These words were like stabbing a hornet's nest, Li Hanting's face darkened suddenly, his cold eyes narrowed slightly, staring at Xia Yunxi dangerously.
"What did you say? Say it again."
Xia Yunxi shrank her neck, and muttered in her mouth: "I didn't make a decision in the first place, you, why are you so fierce?"
Li Hanting just stared at her, and after a while, he said coldly: "You're right, but it's my fault. We should announce the engagement first. Don't worry, I will make arrangements for it."
After saying this, Li Hanting got up and was about to leave.
Xia Yunxi was dumbfounded, is this going to be announced to the public
As if she suddenly thought of something, she immediately jumped up and grabbed Li Hanting's arm, "Don't, don't, I just made a slip of the tongue, what are you in such a hurry for?"
Li Hanting squinted towards her, his tone was very soft and calm, as if everything was in his hands: "Am I in a hurry?"
"No, no, I said the wrong thing just now, it's true." Xia Yunxi only had to swear to the sky to prove it to herself.
Who knew that Li Hanting suddenly asked, "Is that why you don't want to get engaged to me?"
How do you say that
Xia Yunxi didn't let go of his arm, she couldn't help but raised her head to look at him, the man's expression was very calm, and that cold and clear face was still showing a trace of coldness because of uncertain anger.
Xia Yunxi swallowed hopelessly, she was stiff, with a smile on her face, "You're going too far, I just think, not to mention whether grandma wants to make a fuss, there are many old people of the same age in the nursing home, and the environment there is not good. Okay, I read it, so there is no need to bother."
Li Hanting calmly listened to her explanation.
Then when it came to the next question, Xia Yunxi hesitated: "As for the engagement, I don't think there's any rush—although, we all have children, but we don't have a foundation for relationship.
do you understand me? You can't propose an engagement just because you think you're not annoying now.
Then what if after getting engaged, you feel tired and don't like this anymore.
Outsiders will only think that your treatment of marriage is a joke! "
"So I think, we still need to get to know each other more, and when the relationship is stable, we must like each other.
In that kind of marriage, it is a pleasing relationship, not a muddle-headed one, and you can just do it if you think it's ok. "
"You think so?" Li Hanting frowned slightly invisibly.
"Could it be, can't you?" Xia Yunxi looked at him cautiously.
Li Hanting pursed his thin lips slightly: "It's not impossible, but I think that you don't necessarily hate me after we've been together for so long."
The corner of Li Hanting's mouth raised slightly, and he looked directly at her, as if he had a perspective function, able to see her thoroughly from the inside to the outside, "Miss Xia, you don't have to lie to yourself."
After finishing speaking, Li Hanting turned around and went upstairs.
Xia Yunxi stood there for a long time without moving, and what he said in his ears kept lingering in her heart.
cheat yourself
Xia Yunxi wasn't sure, did she really fall in love with such a man
"Mom, did you argue with Dad?"
The child's voice suddenly sounded.
Xia Yunxi turned her head and saw the little one standing beside her. She thought it was Xia Yu'an, "It's not a quarrel, but I just feel that there are some things that should be clarified."
Li Jinchen tilted his head and looked at his mother: "Doesn't Mom like Dad? Dad is very good."
Xia Yunxi only thinks that Xia Yu'an today is really too obedient, without the naughty and mischievous past, when Tong Yan Tong Yu speaks, it gives people a feeling that they seem to be able to purify the soul.
"You also think your father is very good?"
Li Jinchen nodded involuntarily, except that he was not easy to approach and was covered in air-conditioning, his father was really very good.
Li Jinchen looked at his mother cautiously. He could only faintly hear the conversation between his parents just now. His father asked why his mother didn't want to get engaged.
In the world of children, marriage is still ignorant and ignorant and does not understand the meaning.
But for Li Jinchen and Xia Yu'an, they knew that only when they got married could their father and mother be together.
In this way, they will be accompanied by their parents and have a complete family.
"Can Mom stay with Dad?" Li Jinchen finally expressed his hope.
For him, such a request was too cautious.
In the past, he didn't dare to dissect his heart and show it to outsiders, not even his father.
But at this time, for his mother, he wanted to express and fight for her.
Only now did Xia Yunxi notice the difference, "Are you... Jinchen?"
Li Jinchen nodded.
Xia Yunxi laughed, no wonder she was so obedient.
She squatted down, "Why did you change clothes with my brother again? Is it to test our eyesight?"
"I heard everything you and Dad said." Li Jinchen didn't let her change the subject at all.
Xia Yunxi sighed, "Then mother, can you explain yourself?"
Li Jinchen thought about it, then looked at his mother's serious expression, and nodded uncertainly.
Xia Yunxi then said: "Marriage is a matter between two people. The formation of a family is not only tested by whether two people can live together harmoniously. There are many other things to test, so mother has to think about it and avoid it in advance. .
In case something bad happens in the future, it will be too late to regret.
Can you understand what mother means? "
Actually didn't understand, didn't even understand.
But I did understand the last sentence. My mother was afraid that something bad would happen and then regret it.
Li Jinchen was a little disappointed. He couldn't explain why, but he felt uncomfortable.
I feel that my mother doesn't love me, so my mother hesitates.
But what Xia Yunxi said next made all of Li Jinchen's doubts disappear.
"It's not that I don't love you and my brother enough, so I hesitate.
It's because I love you so much, so Mom must think carefully, otherwise, if you quarrel with Dad in the future, or you can't live together, you and your brother will be hurt! "
Li Jinchen didn't understand what his mother said, but he knew a lot of classmates in school, so he said, "Like other classmates' parents, will they get divorced?"
Xia Yunxi nodded.
Among many things, she will not be perfunctory about children's issues.
Instead, tell them seriously, reason, and let them understand how adults do things.
In fact, it is time for children, especially when they are five or six years old, to be sensible.
They know everything, but because adults are impatient and perfunctory, at this time, they create a good guiding image and don't do it.
In this way, for the growth of children, it will cause a kind of defect invisibly.
(end of this chapter)