In the private room of Winter Melon Cup, the environment is quite elegant and antique.
Qin Yi ordered two bottles of shochu, and put them in the hot water to warm them up slightly. It's nice to drink some in this weather, and he feels comfortable. Qin Yi is also a wine lover. Let's have a drink or something together with two veteran cadres.
Although Qin Su didn't often go home for dinner and the family relationship was not harmonious, the relationship between each other was not bad. Just like now, Qin Yi often invited his daughter out to drink with him.
After ordering a few delicious dishes that the father and daughter liked, the waiter came to help put the dishes into the pot and then went out, and there were only father and daughter left in the private room.
Qin Su took the wine, poured a glass for Qin Yi, then poured half a glass for himself, moved the glass to Qin Yi, and said, "I'll drive later, drink less, and you too Bar."
"It's okay, you know how your dad's drinking capacity is, you yourself know best, you can't get drunk after a few drinks, just let Xiaomeng come over and borrow me later, eat what you should eat, drink what you should drink, come on, you too , order a red bar, didn’t your mother say that you can beautify yourself while drinking wine?”
As Qin Yi said, he was about to beckon the waiter to come in, but Qin Su stopped him with his hand, "No need, Dad, just drink this, you can drink it if you want, and I will accompany you."
At this moment, Qin Yi nodded his head, but said with some relief, "At this time, my daughter is the most affectionate, come, have a drink!"
Qin Yi raised his glass, Qin Su also raised his glass obediently, and made a toast to him. Both father and daughter took a simple sip, and then ate with some side dishes to go with the wine.
"Dad, you said you have been arguing with mom for so many years, when can you stop? Don't you feel tired?"
After drinking a glass of wine, Qin Su suddenly asked his father.
Qin Yi paused for a moment, squinted at Qin Su, then looked away in an instant, and took a sip of wine, "The relationship between you and your mother is a matter of ideological class. I'm afraid there is no way to turn it around. She is sick in her heart and has no requirements for herself. She has such high requirements for me. She dislikes me for being bad here. Sometimes I really don't want to go home and stay at home. An office or dormitory can make me feel a little quieter.”
As Qin Yi said, he felt a little helpless, but right now, it seemed that he couldn't do anything. After all, Mei Xiaoyue was Qin Yi's daughter-in-law, that's right, it's just...
"I think there is a lack of communication between you and your mother. It is obviously a very simple matter, as long as you make it clear to each other, but you are suspicious of each other, and no one is willing to explain, so the relationship between you The contradictions are getting deeper and more acute."
When Qin Su said this, he couldn't help sighing softly, frowned slightly, drank the wine in the glass, and sighed, "At home, since childhood, there has always been a big quarrel for five days, and a small quarrel for three days. , Don’t you guys feel bored? I’m also bored listening to it, if you really feel inappropriate, it’s better to let go of each other.”
"Your thoughts are not good. You always think about divorce. What is inappropriate? Not every marriage has to be suitable. Do you all treat marriage as a joke? It's not a matter of principle, so you can't have such thoughts and decisions. Once it's done, it's lifelong. Your mother isn't that bad, it's because we didn't really understand each other back then."
Qin Yi also let out a long sigh, then frowned and drank the wine in the glass, "I have never regretted marrying your mother. The reason why I have such a relationship today is that I also have problems. I also swore to your grandfather back then that I would protect you. Good mother, let her live a good life."
"You didn't feel sorry for Mom, except emotionally, you lack communication... I always wonder if there was love between you, but it seems..."
"Why didn't love ever exist? Your mother was very beautiful at that time, and men's eyes straightened when they saw her. I also liked seeing your mother at that time. Every time I led the team past their art troupe, I always asked more. Stay for a while, it’s okay to see people, but if you don’t see people, you will feel regretful all day.”
When Qin Yi mentioned this matter, he seemed to have a lot of aftertaste, and now he was a little bit excited when he talked about it.
"I'm worried that you are just acting on a whim. You and Mom were the proud sons of heaven at the beginning. The two of you will be tied together like this for the rest of your life. Dad, you are only in your fifties, and there are still decades to come. Only half of my life with my mother has passed, and my life is still very long... "
As Qin Su spoke, he also silently stopped what he was doing.
Qin Yi paused, and looked at Qin Su firmly, "Is the matter between me and your mother causing you a lot of trouble?"
Qin Yi asked.
Hearing this, Qin Su also paused for a moment, unable to calm down, and after a long time, he replied, "No..."
"You don't have to hide it from me, I can feel it. You are also worried that if you don't have feelings, you will have the same unhappiness as me and your mother, right?"
Qin Yi said directly, and seeing that Qin Su didn't reply, he continued, "Actually, you don't have to worry about the things between me and your mother. Whether it's marriage or relationship, you need to manage it. The quality of marriage is very important. To a certain extent, it depends on you personally. You have also seen the unpleasant situations of many comrades in the military region, but you cannot deny that the feelings of some comrades are very enviable. Everything has two sides, so you don’t have to think about it. Too much, let nature take its course is the best way.”
As Qin Yi said, he also poured wine for Qin Su, "Actually, after thinking about it, Zhou Zimo is pretty good. The main reason is that he treats you with care and goes along with you. At his level, It's really not easy to be able to do this. You, don't be too stingy. You should give others a little response and a little expression. Otherwise, how many beautiful marriages will be given by your cold and indifferent attitude. No more grinding."
After Qin Yi said this, Qin Su was in a trance for a while. After thinking about it, Qin Su took a deep breath, frowned and drank the wine in the glass, "I know he's fine, but I'm worried. I don't like him that much, and once I'm done, I will... Dad, you know, emotionally, I'm more afraid of giving than anyone else. I didn't keep cats and dogs at home before because I was afraid that when they left, I will be too sad... So, I always feel that some things are better not to happen, so that I can control my emotions... "
Qin Su is like this, he never has any sense of security, and he doesn't expect to get the so-called sense of security from others.