In fact, Mo Ming's incident is not unique. This kind of thing is not unique to the Yan family. In fact, similar things often happen among children of this age.
To be honest, let alone the mortal world, even in the heavenly world, this kind of thing is not a rare thing.
Schools in big cities are okay, but schools around small cities often have such school violence incidents such as fights and fights.
The stability of social order requires two bottom lines: morality and law.
Morality is the basic criterion for the operation of social order, and it is also the basic bottom line. No one can violate this moral standard line in anything.
It's okay if something falls within this moral line, but if it crosses the moral line, it's too much.
There are no explicit rules on morality, but morality lies within the heart!
Morality does not refer to one person's inner conviction, but to everyone's common recognition.
For example, everyone knows that spitting while walking down the street is an immoral act.
For another example, if you bully someone at school, this is an immoral act.
The law is the last bottom line for the stability of social order. It is clearly stipulated. You need to know that morality is in the heart of the people, but not everyone will act in accordance with morality. There is always a group of people who have no moral bottom line in their hearts, or their morality. The bottom line is far lower than ordinary people.
At this time, laws are needed as the last bottom line, which are regulations that force everyone to follow.
But, there is one thing!
For children of this age, they have not established a corresponding sense of morality, and the regulations are too caring for these little kids. Instead, they give these kids opportunities to take advantage of loopholes, making them even more lawless.
This also results in the bully being unscrupulous and lawless, while the bullied person has always been passively bullied by others.
Although "Mo Ming" is unusual, it's almost the same.
The reason is nothing more than: Mo Ming is unwilling to say it, has no shame to say it, and lacks the courage to say it.
After all, "Mo Ming" has been working in this class for many years, and he is quite familiar with the methods and behavior of these peers.
I know that these people are not easy to mess with. If I really get into trouble with these people, I'm afraid I won't have a good life in the future.
How to say this...
In fact, to be honest, according to Mo Ming's experience, if you are taken advantage of by such a little gangster, the best way is to scare and subdue these people at once. Only in this way, they will not dare to I'll torture you again!
When these gangsters encounter trouble, they basically fight on their own first. If you are timid, they can keep bullying you. If they can't beat you, they will call someone to surround you halfway.
If you don't let them be afraid of you, they will bully you every day from now on.
People are like this. If they see that you are easy to bully, they will bully you every day. If you are tough, they will be afraid of you!
If it were Mo Ming now, he would definitely make these people afraid of him to the core. Not only would he make them afraid, but Mo Ming would also make their parents and family members fear him to death.
But "Mo Ming" doesn't have this ability. He is so cowardly and incompetent, and he can only deal with it if he is bullied right under his nose.
This is the logic of a child. A teenager who has never experienced these things, how can he know so much? When something like this happened, he only knew that he was next to her, and he was unwilling to let Yan Qingcheng and Yan Ningxue help her.
Even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng helped him for a while, they couldn't protect him forever. These gangsters from the Yan family could always find opportunities to bully him.
Some people think that children who are beaten are stupid. After being beaten, they will neither tell their parents, teachers, nor call the police directly. Children of this age basically follow this routine.
How to say this...
In fact, when encountering this kind of thing, the most correct way is of course to tell the teacher, tell the parents, or directly call the police. I believe a normal person knows what to do.
However, you must know that a teacher cannot really protect anyone for a lifetime!
I often see many people on the Internet saying that if they tell the teacher, the teacher will not ask, or the teacher will punish the child who was beaten...
There must be such teachers in reality. After all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, but I believe that most teachers still have the ability to distinguish right from wrong.
If you really tell them, in most cases, it is impossible for the teacher to ignore it.
but!
Note the "but"!
Teachers are human beings too. They also have their own families and lives. Educating students is just their job. After work, they have to go home and live their lives. How can they keep looking after their students
But those violent primary school students are different. They are classmates, all of the same age, and they are the pervasive presence.
When you are in school, teachers are watching, and those people may not dare to do anything, but when you leave school, who is watching
parents
Yes, your parents can pick you up and drop you off from school, but if you miss it one day, it’s time for them to pick it up.
Moreover, even if parents take them to and from school and there are teachers watching at school, there is no guarantee that everything will be safe.
There is a saying that goes well, don’t be afraid of thieves stealing, just be afraid of thieves missing you!
Once you are taken care of by such a thief, you will really have no chance of living in peace.
You know, although these little gangsters are not as good as those desperate people in society, because they have never seen society, these little gangsters always feel that they are the best in the world, and they always feel that nothing in the world can punish them, plus there is a lack of corresponding sanctions. regulations, they are even more lawless.
If they want to take revenge, teachers and parents will not be able to protect them.
Your teachers and parents can protect you for a while, but these little gangsters can miss you for a lifetime!
Mo Ming had actually seen this kind of thing before. There was a conflict between two teenage boys. As a result, one of the gangsters rushed to the other person's house with a knife and threatened them.
Mo Ming remembered that at that time, the little gangster also wrapped the knife with newspapers and put it in his sleeve, just like those death-hungry thieves on TV.
In fact, this kind of person is the kind of person who thinks he is awesome. However, in Mo Ming's view, or in the view of any mature adult, this kind of behavior is extremely stupid!
This is actually an extremely stupid behavior. You said you led a few people to fight in a group and could exploit loopholes, but you rushed to someone's house with a knife. If someone wants to mess with you, there are definitely N ways to do it. Your family will be destroyed!
Therefore, Mo Ming has always felt that children at this age are actually very stupid. Everyone should study hard and practice well. Don't cause trouble or look for trouble. Just be yourself.