Lu Lu raised his wrist and wiped his tears with his sleeve, crying very sadly.
Zhou Qixuan spoke ill of her brother, broke her and her friends' toys, and said that she would break her toys every day.
How can there be such a bad child? Obviously, Zhou Qixuan was not like this last semester. Last semester, Zhou Qixuan never bullied the children in the class, and he played well with everyone.
Lu Lu didn't know why Zhou Qixuan became like this after a long vacation, but she knew very well that she hated Zhou Qixuan very much now.
Lu Lu felt that she had done nothing wrong and was bullied. She felt very wronged, and tears fell down her face like broken pearls.
In kindergartens, children's thinking is very self-contained, and they may not respond to what they say, but their crying can achieve the effect of responding to everyone.
Teacher Liu was stunned when he saw this sudden situation.
It was just a blink of an eye, how did it become like this
I haven't encountered such a scene after a winter vacation. Teacher Liu couldn't adapt for a while, and ran over with some headaches to comfort the children immediately.
The ins and outs of the matter, Teacher Liu is still not very clear, but she knows that Lu Lu is a very thoughtful child who doesn't like to cry.
In my memory, Lu Lu cried only once after coming to the kindergarten, and that time was because the transfer student Shi Jiajia robbed her and pushed her. She felt wronged by being bullied, so she cried.
At other times, Lu Lu not only does not cry, but also helps the teacher to appease other crying children.
Such a sensible child started to cry today. Teacher Liu looked at Lu Lu's little face with red eyes and nose, and then at Zhou Qixuan, a little boy with his hips akimbo.
Experience made her immediately understand that this matter must have something to do with Zhou Qixuan.
She didn't immediately blame Zhou Qixuan and ask the ins and outs of the matter, but chose to comfort the crying children first.
The child's voice has not changed, and the voice is very sharp. When crying loudly, the voice not only upsets the noisy people, but also easily damages the vocal cords, crying badly, so they must stop immediately.
Each class is equipped with two preschool teachers, and the two tried their best to make the children stop crying.
Teacher Liu watched the children's emotions gradually stabilize, and asked another teacher to continue to comfort them, while he called Lu Lu aside.
Lu Lu is articulate, smart, and has a very strong expressive ability, so Teacher Liu decided to learn what happened from her first, and then check the surveillance video to confirm.
She likes Lu Lu very much, and through knowing Lu Lu last semester, she doesn't believe that Lu Lu will take the initiative to cause trouble.
In fact, when Zhou Qixuan saw his friends crying, not only was he indifferent, but also had a complacent expression, Mr. Liu already had the answer in his mind.
However, Zhou Qixuan was also a very obedient child in the last semester. Teacher Liu didn't want to make preconceived judgments, for fear of getting the truth wrong, wronging the children, and causing psychological harm to the children.
Lu Lu was the first to cry, but he was also the first to be coaxed by the teachers.
She looked at Teacher Liu, and after blinking her long eyelashes with tears still hanging down, she moved closer to Teacher Liu.
She knew that Teacher Liu was very kind to her, and she could definitely uphold justice for her.
Lu Lu tightly grasped Teacher Liu's finger with his small hand, and shouted aggrievedly: "Mr. Liu."
With the three words in a crying voice, Teacher Liu's heart was about to break. She stretched her arms around Lu Lu's back, and asked in a soft tone: "Lu Lu, don't be afraid, don't be afraid, the teacher is here, don't be afraid Don't be afraid."
"Yeah." Lu Lu nodded, trying to hold back the tears that wanted to come out again.
Teacher Liu felt even more distressed when she saw Lu Lu's pretending to be strong.
Other children would let out whatever emotions they had, so they would often cry and make noises, but Lu Lu was a child who knew how to control and restrain himself.
It is conceivable that Lu Lu's crying just now must have been wronged to such an extent that she could not control her emotions.
Teacher Liu wiped away Lu Lu's tears while holding a tissue, and patted her on the back comfortingly, and said, "Lu Lu, if you want to cry, you can cry, the teacher won't say anything about you."
The other children are naughty on weekdays and often cry and make noise. When they cry, Teacher Liu's reaction is to stop them in time.
For those like Lu Lu who don't cry often, she hopes that Lu Lu can let his emotions out, because children don't have the ability to self-regulate their emotions, and they can easily cause psychological problems if they don't cry or make trouble.
After Lu Lu heard Teacher Liu's words, she shook her head and said, "Lulu won't cry anymore, only children who are not brave like to cry, and Lulu should not be a child who is not brave."
After Teacher Liu heard this sentence, she said softly: "Who said that Lulu is a brave child even if he likes to cry, and whether he is brave or not has nothing to do with whether he likes to cry or not, you know?"
"Really?" Lu Lu looked at Teacher Liu sincerely.
Teacher Liu nodded upon hearing this.
Bravery is a person's behavior, and crying is a way to release emotions. There is no conflict between the two. A person who loves to cry may be more emotional, but it does not mean that she is not brave or tenacious.
The view that adults set up for children that "crying children are not brave" is actually wrong.
Children's cognition of the world is very simple. Whatever concepts are instilled in them by adults, they will believe it and stick to it.
If a child is indoctrinated with the concept that crying children are not brave for a long time, then when he encounters setbacks and grievances, he will want to cry but is afraid of becoming a child who is not brave, so he will not dare to cry.
Emotions have been suffocated in the heart, and the impact on a person is very terrible.
All kinds of mental illnesses come from this.
However, with Lu Lu's cheerful and interesting personality, this situation should not happen. Judging from the way she comforts others every time, she has the ability to regulate emotions.
"Lulu, do you still want to cry?" Teacher Liu asked.
Lu Lu shook her head, she still felt wronged, but she didn't want to cry anymore.
Teacher Liu touched Lu Lu's hair and said, "Then Lulu, can you tell the teacher now what's going on? Why are you and your friends crying?"
Lu Lu nodded and pointed at Zhou Qixuan with her little finger, and she identified it firmly, "It's him!"
"What's the matter with Zhou Qixuan?" Teacher Liu continued to ask gently.
Lu Lu told Teacher Liu everything that happened just now, and after she finished speaking, she ran to the place where she was playing with toys just now, took the building blocks that Zhou Qixuan had crushed flat, and handed them to Teacher Liu, "Look, It's all broken."
Lu Lu pouted in dissatisfaction.
Teacher Liu had expected that it was Zhou Qixuan who bullied Lu Lu, but she didn't expect that it was because Zhou Qixuan asked Lu Lu to ask for his mother's autograph, but Lu Lu refused to agree.
How can a three or four year old know what a traffic star is? These words must be the original words of Zhou Qixuan's mother.
Teacher Liu usually doesn't chase stars, but since he met Song Heran last semester, he has become a fan of Song Heran.
Later, she watched a few of Song Heran's movies again, and found that he is not the kind of little fresh meat who knows nothing but only has a skin, but has excellent strength, and has won a lot of acting skills with gold content Award, it can be seen that he has worked hard in acting.
Although Mr. Liu is not a fan, he has a good sense of Song Heran. He is a capable, good-looking, upright and kind-hearted actor who deserves to be liked by everyone and has a super high traffic.
Traffic should not be a pejorative term.
And Zhou Qixuan's mother said this in a tone that obviously looked down on Song Heran.
While she looked down on Lu Lu's brother, she asked Lu Lu to help her get the autographs of other actors. Why should Lu Lu help
And Zhou Qixuan's mother wanted to sign it, shouldn't she come forward and ask Lu Lu herself
No basic manners.
Also, Zhou Qixuan asked Lu Lu so confidently to ask for an autograph. His parents must have the same attitude at home.
Not to mention Lu Lu, after listening to Lu Lu's narration, Mr. Liu became enraged when he thought about it.
Why didn't Zhou Qixuan and his mother find this kind of people last semester? Could it be because they had too little contact with them
Teacher Liu adjusted the surveillance video in the classroom with such doubts, and found that the process of the incident was exactly as Lu Lu said.
Her temper suddenly came up, and she wanted to fight for Lu Lu, but she also knew that she was a teacher and had to control her emotions, and no matter what happened, she had to maintain basic professionalism.
After calming down in the office for five minutes, Teacher Liu returned to the classroom, called Zhou Qixuan into the office, and criticized and educated him.
In Zhou Qixuan's situation, it is useless to notify the parents, because the root cause of the problem lies with the parents, and the child is just imitating the example.
Teacher Liu is very clear that such a child is not well educated, because his parents have not set a good example for him.
In fact, she really wanted to let it go, and was too lazy to do useless work, but on the one hand, it was because of her professionalism as a kindergarten teacher, and on the other hand, she didn't want Lu Lu to be bullied for no reason.
In the end, she tried her best to reason with Zhou Qixuan, trying to make Zhou Qixuan realize her mistake correctly and apologize to Lu Lu.
However, Zhou Qixuan firmly believed that he was right and was unwilling to apologize.
In this case, Teacher Liu had to notify Zhou Qixuan's parents.
Teacher Liu originally wanted to call Zhou Qixuan's father, thinking that his father's attitude towards the child's education might be better, but he didn't expect that after Zhou Qixuan answered the phone, he heard that it was a call from the kindergarten, and immediately asked her to call the child. His mother called and said he didn't have time.
In desperation, Teacher Liu could only contact the child's mother by phone.
After dialing the phone three times, Teacher Liu patiently asked, "Hi, are you Zhou Qixuan's mother?"
"Yes, I'm... 60,000, wait, touch." The sound of playing mahjong came from the other end of the phone.
Teacher Liu said: "I am the teacher of Xuanxuan Kindergarten."
"Oh, kindergarten, tell me what's the matter, I'm busy here, I can't move my hands."
Teacher Liu was speechless when he heard Zhou Qixuan's mother's indifferent voice. Is playing mahjong more important than his son's affairs
It is true that I have been a teacher for a long time, and I can see all kinds of parents.
Teacher Liu was very dissatisfied, but she didn't show it on her face. She still said politely: "The situation is like this. Xuanxuan had a conflict with others in the kindergarten. He bullied a child and he still didn't want to apologize. See if you can Do you have time to come to the kindergarten?"
After Zhou Qixuan's mother heard this, she said: "Hey, Mr. Liu, I thought it was a big deal, and I trouble you to make this call. It's normal for children to have some conflicts, and it's okay. , you just watch and deal with it, I don’t need to make this trip.”
"Mother Xuanxuan, but..."
"It's nothing to worry about. Teacher Liu, I'm still busy here, so let's not talk about it. I'll treat you to dinner next time."
"Mother Xuanxuan, I didn't mean that, you don't have to treat me..."
Before Teacher Liu finished speaking, the other end hung up the phone.
Teacher Liu stared at the screen of the phone depressedly, feeling dizzy.
It's true that not everyone can be a competent parent, but being a parent doesn't require any threshold.
Zhou Qixuan's mother was unwilling to take care of this matter, and Zhou Qixuan was unwilling to admit his mistake and apologized to Lulu.
It's useless to reason with Zhou Qixuan, but she can't beat and scold the child, which is against the school's regulations. Teacher Liu really has no choice but to give up and go to comfort and appease Lu Lu's emotions.
Fortunately, Lu Lu is a very smart child who understands others, and she understood as soon as Teacher Liu said it.
She looked at Teacher Liu and asked: "Zhou Qixuan doesn't want to admit his mistakes and apologize to us. He is not an obedient child. Lulu will stay away from him in the future and stop playing with him?"
"Yes, the teacher supports you."
"Then it's fine. You don't have to play together and be good friends. It doesn't matter if he doesn't apologize. Lulu doesn't mind."
Teacher Liu recalled the scene in the last semester when Lu Lu insisted that Shi Jiajia apologize to her. She thought that Lu Lu would always insist on asking Zhou Qixuan to apologize, and would never give up until he apologized.
I didn't expect Lu Lu to make it so easy.
Teacher Liu asked curiously: "Lulu is such a generous kid, will the teacher reward you with a little red book later, okay?"
Lu Lu was very happy when she heard that the teacher wanted to reward her with a little red flower, but after thinking about it, she felt that she shouldn't get this little red flower.
"Ms. Liu, you can reward Lulu Xiaohonghua later, this time Lulu doesn't want Xiaohonghua."
There are still children who will take the initiative to reject the rewards given by the teacher. Out of curiosity, Teacher Liu asked, "Why doesn't Lulu want it?"
"Because Lu Lu is not a generous child."
"But you don't even want Zhou Qixuan to apologize, is this already a show of generosity?"
When Lu Lu heard this, she seriously corrected Teacher Liu's cognition, and said, "That's not the case, only friends need to reconcile. I don't want to be friends with Zhou Qixuan anymore, so it doesn't matter if he apologizes or not." It's okay, I don't care."
When Teacher Liu heard this, he looked at Lu Lu in disbelief.
If she hadn't heard it with her own ears, she couldn't believe that the phrase "reconciliation is only needed between friends" came from a three-year-old child.
Perhaps this is the genetic advantage, to have an outstanding uncle like Lu Hongyu, the genes in Lu Lu's bones are different from others, and she also has a brother like Song Heran.
Although the outside world sees Song Heran is not perfect, and even has many flaws, but Song Heran can become a top-notch in the mixed entertainment industry, and his advantages are beyond the reach of ordinary people.
With excellent genes, and the people around her have set a good example for her, then Lu Lu will be as smart and normal as she is now.
Since Lu Lu didn't want Xiao Honghua, Teacher Liu respected her idea.
"Okay, since that's the case, then Lulu, do a good job, and the teacher will reward you next time."
Lu Lu replied crisply: "Okay!"
"Okay, let's go back to the classroom and play, the teacher will pay attention to Zhou Qixuan, and won't let him bully you anymore. There are also broken toys, Teacher Qi has already made up new ones, you can continue to play with your friends. "
"Okay, thank you Teacher Liu, mua~"
At this moment, Lu Lu's mood has completely improved. After she blew a kiss to Teacher Liu, she hurried back to the classroom, reorganized a group of friends, and continued the game just now.
Teacher Liu looked at Lu Lu and thought that if every child was as smart and sensible as Lu Lu, then kindergarten teacher would probably be the happiest job in the world, instead of being as miserable as it is now.
After dealing with Zhou Qixuan's trouble, it was almost time for get out of class to end.
Lu Lu glanced at the time on his watch, touched his hungry belly, hoping that the time would come soon, she could already smell the aroma of food.
I'm so hungry.
Hunger made Lu Lu no longer have the desire to continue playing with toys. She ran to Teacher Liu, put her belly on her hips, and said, "Mr. Liu, listen."
Teacher Liu didn't react for a while, and asked instinctively: "Lulu, what are you listening to?"
After she finished asking, her gaze fell on Lu Lu's belly, and then she came to her senses, patted Lu Lu's belly with a smile, and said, "Okay, okay, the teacher heard Lulu's stomach growling, eat it right away." It's lunch."
As soon as Teacher Liu finished speaking, the life teacher in charge of the children's diet came to inform Teacher Liu that the lunch for the class was ready.
For the lunch on the first day of school, the cafeteria prepared a lot of food, and the color matching was also very careful. The carrots cut into flowers and the rice made into smiling faces made people very appetizing.
As a snack food and not picky eater, Lu Lu has always taken the initiative to eat, and he can eat all the food on the plate without the teacher staring at him.
Today she was the first to finish lunch again.
After Lu Lu finished his lunch, he went to his good friend Qiqi, she imitated the teacher and said to Qiqi: "Baby Qiqi, look at the carrots are all in the shape of small flowers, how beautiful, let's take them all Eat them all, okay?"
The food Qiqi hates the most is carrots, but carrots are vegetables with very high nutritional value, so the teacher always persuades Qiqi to eat all carrots like this every time.
Qiqi frowned and looked at Lulu, and said, "Lulu, why are you imitating the teacher, I don't want to eat carrots."
"You're not a good kid if you don't eat carrots."
"No, no, I don't want to be a good kid." After finishing speaking, Qiqi stuck out her tongue at Lu Lu.
"You're not a good kid, but you're my good friend, aren't you? I've eaten up all the carrots." Lu Lu stared seriously at Qiqi's eyes, as if to say that a good friend should be neat and tidy Yes, I ate carrots and you should too.
Sure enough, facing Lulu's eyes, Qiqi quickly chose to give in.
She said, "Okay then."
Qiqi put her head down and scooped the carrots one by one into her mouth with a small spoon, chewed them carefully, and finally found that she really didn't like the taste, showing a very comedic disgust expression.
The teachers who were supervising the children's meals were all amused, and only Lu Lu gave Qiqi a thumbs up.
"Kiki, you're awesome!"
Encouraged by Lu Lu, Qiqi insisted on eating all the carrots.
Kiki only has one hand, and it is a bit inconvenient to eat lunch, so she eats very slowly, and is always the last one in the class to finish eating.
Every time Lu Lu finished his lunch, he would go to accompany Qiqi, and wait for her to finish eating together before going to take a nap.
In the past, after Kiki finished eating, there were no other children on the dining table, but today after Kiki finished eating, there was still a child throwing a tantrum at the dining table, and the food on the dinner plate remained untouched.
And this kid is Zhou Qixuan who had a dispute with Lu Lu just this morning.
Teacher Liu looked at Zhou Qixuan with some headaches.
It was obvious that he bullied others in the morning, but now he was in a temper tantrum, refused to eat all the time, and refused to listen to any persuasion.
Teacher Liu didn't have any good feelings for Zhou Qixuan and his mother, and this trouble made her even more annoying. If it wasn't for professional reasons, she would have lost her patience long ago.
"Xuanxuan, if you don't eat, you will be hungry in the afternoon, you know? There are no snacks for you when you are hungry."
Teacher Liu tried his best to suppress his impatience, and tried not to speak too aggressively in his tone.
However, Zhou Qixuan didn't listen to the persuasion, he directly threw the dinner plate to the ground, walked towards the lunch room without saying a word, and lay down on the small bed marked with his name.
The life teacher looked at the mess all over the floor, frowned and asked, "What should I do?"
Teacher Liu was completely enraged by Zhou Qixuan's behavior. She said, "You can't let the child be used to it. Since he doesn't eat, let it be. There will always be times when he will be hungry."
"Okay then, you go and take care of the children's lunch break, and I'll clean up here."
Teacher Liu walked out two steps after hearing the words, only to find that Lu Lu and Liu Yueqi were still standing there, she said: "Lu Lu, Qiqi, it's time to take a nap."
After hearing what the teacher said, the two hurried to the nap room.
As soon as he entered the door, Lu Lu did not have the reporter to look for his own little bed, but locked his eyes on Zhou Qixuan.
Seeing that Zhou Qixuan was lying on his stomach at the moment, Lu Lu hurried over to lift Zhou Qixuan's quilt, and pulled Zhou Qixuan's arm to pull him up.
Zhou Qixuan, who was unhappy at first, threw off Lu Lu's arm angrily, and said, "Lu Lu, what are you doing?"
Zhou Qixuan was fat and strong, so Lu Lu fell to the ground with his ass thrown by Zhou Qixuan.
Butt hurts, but Lu Lu didn't cry, she got up and said loudly and anxiously: "Zhou Qixuan, you can't sleep on your stomach, you will die."
"You will die! Teacher Liu, look at Lu Lu's nonsense." Zhou Qixuan was still angry about what happened in the morning, and when he heard Lu Lu say this, he immediately seized the opportunity to complain to the teacher.
Lu Lu is not as good as the teacher said, and he is also a disobedient child.
Seeing this, Teacher Liu felt that Lu Lu's state was very abnormal. Didn't he say that he should play with Zhou Qixuan? Why did he provoke others again, and sleeping on his stomach is really bad for his health, but how could Lu Lu think of dying.
Lu Lu took Teacher Liu's hand and said anxiously: "I'm not talking nonsense, he will really die if he sleeps on his stomach."
Just now, a picture of a nap room appeared in her mind.
In the picture, the teacher called each child to get up one by one, but when it was Zhou Qixuan's turn, he couldn't wake him up no matter how much he called. Soon Zhou Qixuan was sent to the hospital by the teacher.
But in the end, the doctor uncle said that Zhou Qixuan had no breath and could not be saved, and the reason why Zhou Qixuan died was that he was sleeping on his stomach and holding his breath.
The last scene in the picture in my mind is that the teacher told all the children to sleep on their backs, not on their stomachs.
Although Zhou Qixuan hated her and was unwilling to apologize for bullying her, Lu Lu still didn't want to see his classmate die.
That's why she was so anxious when she saw Zhou Qixuan sleeping on his stomach just now.
Teacher Liu was so distraught by Zhou Qixuan's torment, that he no longer had the energy to deal with the new situation that had arisen.
She followed Lu Lu and said, "Okay, the teacher knows, and he definitely won't let Zhou Qixuan sleep on his stomach. Lulu, go to sleep with Qiqi."
With the teacher's promise, Lu Lu felt relieved.
But how could Zhou Qixuan listen to Lu Lu's words
In front of the teacher, Zhou Qixuan lay flat and covered the quilt, but in the blink of an eye, he turned over and lay on the bed.
Lu Lu didn't allow him to sleep on his stomach, so he just wanted to!