No matter what kind of changes Jiang Pengji brings to this era, this kind of change also takes time to ferment and spread.
As time goes by, new ideas can slowly replace the old ones that people are accustomed to.
It will take decades, if not decades, to break out, and for now, old thinking reigns supreme.
In the old thinking of people, men take care of the outside world, earn money and socialize, and women take care of the inside, maintain the family, take care of the children, and support the parents.
It seems that the division of labor is clear, but it actually limits the scope and vision of women, and makes the idea of "men are superior to women" more deeply rooted.
Even a noble girl from a prominent gentry cannot live without her inner house, husband, elders and children.
In addition to these projects, there is also the so-called "lady diplomacy", in which ladies help their husbands expand and consolidate contacts in foreign activities.
Before the rise of Maruzhou, Jiang Pengji had a small number of ministers, and half of them were single dogs and DINK people.
After the rise of Maruzhou, Jinlin Pavilion absorbed a large number of middle-level talents for Jiang Pengji, most of them were married married people.
When the husband was sent abroad to fight a war or manage the local economy, the wives stayed in Maruzhou.
As time went on, they also felt a little irritable, and gradually began to walk with each other.
The size of the circle of friends of these ladies depends on the status and relationship of their husbands in the officialdom, and their respective husbands have a good relationship.
The relationship between the ladies is also good, the status of the husband is high, and the circle of girlfriends of the ladies is large.
Even if it was not good before, the four o'clock and eight festivals will increase the communication, and it will naturally become familiar with it.
Before Jiang Pengji attacked Huang Song, the ladies began to walk. When she came back from the battle, the tea parties were full of flowers.
The tea party is a battlefield for ladies to show their "diplomatic methods". They all have their own accounts in their hearts for which one to build a good relationship and which one to alienate. Han Yu's wife, as the most noble lady among them, naturally had the best way to win over them.
Although he despised these shabby women in his heart and despised them for being vulgar and stupid, his face was impeccable.
The tea party she held was also the best and most thoughtful in the entire Maruzhou noblewoman circle. Which ladies of each family would not be envious
Outsiders don't know that the relationship between her and Han Yu's husband and wife is about to freeze, and seeing her life is exquisite and elegant, they will naturally envy their husband and wife's deep love, which is a role model. Mrs. Han enjoyed the feeling of being surrounded by stars, which made her feel like she was going back to the past.
Thinking back then, in Zhejiang County, her tea party was also "no white people", and the low-status and low-born lady was not even qualified to receive her invitation. Now she has to endure a group of women with uneven levels and lack of self-discipline to attend her tea party.
That's all, these rough women who only drink cows also like to blame their husbands and tell their sufferings at tea parties.
As Jiang Pengji got higher and higher, they suffered more.
The husband's career has developed, and his status has risen. Almost every family has one or two beautiful concubines in the backyard.
The concubines threatened their status in the main room, and some concubines were pregnant and almost stood on their heads and urinated.
The ladies seemed to have found a common topic, and the conversation was endless. Mrs. Han felt disgusted in her heart.
Such a vulgar woman, it's no wonder that her husband is despised by her old age, and what kind of man would like a yellow-faced woman with no connotation and sloppy skin
"Last night, that little hoof said that he had a stomachache. It was clearly because he was greedy and ate the wrong thing, but he scolded others. I was wronged because I wanted to attack her child—what am I doing this for? It's just a concubine who can't stand on the stage, really. Treat yourself as a person."
She said that she didn't care, but the handkerchief in her hand was about to be twisted by her, and her eyes were red.
"It's not bad, the one who lives in Chang'an Lane is really miserable." Another lady sighed, "My mother-in-law doesn't like her, and her husband dislikes her. Seeing this posture, she wants to help the concubine's house and let her be She demoted herself to be a concubine and abdicated to become a virtuous one—she refused. I heard that she was slapped by her mother-in-law in front of the servants in the whole house, and her face was swollen three or five times. now-"
These ladies have a boring life. In order to relieve their loneliness, tea parties are naturally a good channel to pass the time. They are regulars at tea parties and are familiar with each other. As soon as they heard it, they knew who the lady in Chang'an Lane was, and couldn't help but sigh, and said pitiful in their mouths.
Mrs. Han Yu became even more annoyed after hearing the gossip.
These stupid women don't know what "the shame of the family can't be made public"
Casually talking about the scandal of the inner house is everywhere, and deserves to be rejected by her husband.
Mrs. Han was going to drink a sip of tea to suppress her shock, but only heard the voice of a strange woman in her ear.
The other party's voice was not as crisp and clear as an oriole, on the contrary, some men's voices were rough and hoarse, how could there be any childish taste
She said, "Such a man, let it go."
The lady who heard the voice looked at the prestige, and saw a very plain woman sitting in the corner, not very brightly dressed.
If it wasn't for sitting in the room, others would have thought it was a grandma who was serving people.
"Why do you talk like that?"
The woman said, "Is it wrong? A man who has changed his mind, dotes on his concubine and destroys his wife, but also allows his concubine's house to be a demon, making the house full of evil spirits, what kind of life can such a man have in this life? As? It's better to give up early and remarry to find someone with brains."
The ladies were blushing when they heard this.
They complained and complained, and never thought about reconciliation.
Besides, that's their husband, how can a petty official's wife comment
One person said, "What a presumptuous bitch."
"Just now I saw that this woman has a disease in her right foot." Another lady sitting next to the woman said coldly, "One of the seven women who goes out is a serious disease. Instead of making a big noise here and disturbing the peace of other people's homes, it is better to think about it. Find a way, so as not to become the next cousin."
This is a relatively polite speech, and some people directly question the identity of the woman.
Her dress doesn't really look like a strong lady, even if it's a lady, it's probably a petty official.
How could Xiaoguan's wife be qualified to participate in a tea party of this level
Although Han Yu's wife has a rather stubborn personality, her memory and ability are still outstanding among noble ladies.
Even if there are more than 100 guests, she can accurately call out the identity of the other party, and she is warm and homely.
The invitations for the tea party were all prepared by her orders, and naturally there would be no invitation to a little-known lady of a small official.
She looked at the woman carefully, trying to match the number of the invitation to the other party.
Mrs. Han's tea party is the most famous in the circle of noble ladies in Maruzhou. She is also the wife of Han Yu. Naturally, the invitation cannot miss the female family members of Feng Jin and others. However, many family members declined, and the only woman who responded was Captain Dian Yin's wife... Could it be possible...
Without waiting for Mrs. Han to make a sound, Dian Yin's wife laughed instead of being angry, and said clearly and authentically, "This is no need for everyone to worry. There has never been a wife in the family, only a husband. If he is unfaithful, naturally I want to play the lord and order the reconciliation."
Ladies still want to laugh.
What the hell, what word is that