The men were greeted by Jiang Jianjun, and the women were naturally with Yao Huilan.
Although it was not long after returning to the village, they all heard about the major events that happened in the Jiang family these days, and they also knew that Yao Huilan and his wife adopted Jiang Xiangdang's twin daughters. It is human nature to gossip. Now a group of women stay together, naturally chatted about this.
"Hui Lan, I think you are too kind. Why do you have to help your brother-in-law's family to raise children when you are a sister-in-law? It's their husband and wife's decision to have twins. There's no reason to let you brothers and sisters-in-law suffer."
One of the women had a good relationship with Yao Huilan, and she used to be a good sister Tao, but later her husband was seconded from the town's machinery factory to the county seat, and she moved out of the village with her promoted husband, and the contact gradually became less and less. .
When she returned to her hometown for the Chinese New Year, her first reaction when she heard about it was to complain about her good sister. The old lady's behavior was obviously bullying.
"Hey, what can be done? If these two children are really raised by the second and the second, they will starve to death if they are not kept together. After all, it will be two lives. Jianjun and I are living well now, and we can help if we can. "
Yao Huilan is also conscientious, so she will not express her dissatisfaction in front of so many people. On the contrary, she will try to show her kindness and generosity and publicize her good reputation.
"Hey, you are so sweet!"
"Huilan, you are so careful to be eaten to death by your mother-in-law."
A group of women were chattering, but it was exactly as Yao Huilan thought. At this time, in the hearts of these women, she had an impression of being a little stupid, but kind-hearted.
If Yao Huilan is full of complaints at this moment and joins them in scolding her nosy mother-in-law and her useless uncles and younger siblings, although they will be happy for the dialogue that will become their talking point for a while, they will also feel that Yao Huilan This person cannot be intimate.
This is human nature. Similar things happen to them. Maybe they will firmly not allow their mother-in-law to bring relatives’ children to their own homes, and they will find various reasons and excuses to ridicule this ridiculous decision. But it happened to others, and it was related to the life and death of two ignorant children. They could naturally blame Yao Huilan, the eldest aunt, for her inaction and feel that she was ruthless.
If Yao Huilan really doesn't agree with her mother-in-law taking the two children to raise, and Jiang Chaonan and Jiang Liunan are sent back to the second room, their parents starve to death or have an accident because of other negligent things, others will accuse Jiang Xiang. Apart from the party couple, Yao Huilan was the one who scolded the most, calling her a cold-hearted aunt.
Yao Huilan also figured this out, so she hasn't mentioned sending the two children back recently.
"By the way, Huilan, your boss hasn't said kiss yet?"
While chatting, someone mentioned Jiang Yanan's marriage.
The man who spoke was called Ma Chunmei, and the man on the other side was Feng Ping, a rare earner in the village.
Feng Ping was a rare high-level intellectual in their era. After graduating from technical secondary school, he was assigned to the factory office of the farm. He was also a skilled worker, and now he has become the deputy director of the farm. Ma Chunmei's father is the small leader of the food factory closely related to the farm. The food residues from the food factory are usually sent to the farm as feed. The two of them got together because of this opportunity.
Perhaps because of her urban hukou, Ma Chunmei has always looked down on her husband's rural relatives, but she is a good person and has never shown her disdain on the face of it.
The Jiang and Feng families are somewhat related. Feng Ping's biological mother is Jiang Jianjun's father's cousin in terms of seniority. Feng Ping has to call Jiang Jianjun a brother, but the two families began to communicate closely after Jiang Jianjun made his fortune.
Ma Chunmei suddenly mentioned that her eldest daughter Jiang Yanan was definitely not aimless. Yao Huilan thought that the other party lived in the county all the year round, and the network of contacts in the county was very large. If the other party moved her mind to be a matchmaker for her daughter, the conditions of the boy who could introduce it would definitely be better than that of her. They find it better.
For the eldest daughter Yao Huilan, she has always felt that she is indebted. Several younger sisters and younger brothers have the opportunity to study and read, but she has no education at all and can only be sent to be an apprentice. Therefore, Yao Huilan has always wanted to compensate this daughter in the marriage.
A lot of people had introduced Ya Nan before, but Yao Huilan either disliked the boy for not going to work, or disliked the other party's poor family conditions, and there was never a suitable candidate.
"Yeah, I'm 16 after New Year's, but the times are different now. Back then, it was too late if we didn't say kissing. Now, there are many young girls who get married after the age of 20. Before, Yanan Didn't her dad send him to an old tailor to learn the craft, and now the craft has not been mastered, so her dad and I are not in a hurry to marry our daughter."
Girls always have to be more reserved. Yao Huilan will not show her eagerness to marry her daughter in front of so many people. On the contrary, she has to tell everyone that their family also loves her daughter, such as finding a way to send her daughter. Learning craftsmanship, these vaguely revealed news, are all to increase her daughter's bargaining chips.
"Yeah, it's really different now than we were back then."
Ma Chunmei knew it at one point, "It's like my eldest sister's nephew, who will be twenty after the new year, but this child shouted that he should start a career first and then start a family. After graduating from secondary school, he was assigned to the county party committee and plans to wait for the county to allocate a house. Then think about marriage."
Twenty years old, he is four years older than Jiang Yanan, and he is a good match in age. He was assigned to the county party committee after graduating from technical secondary school, which shows that the young man has aspirations and a promising future.
And the other party wants to wait a few years before getting married, which means that he can wait for Jiang Yanan for a few years. When Jiang Yanan reaches the age of getting the certificate, the other party should have a career, and the time is just right.
Ma Chunmei seemed to mention her nephew inadvertently, but in fact, she reiterated her nephew's advantages in front of Yao Huilan.
Yao Huilan knew, it seemed that Ma Chunmei wanted to marry her nephew.
Hearing Ma Chunmei talk about her nephew's conditions, Yao Huilan was undeniably moved, but she had concerns. After all, if Ma Chunmei's nephew's conditions were really that good, how could she be attracted to her daughter.
It's not that Yao Huilan belittles her own girl, but Jiang Yanan's conditions do have many shortcomings. For example, she has no education. This alone does not match the nephew of Ma Chunmei, who graduated from technical secondary school.
However, it is good to stop talking about some words, and then it is time for both parties to find someone to understand each other's situation.
After all, there are so many people present, if they say the words of love nakedly, it will not succeed, it will not affect the man, but it will hinder the reputation of the woman.
If Jiang Liu was present at this moment, he could immediately think of who Ma Chunmei's nephew was. That person was Jiang Yanan's husband in the previous life, and Ma Chunmei brought their marriage together in the previous life.
And as Yao Huilan imagined, Ma Chunmei's nephew, Wang Yuan, does have shortcomings, and this shortcomings have to start with Wang Yuan's mother.
Ma Chunmei's eldest sister is commonly known in the countryside as "Dahualian", that is, those who are born with birthmarks on their faces. In folk rumors, "Dahualian" are people who committed sins in previous lives, and this evil debt came to this world with them. Therefore, those "big face" not only have to endure the flaws in appearance, but also have to endure the strange eyes and unfounded pointing of the people around them.
Because of this birthmark, Sister Ma Chunmei became the biggest problem in the family. Even though her parents were both dual workers, and her father was a small leader in a food factory, she dragged on to marry at the age of 24, and she married a countryman who did not match her family background. People, the other party became a temporary worker in a food factory under her father's arrangement, and the conditions are decent at this moment.
Whether it was before or after marriage, Ma Chunmei's eldest sister was reluctant to go out to meet people because of the birthmark on her face, so until now, few people have been aware of her physical condition. Yes, in a small county town where folk customs are more ignorant and superstitious, it is equally shameful to have a "big face" mother-in-law.
Therefore, even if Ma Chunmei's nephew Wang Yuan is in good condition, with such a mother, it is difficult for him to find a marriage that suits his heart.
Jiang Yanan was different. Ma Chunmei felt that this girl and her nephew had their own shortcomings. But Yao Huilan is even willing to take over the children of her uncle's family, which shows that she is a kind-hearted woman, and the daughter she has taught will definitely be as gentle as her, and will not look down on people just because her mother-in-law is a "big face".
Moreover, the economic conditions of the Jiang family are very good. Although Jiang Jianjun loves his son more, he is willing to send his daughter to be an apprentice and plan a way out for her in the future, which shows that he is not the kind of man who takes his daughter as a must. Dowry is definitely not thin.
Because of this consideration, she rashly mentioned Jiang Yanan's marriage.
In the last life, Jiang Yanan and her husband had a good relationship. Neither of the husband and wife was the kind of person who likes to make trouble. Both my parents like this daughter/granddaughter, and I didn't make trouble with her because of this.
Of course, there must still be bumps and bumps between ordinary couples, especially when Jiang Yanan kept spending money from the small family to supplement her parents' family in order to help her younger brother.
However, the marriage did not succeed in the end. Wang Yuan got back his salary card. The husband and wife managed their own affairs, barely making do with their daughter. When he was old, Wang Yuan also agreed with Jiang Yanan to help his younger sisters Jiang Lainan and Jiang Chaonan. Accompanying and ending.
But this matter cannot be said to be Wang Yuan's fault. In fact, no man can stand his daughter-in-law's helpless family. Compared with Jiang Lainan's husband who immediately divorced his daughter-in-law, Wang Yuan can be regarded as affectionate and righteous. .
Therefore, Jiang Liu has become the original body. He has never thought about whether to change the marriage line of the eldest sister, because everyone is an independent individual. Apart from knowing the path that will inevitably go wrong, he has no reason to manipulate the eldest sister's own life.
He intends to take a step by step. In fact, after his arrival, Jiang Yanan's life has undergone slight changes. In the next few years, she may not be like a little seamstress in her previous life. , If she still likes Wang Yuan and is willing to marry her, then it may be fate.
Moreover, Jiang Liu has the confidence that his sister, no matter what choice she makes, will be able to achieve happiness in the end.