You know, the Yan family is a family, and it is a very large family. Not to mention anything else, there are enough branches in the Yunzhou Mansion, right
In addition to the elders in Feilai Villa, as well as the functional agencies scattered in other places, and the branches scattered in other areas under Yunzhou, there are really a lot of people here!
And once there are too many people, things can easily go wrong.
What can be done about such a person
beat
It is true that anyone who disobeys will be beaten until they dare not disobey. This can indeed temporarily suppress those restless people, but what about after the suppression
The Yan family is a family, and all functions below it must operate. If you hit others, will they really obey your orders
What should you do if the people below don’t do things for you
What should I do if the people below don’t obey orders
What should I do if the people below are perfunctory
This cannot be solved by simply relying on force. These are all human factors and require management and various means to deal with them.
But what Yan Qingcheng cannot accept the most is that kind of worldliness. She is the kind of person who will never have sex with you if she can do it. Such a person does have a lot of personality, especially in a woman, who always makes people feel very... charming.
However, from a leader's perspective, this alone is enough to exclude Yan Qingcheng from being a candidate for leadership.
If the Yan family is in a special period of life and death, Yan Qingcheng's temperament can indeed unite the Yan family in the shortest possible time, but during the normal development period of the Yan family, this method seems a bit reckless!
This also shows that Yan Qingcheng is not good at coordinating interpersonal relationships, so she cannot handle this kind of thing well, and it happens that this kind of bad thing is something that every leader must face every day.
Scenes like those in TV dramas where a beautiful woman with no experience can easily defeat several waves of forces with just one move can only be seen in TV dramas.
Reality is reality. If you don't have the ability, you really can't complete that kind of work. It doesn't mean that you can do it on a whim.
Just like Mo Ming made a fuss about the engagement ceremony of the Yan and Huo families. He made a fuss, and it did make Yan Buping look bad, and it did make the Huo family look bad. But just by relying on this kind of thing, he could really stop the two of them. A marriage between big families
Maybe it works on TV, but in reality, it really doesn’t!
Reality, reality, what is reality
Reality is a world composed of various objective factors and various people's hearts. In this world, everyone has everyone's considerations and everyone's persistence. It is not easy to be persuaded by an outsider.
Just like the engagement between the Yan and Huo families, you know, the Huo family said it was easy at the time, but everyone knows that this kind of marriage is not just a marriage between these two young people; Of great significance.
Of course, it's not only meaningful to these two families, there must be someone with selfish motives.
That's right, I'm talking about Yan Buping...
The son of the head of the Yan family cannot be the first in the younger generation of the family, and he, the head of the family, will be disgraced. Moreover, this contradiction will become more and more obvious in the future. Maybe it will become Yan Qingming's inner demon in the future, leading to Yan Qingming was delayed in entering the country.
Yan Buping was planning for a rainy day.
To be honest, when Mo Ming first came to Yan's house, he really didn't react to this, but he figured it out later.
He felt that Yan Buping was really stupid.
Yan Qingcheng is the number one genius of the younger generation of the Yan family and the hope of the Yan family. But it turns out that he married Yan Qingcheng for his own selfish reasons.
To put it bluntly, doesn’t this mean you are cutting your own flesh for others to eat
This is no longer as simple as losing combat power. Yan Qingcheng is the number one genius of the younger generation of the Yan family. What is this concept
This means that there may not be anyone in the younger generation of the Yan family who is better than Yan Qingcheng for a long time.
If Yan Qingcheng can really grow up in the future, your Yan family will also ascend to heaven. As a result, if you marry her now, you will be giving such a genius with unlimited potential to the Huo family in vain.
Even if Yan Qingcheng really grows up in the future, it will be the Huo family's chickens and dogs that ascend to heaven.
It is not an exaggeration to say that Yan Buping has ruined the future of the Yan family.
Of course, it can be said that Yan Buping tied the two families into a chariot with this marriage.
Indeed, once the marriage is finalized, the Yan family and the Huo family will be like sitting on a chariot.
but!
Note the "but"!
Do you understand the principle that there is no room for two tigers in one mountain
Your two big families are on a chariot, who is the master and who is the slave
You gave the future of the Yan family to the Huo family, what qualifications does your Yan family have to deal with the Huo family
In Mo Ming's view, Yan Buping successfully made the Yan family the younger brother of the Huo family!
Don't talk about the agreement made by the older generation, which is difficult to change. Nothing is difficult in the world, as long as there are people who are willing, if they really want to change it, they can always find a way.
People say that the Three Stooges are better than Zhuge Liang. Are you, the Yan family, with so many people, not as good as the Three Stooges
Yan Buping wanted to marry Yan Qingcheng and then forcefully marry his son, but he never thought about whether his son had that ability.
Mo Ming was unable to stop this thing until the end, not that Mo Ming did anything, in fact, he had done everything he could, but his current status really didn't hold much weight.
He is now a low-key person in the Yan family, and there is nothing he can do.
this is the truth.
And how would this kind of thing happen in a TV series
It must have been Mo Ming who made a splash, trampling Yan Buping and the Huo family and his son under his feet, showing an invincible attitude of being invincible, forcing Yan Buping and the Huo family and his son not to dare to talk anymore.
This is the difference, reality will not change according to personal wishes.
Yan Qingcheng has no intention of being the head of the family. If you insist on pushing her to that position, she will only feel tortured...
Yan Qingcheng is not perfect. She has her own shortcomings and weaknesses. This is a fact. She is not omnipotent.
Good talent doesn't mean everything is good!
Moreover, Yan Qingcheng likes to be quiet, which is why she cannot be a leader.
Generally speaking, people who like to be quiet don't like to deal with others, and dealing with others happens to be the basic skill of a qualified leader.
Dealing with her own family internally is enough to give Yan Qingcheng a headache. If she is asked to take charge of external affairs of the family, Yan Qingcheng will probably explode!
Take another example, Yan Qingming!
Yan Qingming's talent is pretty good, right? At least what those in the family say is good, but is he suitable to be a leader