Teacher Xu has some headaches. She knows that it is not easy to be a teacher now, especially when she encounters the configuration of bear children + bear parents. Why do bear children appear? Most of the reason is that parents do not teach their children well.
From the words of Jin Luan's mother, she can roughly see how Jin Luan's mother usually manages her children. She would feel that when Jin Luan cried, she was forced by Miaomiao, and she felt that as long as the child cried, it must have been wronged. In this case, the child usually did something wrong, and in order to avoid responsibility, he cried a lot. Just like nothing happened.
I have developed such a habit at home all the year round, thinking that I will be fine if I cry, so how about when I go outside
The family let her, why should others let her
"Mother Jin Luan, no matter how well-behaved your child is at home, the answer is a fact that she wiped her classmate's homework. If you have to think it's a joke, then I can't help it, but as a teacher, I don't think she What's so funny about this kind of joke, and have you ever thought about why the classmates ignore Jin Luan now?"
"Why?" Jin Luan's mother asked angrily.
"Because when the children quarreled before, Jin Luan never admitted that he wiped the child's homework, and said that the child slandered her. If she admits it and says she is joking, apologize, no child will alienate her. , but not only did she not admit it, but she slandered the other party in turn, do you really think this is an ordinary joke?" Teacher Xu frowned.
"Even if the child does something wrong, the school is the place to educate the child, shouldn't it be a chance for the child to rehabilitate?" Jin Luan's mother realized that what she said was unreasonable, so she continued to entangle from a different angle.
"We didn't deny the child a chance. I didn't even call the parents about Jin Luan, just because the child was still young. After this incident happened, she knew she was wrong and will change it herself. Today is your initiative. Yes. Didn't the school already give them a chance? The ones who didn't give them a chance were the children in the class."
"Then your teacher is just letting my children be excluded from the class? This is cold violence. What's the difference between it and school violence?"
Teacher Xu said with a smile: "The school will teach children cultural courses, as well as ideology and morality. If there are any problems with children's thoughts, we as teachers will try to correct them. If it is school violence, we will also stop it, but it will be cold. No one can do anything about violence. Can I still tell the classmates in the class to let them all play with Jin Luan? I think children's social skills are not within the scope of the primary school teacher's education. "
The arguments in the office were louder, and all the students in the classroom could hear them.
Miaomiao sat in the seat, a little worried in her heart. She knew that Jin Luan came with her mother today, and she knew that she did nothing wrong, but listening to the quarrel over there, she always felt a little uneasy, and she couldn't study for a while.
Some of the classmates were also discussing in a low voice.
After changing positions, Ye Lu was sitting in front of Miaomiao, Ye Lu turned around and said quietly, "The teacher is making a lot of noise, is it what Jin Luan did last time and was called the parent? ?"
"It shouldn't be, it's been a month." Miaomiao shook her head. If she called her parents, she must have called her after something happened.
At that time, Teacher Xu's attitude was very obvious. Although this matter was bad, it was not enough to ask the school to warn him and give Jin Luan a chance, so he didn't call the parents.
Miaomiao was a little unconvinced at first, why she had to hide for Jin Luan when she suffered grievances. Later, the elder sister of the system said that this is the case in elementary schools now, as long as things are not too extreme, such as slandering classmates for cheating in exams, etc. It is not a serious matter at all to erase the answers from the homework book.
What really needs to be managed is that after Jin Luan wiped off Miaomiao's homework answers, he still refused to admit that it was Miaomiao who slandered her.
Ye Lu said cautiously: "Actually, we all heard what you said at Teacher Xu's that day. We were at the door of the office at the time. When we went back, everyone was curious about what was going on, so we said it. Then we went home. We also told Mom and Dad, Mom and Dad said, let's not play with Jin Luan, saying she is a bad boy."
Miaomiao was curious: "So you don't play with her?"
Ye Lu nodded his head, "I'm sorry, Miaomiao. Actually, when we jumped the rubber band, we saw Jin Luan cry. We really thought you were bullying her. So we all stood by her. But later we found out that it was her. Wrong, we still thought that everyone was classmates, even if Mom and Dad said don't play with her, it's okay to jump the rubber band, as long as you don't give her the homework book."
"But... You don't know. After she changed positions, she also said that Teacher Xu knew that you had done something wrong and worried that she would be wronged, so she changed her position. We all know the truth, and we think she is too scary. , I don't know what I did wrong at all, and I thought it was a good concealment."
When Miaomiao heard that Jin Luan was still slandering herself after the incident, she blushed with anger, "No wonder you all ignored her."
Qin Yu was also a little angry when he heard it. "Fortunately, there were other little friends listening at the door of the office. Otherwise, if she said that, everyone else would have misunderstood Miaomiao."
Miaomiao quickly nodded her head, which is fortunate.
After that, even if someone took the initiative to ask, she didn't go into details, only vaguely said, just thinking of giving Jin Luan a chance to know her mistake, who knows that people don't want this opportunity at all.
"The teacher is here." The girl sitting in front of Qin Yu pulled Ye Lu's sleeve, Ye Lu quickly turned back and pretended to read carefully.
Jin Luan took her mother's hand. After entering the classroom, she was about to go back to her seat when Jin Luan's mother asked, "Xiaoluan, tell my mother, who is bullying you?"
When Teacher Xu heard this, he frowned, "Mother Jin Luan, this matter has passed, please don't mention it again."
Jin Luan's mother ignored Teacher Xu and only looked at Jin Luan. Jin Luan pointed to Miaomiao over there and said, "It's the girl in the white down jacket."
In that piece, there was only one girl wearing a white down jacket, Miaomiao.
Miaomiao looked towards Jin Luan, her eyes extremely innocent. What is this for
Jin Luan's mother looked at Miaomiao, immediately walked in front of Miaomiao, looked at her condescendingly, and said, "It's you who bullied my daughter? At such a young age, he instigated others to use cold violence against his classmates. He's also a gangster who is violent to other children in school. Didn't your mother teach you well? What kind of upbringing is this in your family?"
Jin Luan's mother thinks she is an adult. As long as she acts arrogant, she can scare children. Children of this age are generally timid. Fan, this child will definitely not dare to bully her daughter in the future.
After that, her family will be the same as before when her family is still in the school, and there is no need to transfer schools.
When Miaomiao heard it, there were still some who didn't respond.
The elder sister of the system said: "Miaomiao, cry! Say you are looking for your mother, and tell Teacher Xu to let your mother come! This person is bullying you! He is still scolding your mother!"
Miaomiao always listened to Sister System's words. As soon as Sister System said it, she immediately cried with a "wow", "Mr. Xu, she scolded me! Help me call my mother! She bullied me! I want my mother!"
snort! Is it only Jin Luan who has a mother! I have it too!
Although my mother is very gentle, she will definitely not watch me being bullied!
Teacher Xu had a headache, and then gave Jin Luan's mother a pitying look. No matter what the fighting strength of the child's parents is, Miaomiao is the child who the principal personally ordered to take good care of. It must be a powerful family in the family. Bullying such a child, I am afraid that there will be no good end.
Jin Luan's mother saw Miaomiao cry at first, and thought that her deterrence had played a role. Then she heard that she wanted her mother to come over, and she was a little flustered. Then she thought that this child instigated others to use cold violence against her precious daughter, right It is their side, and they have no fear at the moment.
Because other children had to study, Teacher Xu asked Miaomiao to follow him to the office first.
Qin Yu was worried that Miaomiao was afraid, so he followed directly, and Teacher Xu didn't say anything.
Miaomiao was still crying in the office, Qin Yu took out a handkerchief to wipe her tears, "Miaomiao, don't cry, it will hurt your eyes, so it won't look good."
Miaomiao didn't look good when she heard it, so she didn't dare to cry immediately, but she cried hard before, but now she's still choking, looking extremely aggrieved.
Qin Yu carefully wiped away her tears.
"I said Mr. Xu, these two children may be suspected of having puppy love? This is the first grade, so they are in puppy love. Your school accepts such bad children? Is it not allowed to have puppy love in the school rules? Punishment?" Jin Luan's mother said.
Aware of Jin Luan's mother's malicious intent, Mr. Xu became impatient to deal with the parent, and said, "The child is only in the first grade of primary school. It's fine for boys and girls who have a better relationship to play together, let alone the two of them are at the same table. Speaking of puppy love. , Jin Luan's mother may not know the reason why Jin Luan erased Miaomiao's homework answer."
Teacher Xu thought of what she had heard before, and gave Jin Luan a strange look, "Jin Luan, you didn't tell your mother why did you erase Miaomiao's homework answers?"
"Why? Isn't it just a joke between children?" Jin Luan's mother snorted coldly.
"It's not a joke!" Miaomiao stood up immediately and said, "She was targeting me because I ignored her at the same table and only played with me! She told me that day that she didn't do her homework and was worried about being scolded by the teacher. I didn't want to borrow her homework to copy it at first, she said it was the one time I borrowed it, but she finished copying my homework and wiped my answer!"
"Mr. Xu thought I didn't do my homework, so I went to her, and she said that I slandered her!" Miaomiao thought about what happened that time, and now that she was told by Jin Luan's mother, she felt even more wronged.
She did nothing wrong at all, why should she be scolded by QAQ!
She wants to tell mom and dad hum!
When Jin Luan's mother heard the phrase "she ignored her because I was at the same table", she glanced at Qin Yu.
Qin Yu was white and clean. After losing weight in kindergarten, he was still a lot fatter than the average child. His face was chubby, and he lost a little bit of weight in the past two years.
Although he knows that Miaomiao likes fat children and finds it cute, but because he usually has regular dance lessons, his cheeks are still slightly less fleshy in the past two years.
But just such a tweet made him a little meatier than the average children of the same grade, and he looked cuter.
His facial features were originally born well. His eyes were inherited from his mother's peach blossom eyes. It was not obvious when he was a child, but now he can see it a little. Very nice, pink and tender. Can be said to be a cute beautiful young man.
Otherwise, when he just lost weight and was fatter than other children, Teacher Chen wouldn't think he was cute and chose him.
Qin Yu was still very brave at first, but being stared at like this by women, especially adult women, made him think of Teacher Chen, and now he was a little scared.
He hates unfamiliar adult women staring at him all the time, and he can't help but wonder, is this person trying to do something to him like Teacher Chen back then
Miaomiao sensed Qin Yu's fear, so she took the initiative to stand in front of him, raised her head and said, "My tablemate is afraid of girls, don't stare at him, the girls in the class are only afraid of me, Jin Luan. I wanted to play with him, but was rejected, so I wiped my homework answers!"
Children who are not yet enlightened may not realize what this is, but as adults, they can already understand what it means.
Jin Luan may like Qin Yu a little, so he wants to get close to Qin Yu, but Qin Yu only plays with Miaomiao, a girl, as if Miaomiao is special to Qin Yu, maybe Qin Yu also likes Miaomiao, so Jin Luan is jealous Now, only for Miaomiao, I wiped Miaomiao's answer.
Jin Luan's mother looked down at her child in disbelief, but Jin Luan was young and shorter than adults. When she didn't look up, she couldn't see her child's expression at all, she could only see her staring at the opposite. of two children.
Is her daughter in love
Many children nowadays are relatively precocious, and some may not even know what puppy love is at all, but they just think that the other party is good-looking and likes a little bit, but they don’t understand what it means. They just want to attract the other party’s attention and want to be with the other party. Just playing together will also have an inexplicable possessiveness towards each other.
It may not be called the relationship between men and women, it is just a good feeling, but this is indeed a sign of puppy love.
There was a deadlock in the office all of a sudden. Fu Rou came faster. As soon as she got the call, she asked the driver to take her there.
Usually it only takes 20 minutes to drive from home. In addition, it is not rush hour for work, and the road is very empty. Fu Rou is impatient and asks the driver to drive faster, and it will be there in 15 minutes.
She hurried to the door of the teacher's office, knocked on the door first, and then came in.
When Jin Luan's mother saw Fu Rou, she felt a little jealous.
Fu Rou is almost thirty-three this year, but she has been eating and dressing well since she was a child, and she also pays more attention to maintenance. She also does yoga and other exercises every day, so that she looks very young, but now she only looks like a Early twenties.
Her dress is low-key, but this low-key is only relative to the wealthy and noble wife. For ordinary people, it can still let people see her extraordinary status at a glance.
After Fu Rou came in, she didn't even look at Jin Luan's mother and daughter, she went straight to Miaomiao, looked Miaomiao up and down, and then looked at Qin Yu again. She was sure that the two children were not hurt, so she was relieved. down.
It's just that Miaomiao seems to have cried.
She looked at Teacher Xu, "Mr. Xu, what's going on?"
Teacher Xu explained, and then Fu Rou looked at Jin Luan's mother, "So this lady called my daughter uneducated, why? Isn't it because you didn't teach your children well and let them bully your classmates? No matter how you look at it, no Those who are raised should not be our children, right?"
Fu Rou didn't directly say that the other party's family was uneducated, but everyone understood the meaning inside and outside the words.
"What do you mean? Do you mean that our family is uneducated? Our children have already admitted their mistakes, but your children have never let go of this matter. They have brought their classmates to crowd out my children. Now my children have no one in the class. I played with her, she used cold violence to my children, my daughter is in the first grade of elementary school, she is so fragile, she told me that she was going to transfer!"
Fu Rou looked down at Miaomiao, "Baby, explain to Auntie, you haven't done it before."
Fu Rou is very confident in her little baby. If Miaomiao had such an IQ to be cold and violent to her classmates, she would not have hurried over when Teacher Xu said that she was bullied and cried in school.
Miaomiao was moved by her mother's belief in herself, she raised her head and explained seriously, "I didn't tell my classmates not to play with Jin Luan, when I was talking in Teacher Xu's office that day, other little friends were at the door of the office, and they all listened to them. It happened. But then the teacher changed positions for Jin Luan, Jin Luan chatted with other little friends, and said that I slandered her, and Teacher Xu found a mistake. Teacher Xu was worried that I would continue to bully her, so she gave her changed positions."
"Other little friends know the truth and feel that she has done something wrong and has not changed it, so they don't play with him."
Miaomiao and Qin Yu only knew about this matter, let alone Teacher Xu, Jin Luan's mother and daughter, and Fu Rou.
Jin Luan herself only found out about it now. She is still wondering. Not long after the incident, there were still people playing with her, but then there was no one else. It turned out that others knew the truth long ago, but she thought everyone They are all stupid, it's Miaomiao's fault to make things up.
Jin Luan's mother couldn't believe it, and then Miaomiao looked at Teacher Xu and said, "Ye Lu told me that at the beginning, because they heard us talking, they knew the whole process, and they went home and told their parents, Their parents told them not to play with Jin Luan. But they felt that Jin Luan could change things that he did wrong, and they wanted to play with Jin Luan, but later found that Jin Luan not only didn't change, but also slandered me, and they didn't know what was wrong. I didn't play with Jin Luan."
Fu Rou's face suddenly sank, "That is to say, this lady, your daughter wiped my daughter's homework answers, and said that my daughter slandered her, and apologized in front of the teacher, pretended to know that she was wrong, and walked out of the office. It's said everywhere that my daughter is slandering her?"
Fu Rou is really curious, what kind of education can teach children like this
"It's impossible, she must be lying! Our children won't do this!" Jin Luan's mother shook her head in disbelief.
Miaomiao didn't care whether she believed it or not, and said, "Anyway, this is what my classmate told me. It doesn't matter if you believe it or not, but after that incident, I didn't want to pay any attention to her, and I was too lazy to let my classmate not play with her. All of my classmates know that I have the best relationship with my tablemates, and I am just jumping the rubber band with the girls in gym class, and if I ask them not to play with Jinluan, they will not listen to me at all!"
Fu Rou looked at Jin Luan and saw that she didn't seem to have reacted yet, and said, "I didn't care how your family taught the children, but this matter involves my daughter and affects my children. study. If your child wants to transfer school, hurry up, don’t delay other children.”
"Why is my daughter transferring and not your daughter transferring?" Jin Luan's mother said angrily. How troublesome it is to transfer schools, there are a lot of formalities to go through, and a good school does not mean that you can transfer if you want to. You have to find out why your child is transferring with the original school. What if they don’t accept it
Fu Rou gave her a thoughtful look and said, "It doesn't matter if you don't transfer schools, as long as you don't disturb my children's studies."
When Jin Luan's mother heard this, she thought that Fu Rou decided not to pursue this matter, and she did not dare to confirm whether what Miaomiao said was true or not, because she already had the answer in her heart. After all, her daughter can do this kind of thing and bite the other side back, even if she admits her mistake on the surface and reverses black and white, it is estimated that she can do it. If other children come to testify and prove that what Miaomiao said is true, then she really loses her old face.
Originally, Jin Luan's mother thought that this matter should be over like this. However, when she went to work in the company in the afternoon two days later, she found that people looked at her strangely.
She asked a female colleague who had a good relationship in the past to inquire about the situation, and only then did she find out about her daughter. It was rumored that the whole company knew about it. And the things she knew were very detailed, from Jin Luan rubbing off the answers of her classmates' homework, and biting back and saying that her classmates slandered her, to her admitting mistakes in the office, but telling other children that it was the other party's fault when she left the office. And their mother and daughter went to school to make trouble...
It is said that this incident will spread to the company because a colleague in the company is the parent of Jin Luan's classmate...
It was a big mess. Originally, this matter should only be a matter of child discipline and would not affect an adult's work, but the company was talking about gossip, so that the employees were not in the mood to work. As long as Jin Luan's mother appeared in Within the company, discussions would arouse, and in the end the company decided to let her go home for a period of rest, take care of her family affairs, and come back to work.
This rest period of time, did not say how long. Anyway, when Jin Luan's mother left the company to go home to rest, her job was replaced by a new one.
Miaomiao didn't know about this in the school, she only found that Jin Luan looked at her more and more wrong. She used to pretend, but now she looks at her with malicious eyes.
Jin Luan was originally a better-off child in the class. Although he was not as good as Miaomiao who wore new clothes every day, he would wear a new dress every few days, but now it seems that he hasn't worn new clothes for a long time.
Ye Lu whispered to Miaomiao while dancing the rubber band: "Last time she was still pretending to be pitiful, saying that her mother lost her job, and now her father is working at home, so she won't be able to buy her too many new clothes in the future."
Miaomiao was a little puzzled: "Why can't I buy too many new clothes when only my father works at home?"
In their family, only the father works, and the mother seems to never go out to work, but her new clothes can never be worn, so that she rarely wears clothes twice.
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