Normally, there are only three sources of recognition and encouragement for children of Mo Ming's age:
First from parents.
"Mo Ming" grew up in the Yan family. Although he was not born by Yan Ningxue, he was raised by Yan Ningxue. For him, his parents are his father and Yan Ningxue.
He wants to be recognized and encouraged, so naturally his first source of approval is his father and Yan Ningxue...
It's a pity that his father...
Really, let alone the "Mo Ming" before, even the current Mo Ming is quite speechless when he mentions this person.
If he were asked to describe his father in one sentence, Mo Ming felt it should be: This is a being that makes people don’t know what to say just thinking about it...
It feels like... this person is so unreliable... No, saying that his father is unreliable is simply praising his father. It should be said that his father is simply an unreliable person!
Let’s talk about “joining Yan’s family”.
Anyway, "Mo Ming" had also heard that the Yan family was opposed to this marriage at first, so Mo Ming's father came to argue with Yan Ningxue, his father and the others every day when he had nothing to do. Later, As soon as those two people heard that Mo Ming's father was coming, they felt upset, had a headache, and felt sick...
In the end, we had no choice but to talk. One of the reasons why the Yan family objected was because their father had no identity or background.
As a result, his father came up and said, "I can marry into your family"!
The Yan family stopped talking at that time. It wasn't that they didn't want to talk, but that they didn't know what to say, and they couldn't say anything. These words had already killed Mo Ming's father, you know
In fact, in today's era, the word "bringing in" is actually not a good word, and most men are not willing to be associated with these two words.
It turns out that his father is really awesome, and this is his first sentence.
To be honest, for a moment, they even felt that this guy just came to the Yan family on purpose to eat and wait to die.
One can imagine how unconventional and outrageous this guy is...
"Mo Ming" wants to get some comfort and recognition from him, that... is basically impossible...
Moreover, this guy had been childhood sweethearts with Yan Ningxue since childhood, but they couldn't get together due to practical reasons. Now he finally married Yan Ningxue and entered the Yan family. The two of them are tired of being together every day.
Even though the two have been together for more than ten years now, they are still like a man and woman in first love, inseparable all day long.
And Yan Ningxue is busy with Yan family affairs, and does not have so much time and energy to truly and deeply understand the heart of "Mo Ming".
Therefore, the parents' road is blocked by "Mo Ming".
The second method is to compare with the children around you.
Mo Ming was brought into the Yan family by Mo Ming's father, and Yan Qingcheng is Yan Ningxue's daughter. If we compare such a combined family, the first choice for outsiders would definitely be to make "Mo Ming" and Yan Qingcheng. Compare.
This compares…
In fact, there is no need to compare at all.
Yan Qingcheng is the most talented girl in the Yan family, and Mo Ming is the most naughty boy in the Yan family.
This is simply like one living under the Nine Heavens, one living under the Nine Nethers, one is extremely good, and the other is extremely bad.
Therefore, it is impossible for "Mo Ming" to get any comfort from Yan Qingcheng.
Moreover, one thing is that Yan Qingcheng's excellence comes not only from her extraordinary talent, but also from her efforts that are far beyond ordinary people.
Yan Qingcheng spends most of his time in practice. Although he protects "Mo Ming" in front of others, he doesn't get along with "Mo Ming" too much, so he expects him to do whatever he wants to "Mo Ming". That's no use either.
The third source is the words of others.
In fact, there is no need to say this at all...
No one from the Yan family would give him anything other than bullying, insult, contempt, and rejection.
It is precisely for this reason that "Mo Ming" instinctively gets close to those second-rate dudes from other families.
The family around him cannot give him what he needs in life, so he can only instinctively go to others to find it.
And the compliments of these young dandies just gave him a wrong and false sense of "recognition and encouragement!"
It can be said that the reason why "Mo Ming" would do such a disgraceful thing is mostly due to the Yan family's own problems.
A person's growth is deeply affected by the environment. How the environment changes can lead to the kind of person he grows up to be.
Of course, this does not mean that "Mo Ming" himself has no problems.
Youdao means "coming out of the mud but not being stained". In comparison, "Mo Ming" is simply a self-destruction and voluntarily associates with this mud.
He could have chosen to ignore other people's opinions and practice alone. With Yan Ningxue's support, he didn't need to worry about resources. And with an outstanding elder sister like Yan Qingcheng in front of him, he didn't need to worry about training experience.
If he was willing to work hard, he would never end up like this.
The path of cultivation is actually the same as learning. In today's world, most people like to judge things based on their talent and background.
Because people with high talents achieve more and practice faster, just like those with extraordinary physiques.
People with backgrounds don't have to worry about resources for practice. Ordinary people may spend a lot of time getting things necessary for practice, but people like them with backgrounds and power may only be able to do it with a few words.
Indeed, people with high talents and deep backgrounds will achieve higher achievements on the path of spiritual practice.
But this does not mean that people with poor talents must not achieve success!
What is the difference between cultivation and study
It’s the path of cultivation that is full of uncertainties!
Nothing is decided from the beginning, and no one dares to predict anyone's future.
"Mo Ming" could have worked hard, but if he didn't, he was just letting himself down.
For this false sense of "identity".
But Yan Shaoan is different.
Yan Shaoan is a truly smart man!
On the surface, this guy looks very well-behaved and dull, but in fact, he is very clever at heart!
If you think that this guy looks very honest and can be used at will, then there is a high probability that this person will end up dead.
Although Yan Shaoan is also a little dude, he not only has a bottom line in his heart, but he is also very smart and knows when to do what.
For example, when Mo Ming went to the library for the first time after coming to the Yan family, a few gangsters came over. At that time, Yan Shaoan knew that they were coming with bad intentions and that they were looking for trouble.
Yan Shaoan knew very well that although he was the youngest son of the head of the Yan family, his father would never interfere in the bad things he did in daily life, so as long as he didn't mess with others, others wouldn't mess with him, but if he If you jump out on your own, then...