A teenage child has never entered the society and has always grown up under the wings of his parents. He does not understand the cruelty of this society and the reality of this world.
It is precisely because of this that he does not yet have a sound soul and has not truly grown.
If the process of a person's growth is viewed as a process of continuous choice to move forward, then there are too many roads in front of this person.
Some people say: The process of growth is a process of constant selection.
Mo Ming felt that this sentence was correct. If a person wants to grow and mature, he must make constant choices.
There are so many roads in front of him. There are various consequences behind each road, and there is only one correct choice, but!
Attention is but!
He is just a teenager, what does he know
With so many roads in front of him, how does he know where to go
At this time, he needs the guidance of others. To put it bluntly, it is the affirmation and encouragement of others. Only in this way can he know where to go.
Normally, there are only three ways for a teenage child to be encouraged and affirmed:
One, parents. Second, the peers around you. Three, in the mouths of others.
It's a pity that none of these three can get the recognition and encouragement that the former "Mo Ming" needs, so he can only take the initiative to find it on his own.
Therefore, he was labeled as a group of gangsters from other families.
But Yan Shaoan is different. In fact, Yan Shaoan has very good qualifications. Although he is not willing to practice, but based on his thoughts, it is certain that if he is willing to practice hard, his achievements will definitely not be worse than that of his brother.
Moreover, it is not just about practice. In fact, if Yan Shaoan is willing to take the right path, his little thoughts can play a greater role, if there is a patient sage willing to guide him.
Mo Ming believed that Yan Shaoan would be even better than his brother.
In comparison, his brother Yan Qingming felt a little like this in Mo Ming's eyes.
In the eyes of outsiders, Yan Qingming is the future successor of the Yan family, but in Mo Ming's eyes, there is actually a lot of water in it.
For example, although Yan Qingming is good enough, in terms of qualifications in the family, he can only be regarded as the second among the younger generation, but in Mo Ming's eyes, he really doesn't rank high.
Moreover, talent is a very mysterious thing. It can affect the future of a cultivator, but it cannot decide anything at all.
In fact, in Mo Ming's view, the reason why Yan Qingming became the favorite as the future head of the family was mostly due to his gender advantage. In fact, there was a huge gap between him and Yan Qingcheng in many aspects.
If Yan Qingcheng were a boy, Yan Qingming's position as head of the family would have nothing to do with him.
Another example is, one’s own quality…
Many forces will give priority to the disciples with the strongest cultivation base when choosing their successors.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with this kind of thing. After all, only those with strong enough cultivation can suppress the people below.
However, Mo Ming felt that there were too many things that were more important than the realm of cultivation. People like Yan Qingming who would look down on this or that at every turn, or who would just get angry casually, to be honest, would hand over the position of the head of the family to him. With people like this, the Yan family may be in trouble for a long time to come.
At the very least, there won't be any big progress.
Yan Qingming just relied on the fact that he was Yan Buping's son and could legitimately inherit the position of head of the family.
On the contrary, Yan Shaoan is a person with no sense of presence in the Yan family. Mo Ming felt the same way before, but after carefully reading those memories, Mo Ming felt that if Yan Shaoan could practice hard, his achievements would definitely be higher than Yan Qingming Much more…
Although Mo Ming has no prejudice against Yan Qingming, he still wants to say that Yan Qingming is really ordinary and ordinary, while Yan Shaoan is really shrewd.
For example, what Mo Ming just said...
In fact, those documents are really not important to Mo Ming. These people have offended Mo Ming before. They were already guilty. After seeing Mo Ming's strength today, they were even more afraid of Mo Ming. As long as Mo Ming To put it bluntly, these people don’t dare to take chances.
Those written evidence are just a formality, the meaning is to let these Yan family children clearly understand the reality and know that it is Mo Ming who is in charge of everything now, and they are just a group of lambs in front of Mo Ming.
And what Mo Ming said was not meaningless. Yan Shaoan helped him today.
These people were able to find their way here thanks to Yan Shao'an's guidance. It can be said that the amount of money collected today is entirely because of Yan Shao'an's paving the way. Logically, half of the money should be given to Yan Shao'an, but it's a pity that he is not that kind of person.
Of course money is best if it is kept in your own hands. How can you share it with others casually
The Yan family's children also said before that money does not come from the flood, so it will be even more difficult for him to make some money.
However, besides that, he has other ways to help this little brother.
For example, what he said just now.
Although Yan Shaoan is the youngest son of the head of the Yan family, he actually has no status in the Yan family.
In the eyes of his peers, this guy is just a man who acts recklessly because his father lives in the Yan family.
He is the second youngest kid in the Yan family. He has no real abilities and only follows Mo Ming to go out and do mischief outside the family.
Because of his background, most people of the same age would not take the initiative to provoke them, but Yan Shaoan is also very smart and knows who can and cannot be provoked, and will never provoke those who should not be provoked.
In the eyes of the elders, this guy...
How to describe it...
Most of the family elders are unwilling or don't know how to describe this guy.
After all, elders are not like those children who think there will be no problems if they don't take the initiative to provoke them.
Generally speaking, Yan Shaoan is a taboo existence in the mouths of many family elders. Discussing this thing is of no benefit to themselves, the head of the Yan family, or the Yan family.
Therefore, Yan Shaoan's position in the Yan family has always been awkward. He is obviously the son of the head of the Yan family, and he should be as glorious as Yan Qingming, but he is not. He is just a little dude, and he is a little dude who doesn't live well.
Mo Ming said those words to actually do his best to improve his status in the hearts of his peers.
Today's Mo Ming is different from the past. In the eyes of others, the current Mo Ming is very awesome, and now Mo Ming hands things like written documents to Yan Shaoan in front of everyone. One can imagine how Mo Ming reacted. Trust Yan Shaoan.