How do you talk about blood barriers...
It's a bit funny to say this. There are four people in this reorganized family, Yan Ningxue, Yan Qingcheng, Mo Ming's father, and Mo Ming. Everyone except "Mo Ming" knows that this is a family. Reorganizing the family…
In fact, not only in this reorganized family, but also in the entire Yan family, it seems that "Mo Ming" is the only one who doesn't know about this.
It's not that Yan Ningxue and Mo Ming's father intentionally hid anything from him, but they mainly wanted to provide Mo Ming with a better growth environment.
A child's heart is very small. In a child's eyes, yes is yes, no is no, black is black, white is white. If you are not his mother, then in his heart, you will never be him. It's not that you are not his mother, but if you are good to him, he will feel that you are his mother.
Will a child who grows up in such an environment be a mentally healthy child
In fact, in the eyes of Yan Ningxue and Mo Ming's father, he was not deliberately hiding it. The main thing was how to say this
Tell a teenage child that your father is your real father, but your mother is not actually your mother, but a fake mother, and your sister is not actually your sister, but a fake sister
Are you sure you're not doing this to be funny
How can you say this
Anyway, Yan Ningxue and Mo Ming's father just hugged each other and wouldn't let him know if they could. If he didn't take the initiative to ask, he wouldn't take the initiative to tell.
"Mo Ming" is a child. No one mentioned this to him, so how can he think of it
Now that this issue is brought up, of course it cannot be ignored.
This matter no longer matters in the eyes of Yan Ningxue, Mo Ming, his father, and Yan Qingcheng, but "Mo Ming" can't do it. He has just learned about this matter. How can a teenage boy handle it? Can you live with this
It goes without saying what kind of temper "Mo Ming" is. On the surface, he appears to be a playboy and uneducated, but in fact, he is very dark in his heart. There is not even a single person in this huge Yan family who is willing to be with him.
He walked in this mansion and saw other people gathering in groups, but he could only walk around the road alone. This kind of frustration was incomprehensible to outsiders. Fortunately, this family existed. As a result, This home is also…
This is not a family breakdown, but for a teenage child, this is no better than a family breakdown.
Even his own mother is no longer his own mother, so how can "Mo Ming" stay in this home? How else could he tell his story
Of course, it's not just unwillingness. In fact, "Mo Ming" doesn't dare to say those things.
How to say this...
In fact, if you really want to talk about it, although "Mo Ming" has no blood relationship with the Yan family, her mother is the most powerful elder in the Yan family, and she has the sister of the most talented girl in the Yan family. He should be the most talented person in the Yan family. A presence among people that cannot be ignored.
However, the fact is that "Mo Ming"'s life in the Yan family was really... not good!
"Mo Ming" lived a very depressed life in the Yan family. The entire family rejected him and looked down upon him. This kind of inner pressure would not be felt by a teenager, let alone an adult in his twenties or thirties. Some can't bear it.
One can imagine how depressed "Mo Ming" felt inside.
This is the Yan family. He doesn't know how to deal with these Yan family members. He is afraid that if he tells Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng, they will look down on him.
In fact, for anyone with normal thinking, this logic is problematic.
Yan Ningxue regarded Mo Ming as her own son, even better than her biological daughter Yan Qingcheng. How could she look down on him because of such a thing
The same is true for Yan Qingcheng. In the eyes of outsiders, Yan Qingcheng's feelings for "Mo Ming" are not at all like that of a sister to her brother. But in fact, that's because these people don't understand Yan Qingcheng at all.
But Mo Ming knew very well that if Yan Qingcheng really had no feelings for "Mo Ming", his eyes would be very indifferent, and he would not even look at him at all.
In fact, on the contrary, Yan Qingcheng is very complicated about "Mo Ming", which actually shows that Yan Qingcheng has feelings for "Mo Ming".
I can't say anything about Yan Qingcheng, I can only say... Yan Qingcheng's way of expressing her emotions is very special...
How to say this...
If you tell me, others may not believe it. Yan Qingcheng is known as the number one genius girl in the Yan family. It goes without saying that she is smart, but she is hopelessly clumsy in expressing her emotions.
This, I can only say that everyone has their own life, and everyone has their own experiences. Yan Qingcheng's experience has shaped her character, and there is no other way.
However, Yan Qingcheng should still recognize this younger brother, and Yan Qingcheng's character will definitely not look down on "Mo Ming" because of this little thing... Well, anyway, Mo Ming feels that even if "Mo Ming" doesn't say those things, Yan Qingcheng may not necessarily think highly of him...
However, this is the logic of a child. As a teenager who has never experienced these things, how can he know so much? He was just thinking about how to maintain a little face in this family...
At the same time, he was also worried that even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng helped him for a while, they would not be able to protect him for the rest of their lives. These gangsters from the Yan family could always find opportunities to bully him.
This... How should I put it? In fact, this person is similar to the school violence that often appears in the news...
Some people think that children who are beaten are stupid. After being beaten, they will neither tell their parents, teachers, nor call the police directly. They have no idea what they think.
How to say this...
In fact, when encountering this kind of thing, the most correct way is of course to tell the teacher, tell the parents, or directly call the police. I believe a normal person knows what to do.
However, you must know that a teacher cannot really protect anyone for a lifetime!
I often see many people on the Internet saying that if they tell the teacher, the teacher will not ask, or the teacher will punish the child who was beaten...
There must be such teachers in reality. After all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, but I believe that most teachers still have the ability to distinguish right from wrong.
If you really tell them, in most cases, it is impossible for the teacher to ignore it.
but!
Note the "but"!
Teachers are human beings too. They also have their own families and lives. Educating students is just their job. After work, they have to go home and live their lives. How can they keep looking after their students
But those violent primary school students are different. They are classmates, all of the same age, and they are the pervasive presence.