I don't know why, but in the Yan family, bullying "Mo Ming" is like a wave that will never subside. He has always been very unpopular in the Yan family.
In the entire Yan family, everyone despises "Mo Ming" and looks down on "Mo Ming" as the main trend.
That's not all. The most terrifying thing is that everyone regards those who can bully "Mo Ming" as heroes!
Hero, who is he
Not only those who are powerful, courageous and resourceful, but also those who have noble moral character and have made great contributions to the world are worthy of this title!
But these people of the Yan family regard people who "can bully Mo Ming" as their heroes. What kind of twisted psychology and twisted human nature must they have to do this
To be honest, this is because Mo Ming usually reads a lot of novels in Tianjie, and has a certain resistance to the protagonists who have been bullied by their families since childhood and are not popular with others. Otherwise, I am afraid that he will really not be able to stand these bad things. Son.
In the novels Mo Ming read before, there were actually many protagonists who had been disliked by people around them since childhood.
Some are because the protagonists themselves are unlikable, have bad personalities, and act like everyone owes them money all day long, while others are because they are inherently inferior to others, so others think they are very different.
To be honest, the former one doesn't matter. Humans are inherently social creatures. Who do you think you are showing your face to after all day long? If you really don't like getting along with others, you can move away by yourself and not live with others.
But you happen to live with someone else and you are always arrogant, so let me share a room with you and someone else. As a result, that person has a cold face all day long and tells you how much money you owe him. His words are all about asking you for debt. Who can feel comfortable with this
If you give others a cold look, why should others give you a good look
You yourself give others a cold look, but you still accuse others of being bad to you and think they are snobs. Are you saying that you were kicked in the head by a donkey? Or is your brain flooded? Or was your forehead kicked into the water by a donkey, and your brain became flooded
I won’t go into detail here, the key is the latter one.
When I read those novels in the past, Mo Ming felt that something was wrong. No matter how different a person was, it was impossible for him to be despised and alienated by everyone.
Because human nature is a very complex and contradictory thing. It is not a complete emotion. It will neither completely hate nor completely like it.
The reason why it is said that "the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds" actually has a similar meaning.
In nature, human beings are a very special species. They live together and talk to others, but they do not completely open their hearts to others and remain completely consistent with others.
It is impossible to maintain consistent likes and dislikes with others. This is normal.
Moreover, human beings themselves have their own thoughts. If a person says to go east, there will definitely be different voices in the crowd. At least some people will question why they go east instead of west
Not everyone is willing to accept the leadership of others, and there will always be a few who are dissatisfied.
You say you want to distance yourself from others, why do others have to listen to you
If there are common interests, it is better to say that in order to pursue common interests, everyone will unite the front. If there are no common interests, the contradiction between people's different views will be particularly obvious.
If the protagonist is someone from the palace, it would make sense to look like a prince or a prince. After all, there is a saying that "the most ruthless emperor's family".
The emperor's family is different from ordinary people's families, and it is even different from those big cultivating families.
The royal family is not only a family, but also has a mission. Since it is called the "royal family", it is naturally responsible for the stability and harmony within the territory, and also educates all people. The responsibilities are far beyond those aristocratic families or ordinary families who only care about cultivation. The common people can compare.
However, for the royal family, the greater the responsibility, the greater the power. The most special existence, the emperor, has become what everyone desires.
In order to ensure the continuation of the royal bloodline and ensure that no accidents occur during this process, leading to the embarrassing situation of interruption of the royal inheritance, it is impossible for ordinary emperors to have only one or two heirs like ordinary families. Those who are emperors, even if they have It is normal to have twenty or thirty children.
But there is only one emperor, so it is very likely that the descendants of those emperors will dislike each other and suppress each other as described in those novels.
This kind of thing happens in ordinary families or clans, but it is not really this serious.
Moreover, at best, these things are just selfish people suppressing each other. It is impossible to be like Mo Ming, like a rat crossing the street, everyone shouts to beat it.
It is understandable that this kind of thing happens in the emperor's house.
But this is also the case in some small families, which is very puzzling. How bitter and vengeful is this protagonist? Does the entire family have a grudge against him
Seriously, if such a person can't even have a good relationship with his own family, how can he have a good relationship with others in the future
It's like a person can't even pass the college entrance examination, but you ask him to skip the postgraduate entrance examination. Is this possible
Of course, Mo Ming is not saying that it is impossible for some families to have it happen. The main reason is that the chance of this kind of family is really too small, and it cannot be as serious as the previous "Mo Ming". It has even reached the point where the entire family despises and looks down on Mo Ming. It is clearly the mainstream trend.
If you express your care for Mo Ming or other praise or other actions and words in front of others, you will be regarded as an alien by others.
To be honest, the situation of "Mo Ming" should be regarded as very rare, and there is a reason why this kind of thing happens.
Although it seems that "Mo Ming" is similar to the protagonists in those novels, there are actually some differences.
The reason why Mo Ming is not favored by others is not just because of his own talent, it is the result of the combined effect of many factors.
The first is the issue of origin. The Yan family is a family, and Mo Ming is not named Yan, but he grew up in the Yan family. This will inevitably make people unhappy.
Secondly, there is the issue of talent. You are eating and drinking in the Yan family, and you have no talent. You have not achieved much in cultivation, which means that you cannot contribute anything to the Yan family. Aren't you just a moth
Then there is his own problem. It doesn’t matter that you have a bad background and poor talent, but you are still strong on the outside and weak on the inside. You pretend to be a big-tailed wolf outside every day. Who wants to see you pretending to be cool
Finally, and the most important issue, is that there is someone behind this to set the pace!
Yan Buping played a huge role in fueling the flames behind this.
Yan Buping looked down on Mo Ming's father. He loved the house as much as the bird, and hated the house as much as the bird!