In the common consciousness of outsiders, the children of big families are usually playboys, with no knowledge and skills, only arrogance and extravagance, and never think about progress.
However, the reality is usually completely opposite to what outsiders imagine. Usually, children from big families are significantly better than children from ordinary families, whether it is in their own temperament or in dealing with emergencies...
Different families mean different growing environments. Those children of big families who grow up in that kind of big family environment must learn things that only adults understand.
Just like Yan Qingming, he grew up in a family like the Yan family, and he was the eldest son of the head of the Yan family. From the moment he was born, it meant that he carried a burden that ordinary children never had to carry.
It is precisely because of this baggage that he appears to be wiser than his peers.
Well, be smarter...
This is definitely not a derogatory term.
Therefore, Yan Qingming is definitely not a playboy in the ordinary sense. On the contrary, he is actually an outstanding young man in many aspects.
Even if you are not as good as others in some places, you still have to see the objective reasons. After all, no one is perfect in this world.
What's more, Yan Qingming is only a sixteen-year-old boy, only two years older than "Mo Ming"! Even though he may seem manic at times, that doesn't mean that's who he is.
Boys between the ages of 16 and 18 are usually immature and may even appear naive at times.
Girls tend to be more sensible, such as Yan Qingcheng. In Mo Ming's impression, this aloof sister is more mature than her peers.
It is precisely because he is not the same person that Yan Qingming knows how to reflect!
In the past, when he played against his peers, he basically crushed each other. Occasionally, he would play against older people who were traveling, and it was basically a deadlock.
However, this time, he actually lost to someone younger than himself, which he couldn't accept, so he began to reflect on what the problem was...
Reflection is a good thing. The sage also said, "I will examine myself three times a day." What's more, you are an ordinary family member, right
Daily reflection can make people progress.
Losing is not scary. What is scary is feeling sorry for yourself after losing. If you lose, you should reflect and summarize, find out the reason why you lost, and not make such mistakes next time. This is the right way.
This is just like falling into a pit. You went out and fell into a pit today. After finally climbing up, you have to learn to read the road. You have to learn to be careful. You can't go out and fall into a pit today. You can still go back tomorrow. If you fall inside, you will fall inside again. Every time you go out, you will fall into a pit...
People's normal reflection is to look back bit by bit, admit their failures, admit that they are not as good as others, find out the areas where they are not as good as others, and then work harder on their own weaknesses in order to make up for their weaknesses and make themselves better. Be stronger and surpass yourself.
However, Yan Qingming is more powerful.
He sat there alone and reflected for a long time, and the result he got was:
It's not that I'm too weak, it's that Mo Ming is too awesome.
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What should I say...
Indeed, Mo Ming is so awesome, Mo Ming is so awesome that he can blow a hole in the sky with just one fart...
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I have been reflecting on this for a long time, just to find an excuse for myself not to embarrass myself...
This means that no one heard it. If the lessons he summed up through reflection reached Mo Ming's ears, he would definitely have to praise him for being really wise...
Well, this "wisdom" is not a derogatory term, it is not a derogatory term, it is not a derogatory term, and I say the important thing three times.
To be honest, Mo Ming has lived for nearly 40 million years, and he has seen the kind of arrogant people who believe that they are invincible.
No matter when, where or under what circumstances, Mo Ming always thinks that this kind of person is stupid.
He has also seen people who fail to recover after one failure, as if they have lost the meaning of life.
However, what he admires most is the kind of people who can reflect seriously after failure. Winning is glorious, but winning or losing is only a temporary achievement. Victory and defeat are commonplace in military affairs. There is no need to be discouraged.
He has seen too many people who work hard find their true selves in failure and understand their future path.
but!
This was the first time Mo Ming saw someone like Yan Qingming who made excuses for himself after reflection...
You said you should either stop wasting your time reflecting here. If you want to reflect, reflect carefully and find your shortcomings. What the hell are you doing here by reflecting blindly
Anyway, no matter what Mo Ming thinks.
Yan Qingming felt that from now on, it would be better for him not to deal with that person named Mo!
Yan Qingming felt that it was not that he was afraid of the other party, but that he was indeed not as good as the one named Mo.
He felt that it would be better if the person named Mo had awakened his special physique. Regardless of whether he was of the True Phoenix bloodline, the fact that the other party could easily defeat him was enough to prove how powerful his bloodline and physique were.
And if that person surnamed Mo hadn't awakened his body, it would be even more terrifying. It wouldn't matter what the reason was for a mortal body to take advantage of the bull-fighting technique, it would be weird enough anyway.
At the very least, stop messing with that person named Mo until you figure out the real reason.
and...
Yan Qingming was calculating in his mind, while picking up the fragment of the mirror and looking at his face.
His current appearance is indeed not suitable to be shown in front of others. The bruises on his face are simply his shame.
Let alone looking for that person named Mo again, even if he walks out of this door now, his face will be disgraced if someone sees him.
He could almost imagine that even if people didn't say anything about it, they would definitely discuss it behind their backs.
Yan Qingming really knows the thoughts of the people under the Yan family.
After all, the children of the family are the children of the family. Even if they are only collateral branches, they have different thoughts from the children of ordinary families!
These people have known how to seek benefits for themselves since they were young. Regardless of the age of those boys and girls who are only sixteen or seventeen years old, in fact, all of them are very clever.
Who can bring benefits to them and who cannot bring benefits to them, they are like a mirror in their hearts!
In the past, they fawned over Yan Qingming because they couldn't fawn over Yan Qingcheng, so they settled for the next best thing. They felt that Yan Qingming was the son of the family head and the second most talented among the younger generation. If they could fawn over Yan Qingcheng, it would bring them a lot of benefits.
But it's different now. Now Yan Qingming has lost his power, and that guy named Mo is so awesome. They were all just helpless people, but now haven't they all gone to that guy named Mo? !
Yan Qingming's idea was correct. Now all those people are blocking the door of Mo Ming's house! (To be continued)