"Shengming, do you really think I'm wrong?" Seeing Gu Shengming's hesitant expression, Song Yanting repeated what he said just now, "If you have anything to say, you might as well just say it."
This is Song Yanting's housework. Gu Shengming never likes to meddle in other people's housework, but since Song Yanting asked this question, there are people he knows on both sides, so he organized his language before speaking:
"Old Song, I don't know the specific conflict between you and your son, but if there is a problem in a family, it can't just be the fault of one party. It must be that both parties have done something wrong."
Song Yanting lowered his eyes when he heard the words: "I know I have problems too."
"Now that you realize your problem, you should correct it slowly, and let your son see your changes before he changes his attitude."
Gu Shengming gave the simplest example and said: "This is the same as doing business. If you want others to cooperate with you, you must first show your sincerity."
"But the conflict between us is too deep, and I can't control my temper when I see him."
In the past few years, Song Heran hasn't been back home, and Yu Meng has been persuading the father and son to sit down and have a good talk to resolve the conflict.
Every time he is at home, he thinks well. When he sees Song Heran, he must have a calm mind. No matter what the other party says, he can't get angry, but every time he can't say three words, he will confront him.
Song Heran can always stimulate his bottom line with ease, and the anger he provokes makes him unable to bear it.
A week ago, he and Yu Meng went to find Song Heran. In the downstairs car, he had talked well with Yu Meng, and he would not lose his temper after getting up.
But when he really arrived at the scene, he seemed out of control, unable to control his temper.
When he got out of Song Heran's house and returned to the car, he regretted it. He felt that he shouldn't have lost his temper with his son, but his self-esteem couldn't make him bow his head and apologize to his younger generation.
Gu Shengming heard Song Yanting's words and said: "Conflicts are not formed overnight, so don't worry about changing them slowly."
"As for your temper, it's really hard for me to imagine that you have a bad temper with your son, because I've seen you have a good temper and treat En Yu very well, and En Yu often talks about you at home. "
"Since you are so good to other people's children, why can't you share some patience with your own children?"
Gu Shengming has seen a lot of news and heard many stories from his friends. Many people are very nice to friends, colleagues, and even strangers outside, humble, polite and helpful, but at home they compete with their family members like enemies.
Gu Shengming simply couldn't understand these behaviors. Isn't this putting the cart before the horse
He didn't expect that his good friend Song Yanting also had such family conflicts. He said earnestly, "Old Song, don't you bring money with you when you die, and you can make money if you don't have it. Friends are just passers-by in our life journey. Family members are the most important people in this world, and you should show your good temper and patience to your family members the most."
When Song Yanting heard these words, the hand holding the wine glass trembled, and the emotions in his eyes were very complicated.
Gu Shengming didn't know what Song Yanting was thinking at the moment, but he hoped that what he said today would impress Song Yanting and get out of the misunderstanding as soon as possible.
Song Yanting drank the wine in the glass, he thought that since the talk has already been said, it is better to ask Gu Shengming what he should do.
Gu Shengming is also a father. Gu Enyu is lively, cute and very clingy to Gu Shengming. The relationship between father and son is very close.
Recalling Song Heran's childhood, he had never been so clinging to himself like Gu Enyu.
"Thank you Shengming for saying this to me, but now you don't go home at all, and we don't even see each other. I really don't know how to change the situation."
Gu Shengming pondered for a while, and suggested: "I think other things are secondary. If you really want to ease the relationship between your father and son, the first step is to accept his career and not object to him doing what he likes."
"this… "
He and Yu Meng only had one son, Song Heran, and he only thought that Song Heran could come back and inherit his family business.
"First of all, I have to correct you. Being an actor is a legitimate profession. He is not doing nothing. Secondly, he has achieved extremely high achievements in his field and is a leader in the industry. Lao Song, you should see your son's shining points , instead of blindly denying him.”
"this… "
Gu Shengming saw that Song Yanting just said that he wanted to change, but now he hesitated again, so he knew it was not that simple.
A person's deep-rooted cognition is difficult to reverse.
He said: "Old Song, he really likes acting. This is his hobby and his career. It took him many years of hard work to get to where he is today. Just like the current Song Group is also your hard work, I Let me ask you, if someone asks you to lose the Song Group, is it possible?"
"impossible."
"In the same way, don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, and it's the same."
Song Yanting leaned on the sofa cushion and fell into deep thought. His mind is in a mess now, and he feels that dealing with family matters is a hundred times more difficult than doing business.
He looked at Gu Shengming, and suddenly admired this friend who was several years younger than him. He really had aged for nothing, and his life has been a mess so far.
Perhaps it was because he didn't grow up in a correct and healthy environment since he was a child, so he couldn't raise his offspring properly, which led to today's situation.
Song Yanting opened his mouth to continue learning from Gu Shengming, but at this time Gu Enyu ran over and threw himself into Gu Shengming's arms.
Gu Shengming picked up Gu Enyu and sat on his lap.
"Son, why are you running so fast and reckless, and you're not afraid of bumping into people." Gu Shengming tilted his head to look at his son, and found that he was a little unhappy, and asked again: "What's the matter, you have a drooping face?"
Gu Enyu sat on his father and complained to him very dissatisfied, "Sister Lulu won't be with me anymore, she has a new friend, so she won't play with me anymore."
When Gu Enyu said this, his tone was very aggrieved.
Gu Shengming comforted: "How could it be? Sister Lulu regards you as her best friend."
"Really, if you don't believe me, Dad, come and see with me."
While speaking, Gu Enyu got off Gu Shengming's knee, and pulled Gu Shengming to go to the scene to verify.
Gu Shengming looked at Song Yanting, he had already said what he was supposed to say today, and it was up to Song Yanting himself what to do in the future.
Song Yanting is a smart person, I hope he can figure out the real way for father and son to get along.
"Old Song, En Yu and I went over to check the situation. I hope you can think about what I just said, and learn more about it."
"Well, good, thank you."
"Dad, hurry up, do you know that I am very sad and angry now!"
Gu Enyu anxiously dragged his slow-moving father forward. He was really unhappy when he thought that sister Lulu would stop playing with him.
Gu Shengming hurriedly followed up, and said as he walked, "Okay, okay, isn't Dad here? Why are you in a hurry."
Song Yanting looked at the father and son who were going away, with a hint of envy in his eyes.
After Gu Shengming left, Yu Meng came to Song Yanting's side. She found that Song Yanting's expression was not right, and immediately asked with concern: "Yanting, what's wrong?"
Song Yanting looked at his wife and said, "Maybe I really did something wrong."
"What's wrong, Iwawa what are you talking about?"
Yu Meng was startled by Song Yanting's nonsensical words, thinking that there was a problem with the decision-making in the business field.
"For impressively."
When her husband mentioned her son's name, Yu Meng's mood also changed. She sighed and said, "I'm not wrong."
Both she and Song Yanting owed her son too much, and when she realized this, it was too late, his son's wings had already grown hard, and they could no longer reach him when he flew far away.
In the past two years, she has been persuading the father and son to reconcile, but the temper of the father and son is exactly the same, a stubborn temper that can't be brought back by nine cows, no one is willing to bow their heads and no one is willing to give in, no one thinks they are right .
As a result, the situation became worse and worse, and the relationship between father and son became more and more rigid.
Unexpectedly, Song Yanting could now take the initiative to realize his mistake, which made Yu Meng see the hope of reconciliation between father and son.
Song Yanting looked at Yu Meng, stretched out his hand to hold Yu Meng's hand tightly, and after some ideological struggle, asked, "Is it too late to change now?"
When Yu Meng heard this, she was both surprised and happy, and she replied: "Of course, of course there is time."
On this side, through a conversation with Gu Shengming, Song Yanting realized his mistake and began to reflect on himself.
On the other side, Gu Shengming, who was dragged to the fifth floor by Gu Enyu to uphold justice, watched Lulu lying on the ground playing puzzles with a group of children.
"This is not spelled here, here are cat ears, do you have cat ears?"
After hearing Lulu's words, everyone checked the jigsaw puzzles in their hands to see if there was any pattern that Lulu needed.
"The cat ears are here!"
"That's great, let's put it in! We've done a little bit more, and we're great!"
Lulu played very hard, and didn't notice the existence of Gu Shengming and Gu Enyu at all.
Gu Enyu tugged at his father's sleeve and said, "Look, Dad, sister Lulu won't play with me anymore."
Lu Lu is the youngest among this group of children, but she has a very high affinity and makes everyone like to play with her.
But Gu Shengming knows Lu Lu's character. She is not the kind of child who forgets old friends after making new ones. There must be a reason for this.
Gu Shengming touched the back of his son's head and asked, "Did Lulu not let you play with her?"
"no."
"Then why don't you play puzzles with Sister Lulu?"
"I don't like playing puzzles." Gu Enyu said so, but what he thought in his heart was that he didn't want to play puzzles with so many people.
"Then what do you want to play?"
"I want to play Transformers, but sister Lulu won't play with me."
Gu Enyu felt that he was wronged, he was willing to play Barbie dolls with Sister Lulu, but Sister Lulu did not play Transformers with him, but played puzzles with this group of new acquaintances.
After listening to it, Gu Shengming understood that his son was playing with his temper.
He said: "Dad thinks that sister Lulu can't be blamed for this incident. Transformers are toys that boys like to play with. Lulu may not be interested in Transformers. You can't ask sister Lulu to play with toys that she doesn't like. Yeah, right."
"But… "
Gu Enyu knew that what his father said was right, but he was still unhappy. Seeing Sister Lulu playing so happily with others, he felt that he was no longer Sister Lulu's best friend.
Gu Shengming saw through his son's thoughts, and he comforted him: "Okay, don't worry, you are still a good friend of Sister Lulu, if you don't believe me, let's ask Sister Lulu if she is okay."
"Lulu." Gu Shengming shouted.
Hearing the shout, Lu Lu turned his head, and after seeing Gu Shengming, he immediately called out with a sweet smile, "Uncle Gu."
Lu Lu is very sensitive to people's emotions, and she immediately noticed that Brother En Yu, who was standing next to Uncle Gu, seemed a little depressed.
Lu Lu immediately put down the puzzle in his hand, got up from the carpet, walked up to Gu Enyu, and asked, "Brother Enyu, why are you unhappy?"
"Lulu, uncle asks you, is Brother Enyu your best friend?"
"Of course, brother Enyu will always be Lulu's best friend."
Hearing this, Gu Shengming patted his afraid son on the back, and said, "Did you hear me?"
When Lu Lu heard Uncle Gu's words, he looked at Brother Enyu again. Brother Enyu, who was a little disappointed just now, is much better now.
She thought about it, is it because she was playing with her new friends just now, instead of playing with brother Enyu, brother Enyu was unhappy.
Lu Lu thought for a while, and felt that this must be the reason.
Because she saw that brother Enyu didn't play well with other little girls, she would be a little unhappy.
So Lu Lu immediately went back and said to the friends who had just played together: "Brothers and sisters, Lulu doesn't want to play puzzles now, you can play by yourself, I will leave the cat puzzle to you! Be sure to complete it. "
"Lulu, what are you going to do?"
Lu Lu smiled, touched his belly, and said, "This is a secret, I won't tell you."
After finishing speaking, Lu Lu ran back to En Yu's side, took Gu En Yu's little hand, and whispered in his ear: "Brother En Yu, I'm a little hungry, do you want to eat small cakes with me?"
There are all kinds of small cakes in the middle of the hall on the first floor, and you can eat whatever you want, but she was full before, so she could only look at those small cakes and held back a bite.
Now that she is hungry, she can eat.
Seeing that Lu Lu stopped playing puzzles with everyone, Gu Enyu was very happy.
In fact, it doesn't matter whether he plays Transformers or not, he just doesn't want someone to replace him in Sister Lulu's heart, and wants to play alone with Sister Lulu.
So when Lu Lu asked him if he wanted to eat small cakes with her, Gu Enyu agreed without thinking.
"Okay, okay, let's go together."
The two children walked into the elevator holding hands. Gu Shengming followed behind and just wanted to go in when the elevator door closed.
Gu Shengming, who had been shut down, felt angry and funny, but he was more envious of the pure friendship and emotions between the children.
It's nice to have nothing real to bother you.
Lu Lu was only a little hungry at first, but as soon as the elevator door opened, the sweet smell that hit her directly aroused the little glutton in her stomach, and even made her stomach growl.
"Wow, so many beautiful cakes!"
Lu Lu looked at the golden cake stand and began to drool. Gu Enyu helped Lu Lu get a small plate, and he asked, "Sister Lulu, which one do you want to eat, I'll get it for you."
All the cakes are very cute and beautiful. There is nothing Lu Lu doesn't like, and he wants them all.
But Lu Lu knew that food should not be wasted, and should be eaten as much as possible.
After some difficult choices, she finally chose a piece of her favorite strawberry cake.
She took a small spoon, took the cake to the side table to eat slowly, and Gu Enyu took a cup and poured a cup of Coke for Lu Lu.
Lu Lu has never drank Coke since she was so old. She looked at the pitch-black water that was still bubbling and asked, "Brother Enyu, what is this?"
"Happy fat house water, super delicious."
"Really? But it doesn't look good."
"Really, Lulu, give it a try, I won't lie to you." Gu Enyu patted his chest and promised.
Children are very curious about all the new things they have never been in contact with. Lu Lu's interest was aroused by this so-called happy fat house water. She hurriedly took the fat house water from Gu Enyu's hand, and greedily took a sip.
Coke has gas, and the first sip is often the most stimulating. Many people love Coke, and they love the first sip of it the most. They think it will feel refreshing after drinking it.
But Lu Lu didn't feel good at all, she felt like a small needle was pricking her tongue when she drank the drink, and she even choked on the cola.
Lu Lu coughed several times before recovering. After she recovered, she pushed away the happy fat house water and said with disgust, "I don't want to drink this."
After she finished speaking, she ran to the drink area, asked the waitress to bring her another cup, and poured another peach-flavored drink.
Lu Lu who brought the drink couldn't wait to take a sip.
Sweet and delicious.
Just when Lu Lu happily wanted to go back and show off to Brother Enyu that her new drink was much better than Happy Fat House Water, she saw the two big villains who bullied her brother again.
Those two big villains bullied my brother so much that day, they made him cry.
Lu Lu felt that he had to avenge his brother, and he couldn't easily let these two villains go.
Lu Lu hurried over and stopped in front of Song Yanting.
Song Yanting, who was talking with his friend, saw the little devil suddenly appearing in front of him, he gestured to his friend, and then the friend left, leaving him and Lu Lu staring at each other.
"What's the matter, kid Lu Lu?"
Song Yanting already knew about Lu Lu's existence in the news, and also knew that she was living in Song Heran's house now.
"Big villain!" Lu Lu shouted every word.
Hearing the word "big villain", Song Yanting chuckled lightly, leaned closer and asked, "What? Your brother told you that I'm a big villain?"
Sure enough, Song Heran didn't have a good word for his father behind his back.
Song Yanting thought this subconsciously, but he didn't expect Lu Lu to deny it in the next second.
Lu Lu said angrily: "No, my brother won't speak ill of people behind their backs! It's wrong to speak ill of others behind their backs, and it's wrong for you to doubt others like this, big villain."
This person is indeed a big villain. At this time, he still feels that his brother is the kind of person who speaks ill of others behind his back.
Song Yanting didn't expect that he was in his early forties, and today he was told by a three-year-old girl.
The point is that what the little girl said was not wrong, he subconsciously felt that his son would scold him and blame him in front of outsiders.
But in fact it didn't.
Lu Lu's denial made him a narrow-minded father.
Actually isn't he
If it was before, Song Yanting would never admit it, but now Song Yanting thinks that he may really be a narrow-minded father who can't trust his son and always puts him on the opposite side.
Song Yanting had mixed feelings in his heart. He approached Lu Lu and asked patiently, "Then why do you think Uncle is a big villain?"
After Lu Lu heard this, he felt that this uncle was not only a big villain, but also a big fool.
"You were so fierce to my brother that day, I saw it all, and you bullied my brother to tears, what is it if you are not a big villain?"
She saw her brother crying in the room for a long time, but she was very sad. She had known her brother for so long, but she had never seen him cry.
"What? He cried?"
When Song Yanting heard this, his heart trembled, and his feelings were even greater than what Gu Shengming said to him just now.
He always thought that Song Heran had never put him and Yu Meng in his eyes, that he was determined not to recognize their parents, that every time after a bad breakup, he was the only one who felt sad, Song Heran's bad temper No heart at all.
But he actually cried...
With that kid's bad temper, even if the sky falls on him, he won't shed a single tear, but he actually cried...
"That's right, you big villain, you made my brother cry. I want to avenge my brother!" Lu Lu looked at the tall man in front of him, and suddenly found himself in trouble.
How can she avenge her brother? It seems that I can't beat the fight.
Lu Lu thought for a while, then suddenly lowered his head and saw Song Yanting's clean and shiny leather shoes.
Every time Lu Lu puts on her freshly washed shoes, what she hates the most is when others step on and dirty her shoes.
It is bad behavior to step on other people's shoes, but this person is a big villain, and the teacher should not blame her for stepping on the shoes of a dirty big villain.
Thinking so, Lu Lu stepped on Song Yanting's shoe.
After she finished stepping on it, she looked at the footprints left on Song Yanting's black leather shoes, and said in the most fierce tone she thought: "Big villain, I warn you, you are not allowed to bully my brother in the future, or I will kill your brother next time." Both shoes are dirty, hum!"
After Lu Lu finished speaking, he made a face at Song Yanting, and quickly fled the scene of the crime.
Seeing this, someone next to him defended Song Yanting, "Whose child is this, so naughty? I have to call the parents over and take a good look at the footprints."
Song Yanting looked at the imprint on the leather shoes, and didn't feel angry at all. Instead, he felt that this little girl was very special, with an innocent and lovely personality.
He took out the handkerchief and bent down to wipe off the leather shoes, and said to the person next to him, "It's okay."
Lu Lumou ran to a corner where the big villain could not be seen before stopping.
Lu Lu, who thought she had avenged her brother, was super happy, and she wanted to tell her brother the good news immediately.
So Lu Lu hurriedly used his little genius phone watch to call his brother.
While changing her look in the dressing room and preparing to take the last set of photos, she received a call from Lu Lu.
Lu Lu's voice on the other end of the phone was extremely excited, and he looked very happy.
When Song Heran heard this cheerful voice, the corners of his mouth also rose.
He asked, "What's the matter, so excited?"
"Brother, Lu Lu is super strong today, he took revenge for his brother, it's the big bad uncle who came to the house that day, Lu Lu just trampled his shoes dirty."
Obviously he was on the phone, but Lu Lu tried his best to figure out the shape of the footprints on the shoe, as if his brother could see it.
"That's it?"
"Yes, is the deer powerful?"
Lu Lu felt that she was the bravest little girl in the world if she dared to face the big villain.
Song Heran was successfully amused by Lu Lu's innocence and cuteness. He echoed and praised: "Awesome, Lu Lu is simply the most powerful girl in the world."
Lu Lu on the other end of the phone was praised by her brother, and she smiled and said that she was even happier.
She replied with approval: "Brother, I think so too!"