How important is learning to a child
This problem may be faced by many people. After all, human beings grow up in learning, so it is absolutely necessary to encounter this problem. Although many people do not go very smoothly on the road of learning, but for most For excellent children, learning is the best tool to please their parents.
It's the same in the Zhou family, because the eldest brother Zhou Chengmin studies well, so the family's resources have been tilted towards the eldest brother Zhou Chengmin from the beginning. Since childhood, every final exam has been given a bonus, from ten yuan when I was a child to now When Zhou Chengmin was admitted to Jinghua, the Zhou family and his wife even rewarded their son with 10,000 yuan at once!
With this smart elder brother leading the way, Zhou Weiwei has had her own small treasury since she was in elementary school. After each exam, she will be rewarded by Zhou's father and mother. Zhou Weiwei will be given 100 yuan for almost every exam every two months. It sounds a little small, but it’s like the final exam and the Chinese New Year. They are all given 500. From Xiaoxue to junior high school, they have given a lot of money...
So, in this family, Zhou Chengmin and Zhou Weiwei are not short of money.
As for Zhou Zekai, the only one who didn't study well, it was enough to keep Zhou's parents and Zhou's mother from getting angry every day. Where is there any extra pocket money? People only gave it after they passed the exam. If Zhou Zekai didn't get good grades, of course he wouldn't.
This may be related to personal ability, Zhou Zekai has nothing to say, but the New Year's money is different every year, isn't that too strange
Many years ago, the wish-maker thought that his elder brother and younger sister were the same as himself, and that the New Year's money was only given by his parents for a hundred yuan. Later, he found out that his parents secretly gave money to his elder brother. Five hundred yuan, this is nothing, and the relatives in the family, grandparents and grandparents, are more fond of elder brother and younger sister. Every time they give New Year's money, they also give fifty yuan when giving it to him, while elder brother and younger sister are two hundred dollars...
The person who made the wish knew since he was a child that he was not liked because he was not good at studying and his brain was not good. Is that so-and-so's younger brother? Or that so-and-so's elder brother, who will never have his own place.
Perhaps in such a family, not being outstanding is already a sin.
This reminded Zhou Zekai of a long, long time ago. Although he had no memory, he also knew that he was not good at everything in the beginning. Learning methods, and become more excellent.
The child is supposed to ask the family to pay more patience to educate, but the person who made the wish will be compared every time. Even if he is taught by his mother, he will be pointed at his head and said that this kind of question is so simple, your sister will know it, You are so stupid as to die!
Under such oppression, any child would probably feel uncomfortable, right? That's why wish-wishers will work to earn money to support themselves after college, and don't ask the family for money. Even after college, they stay outside all the time and have no plan to go home.
Probably because I feel that you no longer have your own status in this family, otherwise, you would never have made such a decision.
Zhou Zekai didn't intend to compromise with these so-called excellent and smart people. I'm afraid even the people in this family didn't realize that they looked down on Zhou Zekai from the bottom of their hearts, otherwise they wouldn't always ask for a child like this.
Zhou Weiwei's face turned ugly. She never thought that her brother, who was usually silent, would say such a thing. If she wanted to eat instant noodles, would she still go to him? This brother of mine is not smart enough, not good at studying, and besides showing a face, he can cook and eat. Usually, his classmates ask Zhou Weiwei, what Zhou Weiwei likes to show off the most is her brother who was admitted to Jinghua University, also known as Zhou Chengmin As for the goal, as for this brainless brother, Zhou Weiwei is really bored.
"Zhou Zekai! You're still my brother! What's wrong with cooking for my sister! If you don't cook for me, I'll tell mom that you bullied me!"
Zhou Weiwei, whose expression changed, saw that the pleading was not enough, and started threatening, her voice became extremely sharp, which made Zhou Zekai who was washing clothes even more irritable.
"You also know that you are a younger sister, so brother should cook for younger sister, right? Didn't you see me doing laundry?"
Looking at Zhou Weiwei, Zhou Zekai's gaze became very sharp, which made Zhou Weiwei stiffen all over and felt a little scared, but she also felt that she shouldn't shrink back in front of this bad-minded second brother, so she tried her best to muster up the courage and flirted. A harsh word.
"You bully me! I will definitely tell my parents and let my parents beat you!!!!"
After speaking, he turned his head and ran away, afraid that Zhou Zekai would catch up, which made Zhou Zekai dumbfounded, the other party was obviously a little girl, but in fact Zhou Zekai had no intention of targeting the other party, he just came to this body and got everything that belonged to this body, that's why he did this for this one. The body feels unfair.
So what if you are not smart and not good at learning? Isn't this his own child
Zhou's father and Zhou's mother have never realized that they are partial to the children in the family, or have already realized it, but they all feel that there is nothing wrong with this, like working-class people, they will choose a more powerful future, rather than cultivating A child who is not smart and not good at learning, they obviously want to use more resources in the family to train the other two smart children. As for this unintelligent child, as long as they are raised well, they will not starve to death. , even if this child is not smart, but he is still eager to have the same pampered person at home.
In this society, there are actually many such things. Whether there are three or more people in the family, as long as there are too many people, it will be unfair. Who will the two children be closer to? So many times, they will feel the partiality of their parents. I take it for granted, and think that to give a child a life, as long as the child can grow up, it is enough, and I have never considered what to give the child.
In fact, if children can choose, the children's choice may not necessarily be to choose them as parents.
Continuing to do the laundry, Zhou Zekai didn't intend to be as knowledgeable as the little girl, but Zhou Weiwei who went out was very angry, and couldn't watch the TV anymore, picked up the mobile phone to chat with classmates, and even changed his QQ signature—I hate second brother, he Always bully me!
But these have nothing to do with Zhou Zekai, don't look at it as a family, Zhou Zekai's Q does not have Zhou Weiwei, and of course there is no big brother Zhou Chengmin.
Before Zhou Weiwei was born, Zhou Chengmin and Zhou Zekai had a good relationship, but after Zhou Weiwei was born, the family's eyes fell on Zhou Weiwei, and they didn't pay much attention to Zhou Zekai. Later, when everyone grew up, Zhou Chengmin loved himself even more My younger sister really has very little affection for a brother who is like me.
It was past six o'clock, and Zhou's mother finally came back, and Zhou Weiwei complained as soon as she came up.
"Mom! The second brother bullied me. I said I was hungry, but he didn't even cook for me!!!"
Zhou's mother was happy to see the girl at first, but now the three children, one went to other places, one lived in high school, and the other lived in junior high school, they only met once a week, and then heard her daughter's complaint, Zhou's mother suddenly felt very distressed .
"Hey baby, mom bought you delicious food, you eat first, I'll train your second brother!"
Mother Zhou really loves the little girl, who made the little girl look like her and be smart? Compared with the angry second son, Zhou Mudanga likes her daughter. Sometimes she wonders if the second son has been picked up wrongly. Why are all the children in the family so smart and only he is so incomprehensible
After comforting her daughter, Zhou's mother went directly to Zhou Zekai. When she came to Zhou Zekai's room, she saw Zhou Zekai sitting there reading a novel, and immediately became angry.
"Zhou Zekai! You still read novels! I don't know if your sister is hungry? You are so grown up, and as an older brother, you don't know how to cook for your sister when she is hungry?"
It never occurred to her that Zhou Weiwei was already in junior high school, possessed hands-on skills, and could cook by herself, but she knew that her son could cook as a matter of course, and thought that if her younger sister made a request, the elder brother must satisfy it.
Hearing this voice, Zhou Zekai put down the book in his hand, looked at his frowning mother, and said.
"She's not young anymore, she's already in the third grade of junior high school, won't she cook for herself when she's hungry? Do you want me to serve her?"
What she said was terrible to Zhou's mother's ears, and Zhou's mother was even more angry.
"That's your own sister, what happened to you cooking? You don't know that your sister is not very good at cooking? Besides, girls' hands are so precious, what if they are broken?"
She never thought that her eldest son could not cook, but she just took it for granted that since her second son could cook, she should cook for her daughter.
Zhou Zekai was a little annoyed by such unreasonable troubles, so he got up from the bed and stood in front of Zhou's mother.
"From today onwards, I won't cook at home. In the past, my elder brother didn't cook. Why should I do it? Mom, there should be a limit to your partiality to my sister."
What he said made Zhou's mother's face even more ugly, and she was even more angry when she heard her son mentioning the eldest son and being eccentric.
"Partial? Why am I partial? Your elder brother can't cook if he doesn't cook. Your younger sister is still young. You are eighteen years old this year and you are an adult. Can't you take care of your younger sister? Why are you so thoughtful? "
Thinking of the excellent grades of the eldest son and daughter, and looking at the son in front of him who is not doing well and still doing things all day long, Zhou's mother is really annoying, and she hates iron for being weak.
Zhou Zekai, on the other hand, laughed and raised his lips.
"Then I deserve to be able to cook? Do I deserve to serve people?"