In fact, to say that these third-rate children of the Yan family have "double standards" is to praise their moral character.
Mo Ming compared these people with those double-standard keyboard warriors in heaven. In fact, if you really want to say it, these third-rate children of the Yan family are much more terrifying and hateful than those double-standard keyboard warriors.
In fact, the so-called "double standards" do not mean that a person has two sets of standards in his mind, but that this person applies one set of standards to two people at the same time.
There is a line in their hearts. They do not use this line to restrain themselves, but use this line to measure others. Once they see someone crossing the line, they rush forward and yell at others like a madman.
But when it was their turn, they didn't even fart, and even lowered themselves to the moral high ground.
To give the most common example, let’s say watching urban TV series.
In it, the heroine encountered some difficulties when she was in love with a man. At this time, the man helped the heroine solve the difficulties. After that, the man and woman broke up because of certain things.
At this time, if you open the video barrage, you will find a group of keyboard warriors jumping out and accusing the heroine of throwing away the man after using it...
In fact, this is understandable.
After all, TV dramas are TV dramas, and they do have some meaning when viewed from God's perspective.
But the fact is that urban TV dramas like that describe real life. Although there are exaggerations and other aspects that are not consistent with reality, the environmental laws must still be set in accordance with reality.
In real life, there is no so-called "God's perspective".
A person can stand in the present and overlook his past, but it is impossible to see his future.
Everything that has not happened is unpredictable, and it is impossible for the hero and heroine to predict the future, nor to know what will happen in their future, or what they will encounter in their future lives.
And those keyboard warriors who post barrages are just looking down on others from God's perspective, relying on themselves to know the outcome.
To take a step back, it doesn't matter. After all, everyone has his or her own ideological realm. Not everyone's thoughts are so detailed or deep. Some people always like to publish things that seem to make sense when their realm is not yet reached. In fact, it is a ridiculous statement that cannot withstand careful scrutiny.
The most infuriating thing is that these people stand on the moral high ground in the video barrage to accuse this and that, but what about themselves
What role do they themselves play in real life
If those things really happened to them, what choices would they make
Speaking of which, such a double-standard party is terrifying enough, but these third-rate children of the Yan family are even more terrifying.
People's double-standard party means that a standard is not allowed for others to exceed, but it is allowed for oneself to exceed.
But these third-rate children of the Yan family have two standards in their hearts, one big and one small. They use the small standard to set it on others and do not allow others to cross it. Once others cross it, they will be unhappy with others in every possible way. Too much.
At the same time, they also set large and loose standards on themselves, and even if they exceed their own set of loose standards, they do not feel that they are going too far.
For example, in the eyes of these third-rate children of the Yan family, it is only right to bully "Mo Ming" and despise "Mo Ming"!
This is their inner standard for themselves. In their eyes, they "should" despise and ridicule "Mo Ming", and in their eyes, "Mo Ming" deserves their ridicule and contempt.
However, when Mo Ming asked them for money, they felt that Mo Ming had gone too far.
Logically speaking, they had insulted "Mo Ming", and Mo Ming should have reciprocated the insult with tooth for tooth, but Mo Ming didn't. He just asked the other party for money and some compensation that he deserved.
He neither actually hurt the other party, nor put a knife to the other party's neck to force the other party to pay.
It can be said that Mo Ming is already giving a lot of face.
But even so, these third-rate children of the Yan family still feel that it is too much...
Now you know why Mo Ming thinks these Yan family children are even more hateful. People's "double standard" means one set of standards for two people, but these third-rate children of the Yan family have two sets of standards for two people!
These people are worse than those double-standard keyboard warriors on the Internet!
In fact, there are reasons why this matter can happen like this.
In the Yan family, "Mo Ming" is a kind of weathervane and a mainstream, and it is not limited to the mainstream among the younger generation.
It's just that this kind of mainstream trend vane is not a good mainstream trend vane...
In the Yan family, it is understandable if you bully and despise "Mo Ming". Moreover, in the Yan family, this is a normal thinking logic, and there is nothing wrong with you doing this.
If you can really say a few words of contempt for "Mo Ming" when communicating with other Yan family children, then you will definitely be recognized by others!
In fact, this sounds very awkward at first, and it is obviously an unrelated person, but when you are chatting with others, you despise them, but you can get the approval of others. This is really a very twisted psychology.
The fact is not only that, if you have bullied "Mo Ming" in public before, you will be treated as a hero by others.
These things are really twisted.
But that’s the truth…
I don't know why, but in the Yan family, bullying "Mo Ming" is like a wave that will never subside. He has always been very unpopular in the Yan family.
In the novels Mo Ming read before, there were actually many protagonists who had been disliked by people around them since childhood.
Some are because they are unlovable and have bad personalities, and some are because they are inherently inferior to others, so others think they are different.
When I read those novels in the past, Mo Ming felt something was wrong. No matter how unconventional a person is, he cannot be despised by everyone.
Because human nature is a very complex and contradictory thing. It is not a complete emotion. It will neither completely hate nor completely like it.
The reason why it is said that "the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds" actually has a similar meaning.
In nature, human beings are a very special species. They live together and talk to others, but they do not completely open their hearts to others and remain completely consistent with others.
It is impossible to maintain consistent likes and dislikes with others. This is normal.
Moreover, human beings themselves have their own thoughts. If a person says to go east, there will definitely be different voices in the crowd. At least some people will question why they go east instead of west
Not everyone is willing to accept the leadership of others, and there will always be a few who are dissatisfied.