For children aged fourteen, fifteen, fifteen or sixteen, boys are okay and are in the period of understanding the world, while girls may pay more attention to their own understanding during this period.
However, no matter what, children in this period are the most troublesome.
On the one hand, my parents support me at home and I have no worries about food and clothing. On the other hand, I gradually begin to awaken my self-awareness and become a little rebellious.
However, this kind of self-awareness growth and this kind of rebellion are based on this kind of parental support, which will inevitably make people think that this child is ignorant.
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This is the normal psychology of children at this period.
It may seem childish, but that is the beginning of their own ideological awakening.
During this period, some parents will try their best to make their children more obedient, even to the point of nipping the buds of new ideas and consciousness in their children.
In the short term, doing this can indeed make the child more obedient during the rebellious period, but in the long term, this approach will only damage the child's personality.
People say that "naughty children can achieve great things" and this is the truth.
Of course, the so-called "naughty" must be enclosed in double quotation marks. It is not the naughtiness of casually causing trouble, but the kind of self-conscious rebellion.
Because self-awareness awakens earlier, they have sufficient time to cultivate their own ideology. If parents can provide correct guidance during this period, children can fully improve themselves during this period.
In fact, it can also be said that this is a talent in disguise...
However, not all children will take the right path.
In heaven, children in this period are called adolescence, or the rebellious period.
Why rebel? It's because of the awakening of self-awareness.
Think about it, on a barren land, a sprout suddenly appeared, frail and weak.
The strong wind blows, and it seems that it will die at any time.
It was raining heavily and it seemed like it would be flooded at any moment.
The turbulent times are the easiest to move people's minds, not to mention the new consciousness that is still in its infancy during this period
At this time, children will instinctively find someone they can rely on for some comfort.
Parents are definitely not allowed to do this. It would be terrible for children during this period not to be beaten to death by their parents.
So, naturally, boys find girls, and girls find boys.
This is probably the so-called "first love", of course, provided that the other person also admires you.
If the other person doesn't love you, then "first love" becomes "secret love"...
Then, as it develops further, the "secret love" becomes the so-called "dream lover"...
This is probably the case for children like these.
Among them, the youngest one is about fifteen years old, right? A little older than Mo Ming, it was the period when his own self-awareness was awakening, and it was also the age when love first emerged.
And Yan Qingcheng, what a beautiful person she is
As his name suggests, he has an alluring appearance, exquisite facial features, and graceful and slender figure. He is dressed in white clothes that are better than snow, not stained by the worldly dust, and has a cool temperament that seems to be able to repel people thousands of miles away.
It's like the bright moon in the sky, which can only make those who secretly love you look at it from a distance, but don't dare to get close.
If you get too close, you might be beaten to death!
After all, the word "vase" cannot be associated with Yan Qingcheng. She is not just beautiful!
If you use one word to describe Yan Qingcheng, it would probably be "high"!
Not only does she have good looks and temperament on the outside, but she also has high talents and a high level of cultivation!
The song is high-spirited but quiet, so high that many people of the same age can only look up to it!
If this is a man, forget it. If you are a high-minded person, then you can go alone and we won't accompany you.
But Yan Qingcheng is an extremely beautiful woman, which can't help but make people's hearts flutter!
That's it for a man, the more he can't get something, the more he wants it!
But Yan Qingcheng is the kind of person who, the more they want it, the less they get it!
So, slowly, these young people began to be possessed, and began to "deify" Yan Qingcheng bit by bit in their hearts!
Deification, you know
In fact, it is a kind of self-hypnosis!
They keep telling themselves in their hearts how beautiful and eye-catching the other person is...
In fact, if you really want to talk about it, Yan Qingcheng is indeed beautiful!
Impeccably beautiful, her face is like the most perfect masterpiece from God!
But, let’s talk about it again, how beautiful can a girl, a girl who is only eighteen years old, be beautiful
You know, 18 years old is said to be an adult, but in fact, children at this age still basically have no ability to live independently, or even the ability to take care of themselves independently at all.
If you give them money, they may not be able to take good care of themselves. What's more, if you don't give them money, they will hardly be able to take care of themselves...
Given her age, it's impossible for her to really reach the point of causing harm to the country and the people.
At least until she is 20 years old, her appearance will truly rise to an unprecedented peak.
However, these little brats can't control that much. They believe that Yan Qingcheng is the goddess in their hearts. In their eyes, Yan Qingcheng is the symbol of perfection. If you speak ill of Yan Qingcheng in front of them, they will beat you. Yes, what can you do
Yan Ningxue spends most of her time practicing in Nanling Mansion, and returns to her family for about three or four months a year.
For these young people from the Yan family, Yan Qingcheng’s secret is much bigger than Mo Ming!
Like what time did Yan Qingcheng get up this morning, what did she eat this morning, what did she do this morning, what did she eat for lunch today, what did she do this afternoon, what did she eat tonight, what did she do after dinner, and what did she do in the evening? Time will lead to sleep, what will be done before going to bed, and what will be done in the dream...
Then, what time will you get up tomorrow morning, what will you eat tomorrow morning, what will you do tomorrow morning, what will you eat at noon tomorrow, what will you do tomorrow afternoon, what will you eat for dinner tomorrow, what will you do after dinner, and what will you do before going to bed tomorrow night? What will you do, what will you dream about at night...
And then, what time do you get up the day after tomorrow
It’s endless!
For them, Yan Qingcheng's life is the biggest secret!
This is actually a kind of "deification". Although they have always secretly admired the goddess, they have never really been close to her.
There is a fire in their hearts, they want to peek into the life of the goddess in their hearts, and they want to integrate it into their own lives...
It's not that these people are wretched, it's mainly that this mentality of asking for something but not getting it tortures them to the point of madness. This is a hysterical performance.