Zhou Zekai, who went to the kitchen, thought that he had got rid of the things he was forced to do, and helped his wife cook together. After the preparations were arranged, he went outside with Huo Xuanxuan, and sat and talked with his parents.
Zhou's father and Zhou's mother are actually very satisfied with Huo Xuanxuan's daughter-in-law. Not only is she good-looking, she has a job, and she is caring, and she is also very kind to their husband and wife.
So even if Zhou's mother wanted her son to have a second child, she would not tell Huo Xuanxuan to her face. Zhou's mother still knew about Huo Xuanxuan's work. She had taken maternity leave when she gave birth to Ai Ai. According to the contract, There is no second-child leave. If you have a second child, you may only be able to resign.
Zhou's mother had been sidelining about this matter before, and found that neither her daughter-in-law nor her son wanted to have a second child, so she didn't mention it again. It was only after she fell and was hospitalized a while ago that she found out that one of her sons was not good, and the son had to work , to serve her, and to see her father-in-law and mother-in-law, it can be said that she is very busy.
At that time, I and my husband gave birth to such a son because of the policy, so when the second child is now open, Zhou's mother thinks about it, just want her son to have another one, whether it is a son or a daughter, and the child will grow up. Now, you can also be filial to your son, so you don't have to be so embarrassing with your son...
In the morning, the family was happy and harmonious. After lunch, Huo Xuanxuan was going to take piano lessons. Although this little girl is only three years old, she really likes listening to music. After listening to the piano for the first time, she showed a love for piano Unusual interest, Huo Xuanxuan is a preschool teacher and has learned piano before, so she naturally supports her daughter's hobby. She saw that her daughter likes it, and was afraid of delaying her daughter, so she enrolled her daughter in piano lessons every week. It's only an hour, and the tuition fee of 300 yuan an hour, just these are a lot of expenses for the Zhou family.
Zhou's father sent Huo Xuanxuan and his granddaughter to the cram school and watched his little girl play the piano, while Zhou Zekai, who stayed at home, naturally began to accept Zhou's mother's brainwashing.
Zhou Zekai, who was reading on the sofa, saw his mother suddenly sitting in front of him, and knew that what was supposed to come would indeed come. He sighed inwardly. He was not very in favor of the second child.
In fact, if it is the problem of raising a child that requires money, it is an easy solution for Zhou Zekai. He has countless ways to make money to support his children, let alone one child, he can accept a lot of money.
It's just that the problem is obviously with Huo Xuanxuan. Huo Xuanxuan was safe when she was pregnant, but when it came time to give birth, both mother and child died. This proves that Huo Xuanxuan is not suitable for having children. In other words, in order to prevent such things from happening, it is best to The best way is not to have a second child.
The wisher also said that he only wanted Huo Xuanxuan to live well and her daughter to be healthy, but he didn't say that he would have another child. Zhou Zekai never liked to gamble with other people's lives.
When a woman gives birth, it's a trip to hell. The previous Huo Xuanxuan has already thrown her life in it. This time, don't even think about having a second child.
"Akai, you see Ai Ai is three years old, you and Xuanxuan have no other plans?"
Zhou's mother summed up the language and planned to have a good talk with her son. Today's young people don't like many children, but if they don't have children, what will they do in the future? Do you really want to go to a nursing home
"Plan? Oh, by the way, Mom, Xuanxuan told me that her kindergarten will raise her salary. Besides, they want to set up a nursery for young children on weekends. When that time comes, Xuanxuan Thinking about the past, I got an extra salary of 2,000 yuan a month... "
Zhou Zekai recalled what his wife said in the car. The kindergarten Huo Xuanxuan teaches is a private kindergarten with good facilities. Huo Xuanxuan not only has a kindergarten teacher's certificate, but also can play the piano, sing and dance, and is excellent in all aspects. He is very patient with children, so the monthly salary is 5,000 yuan, which is considered very good among kindergarten teachers.
Regarding the weekend nursery, it is actually a place to help take care of children, and the time is not long, that is, one afternoon or two afternoons a week. This nursery was proposed by the parents of their kindergarten. After all, sometimes parents are busy. It is really impossible to take good care of the child.
"Ah? Are you still running this kind of cram school? Then what should we Xuanxuan do?" When Zhou's mother heard it, she didn't care about money, but worried about her granddaughter's situation. She knew her son was troublesome and wouldn't Huo Xuanxuan is the support of the family when taking care of the children. If Huo Xuanxuan goes to work, who will take care of the granddaughter
"Isn't there still me here? I can take Xuanxuan with me at that time." Zhou Zekai said as it should. In fact, he really likes his daughter very much. Such an innocent and lovely daughter, when he thinks of her, he will suffer from a fever. But being stupid, Zhou Zekai felt very uncomfortable.
"How can this work? You can't even take care of yourself, how can you take good care of Xuanxuan? Well, if your wife goes to work, I will go with your father to look after Xuanxuan for you. I don't know how to plan well. If you go to work, Xuanxuan will be so scared by herself... "
Mother Zhou's thoughts were interrupted, and now she couldn't care less about urging her son to have a second child. Instead, she began to think about how to take care of the child for her son. After all, if the daughter-in-law really gets a raise and goes to a nursery , then the family will be able to be more generous.
"Mom, I knew you were the best. Xuanxuan also likes you and dad the most. If I know that I can see you every week, I will be really happy!"
In fact, Huo Xuanxuan also had such an opportunity at the time of the wishing person, but she was worried about her daughter, coupled with the fact that the wishing person was busy with work and was urging to have a second child, so naturally she did not participate, and then she resigned from the kindergarten and became a A housewife, just to have children...
Knowing all this, Zhou Zekai naturally did not allow this to happen.
"Nonsense, if I don't love my granddaughter, who will? Count on you, a father who doesn't work?"
Looking at her son with contempt, Zhou's mother really felt that her son was not as good as her daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law took care of everything in the house so well. Apart from going to work, the son enjoyed it all. It was a loss to his own daughter-in-law.
"Mom, I'm your own after all, so you don't need to say that about me, do you?"
Zhou Zekai joked with a smile, as long as he didn't talk about having a second child, he didn't want to have a second child anyway.
"Hehe, you are biological, but you didn't inherit my good genes." Zhou's mother continued to criticize, and only after she finished the criticism did she realize why she wanted to come here. After thinking about it, she still spoke.
"Son, you really don't plan to have a second child? Now that Xuanxuan is still young, and your father and I are still young, we can take care of the children for you. If your father and I get old in the future, even if you want to Well, we can't bring you any more children."
Unexpectedly, Zhou's mother finally spoke. Zhou Zekai was speechless at first, and then replied.
"Mom, this child is not born at birth. I think it is enough to have Ai Ai at home. Let's not talk about whether having a child will affect Ai Ai. Let's talk about the current work situation of Xuanxuan and I, how to have a second child Huh? My company is very busy, and Xuanxuan finally got a salary increase. She must be busy in the future. I really don't have time to have a second child... "
Zhou Zekai said so earnestly, and he didn't understand why parents always like to urge marriage, urge love, and urge to have children.
When a person is born into this world, he cannot choose, but in the process of growing up, they have experienced many things and formed their own consciousness, so they should have their own choices instead of compromising for others.
Thinking about how I lived alone in many worlds in the past, having a child is really a matter of fate, if it is in your destiny, you will have it, if you are not in your destiny, then don’t force it.
"What do you mean you don't have time? Don't fool me about your work with Xuanxuan. You don't talk about it. What else do you do all day except go to work? Isn't Xuanxuan still doing homework? If Xuanxuan agrees to give birth For the second child, I will pay her salary, can I give her 5,000 yuan a month? Besides, Ah Kai, I was hospitalized some time ago, and you are running around, my heart is distressed. From now on, Ai Ai will only have one child , in the future, if she gets married, you are sick, and she is too tired to run around, will you feel better? If you have another child, you can also be with Ai Ai and share the future affairs with Ai Ai. This is not the best of both worlds Is it?"
To put it bluntly, I am counting on the old age. The way Chinese people treat their children is that if I raise her, she must repay me and give me old age. Otherwise, she will be a white-eyed wolf, or she will be unfilial.
Parents like Zhou's father and Zhou's mother are ordinary parents, and some extreme parents even try to control their children for a lifetime. This kind of thing is not uncommon. Many men have a strong sense of family, so they often choose to compromise.
Zhou Zekai can understand this kind of compromise that doesn't want to make his parents sad, but if such a compromise will bring harm to everyone, then such a compromise is unnecessary.
"Mom, it's not the best of both worlds. When I gave birth to Ai Ai, I didn't expect her to take care of me in the future. I let her come into this world because I love her. I want her to experience all the good things in this world." , But this is not the reason for me to tie her up. In the future, I can earn more money and save it, so I don’t have to worry about Ai Ai. Xuanxuan will not agree to this matter, Mom, I will tell the truth Let me tell you, Xuanxuan has been in poor health since she gave birth to Ai Ai. The doctor suggested that it is best not to have another child. This will affect Xuanxuan's health... "
Zhou's mother was stunned when she heard her son's words. She didn't expect that there would be another child, and she couldn't care about the second child, so she hurriedly asked.
"When did it happen? There is nothing wrong with Xuanxuan's health, right? Do I need to go to the hospital?"