Su Yuanyuan soon published a book called "The Abandoned Me". Many people think of love when they see the name. This book is indeed related to love, but the protagonist is the one who abandoned his wife and children." son". In the book, a very outstanding educated youth is admitted to university, abandons his pregnant wife and three-year-old son in the countryside, and shines in universities in the capital. .
Su Yuanyuan wrote about the hard life of their mother and son in the village after they were abandoned, and the gossip they faced. The mother shed tears every day, and the elder brother was ridiculed as a child without a father. Later, the mother suffered from depression, and the elder brother fought with others and became a vicious gangster. Only the protagonist was better, because when he grew up and became sensible, the village There are already other new things, so I don't pay much attention to him.
The protagonist studies well and is admitted to the university that his father was admitted to. There, he has a like-minded person. They have common ideals and similar backgrounds. They soon fell in love and decided to graduate. See the parents. But a delicate girl in their class disregarded their relationship at all, and blatantly pursued the protagonist, saying that love is free, and no matter what the slightest thing, you have the right to pursue the person you like.
Many people support this delicate girl and admire her bravery, so that her pursuit intensifies, which brings great trouble to the protagonist, who can't help but reject her with cold words, and even severely criticize her behavior. What true love? Knowing that others are a couple but insisting on pursuing it only shows that the character is poor. He can't afford this kind of true love!
The charming girl cut her wrists sadly, but fortunately her mother found out and rescued her, so the protagonist and his girlfriend faced accusations from many people, accusing them of being aggressive and sympathizing with the charming girl, because she just wanted to pursue love, she just Like him, what's wrong? The protagonist's girlfriend broke up with him under pressure, but the protagonist insisted on not accepting Jiaojiao. Jiaojiao's mother is a school teacher and her father is a school professor. Under the operation of their husband and wife, the protagonist was expelled from school.
When the protagonist's brother went to the school to seek justice for him, he found out that Jiaojiao's professor's father was the educated youth who abandoned them back then, that is to say, Jiaojiao's daughter was their half-sister! This incident caused an uproar in an instant. First, the people who originally supported Jiaojiao girls suddenly felt disgusted by incest. Second, the professor who was respected and respected on weekdays actually abandoned his wife and son, and his current wife actually I know too! No matter how much you support love, there is a sense of disillusionment when a respected professor does this.
Even if the professor didn't get a marriage certificate at the beginning, his two sons are still his own flesh and blood, and it's understandable to pursue love. Isn't it right to ignore the two sons? And after his elder brother committed a crime and was arrested and imprisoned, more people could not understand the professor. As a professor who teaches and educates people, his son has been left uneducated and gone astray. Is he worthy of being a professor? Also, his wife suffered from depression back then, but their husband and wife are happy and happy in the capital. Is such happiness based on the pain of others really happy
The protagonist wrote an article after leaving school. The article told how an educated youth who was unable to do farm work was taken care of by his Yue family in the countryside, and how his mother was busy working outside the house so that he could feel at ease. Those who read books don’t like it and don’t have a common language, so why accept those benefits with peace of mind? I really don't like it, how did the two children pop out? Doesn't it count as marriage if you don't get a marriage certificate? Isn't it a hooligan to let an unmarried woman have two children in a row
The protagonist also wrote about his own psychological journey in the article. He came to the capital with a dream, cherished every opportunity to learn, met someone he really loved, and his future is bright. At that time, he can take good care of his mother and guide him. Brother is back on track. But all of this was ruined by that charming girl. The university he had studied so hard to get into was gone, and the only object of his affection was gone. His brother went to prison to help him get ahead, and he moved bricks on the construction site by himself. , unable to take care of his mother suffering from depression, all of this is just because the Jiaojiao girl said that she is true love for him and she must pursue him, so she can get everyone's approval. Then who respected him? Can true love be forced
The book written by Su Yuanyuan this time has a tragic ending. In the end, although many people had reflections because of the protagonist’s article, and the professor was expelled from the school, the professor and his wife still lived in a small bungalow in the capital and lived their lives comfortably. On that day, their daughter was sent abroad by them, and she was no longer under any influence abroad. And what about the protagonist? Others' support for him was useless. He couldn't find a good job because of his low education, and he had a brother in prison and a depressed mother. He didn't look for another partner, but kept silent every day to earn money to support his family.
The first reaction of all those who read Su Yuanyuan's book is depression, followed by grievances, grievances for the protagonist. He did nothing wrong, why did he end up like this in the end? Some scolded the professor for not raising a son, some scolded the charming girl for going too far, some blamed the mother for being too weak, and some scolded the protagonist's partner for not persisting. But after scolding, a strange feeling emerged in my heart. Isn't what the educated youth professor did is what many people are doing now
Maybe not everyone who is abandoned will be as miserable as in the book, but what will happen after being abandoned is definitely worse than what is in the book. Everyone knows how scary gossip is, it really kills people. Is it really right for some educated youths who are eager to get rid of the shackles of the countryside to pursue freedom? Did someone force them to get married in the countryside? They were not even arranged by their parents. Their marriage in the country was clearly decided by themselves. Now what reason is there to say that those are bondages? Isn't this the irresponsibility mentioned in the book
There are also those who forcibly pursue others regardless of whether they have a partner. Can the pursuit of true love be disrespectful? Think about how disgusting it would be if you substituted yourself as the protagonist in the book, who obviously had a good girlfriend, but was forcibly separated by someone? Such a pursuit of wantonly hurting others regardless of their feelings is really not too much to say that their character is poor.
Su Yuanyuan soon wrote another book in which parents worked hard for their son all their lives, but the son rebelled against his parents in pursuit of true love and spoke ill of them. There are too many such realistic examples, because everyone is resisting arranged marriages. This resistance itself is not wrong, but because his parents think that he is not a good partner, he will speak ill of his parents and there will be problems. Pay as what? Because the protagonists of this book are the parents, the readers assume the role of the parents, and suddenly feel that raising such a son is not as good as strangling him to death when he was born.
She has also written several books, implying that excessive pursuit of freedom and love is a pathology from various angles. What would this society be like if people lost even the most basic sense of responsibility? Do we all have to be selfish and only care about ourselves, and no longer have any spirit of dedication
These few books of hers were made into a series, and many people bought back the whole set. At the beginning, many readers wrote to scold her, saying that she was insisting on feudal dross, misleading and delaying everyone. She ignored it and continued to devote herself to the study of medical skills. A few months passed slowly, because her book aroused everyone's attention to this aspect, which caused some tragedies to spread quickly after they happened.
Like a wife who jumped into the river after being abandoned, unable to bear the gossip, and her husband just got the appreciation of the teacher at Huaxia University; like a child who died of a sudden illness and had no money to treat, and the reason for having no money was that his mother stole it. The whole family's money goes to college; it's like a woman committing suicide by swallowing rat poison because another woman has been pursuing her husband and finally succeeded.
This kind of thing has become a lot, in fact, it happened suddenly, but it was suddenly discovered because of everyone's attention. As soon as the actual incident happened, it was even more tragic than the stories in Su Yuanyuan's book. This incident suddenly became a phenomenon-level incident. Everyone paid attention to it. More and more people reflected on it, and more and more people scolded Su Yuanyuan. few. The literary clubs of many schools have written many articles about this incident, some agree with it, some oppose it, and it seems that a long-distance debate has started all of a sudden, which naturally aroused the attention of the superiors.
The topic of whether a poor character can become a pillar of the country was brought up for discussion, and the topic of how many families were destroyed due to the return of a large number of educated youths to the city was even more focused.
After a few months, an order was finally issued, requiring a strict investigation into whether all educated youths have started a family. If so, those who do not have a marriage certificate must obtain a new marriage certificate, divorce must be agreed by both parties, and those with children must pay alimony. As soon as he returned to the city, he patted his ass and left, abandoning his family and children. Such "talented people" have a good life and don't even need a partner or children. Wouldn't they abandon the country first when they encounter national crisis in the future? The country does not need this kind of person!
At this time, Su Yuanyuan was already a sophomore in college, and she had made a lot of money with the shares she held in three cosmetics companies with the secret beauty formula. She directly applied to relevant state departments and established a charitable fund to help victims of "pursuit of freedom". This review is very troublesome, but it is not impossible to review. Several victims who are strong in themselves have applied to join the foundation, and they are committed to making all victims self-reliant and self-reliant.
At the same time, Su Yuanyuan put forward her own research topic in the medical school. Is excessive pursuit of freedom pathological? Is harming another person unintentionally counted as harm? Does such a person need proper counseling from a psychiatrist
When a doctor saves a person, so does psychological assistance. After discussion, the college approved her project and allowed her to initiate research in the college. This is also an emphasis on psychological medicine. The school thinks it is necessary and very suitable for the current national conditions.
So under Su Yuanyuan's menacing attack, the pursuit of free love was suppressed all of a sudden. There are still many people who have biased ideas, either one side or the other side, but most of them have begun to seriously think about where the degree of pursuit of freedom should be.