Seeing Tan Aoshuang first shocked and then confused, Yuxi sighed and said: "You just said that it's your job to teach your children to cook palace affairs. This is not right. It is indeed yours to do good palace affairs. It's a matter of division, but teaching the children is a matter of two people. You shouldn't have done what Qi Hao should do." The matters of the three brothers and sisters of Sheng are in charge of Tan Aoshuang alone. Qi Hao, at most, would check up on Brother Sheng's homework or talk to a few children.
Tan Aoshuang didn't understand what she said to do what the emperor should do.
Yuxi said: "Zaozao, Qihao and their siblings, your father gave them diapers and took a bath, and he played with them when he had time. When they grow up, teach them to practice exercises and tell them stories. Qi Hao, what has he done for the three brothers and sisters of Sheng?"
In addition to teasing the children, Qi Hao has nothing to do with his homework.
According to Tan Aoshuang's education, men dominate outside and women dominate inside. Raising children is originally what a woman should do. Tan Aoshuang said: "The emperor has everything to do with him. I don't want him to disturb him for these trivial matters."
Yuxi smiled and shook his head and said, "How can it be a trivial matter? It is the responsibility of parents to raise children. Your father used to fight outside the war, and I have to do these things when I go home. It's like going to Taiping today, Qihao isn't that busy."
Tan Aoshuang struggled for a long time, and then made up his mind to say to Yuxi: "Mother, please teach me."
If it were replaced by the previous one, Tan Aoshuang would definitely not listen to Yuxi's preaching. It's not who is right or who is wrong, but the concept is different. But now the relationship between the husband and wife is getting more and more distant, Tan Aoshuang wants to learn from Yuxi. After all, Yuxi was very successful in this regard.
Yuxi patted Tan Aoshuang's hand lightly and said, "Outside he is the emperor. You should respect him. But in Kunning Palace, you should not treat him as the emperor. You have to treat him as your husband and your child. Father."
Tan Aoshuang hesitated and asked, "Is it like ordinary couples in the folk?"
Yuxi nodded and said, "You don’t need to be like the folks, just like me and your father. Also, you can leave the palace affairs to your confidant to take care of everything. You just need to take care of the big picture. In addition, Brother Dong, you can give it to your mother. You can accompany him at a fixed time every day. When you have free time, pay more attention to things in the next hall and read more books."
Tan Aoshuang's face showed hesitation.
Yuxi asked, "I don't need to say whether the palace affairs and husband are more important, you should also know."
"Mother, give the child to her mother, I don't worry." She felt relieved when she looked at her with a good eye.
Yuxi laughed and said: "The prince of the previous dynasty was taken away from his mother when he was born. If you want to change it to you, wouldn't you be able to live?" The child is by his side, so there is nothing to worry about.
Tan Aoshuang was struggling.
Upon seeing this, Yuxi said, "You still have time to change. Once the Xiu Girl enters the palace and a woman enters Qihao's eyes, it will be too late for you to make any changes."
These words deeply irritated Tan Aoshuang, she decided to take a gamble, knelt in front of Yuxi and said firmly with a face: "Mother, I listen to you. If I did something wrong, please correct me."
It's fine if you can figure it out.
When the two walked out of the house, they saw Jing Shu being amused by Yun Qing laughing.
Tan Aoshuang was still stunned for the first time seeing Jing Shu so happy.
Seeing Tan Aoshuang, Jing Shu hurriedly closed her smile, standing upright and yelling: "Mother."
Seeing Jing Shu's nervousness, Yun Qing frowned and glanced at Tan Aoshuang, then hugged Jing Shu, "Come on, let's continue playing."
Jing Shu didn't listen to Yun Qing's words, but still stood still looking at Tan Aoshuang. Tan Aoshuang didn't speak, she didn't dare to play.
Tan Aoshuang's face was embarrassed: "Grandfather asked you to accompany him, you just accompany him obediently."
Holding Jing Shu's hand again, Yun Qing said, "Go, grandfather will take you to the garden to play." With Tan Aoshuang here, it is impossible for the child to let go.
Yuxi smiled and said: "On weekdays, don't be too strict with your children. Otherwise, your children will be very afraid of you. The child who has worked so hard to raise will not be close to him when he grows up. You think about what it will be like when you are not close to yourself."
Tan Aoshuang said, "I asked her to learn the rules recently, and I scolded her several times for not learning well."
Yuxi smiled and said, "The most important thing for our children is to understand the governor. As for the rules and etiquette, there is no problem on the whole, and no one dares to challenge the rules." In fact, the rules and etiquette are imperceptibly influenced by adults. No matter how bad it is, there is no difference.
Tan Aoshuang nodded and said, "Okay, listen to the mother's queen."
Qi Hao was discussing with the minister just now, and he didn't know that Yun Qing and Yuxi were back until the matter was over.
Qi Hao was a little surprised when Yuxi and Tan Aoshuang had a very happy conversation. In his impression, Tan Aoshuang was not close to Yuxi.
After calling my mother, Qi Hao looked around and asked, "Mother, where's father?"
"Take Jingshu to the yard to play. The older you get, the more you look like an old naughty boy." He complained, but his eyes were smiling.
Yun Qing happened to come in and heard what Yuxi said: "As soon as I am away, you will arrange me in front of my son."
Yuxi's brows trembled, and he asked, "Did I make a mistake, aren't you an old naughty boy now?" When encountering a strange thing, he has to find out.
The couple began to quarrel. Qi Hao, who was on the side, just stood on the side and laughed without interrupting.
Tan Aoshuang suddenly admired Yuxi especially at this moment. Most of the women who have been in power in history have not left a good end. The most famous one is Wu Zhao, who was forced to die in the palace by his son. But her mother-in-law is an exception. After taking office, the husband and wife are still affectionate, and even the children are filial and caring. She felt that her choice should not be wrong.
In the evening, Qiyou came over. He came alone, and didn't bring Huang Siling and Xu brother. As for Qixuan, he hasn't been in the capital since he went out to gather.
After dinner, Yuxi said to Qihao: "Follow me to the garden for a walk."
"Okay." Yuxi will definitely be upset when he knows about the draft, Qihao is ready to be scolded.
Yuxi did not scold him, but asked bluntly: "Why did you agree to the draft this time?"
Qi Hao was silent and said, "Mother, I want to find someone who can speak with me."
This is sad to say.
Yuxi froze for a moment, then sighed and said, "Remember that when you first got married, the relationship between husband and wife was very good. You think you are not responsible for this result."
When Qi Hao heard this, he couldn't help looking up at Yuxi.
"I feel that I have no responsibility." After saying that, Yuxi smiled and said: "A woman is most afraid of her years no longer becoming a yellow-faced woman. And having children will accelerate aging. Under such circumstances, if there is no Give her enough care, and she will think wildly. You ask yourself, have you been caring and considerate to her in the past few years" She was also in fear for a long time.
Qi Hao shook his head and said, "In the past few years, I have been busy with government affairs, and I have been a little negligent with her and my children. Mother, I will pay attention to it in the future." In the three years since he became the throne, all his energy has been on government affairs. This is why Tan Aoshuang became pregnant after so long intervals.
Yuxi asked: "I know that Aoshuang stuffed Yin Tiantian to you, and you are very dissatisfied. But ask yourself, even if she didn't let you accept Yin Tiantian, you wouldn't be able to draft."
Qi Hao was silent and said, "Mother, I am not dissatisfied with Aoshuang, I just want someone to relax me when I'm tired." Yin Tiantian sings well, but other than that, the two of them are not dissatisfied. What can be said.
After all, there was a problem with the husband and wife. Qi Hao is at fault, and Aoshuang's problem is not small.
Yuxi was also a little distressed, but she still said, "Your father had a bad reputation back then. If it weren't for the fear of implicating your grandmother and uncle, I would definitely escape the marriage."
Qi Hao was very surprised: "Does you know this?"
"I don't know. But your father thinks that the girl in Beijing is too delicate, and I am afraid that I can't adapt to the environment of Yucheng, so he didn't want to marry me at that time." After that, Yuxi smiled and said: "I told your father back then. One doesn’t want to marry the other doesn’t want to marry. But look at us now, but are we happy? The most important thing between husband and wife is running-in. After this hurdle, it will be fine."
Qi Hao shook his head and said, "Mother, you and Dad are in trouble, how can Aoshuang and I be compared with you." Tan Aoshuang's feelings for him are not so pure, and he can't follow everything like his father. Tan Aoshuang.
"Can't compare with me and your dad. As for Qiyou and Siling, you think their husband and wife are pretty good."
Qi Hao smiled and said, "Mother, I am not the same as Ayou. Ayou can act by nature, but I can't." The emperor is the lord of the world with life and death and power, but the same burden is also on his shoulders. Very heavy. So he can't do it casually.
Yuxi had prepared a lot of words, but he didn't want to say any more in this meeting. Qi Hao knows what she is doing, and she can't change anything no matter how much she says: "A Hao, a hundred years of cultivation have been able to travel on the same boat, and a thousand years of cultivation have been able to sleep together. You have to cherish the fate between your husband and wife."
Qi Hao nodded and said, "Mother, Aoshuang is my wife who has knotted hair. I won't let anyone pass her. Brother Sheng is my eldest son, and no one else will pass him."
"It's good to know."
That night, Qi Hao and Tan Aoshuang apologized: "I'm sorry, I have neglected you by being busy with government affairs these years."
Tan Aoshuang was also reflecting on herself just now: "I am also wrong, and I should ask you directly instead of thinking about things." In fact, her biggest mistake is that she spends her energy and time on children and palace affairs, which has led to more and more relationships between husband and wife. Unfamiliar, the two eventually had nothing to say.
Putting Tan Aoshuang in his arms, Qi Hao said softly: "You are my wife, a wife who lives and dies in the same hole."
Tan Aoshuang nodded with tears in her eyes.