Why is this a children's room
Bozai looked at the "children's room" in front of him, then at Gu Yanzhi, his chubby little face was full of disbelief, as if he couldn't believe his little ears, he asked back: "Bozai's children's room? "
Gu Yanzhi gave a "hmm" and asked again: "Do you like it?"
Poppy shook his head in resistance.
Although he is small, it doesn't mean he doesn't know that there is a children's room, so he has to sleep alone.
He doesn't need a nursery, he wants to sleep with his mother!
What's more, what's more, this is not a children's room at all! This is the living room!
Bozai inspected the "children's room" in front of him like the strictest small contractor, and finally let him find the unqualified place: "This is not a 'children's room' at all!"
He raised his chubby hand and pointed to the gap beside the whiteboard: "There's not even a door!"
In Bozai's cognition, all rooms have doors.
Even the classrooms where kindergartens take naps have doors.
How can a room be called a room if there is no door? If it's not a room, how can you sleep
The more Bozai thought about it, the more he felt that his thinking made sense.
Gu Yanzhi glanced at the little chubby who was happy because he found the "loophole", and said calmly: "If you need this, Dad can help you install a door curtain."
The corner of the little fat pier's upturned mouth froze.
Gu Yanzhi touched his son's little head, opened his brain, and ordered a curtain from the nearest store.
The washing machine on the balcony "dropped".
Gu Yanzhi patted Bo Zai on the shoulder, got up and went to the balcony to fetch the washed sheets, and spread them on the custom-made mattress.
Bozai didn't know what Dad put in the washing machine before. Seeing that Dad was going to wash things, he also put laundry beads for him.
Looking at the sheets on the small bed now, I couldn't help feeling wronged.
After Gu Yanzhi spread the sheets, he turned around and saw the little chubby guy with red eyes. Seeing him looking over, Bo Zai flattened his mouth, looked weak and pitiful and chubby, and seemed even more aggrieved.
Gu Yanzhi sighed in his heart, sat on the newly made small bed, and waved to his son.
Although the little fat pier was terribly wronged, he still ran over, Gu Yanzhi hugged him on his lap, and asked him, "Bozai, do you know how old you are?"
Little Fatty is very human. Usually, I really want to grow up. When people ask him how old he is, they always say "Bo Zai is going to be six soon", and even if he is not good enough, he has to give an false age and say that he is already five years old.
But now, he knows that he will be an older child when he grows up, and he will not be able to sleep with his mother, so he glanced at Gu Yanzhi, stretched out his chubby hand, and gestured for "four": "Bozai is four years old."
But in front of his ruthless father, it was useless for him to report his age to Xiaoli.
Gu Yanzhi nodded, and said softly, "I'm already four years old, it's time to learn to sleep alone."
Bo Zai is very skeptical, even if he is only one year old now, his father will tell him "he is already one year old, it's time to learn to sleep alone", even if he didn't understand at that time.
Gu Yanzhi seemed to see what he was thinking, and asked again: "Did a lot of children in your little mushroom class start to sleep alone?"
Pop Cub fell silent.
Gu Yanzhi patiently reasoned with his son: "Look, many children who are the same age as you sleep alone. Should you also sleep alone?"
Bozai thought for a while, then shook his head.
He has his own ideas, and argued hard: "But they are them, and Bo Zai is Bo Zai. Bo Zai doesn't need to be like them. If they are disobedient, will Bo Zai also be disobedient?"
Gu Yanzhi didn't expect the little fat man to say such a thing, he was a little surprised.
Bozai gave an example: "Dad, you don't sleep with grandparents. But Bozai is different from you."
"Even if Bo Zai grows up and becomes an adult, he still wants to sleep with his mother. And his father."
Gu Yanzhi took a deep look at Xiaopangdun.
If Bozai insists on his choice in other matters and convinces him with tenable reasons, then he will be very happy.
But this one doesn't work.
Not negotiable.
Gu Yanzhi said slowly: "Sleeping alone is not a bad thing."
Far from being a bad thing.
Open any parenting book and you will see that "children between the ages of four and six should sleep in separate beds from their parents" and list a long list of benefits to doing so.
Poppies are not special and do not require special treatment. What's more, he had slept alone for a while before, and now he was purely attached to Xie Yishu, so he wanted to sleep with them again.
Gu Yanzhi casually cited a few benefits of "letting the child sleep alone", and said to Bo Zai: "We all know to wash our hands before eating. If someone says 'You are you, I am me, I just don't wash my hands', Bo Do you think he's doing the right thing?"
Bozai lowered his chubby face and fell silent again.
When Xie Yishu came out of the holographic cabin, what he saw was the scene of the father and son having a long conversation.
When Bozai saw him, his eye circles turned red again. He ran over and opened his chubby arms for a comforting hug.
Xie Yishu bent down and picked up Xiaopangdun, roughly guessed what happened, and asked to be on the safe side: "What's wrong?"
"Bozai, Bozai..." Bozai wanted to tell his mother that his father built him a "children's room" and ordered him to sleep alone at night, and he was not allowed to sleep with his mother, but when the words came to his mouth, he felt sad.
Thinking of not being able to sleep with my mother in the future, not today, not tomorrow... not in the future, the little fat pier was overwhelmed by great sadness, couldn't hold back all of a sudden, and burst into tears.
Xiaopang's body trembled slightly from crying.
Xie Yishu looked at Gu Yanzhi.
Gu Yanzhi considered it for a while, and explained: "I just told him about the 'children's room'."
He didn't expect Bozai to cry.
Little Fatty has always wanted to be a strong and brave little man, and he seldom cries.
Xie Yishu can understand why Bozai cries.
Probably not because I want to sleep alone in the future, but because "I thought I could sleep with them, but I found out that I have to sleep alone again" brought a sense of gap.
After all, some time ago, Xiaopangdun slept well even if he slept alone.
Xie Yishu took a tissue from Gu Yanzhi's hand, wiped the little chubby boy's tears, and said, "Do you really want to sleep with Daddy and Daddy?"
Although Bo Zai was crying so hard, he still nodded his chubby face vigorously when he heard Xie Yishu's question.
Xie Yishu asked again: "Then can you tell little dad, why do you want to sleep with dad and little dad?"
"Because, because..." Little Fatty cried out of breath. He took a paper towel from his father, wiped his tears, squeezed the paper towel tightly to keep himself from crying, and answered his mother's question.
Xie Yishu patiently waited for him to calm down.
After a while, he heard Xiao Pangdun choked up and said: "Because, because the little dad will tell stories and read picture books to Bo Zai..."
Gu Yanzhi: "... In the past, I would also tell him stories and read picture books."
Bozai glanced at his father with tears in his eyes, and continued to cry: "Besides, my little dad smells very fragrant..."
Xie Yishu was a little dumbfounded.
He can guarantee that there is no special fragrance on his body, only the smell of body wash and shampoo.
And maybe the laundry detergent on the pajamas.
Gu Yanzhi used the same body wash, shampoo, and laundry detergent as him, and he could smell the same smell on Gu Yanzhi.
It smells good, yes, but the best smell among them should be the little fat cub himself. In addition to the fragrance mixed with daily chemical products, it also has a milky fragrance.
"Also, it's very comfortable to sleep with Daddy, so Bozai wants to sleep with Daddy and Daddy..."
After all, he just wanted to sleep with his mother.
Dad is incidental, because it is too pitiful for Dad to sleep alone, so he said he wants to sleep with Mom and Dad.
But he can understand his father, why can't his father understand him and let him sleep with him and his mother
The little fat pier rubbed his eyes, feeling wronged again.
The little chubby in his arms is solid, holding it for a long time, his arms are a little too much.
Xie Yishu put the chubby boy down, squatted down and looked at him at the same level: "During this time, my little dad will tell you a story every day before going to bed, and leave after you fall asleep, okay?"
Bobby nodded sullenly.
He found out that his mother also wanted him to sleep alone.
why
Dad showed him "Top Ten Benefits of Sleeping Alone for Children", and he admitted that sleeping alone is helpful for children's growth. But I also said in my mind that it is recommended that children start sleeping alone when they are four to six years old.
He's only four years old, why not let him sleep alone when he's six
Bozai pursed his lips and asked his own question.
"Daddy wants to sleep with Daddy, Daddy wants to sleep with Daddy, and none of you want to sleep with Bozai."
As Bozai talked, he felt that such a description sounded familiar. He racked his brains for a while, and thought of what Zhang Cheng had said to him. By the way, he pointed his fingers and felt aggrieved: "Is it because Bozai is a small light bulb? So you I don’t sleep with a boo cub.”
To some extent, the little fat pier accidentally told most of the truth.
The two fathers were a little embarrassed.
Little Fatty opened his eyes wide in disbelief when his parents stopped talking.
Is he really a little light bulb
This kind of cognition hurt Xiaopangdun a little.
Gu Yanzhi coughed lightly: "No, we want to exercise your independence earlier."
Xie Yishu nodded and added: "If 'sleeping alone' is regarded as a task that must be completed in the process of growing up, Dad and Dad think that Bo Zai can complete this task when he is four years old."
Xie Yishu paused for a moment: "If Bozai thinks it can't be done, we can take our time."
Bozai gnawed at the chubby hand.
He's at the age where he wants to be recognized and praised, and is eager to prove to his mom that "he can".
But he also wanted to sleep with his mother.
The little chubby was a little embarrassed, and looked at Xie Yishu pitifully, his chubby face revealed the meaning of "can't have both".
"Bozai has been sleeping alone for a while, can it be considered as completing the task?"
Seeing Xiao Pangdun's expectant eyes, Xie Yishu was suddenly awakened.
Little Fatty fell asleep quickly and was not afraid of the dark. Some time ago, I slept alone and slept well.
He can sleep alone, but he wants to sleep with him and Gu Yan, he probably just wants to stay with them.
Because they gave him too little company.
Especially him, who has been away for five years and has been absent since Bo Zai was born.
Xie Yishu's heart softened, and he said to Bo Zai: "We can proceed step by step, starting with sleeping alone five days a week."
Bo Zai's chubby face lit up.
He didn't expect things to turn around!
But under the influence of his grandma, he is well versed in the secrets of bargaining, so he deliberately pretended to think about it: "Well... but... um..."
While making a show, he couldn't help looking at his parents, for fear that his father would object and his mother would go back on his word.
Xiao Pangdun's clumsy acting skills are particularly cute.
Xie Yishu smiled, and threw out another piece of candy: "Daddy can also give Bobo a small prop to assist in completing the task."
The little fatty fish really took the bait, and asked in a curious tone, "What little prop?"
Xie Yishu asked: "Is Bozai ready to take on this task?"
The little fatty fish hesitated.
He wants to sleep with his mother every day, but his mother also said that he will tell him a story before going to bed, and leave after he falls asleep.
After he fell asleep, he didn't know what happened to the outside world. Thinking about it carefully, it was no different from sleeping with his mother.
And now I can sleep with my mother two days a week, which is already earned. Winter vacation is coming again soon. Dad is at the company at noon, and he and mother are at home, so they can take a nap together.
Now that he accepts the task, he can still get the small props his mother prepared for him... Little Fatty's heart is moved.
He looked at his mother, then at his father, turned his eyes back to his mother, nodded his head, and said in a tone of impatience, "Bo cub is ready!"
Xie Yishu glanced at the unopened courier box at the entrance, reached out and pinched Bo Zai's chubby face: "Then Bo Zai will take a bath with Dad first."
"You can see the small props when you come out."