The change from girl to woman, the universally recognized rule, is the first time! There is no objection to this in ancient times, because at that time, usually the first time was in the bridal anthurium; but this rule, put in the present, is somewhat inconsistent, because there are many who do not have the first. Secondly, she is still flaunting her identity as a girl!
Some people say that in the current society, a man of thirty can only be called a big boy! The same is true for women. At the moment when the leftover is king, anyone who is not married can call herself a girl! There are even many married women who still can't abandon their status as a girl, and from time to time they have to behave in front of their husbands, pretend to be tender or something! Of course, acting like a baby is a universal right for women and girls!
In my opinion, the current dividing line between girls and women is about to be postponed from that first time to having a baby! This childbirth refers to the actual pregnancy in October, giving birth at one time, rather than carelessly and painlessly for three minutes!
Gong Jin's current age is too young to be a girl, but she already has Du Xiao, and overnight, she abandoned her previous identity as a girl and turned into a little woman.
When a girl hears someone asking you whether you’re going to raise your “milk”, even those close to you will be shy and annoyed, while women, although they are unavoidable to have these emotions, have been able to face them correctly.
Hearing Zuo Qiucai’s mother’s straightforward questioning, Zhang Bingjie, Ge Jiazi, and even Dang Qiudie, who were not the parties, were a little embarrassed, but Gong Jin was just stunned and replied bluntly: “Today After eating something in the morning, I have some feeling!"
Zuo Qiucai's mother nodded and said, "That's good! You read a lot more books than me. You should also know more about the benefits of breastfeeding than me, so I won't say more. You Now that you have feelings, don't do anything to urge you to "milk" anymore, wait for your baby to take a breath, and you should be able to come down!"
Gong Jin nodded.
Their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law talked like no one else, but it made the people standing next to them feel embarrassed. The three girls Zhang Bingjie, Ge Jiazi, and Dang Qiudee were better, their faces flushed; Du Liu and Zuo Qiucai’s father coughed together, Du Liu said: “There’s nothing wrong here, then I Go out and smoke a cigarette with Brother Zuoqiu!"
The morning passed so peacefully. After lunch, Gong Jin's body has almost recovered, and she can get out of bed and walk there; the feeling of rising "milk" is also more obvious, but Zuo Qiucai's mother said that the time is not yet, although Du Xiao also cried during the period. Two times, Zuo Qiucai's mother coaxed him with white water.
In the afternoon, Father Dang and Ge Liang came to the hospital and visited Gong Jin. Then they were friends and classmates of Zuo Qiucai who got the news. Finally, after the rest of the sleep, the energetic Gong Jue came over. There were ten or twenty people. The very spacious high-level single ward was packed full, and everyone was chattering around Du Xiao, you said and I said, the ward was so lively.
In the end, it was the party master who took the men and boys out. Only women and girls were left in the ward. Although the atmosphere was still lively, at least it was no longer so noisy.
The old man Dang led everyone to the corridor outside the ward, and smiled and said to Du Liu: "Agou, you have someone to succeed, so I'm relieved!"
Ge Liangliang was also having fun and said with a smile: "Agou, although you don't have a son, you now have a fat grandson, walking in front of me and Abao! Du Xiao is also the first of our fourth generation. , When he makes the full moon wine, he will have a lot of fun!"
Du Liu's face was about to be cramped with a smile on this day. Up to now, he hasn't closed his eyes for more than 30 hours, but he is still vigorous and not exhausted. He smiled, rubbing his hands and said: "That's a must! But I'm not good at hosting banquets or anything, how much trouble there will be, Brother Liang, you!"
Ge Liangliang smiled and said, "The trouble is okay, but if we work hard, we won't pay!"
Du Liu curled his lips and said, "Brother Liang, you were still doing it just now. Xiaoxiao is the first of our fourth generation. He calls me grandpa, but he also has to call you grandpa! He does the full moon wine. Are you embarrassed and mean?"
Ge Liangliang laughed and said, "If you say this, I am really embarrassed and embarrassed!"
Du Liu said, "Originally! This is my happy event, but it is also everyone's happy event! If you don't mean it, I don't have any comments, but I'm afraid you don't mean it!"
Everyone laughed when he heard his somewhat slurred words.
Father Dang sat down on one of the lounge chairs, and Su Rong said, "After all, the hospital is not for a serious place. I think Xiao Jin's body is recovering well. When are you going to let her be discharged?"
Du Liu cast his eyes on Zuo Qiucai, and Zuo Qiu hurriedly said: "I also told Xiaojin and my mother about this. They all said that it is not convenient to be at home in the hospital after all! I also want to let them go home as soon as possible. , It’s just that my small nest is not big. We lived in a few before and can make do with it. Now that Xiaoxiao is here, my mother has also come over, and when we go back together, it looks crowded!"
The old man nodded and said, "Yes! Xiaojin's confinement is very important. Your little house is inconvenient for people to come and go in this month!"
Du Liu said: "Or else! My house in the west of the city is usually empty. I will let people clean up and let Xiao Jin and the others live there first!"
Zuo Qiu said, "This is also possible! However, your villa, Uncle Du, is a bit far from the city. Will it be inconvenient in the future?"
Du Liu knew that Zuoqiu’s current career focus was in the north of the city, and they were used to living in the north of the city. It was normal that they did not want to go to the west of the city. Moreover, Du Liu’s villa in the west of the city, based on its geographical location, no longer It belongs to the green city area, but it is divided into Xingyang, a suburban county. The distance from the urban area is indeed too far. Although it is secluded and beneficial for Gong Jin to recuperate, it will be inconvenient in the future. After living in, naturally there is no intention to let them move out!
Du Liuyi was also quite embarrassed. He hadn't considered so much before, but now that the matter is about to come, he can't think of a good solution for a while.
Ge Liangliang opened his mouth and wanted to give his villa out to Zuoqiu for the time being, but after thinking about it, he didn't say anything. He also considered the same as Du Liu. Based on their current relationship with Zuoqiu, if Zuoqiu were allowed to move into their property, it would naturally be difficult to open his mouth before sending Zuoqiu and the others out! He didn't speak, not because he felt sorry for his villa, but based on his judgment, even if he spoke, Zuo Qiu wouldn't listen to him, so there is no need to spend more talk!
With their current relationship, it doesn't matter whether they do or not.
Father Dang said: "There are also many empty rooms in my place. Let Xiaojin and the others live in. It's convenient. It's better to let Xiaojin spend her confinement with me. During this month, you can find another big room nearby. The house I ordered, let’s move in when the time comes!"
When the father of the party spoke, Du Liu and Zuoqiu naturally bowed their heads to their orders, not only to show respect for his old man, but also the best expedient measure for now.
Here it is agreed that the old man will no longer stay in the hospital. He will go back first and let people clean up the room so that Xiaojin and the others can live in after they are discharged. Ge Liangliang and Qi Kai went with him.
Zuo Qiu returned to the ward and told his mother and Gong Jin about the matter. Gong Jin had no objection to this arrangement. After such a long time, she had already understood the relationship between Zuo Qiu and the father of the party. Quite profoundly, knowing that the Dang old man didn't treat them as outsiders, he didn't need to say to Zuo Qiu, to Zhang Bingjie and himself, it was the same as Dang Qiudie, who treated them as his granddaughter. Zuo Qiucai's mother was still hesitating. She had no doubts about the size of Zuo Qiucai's nest. As a family living in, although it was a bit crowded, wouldn't it be more affectionate! However, under Zuo Qiucai's persuasion, he didn't say much about this decision.
When Mr. Dang came home, he let someone clean out the empty room. Father Dang’s villa has three floors, with eight rooms on the top and bottom. Two of them are on the first floor and are occupied by Qi Kai and the family’s nanny. On the second floor, there are four. One is Dang’s bedroom, one is a study, and the other Two rooms were empty; three on the third floor, one of Dang Qiudie's, and the other two were also empty.
On the second floor, the father of Dang lived, so he arranged Gong Jin’s room on the third floor. There were two rooms, one of which belonged to Gong Jin, and the other for Zuo Qiucai’s parents. Naturally, Dang Qiudie I have to move back from Zuo Qiucai’s nest and be neighbors with them; the two rooms on the second floor have also been cleaned up so that Zuo Qiu can live in. As for Zuo Qiucai's small nest, let's leave it empty.
The old man was tidying up here. Qi Kai called Du Liu, and Du Liu went through the discharge procedures for Gong Jin. Although it is still midsummer and the temperature is not low, at this time, the sun is setting and the breeze is blowing again. So when Gong Jin and Du Xiao came out, they were all wrapped up tightly.
When everyone came to the villa of the old man of Chengbei Party, Gong Jin was directly sent to the third floor. In the next month, her activity location will be restricted to this house. Du Xiao was also picked up. Just after changing the environment, he started crying again. Zuo Qiucai's mother determined that he was hungry this time, and let Gong Jin feed him "milk".
The others, Zhang Bingjie, Ge Jiazi, and Dang Qiudee, as well as Ji Xiujuan and Sun Xinxin, accompanied Zuo Qiucai’s mother to settle Gong Jin and Du Xiao; Du Liu and Zuo Qiucai’s father , Zuo Qiucai, Pang Chongbin, Zhou Ziyang, Qian Zhao, Zhang Kaixiang, Cao Yinghao, Wang Zhaonan and others stayed on the first floor, sitting with the party father, Ge Liangliang, Qi Kai and others, chatting gossip.