This is probably a question that every novice parent who is about to welcome their first baby can't help but think about, whether the child will be a cute daughter or a mischievous son.
"Then, Dad, do you want our baby to be a boy or a girl?" Su Rui looked at Gu Yucheng and couldn't help asking curiously.
In fact, if it was Su Rui herself, she would prefer a soft, pink and tender little princess.
However, in the eyes of the elders of the two families, they probably hope that Su Rui's first child will be a boy, right
Although men and women are equal, in reality, many things and responsibilities are still placed more on boys.
Including the responsibility of inheriting the family business and carrying on the family line.
This is the reality, and Su Rui can't change it.
She can only keep herself calm to welcome the baby's arrival.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, she will like it equally.
On the side, hearing Su Rui's question, Gu Yucheng frowned slightly.
"It's all good." Gu Yucheng said with a smile.
Even though he said that, when he was asked this question suddenly, Gu Yucheng couldn't help but start to imagine in his mind, what kind of little angel he and Su Rui would welcome in a month or so.
In the beginning, Gu Yucheng didn't actually think about this issue.
In his eyes, the gender of the child does not actually matter much.
As long as it is the child of the two, he will like it.
What's more, what Gu Yucheng was considering was that after Su Rui graduated, the child would be older, and after Su Rui's work and career stabilized, the two of them could have another child if conditions permit.
In a way, boys can indeed take on more.
As for the girls...
In fact, Gu Yucheng was looking forward to a daughter, a girl who looked like Su Rui.
It's just about this expectation, Gu Yucheng didn't tell Su Rui.
After reading many books on maternity, Gu Yucheng knew that many mothers would feel pressure about the sex of their children.
He didn't want Su Rui to have this pressure.
Walking to the bed, turning off the light, and covering Su Rui with the quilt again.
Pulling him into his arms, Gu Yucheng kissed Su Rui's forehead, and said softly, "If it's a boy, I will be a strict and qualified father."
"I will give him what I know. I will teach him how to be a man, let him know what responsibility is, and make him a good boy."
"Then what if it's a girl?" Su Rui lay in Gu Yucheng's arms, raised her head slightly and kissed Gu Yucheng's chin with some stubble, and couldn't help asking curiously.
"If it's a girl..." Speaking of this, a smile appeared in Gu Yucheng's eyes, and he said solemnly, "If it's a girl, I will spoil her to heaven."
"Pfft..." Hearing Gu Yucheng's words, Su Rui couldn't help but smile.
"That's still a boy," Su Rui said.
Daughter, the little lover of the previous life!
It's really beautiful to think about.
However, she was afraid that she would be jealous.
Su Rui muttered quietly in her heart.
Looking at Su Rui's shining eyes, there was a bit of playfulness and pointing at the moment, Gu Yucheng couldn't help but chuckled twice.
"It's all right." After speaking, Gu Yucheng adjusted the sleeping position for the woman in his arms, and said softly, "Now, it's time for you to sleep."
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Su Rui's due date is October 10th, but the due date is generally not particularly accurate.
So when there were still ten days before the due date of delivery, Su Rui put Su's father, Su's mother, Gu's mother, and barely another Gu's father under the nervous eyes of these four elders, and lived in the ward that had been reserved in advance.
On a certain issue, it was very rare that Su Rui and Gu Yucheng had some disagreements.
"During a normal delivery, the husband can accompany the delivery in the delivery room." The doctor looked at Su Rui, then at Gu Yucheng who looked serious and nervous, and said with a smile.
"it is good."
"don't want."
Su Rui and Gu Yucheng spoke almost at the same time.
Hearing this, she turned her head and looked at the affirmative light in Gu Yucheng's eyes, Su Rui was slightly taken aback.
For this question, the two would have different answers, and Su Rui vaguely guessed it in her heart.
In fact, she was quite moved that Gu Yucheng could ask to accompany the delivery, and she almost wanted to nod along with this man.
However, Su Rui also had other considerations in mind.
"Doctor, let's discuss this issue again." Holding Gu Yucheng's hand, Su Rui smiled at the doctor and said.
"No problem." The doctor nodded.
Letting the husband accompany the childbirth is a more humane option introduced by some maternity hospitals recently.
However, whether to accompany the childbirth depends entirely on the wishes of the mother and her family.
In the face of this issue, there are many disagreements.
However, most of the things she has seen are wives who agree to accompany the delivery, and husbands who are a little hesitant.
There are not many like these two.
"If you two have thought about it and need to accompany the delivery, you can tell us in advance so that we can make arrangements. In addition," after a pause, the doctor continued: "There are also some precautions when entering the delivery room, and the child's father must also withdraw cash knew."
"I know this."
When Gu Yucheng said this, both Su Rui and the doctor were taken aback.
Then, Gu Yucheng succinctly explained what he knew about the things, mentality, and precautions that her husband needs to do when he enters the delivery room to accompany the delivery.
Accompanying the childbirth was not a temporary decision by Gu Yucheng after listening to the doctor today.
Long before, after knowing that he could accompany Su Rui in giving birth, Gu Yucheng had already made up his mind to accompany Su Rui in giving birth.
And these are all he learned online recently.
"Is there anything wrong with the above or something that needs to be improved?" After finishing speaking, Gu Yucheng asked.
"No", the doctor said after recovering from the surprise, and then couldn't help but sigh: "Mr. Gu's homework is very good."
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Regarding whether to accompany the childbirth, when Su Rui and Gu Yucheng were discussing, Mother Su was also present.
When the two were discussing, Su's mother did not intervene.
However, when Gu Yucheng went out to answer the phone, Liu Yue couldn't help but sit on the edge of Su Rui's bed, looking at his daughter with a puzzled expression.
"Isn't it good for Yucheng to accompany the delivery? Why don't you agree?" Mother Su couldn't help but said.
"Mom, do you also agree to let Yucheng accompany the delivery?" Su Rui asked.
"That's it." Mother Su nodded, and said again: "It's not easy for a woman to give birth to a child. Although a man can't do anything standing there, it is a kind of spiritual support for you to be able to stand there."
"It's just right to let Yucheng go in with you, and let him know how difficult it is for his wife to have children."
"When I gave birth to you, I wanted your father to be by my side. There was no such condition."
"I know… "
Su Rui understands what Su's mother said.
But…
"I'm afraid he will have a psychological shadow."
Whether giving birth is as scary as it is said on the Internet, Su Rui has never experienced it personally, so she can't be sure.
However, just in case, she didn't want Gu Yucheng to have any psychological shadow.
"He's a big man, what shadow can he have?" Su's mother cast a glance at Su Rui and said.
"That's not necessarily the case. I read on the Internet that a lot of nervous men are scared after watching their wives give birth."
Although the matter of "accompanying the childbirth" sounds very warm and happy, but there are some practical issues that Su Rui has to consider.
One, after Gu Yucheng followed her in, he couldn't actually do much, and it might distract her.
Another one, the process of girls giving birth is said to be quite bloody, don't really let this person leave a psychological shadow.
It’s okay if this psychological shadow is short-lived, but what if the image of her giving birth has been lingering in Gu Yucheng’s mind, especially the less beautiful side, which directly affects the harmony of the couple’s life afterward?
"Besides, it should be pretty ugly during childbirth, right? I don't want him to see it." Su Rui blinked again, and said to Su's mother.
Although, the husband and wife have lived together for a long time, and it has become commonplace to see each other frankly.
However, there are some aspects that Su Rui still doesn't want Gu Yucheng to see.
Hearing Su Rui's words, Su's mother snorted lightly.
"What's ugly? If you give birth to him, how dare he think you're ugly?" Mother Su gave Su Rui a white look, and raised her voice.
However, after thinking about it carefully, I felt that what my daughter said made sense.
"All right, all right, I don't care about it, whether you want him to accompany you or not, you can decide for yourself."
Before Mama Su finished her sentence, she saw that Gu Yucheng had finished explaining her work and opened the door to come in.
He was standing at the door when he finally explained those few sentences to Wang Zhou, so Gu Yucheng naturally heard the last few conversations between Su Rui and Su's mother.
"There will be no shadows, and I won't dislike you, not at any time." Walking to the bed, Gu Yucheng looked at Su Rui seriously, and assured him word by word.
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Su Rui's delivery date was three days earlier than expected.
Su Rui started to have obvious contractions at noon.
Originally, she thought that such labor pains might last a whole day, or even longer.
As a result, at night, Su Rui's labor pains became more frequent.
From once every ten minutes to once every four or five minutes.
"Look, you're so nervous now that you still want to accompany the delivery?" Taking advantage of the time when the previous pain had subsided a bit, Su Rui raised her head and smoothed Gu Yucheng's frowning brows while looking at the man in front of her. , smiled lightly and joked.
At this moment, the corners of Gu Yucheng's mouth were already tensed into a straight line.
Hearing Su Rui's words, Gu Yucheng didn't speak, but just held the woman's hand that was placed between his brows, which was a little weak due to the labor pain, and kissed him lightly on his lips.
"I'm sorry." Gu Yucheng said silently in his heart.
If you want to say regret, Gu Yucheng does have some regrets now.
I regret not being more careful then.
Even if you want to have a child, you should wait two years, until Su Rui is a little older.
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The doctor will come to check on Su Rui's current condition every once in a while.
So, watching the doctor come in, Su Rui pushed Gu Yucheng to get him to the side.
"Okay."
The moment Gu Yucheng heard the doctor's words, his mind went blank.
Before he could recover, Su Rui was sent to the delivery room amidst the quick preparations of the doctors.
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