No one wants to break my music dream!
Chu Xiaoxiao was tragically banned, she could only squinted at him dissatisfied: "..." What the hell is going on with this person, and no one is allowed to tell the truth
After Chu Xiaoyi dealt with his sister, he had to talk to Teacher Mei and discuss the future education method. Teacher Mei has calmed down now, her face is clean, and she is back to work in the face of her parents, without any signs of crying.
After the two sides politely greeted each other, they began to cut to the point.
Chu Xiaoyi said bitterly: "Mr. Mei, Xiao Xiao is actually very easy to get along with, I can teach you a trick right now, you just need to sell her miserably. You must not order her, just keep selling to her. Miserable, she will lose her temper soon, she will listen to whatever you say..."
Teacher Mei: "???" What kind of parent is this? The child played me and persuaded me to go back
Chu Xiaoyi has already taken out his lore move, and he found that Chu Xiaoxiao is a typical one who eats soft and not hard. If someone is tough on her, she can stab you with a backhand, but when the other party hums and whines, she can't do anything right away, and everything is up to you.
Chu Xiaoyi felt that Teacher Mei cried too early, she should cry directly at Chu Xiaoxiao!