Logically speaking, "Mo Ming" could have made all the difference among the younger generation. Although his father was a softie and he himself was not very impressive, he had a great background. To put it simply, "he There’s someone behind you”!
His mother is the most powerful elder of the Yan family. Among the current generation Yan family leaders, she is second only to Yan Buping, the head of the Yan family. With such a high status and great power, she can be said to be under one person in the current Yan family. More than ten thousand people.
Of course, we need to exclude those older people. After all, those people are the precious assets of the Yan family. Now they are no longer responsible for the various problems of the Yan family. They have devoted decades to the Yan family, and now they are focusing on it. It's time for yourself.
And "Mo Ming" also has a sister who is the most talented girl in the Yan family.
To put it bluntly, one of these two people is a boss-level figure among adults, and the other is a boss-level figure among their peers. With such two bosses of different ranks leading them, it is really hard for anyone to be able to mix like this. .
But how to say this...
Mo Ming didn't want to tell her family about the bullying she suffered outside, and she didn't dare to.
Needless to say about the former, children of this age are usually reluctant to tell their parents about some of the things they have experienced outside, not to mention that Yan Ningxue is not his biological mother!
In fact, reorganized families like Mo Ming often appear on TV. In fact, in such families, it is very normal for there to be gaps between children and stepparents.
Mo Ming has had similar situations in the homes of several of his friends before. Generally speaking, the relationship between children and stepparents is rather awkward, neither good nor bad.
This is something that people who may not have experienced or witnessed it cannot understand.
It's a weird feeling to have someone you have nothing to do with suddenly come to your house and you have to call him dad, or call him mom.
Many children cannot scream at all, because after all, it is not their father or mother. Of course, this is not the biggest problem.
In fact, the real reason why they can't say it out loud is because of their inner problems. The children can't pass their own level. They originally had their own father and mother and were their children, but now they are asked to call another person father. Or mom, this feeling... is like letting them betray their biological parents, painful and uncomfortable!
And it was the same in the eyes of the stepparent.
On TV, those reorganized families originate from the second spring of the parents. The father finds the stepmother because he and the stepmother have a new love, and the mother finds the stepfather because the mother and the stepfather have a new love.
In fact, the things in TV series are really too beautiful. When a person reaches his forties, it will be difficult for him to fall in love again.
Most of these fathers seek stepmothers, and mothers seek stepfathers for the sake of their children. They feel that this can give their children better family ties and better protection.
Let’s not talk about family ties. In fact, in most cases, this kind of reorganization will not only not give children better family ties, but will make them avoid and fear family ties even more, and even make them more isolated. Even they I will also be educated by my children.
However, I guarantee this is true.
Another part of the reason is that parents do seem to be looking for a companion, but this kind of companionship has nothing to do with romance. They are more like a habit, used to the habit of two people living together.
Of course, there are no absolutes, and it does not rule out the possibility that old trees will sprout new shoots and dead trees will spring again, but this chance is really very small in reality.
For stepparents, this feeling of getting along with their child is also very strange. This child has no blood relationship with them in the first place, and they only know him because they and his parents got together, and they were separated by a stranger. The child will also feel embarrassed when calling his parents. Therefore, at this time, the child may become an obstacle for him and the child's parents to get together.
Mo Ming had met several girls before, and they all had this kind of reorganized family. The mother died, and then the father found a stepmother. The stepmother was very good to the child, but this could not eliminate the gap between the two parties, so the stepmother Will do everything possible to marry this girl off.
This is reality, and reality won't be that beautiful.
After all, TV dramas are just a form of artistic expression, based on reality and beautifying reality.
Reorganized families in reality are actually much more embarrassing than those on TV!
The most typical example is the relationship between Yan Qingcheng and Mo Ming's father.
In fact, logically speaking, Mo Ming's father is now Yan Qingcheng's stepfather, and it has been more than ten years since the family was reorganized. However, Yan Qingcheng does not have much affection for Mo Ming's father.
In fact, it can be seen that Yan Qingcheng has some father-daughter feelings for Mo Ming's father. With Yan Qingcheng's cold temperament, if she really has a bad relationship with someone, she will not bother to talk to him at all.
So from this point of view, Yan Qingcheng actually approves of Mo Ming's father, and Yan Qingcheng does not object to Mo Ming's father treating her as his daughter.
But...if we really want to count, the relationship between Yan Qingcheng and Mo Ming's father is not as intense as a normal father-daughter relationship.
From this we can see how profound the gap between reorganized families is.
Even though their family has been going through this for more than ten years, it is just like this.
And this also includes many factors such as the inexplicable fact that his father is easy to talk to and easy to socialize with. Think about it, what would he look like if he were replaced by another old-fashioned man
This estrangement is really deep into the blood and flesh.
Mo Ming's situation is quite special. In fact, according to Mo Ming's situation, he shouldn't worry too much about bloodline.
Mo Ming was brought to the Yan family by his father when he was a child. It can be said that from the time he can remember, his mother is Yan Ningxue and his sister is Yan Qingcheng. He has no special memory of his biological mother. He has no idea how many wives his father has.
And Yan Ningxue was very good to Mo Ming and doted on him in every possible way. Therefore, if there were no accidents, Mo Ming was actually more like Yan Ningxue's biological son, and the bloodline issue would not be a barrier in his heart at all.
but!
Note the "but"!
Where is "Mo Ming" located
It’s the Yan family!
Where is the Yan family
The Yan family is a family composed of people with the surname Yan!
And you don't know what it is
Your surname is Mo. From the moment you entered the Yan family, you were destined to be an anomaly in this family!