In fact, if you think about it carefully, a child of the age of "Mo Ming" suddenly becomes unwilling to tell his family about anything. He is uneducated and has no skills outside. He eats and waits for death. He is beaten in silence. Bear with me, there are only three reasons for this situation:
First, because there is a gap with the family. In fact, it is very normal for children of "Mo Ming's" age to have a gap with the family.
Every child will have such a rebellious period at this age. They always feel that they have grown up and understand the world, but their parents do not understand them...
Children from normal families will have such rebellious thoughts, let alone "mo Ming".
After all, "Mo Ming" is a child who came from a reorganized family. He originally thought that his family was perfect. His mother was his mother and his sister was his sister. However, he was suddenly told by his peers that his mother was not. My mother, my sister are not my sister, my home is not my home, what is this
It's okay if you just say it, but you have to know that once this situation spreads among children of this age, it will easily cause various problems. The children of the Yan family around them often use this kind of remarks to stimulate "Mo Ming", and even Use this as a laughing stock, make jokes about "Mo Ming", and ridicule "Mo Ming".
How could a teenage boy withstand such pressure
The second reason is that the child is unwilling to talk, basically because of the so-called "face" issue.
Children at this age are actually very funny. Their minds are in the growth stage. They have some superficial understanding of the world and their inner self gradually develops. First of all, they have an understanding of dignity.
They feel that when they fight with others among their peers, they are relying on their own face to find a place. Even if they are beaten by the other party, there is no problem, but if they tell adults about it, they will feel very embarrassed.
This logic seems to be full of flaws and very brainless, but in fact, this is what children of this grade are like!
Mo Ming had seen two children chatting before. One of them was like a gangster from the family, hanging out with a bunch of bad friends all day long.
And the other one is the kind of person who studies hard.
The two children didn't know how they got together and discussed the fight. The child who studied hard said that if something like this happens, he should tell his parents, tell the teacher, or call the police if it doesn't work. There is nothing wrong with this logic.
But, do you know what that little gangster-like child said
He said directly: "Isn't it embarrassing for you to do this?"
You can tell who is right and who is wrong between these two ways of thinking at a glance, but these children just don’t understand.
There is nothing wrong with this way of thinking about solving your own problems, but the key is where to put this way of thinking
It's wrong for you to put this matter above a fight!
But "Mo Ming" didn't understand this. Although he was not from the same group as these gangsters, he still had such a temper and felt it was a bit embarrassing to tell his parents.
Here we have to talk about the special family environment of "Mo Ming". His mother is not his biological mother, and his sister is not his biological sister. This gap can easily cause various effects, making "Mo Ming" even more difficult. Pay attention to your face in front of this family.
As for whether this so-called "face" is really "face" is another matter...
As for the third point, "Mo Ming" dare not say it.
After all, "Mo Ming" has been working in this class for many years, and he is quite familiar with the methods and behavior of these peers.
I know that these people are not easy to mess with. If I really get into trouble with these people, I'm afraid I won't have a good life in the future.
How to say this...
In fact, to be honest, according to Mo Ming's experience, if you are taken advantage of by such a little gangster, the best way is to scare and subdue these people at once. Only in this way, they will not dare to I'll torture you again!
When these little gangsters encounter trouble, they basically fight on their own first. If they can't fight on their own, they call for help and surround you halfway.
If you don't let them be afraid of you, they will bully you every day from now on.
People are like this. If they see that you are easy to bully, they will bully you every day. If you are tough, they will be afraid of you!
If it were Mo Ming now, he would definitely make these people afraid of him to the core. Not only would he make them afraid, but Mo Ming would also make their parents and family members fear him to death.
But "Mo Ming" doesn't have this ability. He is so cowardly and incompetent, and he can only deal with it if he is bullied right under his nose.
This is the logic of a child. A teenager who has never experienced these things, how can he know so much? When something like this happened, he only knew that he was next to her, and he was unwilling to let Yan Qingcheng and Yan Ningxue help her.
Even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng helped him for a while, they couldn't protect him forever. These gangsters from the Yan family could always find opportunities to bully him.
Some people think that children who are beaten are stupid. After being beaten, they will neither tell their parents, teachers, nor call the police directly. Children of this age basically follow this routine.
How to say this...
In fact, when encountering this kind of thing, the most correct way is of course to tell the teacher, tell the parents, or directly call the police. I believe a normal person knows what to do.
However, you must know that a teacher cannot really protect anyone for a lifetime!
I often see many people on the Internet saying that if they tell the teacher, the teacher will not ask, or the teacher will punish the child who was beaten...
There must be such teachers in reality. After all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, but I believe that most teachers still have the ability to distinguish right from wrong.
If you really tell them, in most cases, it is impossible for the teacher to ignore it.
but!
Note the "but"!
Teachers are human beings too. They also have their own families and lives. Educating students is just their job. After work, they have to go home and live their lives. How can they keep looking after their students
But those violent primary school students are different. They are classmates, all of the same age, and they are the pervasive presence.
When you are in school, teachers are watching, and those people may not dare to do anything, but when you leave school, who is watching
parents
Yes, your parents can pick you up and drop you off from school, but if you miss it one day, it’s time for them to pick it up.
Moreover, even if parents take them to and from school and there are teachers watching at school, there is no guarantee that everything will be safe.