The difference from the gender society is that in the family, the elders educate the children about the physiological knowledge, often after the children are differentiated.
The first gender is not the most important thing for people, but the differentiated second gender is the most important.
Some people differentiate early, some people differentiate later.
Some family structures lack the right gender—for example, the Song family, where two Betas give birth to a child who is differentiated as an Alpha, and they are helpless in terms of physical education.
At this time, society-schools and education have become a crucial part.
Song Yi is a special existence to the Song family—there are three Beta relatives, and she is the only Alpha. In a sense, she is lonely.
The gland is one of the organs that transmit emotional information in the AO population.
After differentiation, they naturally learn to use this organ and expose pheromones to convey and express emotions.
Song Yi has this mature organ, but the family members can't get any emotions about her glands, and over time, Song Yi no longer tries to use the glands to convey any of her feelings. She chose another way to express her feelings using body and language that Beta understands better.
Perhaps it is this way that makes her look very "straightforward" in the eyes of many people.
Of course, as far as Song Chen is concerned, she has always had this temperament since she was a child, but the fact that her parents and elder brother are Betas strengthens her directness in language expression and emotional expression.
The Pei family is different.
Pei Heng and Huazhi are typical AO couples. Their two sons, one Omgea and one Alpha, are undoubtedly a perfect golden structure in terms of the gender of family members.
They have the same glandular organs that express emotions.
So they are very proficient at expressing themselves with glands - pheromones.
When you are happy, the pheromones are sweet and thick, when you are unhappy, the pheromones are sour, and when you are depressed, the pheromones seem to contain bitter water...
In Pei's family, the existence of glands is like the smell of animals, which can give information of the same kind.
Coincidentally, during the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday in October, the national holiday was three days, and the fairy sister-in-law was brought back to her home in S City by her brother.
During the statutory holiday, Pei Qinglang also came back from boarding school. He doesn't have much homework this holiday, so he has a lot of time to play with his brother and sister-in-law.
In Pei's house, the whole family is used to wearing restraining rings for activities, which is due to the consideration of their military status. Pei Heng and Huazhi were trained after joining the army, and they were used to wearing the restraint ring around their necks and not taking it off easily. The two brothers were affected by it when they were young, and they did the same.
Pei Qingmian entered the military academy, joined the army after graduation, and was deeply influenced by the army.
The decoration style of Pei's house is very different from that of Song's house. From the design point of view, it is more generous and concise, and in some small details, there is a gentle atmosphere left by Omega.
Before Song Yi came to Pei's house in S City, he heard from Pei Qingmian that in his home, the whole family wore restraining rings honestly, and they only took them off when they went to his room.
The reason is the influence of joining the army, and I don't want to contaminate my pheromones on my family members.
The latter is the same reason why Song Yi did not easily remove the restraining ring in the Song family villa.
Song Yi understood immediately.
At that time, she didn't realize that in a normal AO family, the glands played a role that could not be ignored or underestimated in their daily relationship.
The first day of the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday.
The couple lived in Pei Qingmian's room, and with Pei Qingmian's consent, she was going to take a look at Pei Qingmian's teenage stuff. He was watching her movements from the side, with the look of "watching my wife search is so interesting".
The sports wristbands and watches that her partner loved when she was young, a model of the main character of a boy manga, and a stack of magazines—after flipping through them, she even found a copy of "Playboy X". She was snatched by Pei Qingmian blushing.
He rubbed his nose in embarrassment: "This is a gift from a friend—"
Song Yi thought it was funny seeing his blushing, she looked at him for a while, raised her face and gave his chin a sip, and continued to look at his things.
In fact, there wasn't much to rummage through in the room.
Most of the important things that I like, Pei Qingmian asks his parents to help send them to S City, and store them properly in the wedding room.
She was curious, and after flipping through the part, her attention fell on the old restraining ring in the drawer.
They were all military money—apparently issued by the military academy when he was in college.
Pei Qingmian: "In the past, before differentiation, you didn't need to wear restraining rings. It was so easy back then."
Song Yi agreed with this very much, she nodded, "Wearing a ring around the neck, although the style is okay, but it's always a bit restrained."
Complaints are complaints, and you still have to wear them.
They were chatting here, the bedroom door was wide open, Pei Qingmian frowned suddenly, turned around and shouted at the door: "Xiao Lang, are you hungry?"
It was just after eight o'clock in the evening.
A skinny Alpha boy hung on the door with a snap, looked at his brother and his wife inside, and let out a cry of hunger: "Yeah, I'm hungry."
Pei Qingmian supported his forehead, and he motioned for him to open his suitcase: "There are snacks in it, so I opened it and ate it myself."
After sending Pei Qinglang away, he turned around and saw Song Yi looking at him brightly.
"?" There was a question mark on Pei Qingmian's forehead: "What's wrong?"
Song Yi asked in a low voice, "You knew he was hungry without even asking him?"
Pei Qingmian was stunned for a moment, and immediately figured out what she was confused about: she could always detect his glandular emotions immediately, because they were a couple who got along with each other.
It can be said with certainty that Pei Qingmian is the closest AO race to her.
She doesn't even have any particularly acquainted, close Alpha friends.
In addition, the Song family itself has three Betas and one Alpha. She is very ignorant of the AO family's way of getting along with the glands and emotions.
For a moment, his eyes widened with curiosity, confused and tempted, like a cat eager to move on the glass by the table.
The corners of Pei Qingmian's mouth couldn't help but rise: "It's glandular emotions."
Song Yi has a lot of theoretical knowledge about glandular emotions, but not much practical knowledge.
For the expression and analysis of emotions, among the relatives, friends and partners who have been with each other for a long time, the other party can always analyze it at the first time, and the vomeronasal organ is slow, and the result can also be obtained through habitual reasoning.
In the unfamiliar AO race, the expression of glandular emotions cannot be analyzed delicately and clearly.
At most, you can only get a general message when the pheromones are skyrocketing and flooding.
In the Pei family, family members know each other well, and their glandular organs have become important organs for transmitting messages.
Even if people are not in sight, part of the pheromone leaked through the inhibition ring is enough to show each other's emotions.
Pei Qingmian explained one by one, Song Yi's eyes became brighter and brighter.
She looks genuinely curious.
Pei Qingmian explained, and noticed that Pei Qinglang was passing by the door of their room with a bag of snacks, and replied: "Sister-in-law, just like you can know the mood of your brother's glands, we two brothers have been together for more than ten years..."
Before he finished speaking, Pei Qingmian said calmly: "As soon as his tail curled up, I knew he was going to—"
"Stop, stop, don't need to say anything later," Pei Qinglang leaned against the door, biting the crispy noodles, and said, "Basically, it's like this in AO's family. The gland is a very useful organ."
Seeing Song Yi looking at him with a smile, he said to him, "I've never had such an experience at home before."
She is the only Alpha in the Song family, and it is indeed difficult for her to share her glandular emotions with others.
Pei Qinglang immediately turned his attention to his brother: "Let my brother teach you! As for our glandular emotions, as long as we get along for a long time, we will be able to understand each other!"
Song Yi looked at Pei Qingmian, and Pei Qingmian put his arms around her very calmly, and replied with a smile: "Of course, and our family's emotions are easy to understand."
"You are so smart, you can definitely master the skills very quickly."
The second day of the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday.
Song Yi witnessed one of the famous scenes where the Pei family used glandular pheromones to convey emotions to each other—
Even if they both carry suppression rings, the spilled pheromones are enough for the family members in this 200-square-meter suite to understand each other's emotions in the first place.
Huazhi and Pei Qingmian are in the kitchen.
Pei Heng sat on the sofa, watching the news with Song Yi, and they chatted while watching.
Pei Qinglang walked out of the room slowly.
Just as Pei Qinglang walked to the sofa, he was about to bend down to eat mooncakes.
Pei Heng straightened his back abruptly: "Honey, what's wrong with you?" His tone was a little nervous, but he wasn't too worried.
Pei Qinglang also turned his head to look at the kitchen in an instant.
In the urgent action of the two of them, Song Yi smelled the glandular emotions from Pei Qingmian: a little speechless and helpless.
The pheromones of the creamy floral fragrance have a dull, hazy floating feeling.
Song Yi's eyes widened, and before he had time to react, he heard Pei Qingmian say from the kitchen: "Mom broke the cutting board."
Pei Heng and Pei Qinglang immediately relaxed.
So father and son continued to do their own business.
Pei Heng: "I'll just say I'm going to cook today, but your mother won't let me, so I have to show my hand."
"... I usually eat in the cafeteria, but I don't know what she can do."
Pei Qinglang said calmly: "In our family, brother is the best at cooking, and you are not doing well either. Mommy is helping brother."
"Brother was completely speechless just now."
Song Yi listened silently.
Half an hour later, the meal was finished, and the two chefs greeted each other to eat.
Pei Qingmian washed his hands and sat beside Song Yi, when he heard his wife quietly ask:
"Mom broke the cutting board just now—"
He had a tacit understanding with her, and immediately knew what she wanted to ask, so he said: "Her pheromone smell has become bitter." This is the most obvious perception of pheromone changes, and family members can understand each other through this perception mood changes.
In the event of an emergency, the change of pheromone can only simply guess what happened.
The client's pheromone became bitter, and her lover and son immediately smelled it.
For the time being, his own wife can only capture the changes in pheromones from him.
For example, when Pei Qinglang passed by last night, because Pei Qingmian was too familiar with the frustration and hunger that overflowed with pheromone when his younger brother was hungry, he instinctively asked if he was hungry.
He picked up a chopstick dish for her and said, "In our house... glandular emotions are the first way of communication."
Song Yi ate the food in silence, then said solemnly: "Yes, I see."
"I want to study hard."
A ready to move expression appeared on her fairy face, and a pair of deep black beautiful pupils shone brighter than the stars, like a diligent and studious student, eager to acquire knowledge.
"As your wife, I must understand this."