Reality is reality, reality is not a TV show.
People's emotions in reality are much more complicated than those in TV dramas.
The themes in the TV series are based on reality, but they beautify human emotions in reality. It is this kind of beautification that depicts people's inner activities, emotions, thoughts and feelings too simply and too palely!
For example, in TV dramas, those children may naturally develop feelings after one or two special events or after getting along for a long time, but in reality it is not that simple.
In real life, if you are not his parents, you are not his parents. Even if he really calls you dad and mom, he will always feel alienated from you in his heart.
It just depends on whether this gap is obvious.
Mo Ming has met several girls before, and they all had this kind of reorganized family. The mother died, and then the father found a stepmother. The stepmother was very good to the child, but this did not eliminate the gap between the two parties.
Most girls will be very silent in front of their stepmothers, not saying much, and not smiling very much, but they will not show any indifference or alienation. They will make you feel like... they know you, but they only know you, they don't. Get closer to you.
Moreover, because of the existence of such a stepmother who has no blood relationship, the relationship between this girl and this family will probably become very awkward. She will feel alienated and abandoned, and she will gradually stay away from this family.
As for the stepmother, she only wanted to help the girl arrange a marriage and wanted to marry the girl off.
Because he also felt that it was awkward to be with a strange daughter.
He originally came to this family because of the girl's father, but now he became embarrassed because of the girl's existence, and she was naturally uncomfortable.
This is reality, and reality won't be that beautiful.
After all, TV dramas are just a form of artistic expression, based on reality and beautifying reality.
Reorganized families in reality are actually much more embarrassing than those on TV!
The most typical example is the relationship between Yan Qingcheng and Mo Ming's father.
In fact, logically speaking, Mo Ming's father is now Yan Qingcheng's stepfather, and it has been more than ten years since the family was reorganized. However, Yan Qingcheng does not have much affection for Mo Ming's father.
In fact, it can be seen that Yan Qingcheng has some father-daughter feelings for Mo Ming's father. With Yan Qingcheng's cold temperament, if she really has a bad relationship with someone, she will not bother to talk to him at all.
So from this point of view, Yan Qingcheng actually approves of Mo Ming's father, and Yan Qingcheng does not object to Mo Ming's father treating her as his daughter.
But...if we really want to count, the relationship between Yan Qingcheng and Mo Ming's father is not as intense as a normal father-daughter relationship.
From this we can see how profound the gap between reorganized families is.
Even though their family has been going through this for more than ten years, it is just like this.
And this also includes many factors such as the inexplicable fact that his father is easy to talk to and easy to socialize with. Think about it, what would he look like if he were replaced by another old-fashioned man
This estrangement is really deep into the blood and flesh.
Mo Ming's situation is quite special. In fact, according to Mo Ming's situation, he shouldn't worry too much about bloodline.
Mo Ming was brought to the Yan family by his father when he was a child. It can be said that from the time he can remember, his mother is Yan Ningxue and his sister is Yan Qingcheng. He has no special memory of his biological mother. He has no idea how many wives his father has.
And Yan Ningxue was very good to Mo Ming and doted on him in every possible way. Therefore, if there were no accidents, Mo Ming was actually more like Yan Ningxue's biological son, and the bloodline issue would not be a barrier in his heart at all.
but!
Note the "but"!
Where is "Mo Ming" located
It’s the Yan family!
Where is the Yan family
The Yan family is a family composed of people with the surname Yan!
And you don't know what it is
Your surname is Mo. From the moment you entered the Yan family, you were destined to be an anomaly in this family!
You are not from their family to begin with, how can they not reject you? In addition, Yan Buping, the head of the Yan family, is taking the lead in looking for trouble. Do you think a child with a foreign surname like you can survive in the Yan family
They don’t even need to do anything, they just criticize you both internally and externally, that’s enough for you!
Why is Yan Qingcheng, Yan Ningxue's child, named Yan instead of Mo
Why do so many people in the Yan family reject him
There are some things. It's fine if he doesn't bring it up. Once he brings it up...
Later, "Mo Ming" realized that he might not be Yan Ningxue's son.
This is really scary for a teenage child. The mother who has always loved him is not his biological mother. What is the difference between saying that the world he lives in is a virtual world
Mo Ming was the child raised by Yan Ningxue. Perhaps in Yan Ningxue's eyes, the bloodline issue was not a problem at all. She could not care less about it, but "Mo Ming" could not ignore this problem.
Although he still calls Yan Ningxue mother, the estrangement in his heart has arisen, and cracks have appeared in the mother-son relationship between him and Yan Ningxue.
With this reason, "Mo Ming" is even less likely to be willing to tell Yan Ningxue about her affairs.
The same goes for Yan Qingcheng.
Originally, "Mo Ming" was quite afraid of Yan Qingcheng. Later, after he learned that he was not Yan Ningxue's son and Yan Qingcheng was not his biological sister, the gap between him and Yan Qingcheng became even more obvious. The relationship between the very friendly siblings is even more strange and alienated.
This kind of rift existed between "Mo Ming" and Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng. How could he tell them what he had experienced
As for saying "Mo Ming" dare not say it, that is not nonsense.
"Mo Ming" lived a very depressed life in the Yan family. The entire family rejected him and looked down upon him. This kind of inner pressure would not be felt by a teenager, let alone an adult in his twenties or thirties. Some can't bear it.
One can imagine how depressed "Mo Ming" felt inside.
This is the Yan family. He doesn't know how to deal with these Yan family members. He is afraid that if he tells Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng, they will look down on him.
This is the logic of a child.
At the same time, he was also worried that even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng helped him for a while, they would not be able to protect him for the rest of their lives. These gangsters from the Yan family could always find opportunities to bully him.
This... How should I put it? In fact, this person is similar to the school violence that often appears in the news...