Everyone wants to be an emperor, but is it really that easy to be an emperor
Those who have not become emperors want to be emperors, but those who have become emperors sigh all day long, feeling tired physically and mentally. They feel that the word "emperor" is simply a shackle, and they wish they could be ordinary people again.
Why
Because the emperor is the person who manages a country, with great power, he also has great responsibilities and great shackles.
The emperor is also a human being. How can he not find it difficult if a country bears the heavy responsibility on his shoulders
A qualified leader must not only deal with those within his own organization, but also face those outside the organization.
Moreover, whether you are dealing with people inside your own organization or people outside your organization, there are many skills. It does not mean that you can just start a fight if you disagree.
When Mo Ming read novels in the past, he often saw that there was nothing that strength could not solve, but the reality was that there were many things that strength could not solve.
What kind of person is Yan Qingcheng
Among the young people in the Yan family, Yan Qingcheng is a perfect girl, noble and cool, unstained by the world.
This is of course an unrealistic view. How can there be anything perfect in this world
Just because they liked Yan Qingcheng but couldn't get her, they became lickers and gradually deified Yan Qingcheng.
They didn't know Yan Qingcheng at all, so they couldn't have any in-depth opinions.
But Mo Ming understands.
Although Mo Ming is not the "Mo Ming" before, don't forget that most of the memories of the previous "Mo Ming" exist in his mind.
Although there are not many traces of Yan Qingcheng in these memories, this does not prevent Mo Ming from getting to know her deeply.
In fact, children of this age always feel that if they want to understand someone, they need to participate in the other person's life and understand all aspects of her, so that she can know her true thoughts.
However, for those who are truly experienced, they don’t actually need to know that much to understand a person. They only need to know some details.
Otherwise, if those companies in the world want to recruit people, they would send HR specialists to have a romantic relationship with the applicants
Funny, isn't this? !
Generally, people who have lived for decades have this kind of vision, let alone Mo Ming, who has lived for almost 40 million years.
Yan Qingcheng's character is actually very contradictory. Outsiders always think Yan Qingcheng is very cold, but why is she so cold
That is closely related to the environment in which she grew up.
According to time calculation, when Yan Qingcheng's biological father, Yan Ningxue's ex-husband, died, Yan Qingcheng should have been sensible.
A girl who was only a few years old suddenly lost her father. This was simply a bolt from the blue. It could almost be said that from the moment her father died, she was destined to be different from others.
Yan Ningxue holds a high position in the Yan family, and also has heavy responsibilities and work. Although she has been working hard to care for and protect her daughter, there are times when she is too busy to take care of her children like an ordinary family.
In other words, when Yan Ningxue was not at home, Yan Qingcheng had to live alone.
A little girl who is only a few years old, she lives alone, isn't this making things difficult for her
If life is just like this, it won't matter. After all, people get used to it. One day Yan Qingcheng will get used to the days without his father, and one day Yan Qingcheng will get used to the days when her mother is not at home and takes care of herself alone.
But just at this time, Mo Ming’s father came with Mo Ming...
This feeling is like a good student who has always been among the best, but suddenly one day her performance is abnormal and she is at the bottom of the class. Then her mother signs her up for a weekend cram school. It's like a mess!
Yan Qingcheng has a very strong temper. Her father's death was enough to make her sad, but now a man appears out of nowhere and wants to be her new father. She definitely can't accept this. !
Just like the previous "Mo Ming", when the previous "Mo Ming" knew that his mother was not his biological mother, he would instinctively distance himself from Yan Ningxue psychologically.
Yan Ningxue and "Mo Ming" are really similar. They both have the same temperament. They are truly siblings, but they make different choices.
Yan Qingcheng couldn't change anything. She could only accept this new father. Over the years, Yan Qingcheng and Mo Ming's father had gotten along well. At least they seemed like a family.
And "Mo Ming" chooses to surrender, which is actually a kind of escape...
Others don't understand Yan Qingcheng, but Mo Ming understands.
In the eyes of those boys, Yan Qingcheng was aloof and a rose with thorns.
In the eyes of those girls, Yan Qingcheng is not kind to others.
But Mo Ming knew that Yan Qingcheng's aloofness was actually just because she was used to being alone. She would not approach others, nor did she like others to approach her.
However, such a person is not a candidate for leadership!
Is Yan Qingcheng highly talented
High, definitely high!
But she is really not suitable to be a leader.
The work of a leader is very complicated. He is not simply a leader. If that is the case, it is just a right, not a responsibility.
As the head of the Yan family, he is not only responsible for coordinating the functional work of various departments of the Yan family, but also responsible for the interests of various branches within the family. These people are very difficult to deal with, and sometimes they can cause trouble over trivial matters. Earth-shaking.
What can be done about such a person
beat
It is true that it can be suppressed temporarily, but what about after the suppression
Yan Qingcheng is the kind of person who will never fight with you if he can take action. Such a person cannot fully control the internal affairs.
If the Yan family is in a special period of life and death, Yan Qingcheng's temperament can indeed unite the Yan family in the shortest possible time, but during the normal development period of the Yan family, this method seems a bit reckless!
This also shows that Yan Qingcheng is not good at coordinating interpersonal relationships, so she cannot handle this kind of thing well, and it happens that this kind of bad thing is something that every leader must face every day.
Scenes like those in TV dramas where a beautiful woman with no experience can easily defeat several waves of forces with just one move can only be seen in TV dramas.
Reality is reality. If you don't have the ability, you really can't complete that kind of work. It doesn't mean that you can do it on a whim.
Just like Mo Ming made a fuss about the engagement ceremony of the Yan and Huo families. He made a fuss, and it did make Yan Buping look bad, and it did make the Huo family look bad. But just by relying on this kind of thing, he could really stop the two of them. A marriage between big families
Maybe it works on TV, but in reality, it really doesn’t!